青少年 - 对青少年的讲话 - 沟通

but inside he knows he is hearing inside, and whatever he says, is exposed to vibrations, and they found out in Psychology, well that's also a way to let your inner things go.

但里面他知道自己在里面听见，他说的一切，都暴露在振动中，他们在心理学里发现，嗯，那也是一种方式，让你内在的东西出去。

Then somebody was very clever, he came to my class, once when I was teaching rebirthing and how to go from a Primal pain of the childhood from the pregnancy to life. They made up a rebirthing course costs about seven, eight, nine, ten thousand dollars and they start doing that, then somebody took little Kundalinin Yoga, little Zennism and this and that and they make it (?)est. Finally you might have understood there is a very costly religious thing going on scientology.

然后有人非常聪明，他来到我的课堂，有一次我在教重生，以及如何从童年的原始痛苦，从怀孕到生命。他们编出一个重生课程，花费大约七千、八千、九千、一万美元，他们开始做那个，然后有人拿一点昆达里尼瑜伽，一点禅宗和这个那个，他们把它做成（？）est。最后你可能已经明白，有一个非常昂贵的宗教东西在科学教里进行。

Zennism and this and that and they make it (?)est. Finally you might have understood there is a very costly religious thing going on scientology.

禅宗和这个那个，他们把它做成（？）est。最后你可能已经明白，有一个非常昂贵的宗教东西在科学教里进行。

Scientology is nothing based on e-meter, they put you front to front and they put this e-meter in between you, e-meter is nothing but a, what you call that, we use it lie detector, the test, so they ask you a question, you answer, the e-meter said, you are lying. Then he asked you another question, so one man to one man basis they work, and finally you reach a state, that you stop lying, they think, they call it cleansing, by the time you are cleansed of that lying, you also cleansed of about seven thousand bucks. So, there are so many things in life going on, in one thing or the other.

山达基教（Scientology）根本不是什么靠电子仪（e-meter）的东西，他们让你面对面坐着，把电子仪放在你们中间，电子仪不过就是个，你们叫它什么来着，我们用它当测谎仪，那个测试，他们问你一个问题，你回答，电子仪就说，你在撒谎。然后他再问你另一个问题，就这样一个人对一个人地搞，最后你达到一种状态，你不再撒谎了，他们这么认为，他们管这叫净化，等你把撒谎净化干净的时候，你也差不多被净化掉了七千块钱。所以，生活里有太多事情在发生，不是这件事就是那件事。

are cleansed of that lying, you also cleansed of about seven thousand bucks. So, there are so many things in life going on, in one thing or the other.

把撒谎净化干净的时候，你也差不多被净化掉了七千块钱。所以，生活里有太多事情在发生，不是这件事就是那件事。

Process is not what is what. Process is, what your mind does to you. Mind was given to you to serve and mind was given the strength to compute and communicate, that you do mentally. Mind has eighty-one portions and mind has three minds, negative, positive and neutral, that's how you freak out in your life. Hey! You think I am blind. I know you don't want to learn it, but I am not going to leave behind, when I die lot of money that you can goof around and taken care of you, better learn life, I know you are my granddaughter and you have right over me, but I am very kind to you, you know that, and you are very spoiled that I am very rich, somehow I take care of you anyway.

过程不是那个什么什么。过程是，你的心智对你做了什么。心智被给你，是来服务你的，心智被给了计算和沟通的力量，那是你在心里做的。心智有八十一个部分，心智有三个心智，负面、正面和中性，你的人生就是这么搞砸的。嘿！你以为我瞎了。我知道你不想学这个，但我不会留下，等我死了留下一大笔钱，让你可以瞎混、被人照顾着，你最好学会怎么活，我知道你是我孙女，你对我有权利，但我对你很慈爱，你知道的，而且你被宠坏了，因为我很富有，反正我总会照顾你。

So, why can't you just act right, and I will take care of you, any, anyway, huh, right, pay attention, you will learn this, it will be useful to you, okay, that's the agreement, nice

所以，你为什么就不能好好做，我会照顾你，不管怎样，嗯，对吧，注意听，你会学会这个，它对你有用，好吗，就这么说定了，好

What happens is very simple. You have Ears, say, ears.

发生的事情很简单。你有耳朵，说，耳朵。

Students: Ears.

学生：耳朵。

YB: Then you have a inner ear.

YB：然后你有一个内耳。

Students: (----------------------)

学生：（----------------------）

nice

好

What happens is very simple. You have Ears, say, ears.

发生的事情很简单。你有耳朵，说，耳朵。

Students: Ears.

学生：耳朵。

YB: Then you have a inner ear.

YB：然后你有一个内耳。

Students: (----------------------)

学生：（----------------------）

YB: You know that, have you heard that before, No. No, no, that is very important, you should know, you have a Ear, then you have a inner Ear. Inner Ears have three bones, inner Ear?

YB：你知道那个，你以前听说过吗，没有。没有，没有，那非常重要，你应该知道，你有一个耳朵，然后你有一个内耳。内耳有三块骨头，内耳？

Students: Has three bones.

学生：有三块骨头。

YB: There are two side bones, which are called signal bone and there is one hammer bone.

YB：有两块侧边的骨头，叫做信号骨，还有一块锤骨。

So, whatever you hear here, it goes to the inner Ear and inner Ear, the hammer bone strikes on the two side bones, right, and that sends the electronic signal into the brain, and brain computes it and it is given to your understanding, and that understanding can go to three things, it go first to your, can go to three things, but it goes to first thing is called negative mind, so that is the right of life, when you hear something, immediately the reaction is, 'what is in it, why he is saying me this thing, why I am hearing it, what it means, why he is saying it, what is under it,' every facet of negativity will come up, then normally, the same thing will go to the positive mind, positive mind is a section, and positive mind instead of

所以，你在这里听到的任何东西，都会进入内在的耳朵，内在的耳朵里，锤骨敲击两侧的骨头，对，然后把电子信号送进大脑，大脑把它计算出来，再交给你的理解，而那个理解可以走向三样东西，它首先走向你的，可以走向三样东西，但它走向的第一样东西叫作负面心智，所以那是生命的权利，当你听到什么，立刻的反应就是，「这里面有什么，他为什么跟我说这个，我为什么听到它，它是什么意思，他为什么说它，它底下藏着什么」，负面性的每一个刻面都会冒出来，然后通常，同样的东西会走向正面心智，正面心智是一个区块，而正面心智不是

facet of negativity will come up, then normally, the same thing will go to the positive mind, positive mind is a section, and positive mind instead of telling you what is positive in it, pull down from your memory, which is the neighbor, all the previous negative records and 'so it happened you then, it happened you then, it happened you then, it can happen to you,' it reinforces the negative mind, whereas, you should be trained in your life, from negative mind to positive mind, and to understand and hear in your own head, this is negative of it and this is positive of it.

负面性的刻面会冒出来，然后通常，同样的东西会走向正面心智，正面心智是一个区块，而正面心智不是告诉你其中什么是正面的，而是从你的记忆里，也就是它的邻居那里，把过去所有负面的记录拉下来，「所以你那时就碰上了，你那时就碰上了，你那时就碰上了，它也会发生在你身上」，它强化了负面心智，而其实，你一生都该受这样的训练，从负面心智到正面心智，在自己的脑子里听懂、听清，这是它的负面，这是它的正面。

Student: (--------------)

学生：（--------------）

YB: Yeah.

YB：对。

Student: (----------------------)

学生：（----------------------）

YB: (Oh, call him, I will see him after I finish the class, I will tell him and, check where he will be available, because I have to speak to him.

YB：（哦，叫他来，我下课后见他，我会告诉他，然后查一下他在哪里方便，因为我得跟他谈谈。

Student: Okay.

学生：好。

YB: I need her.) Now positive mind and negative mind are used by everybody that way, that's why our life is mess, because we don't hear right. Then the third position is, that you have to go to a negative mind, again 'is that true what positive mind is saying,' the guy has said first, he is going to say, 'yah, yah, yah,' and you are set.

YB：我需要她。）现在正面心智和负面心智每个人都是那样用的，所以我们的生活才一团糟，因为我们听得不对。然后第三个位置是，你必须再回到负面心智，「正面心智说的那是真的吗」，那家伙先说了，他接着会说，「对，对，对」，你就被定住了。

to a negative mind, again 'is that true what positive mind is saying,' the guy has said first, he is going to say, 'yah, yah, yah,' and you are set.

回到负面心智，「正面心智说的那是真的吗」，那家伙先说了，他接着会说，「对，对，对」，你就被定住了。

When there is too much negativity in life, then projection become hopeless and that is the beginning of a permanent depression and once in a permanent depression, it's lie, it starts as applied depressions, slight depression, regular depression, real depression, then it become fear, it become phobia and then it become neurosis and then neurotic and psychotic and on and on, but it starts right there. Now, actually from negative mind you should go to positive mind, from a positive mind you should go to shuniya, pratyahar, Zero, neutral mind, and then you idle there, you know car idles, then you put it in the park, it runs, neither it move forward nor it move?

当生活里负面东西太多时，投射就变得没有希望，而那就是永久抑郁的开始。一旦进入永久抑郁，它就是谎言，它从应用性抑郁开始，轻微抑郁，常规抑郁，真正的抑郁，然后它变成恐惧，它变成恐惧症，然后它变成神经症，然后神经质、精神病，一直下去，但它就是从那里开始的。现在，实际上你应该从负面心智走向正面心智，从正面心智走向空性（Shuniyaa）、制感（Pratyahaar）、零、中性心智，然后你在那里空转，你知道汽车空转，然后你把它挂到停车挡，它运转着，既不前进也不动？

Students: Backwards.

学生：后退。

YB: Then you should idle there and if you care to idle there, then you will find neutrally, what is in your best interest, what is?

YB：然后你应该在那里空转，如果你愿意在那里空转，你就会中立地发现，什么对你最有利，什么是？

Students: In your best interest.

学生：对你最有利的。

idle there and if you care to idle there, then you will find neutrally, what is in your best interest, what is?

在那里空转，如果你愿意在那里空转，你就会中立地发现，什么对你最有利，什么是？

Students: In your best interest.

学生：对你最有利的。

YB: And that should be the answer to your life. What is best for you can only come to you from your neutral mind. In our Sikh way of life, we call it Sehaj Avasta, a neutral, normal, status of state. When you think of that, that you are in a neutral state, and you can totally compute, pros and?

YB：而那应该就是你人生的答案。什么对你最好，只能从中性心智来到你这里。在我们的锡克生活方式里，我们称它为 Sehaj Avasta，一种中立、正常的状态。当你想到那个，想到你处在中立状态，你就能完全计算，利与？

Students: Cons.

学生：弊。

YB: Once you compute, the pros and cons, you are in the neutral stage, you always will find out, what to do. Then again, from neutral mind you reverse back to positive mind, and you achieve it, that is how success comes to us. But if you ever want, that you should not have negative mind, it will be wrong, because, then you will be insane, nature has provided that procedure, similarly, when you speak. Okay. There are two ways of speaking. One is you speak with the power of your lips and tongue, power of?

YB：一旦你计算了利与弊，你处在中立阶段，你总会找出该做什么。然后，再从中性心智反转回正面心智，你去实现它，成功就是这样来到我们这里的。但如果你曾经想要，你不该有负面心智，那就错了，因为那样你会发疯，大自然提供了那个程序，同样地，当你说话时。好。说话有两种方式。一种是你用嘴唇和舌头的力量说话，什么的力量？

Students: Lips and Tongue.

学生：嘴唇和舌头。

YB: Second procedure is, you only speak with the power of tongue, third is you speak through the sign language. Now, let us learn first process. I, I.

YB：第二种程序是，你只用舌头的力量说话，第三种是你通过手语说话。现在，让我们学习第一个过程。我，我。

Students: I.

学生：我。

YB: I.

YB：我。

Students: I.

学生：我。

YB: Love

YB：爱

power of tongue, third is you speak through the sign language. Now, let us learn first process. I, I.

舌头的力量，第三种是你通过手语说话。现在，让我们学习第一个过程。我，我。

Students: I.

学生：我。

YB: I.

YB：我。

Students: I.

学生：我。

YB: Love

YB：爱

Students: Love

学生：爱

YB: You.

YB：你。

Students: You.

学生：你。

YB: Now, say it with lips. I

YB：现在，用嘴唇说出来。我

Students: I.

学生：我。

YB: Love

YB：爱

Students: Love

学生：爱

YB: Luv...

YB：爱……

Students: Luv...

学生：爱……

YB: You.

YB：你。

Students: You.

学生：你。

YB: It will have no taste. Speak it and listen to it again. Go ahead.

YB：它不会有味道。说出来，再听一遍。继续。

Students: I Love You.

学生：我爱你。

YB: Understand. Now speak with tongue. I.

YB：明白。现在用舌头说。我。

Students: I.

学生：我。

YB: I, No, watch, watch, watch, watch, listen, listen, don't hurry up. I Love You, there is so much taste in it, there is so much sex in it. You understand, it goes right into the head, words are the same. And third then you have not to say a word. So speak, I, I,

YB：我，不，看，看，看，看，听，听，别急。我爱你，这里面有那么多滋味，里面有那么多性。你明白，它直接进入头脑，词句是一样的。第三，然后你一个字都不用说。所以说，我，我，

Students: I,

学生：我，

YB: Love,

YB：爱，

Students: Love,

学生：爱，

YB: You,

YB：你，

Students: You.

学生：你。

YB: That is with lips and tongue, right. Then second procedure is, only with tongue. I Love You.

YB：那是用嘴唇和舌头，对吧。然后第二个步骤，只用舌头。我爱你。

Students: I Love you.

学生：我爱你。

YB: There is so much juice in it. And third,

YB：这里面有那么多汁水。第三，

(YB Laughs)

（YB 笑）

You got to kids, learn it because, your first power is your presence, write it down. Your first language is your presence, your first,

你们这些孩子，要学会它，因为，你的第一力量是你的临在，写下来。你的第一语言是你的临在，你的第一，

Students: Language is your presence.

学生：语言是你的临在。

it because, your first power is your presence, write it down. Your first language is your presence, your first,

因为，你的第一力量是你的临在，写下来。你的第一语言是你的临在，你的第一，

Students: Language is your presence.

学生：语言是你的临在。

YB: Your second language is your body language.

YB：你的第二语言是你的身体语言。

Students: Your second language is your body language.

学生：你的第二语言是你的身体语言。

YB: Your third language is your spoken word.

YB：你的第三语言是你说的言语。

Students: Your third language is your spoken word.

学生：你的第三语言是你说的言语。

YB: Your fourth language is the clarity, clarity, clarity, clarity in your spoken words.

YB：你的第四语言是你所说言语中的清晰，清晰，清晰，清晰。

Students: Your fourth language is the clarity, clarity, clarity, clarity in your spoken words.

学生：你的第四语言是你所说言语中的清晰，清晰，清晰，清晰。

YB: And your fifth language is your commitment in your words.

YB：你的第五语言是你言语中的承诺。

Students: And your fifth language is your commitment in your words.

学生：你的第五语言是你言语中的承诺。

YB: Can you repeat it please.

YB：请你们重复一遍。

Students: Your first language is your presence, your second language is your body language, your third language is your spoken language, your fourth language is the clarity, clarity, clarity, clarity in your spoken words, and your fifth language is your commitment in your words.

学生：你的第一语言是你的临在，你的第二语言是你的身体语言，你的第三语言是你说的言语，你的第四语言是你所说言语中的清晰，清晰，清晰，清晰，你的第五语言是你言语中的承诺。

(Students laughs)

（学生笑）

YB: Your commitment conveys in your words. Now, have you ever planned to speak that way. Hello! Have you ever planned to speak that way?

YB：你的承诺在你的言语中传达出来。现在，你有没有计划过那样说话。喂！你有没有计划过那样说话？

Students: No.

学生：没有。

YB: Why not?

YB：为什么没有？

Student: (---------------)

学生：（---------------）

Now, have you ever planned to speak that way. Hello! Have you ever planned to speak that way?

现在，你有没有计划过那样说话。喂！你有没有计划过那样说话？

Students: No.

学生：没有。

YB: Why not?

YB：为什么没有？

Student: (---------------)

学生：（---------------）

YB: Why Not?

YB：为什么没有？

Student: No.

学生：没有。

YB: Well I was here for the last twenty years, how many of you enter twenty.

YB：我在这里待了二十年，你们有多少人满二十岁。

Yeah, okay, you are all exempt, but how about, how are you over ten year old, so what were you doing from last ten years?

对，好，你们都免了，那，你们满十岁的怎么样，那过去十年你们在做什么？

Students: (-------------------)

学生：（-------------------）

YB: You could learn this, you were all summer here, what are trying to lay on India, ah, these are the five speaking languages you can speak in, then there are thousands of different languages, but you must understand, there are these situations, either when you speak, you use the method called uttering or you utter and mostly you tutter, you don't make any sense, then you speak, speak, or you speak loudly or you are a loudspeaker or you are a speaker, it has no juice in it.

YB：这个你能学会，你们整个夏天都在这儿，想往印度那边靠什么，啊，这些是你能说的五种语言，然后还有成千上万种不同的语言，但你必须明白，有这些情况，要么你说话时，用的是叫发声的方法，要么你发声，而大多数时候你只是嘟囔，你根本没什么意思，然后你说，说，或者你大声说，或者你是个扩音器，或者你是个演说者，里面没有汁水。

Then third status you can have in your personality is you can be a speaker and communicator, so when you communicate, you make a statement, and when you make a statement, you always be called upon your statement to prove it, got it, understand.

然后你人格里能有的第三种状态，是你可以做一个演说者和沟通者，所以当你沟通时，你做出一个陈述，而当你做出一个陈述时，你总是会被要求为你的陈述举证，懂了吗，明白。

Student: Yes Sir.

学生：是的，先生。

you make a statement, and when you make a statement, you always be called upon your statement to prove it, got it, understand.

你做出一个陈述，而当你做出一个陈述时，你总是会被要求为你的陈述举证，懂了吗，明白。

Student: Yes Sir.

学生：是的，先生。

YB: Lastly, what you can speak is, you can create a intercourse. Intercourse is between two, people who speak and it is called "Dialogue. " Dia?

YB：最后，你能说的是，你能创造一场交合。交合是在两个人之间，说话的人之间，它叫「对话」。对？

Students: Logue.

学生们：话。

YB: Where both participate equally and that creates understanding. So which one, which area you want to adapt? Come on.

YB：双方平等参与，那就创造出理解。那么哪一种，你想适应哪个领域？来吧。

Students: (-----------------)

学生们：（-----------------）

YB: Dialogue. The intercourse word which is used for sex, was never meant for sex. 'Oh we had a great intercourse,' that means we talk with a great understanding, we had a great dialogue and we came to understanding, and we will call it, we had a great intercourse, but now you know everything is, if you call anybody gay, that means different than it used to be, so things change with circumstances. So learn to create dialogue. What steps you use in creating a dialogue.

YB：对话。交合这个词被用来指性，从来就不是为性而设的。「哦，我们有过一场很棒的交合」，那意思是我们在极深的相互理解中交谈，我们有过一场很棒的对话，我们达成了理解，我们会说，我们有过一场很棒的交合，但现在你知道一切都变了，如果你叫任何人 gay，那意思和过去不一样了，所以事物随境况而变。所以要学会创造对话。你创造对话时用哪些步骤。

that means different than it used to be, so things change with circumstances. So learn to create dialogue. What steps you use in creating a dialogue.

那意思和过去不一样了，所以事物随境况而变。所以要学会创造对话。你创造对话时用哪些步骤。

First do the homework to clear, your mind and know exactly what you are talking about, that you should know yourself and then you make a person understand, why you are talking and what you are talking, and thirdly, bring to the personality of a person the understanding, why it is best for that person and also, why it is best for you, you understand. Now repeat. Number one you must have homework, clear understanding, right, correct. The second.

第一，做功课去清空，你的心智，确切知道你在谈什么，那你自己得知道，然后你让一个人明白，你为什么谈、你在谈什么，第三，把那份理解带进那个人的整个人格里，为什么那对他最好，同时，为什么那对你也最好，你明白。现在重复。第一，你必须有功课，清楚的理解，对，正确。第二。

Student: (----------------------------)

学生：（----------------------------）

understand. Now repeat. Number one you must have homework, clear understanding, right, correct. The second.

明白。现在重复。第一，你必须有功课，清楚的理解，对，正确。第二。

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YB: You have to be clear with that person, why you are speaking, right, third, what is the best for that person in that and what is best for you. If you tell everybody, it is best for you, and don't tell what is best for you, you are hiding something, you won't be trusted. Always create a dialogue to create a trust, don't create impression, don't create to convince, don't create to get by, always communicate to trust, create a trust, that's the power of the spoken word and these are the principle things, you must remember in communication. First poke, second provoke, third confront and fourth elevate.

YB：你必须跟那个人讲清楚，你为什么说这些话，对吧，第三，在那件事上什么对那个人最好，什么对你最好。如果你跟每个人都说，什么对你最好，却不告诉他们什么对你最好，你就是在隐瞒什么，你不会被信任。永远要创造对话来建立信任，不要制造印象，不要为了说服，不要为了蒙混过关，永远为了信任而沟通，建立信任，这就是话语的力量，这些是原则性的东西，你在沟通中必须记住。第一戳一下，第二激一下，第三直面，第四提升。

If you leave a dialogue without elevating another person, you have missed the person forever, you have done injury instead of any healing. All right, so far I have given you few fundamentals of communication.

如果你结束一段对话时没有提升对方，你就永远失去了这个人，你造成的不是疗愈，而是伤害。好，到目前为止，我已经给了你们几条沟通的基本原则。

you have missed the person forever, you have done injury instead of any healing. All right, so far I have given you few fundamentals of communication.

你就永远失去了这个人，你造成的不是疗愈，而是伤害。好，到目前为止，我已经给了你们几条沟通的基本原则。

Now, it is personality to reality, reality to non-reality, that's why we talk. Sometime we want to speak to create a reality. Sometime we want to speak to hide our reality and create non-reality, you understand, and sometime you have nothing to say and sometime you say it all. So please, ask me the questions, so I can give you few examples, so that you can understand, any subject you can choose, any question you can ask. Hurry up.

现在，从人格到现实，从现实到非现实，我们说话就是为了这个。有时我们想说话来创造一种现实。有时我们想说话来隐藏自己的现实，制造非现实，你明白吗，有时你无话可说，有时你把一切都说出来。所以，请向我提问，这样我就能给你们举几个例子，让你们能明白，任何主题你们都可以选，任何问题你们都可以问。快点。

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YB: One hour speaking takes your energy of breakfast and a lunch, that much energy it cost, and if you speak too much, if you eat too much, you mess up your body, so, therefore when you normally speak understand what for. Did you get that paper on mind done, oh come on, bring it typed, so we can give to these people, hurry up, cover me, oh I have to read, I have to have in bold letters, that note.

YB：一个小时的讲话会耗掉你早餐和午餐的能量，就耗那么多能量，如果你说得太多，如果你吃得太多，你就会把身体搞乱，所以，平时说话时要明白是为了什么。那份关于心智的稿子你弄好了吗，哦，快点，把它打出来，这样我们就能发给这些人，快点，掩护我，哦，我得读，我得用粗体字，那份稿子。

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YB: No, no, just bring that paper to me, have you discussed with Siri (?), mind I gave you last night.

YB：不，不，把那份稿子拿给我就行，你跟 Siri 讨论过了吗（？），心智那份，我昨晚给你的。

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YB: No, no, just bring that paper to me, have you discussed with Siri (?), mind I gave you last night.

YB：不，不，把那份稿子拿给我就行，你跟 Siri 讨论过了吗（？），心智那份，我昨晚给你的。

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YB: Yeah, that paper, hurry up.

YB：对，就是那份稿子，快点。

Student: Spoiled.

学生：搞砸了。

YB: Hurry up. Okay. When you speak, speak with a purpose, go ahead. Speak with a,

YB：快点。好。你说话的时候，要有目的地说话，继续。带着一个，

Students: Purpose.

学生们：目的。

YB: And speak with a clear projection.

YB：还要带着清晰的投射说话。

Students: Speak with a clear projection.

学生们：带着清晰的投射说话。

YB: Speak with a,

YB：带着一个，

Students: Clear projection.

学生们：清晰的投射。

YB: And speak when you have to, speak must, is that understood, all right where are the question, why is be...

YB：该说话的时候就说，必须说，明白了吗，好，问题在哪里，为什么是……

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YB: Well, mostly you speak to express yourself and not feel lonely.

YB：嗯，大多数时候你说话是为了表达自己，而不是为了感到孤单。

Student: Yes Sir.

学生：是的，先生。

why is be...

为什么是……

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YB: Well, mostly you speak to express yourself and not feel lonely.

YB：嗯，大多数时候你说话是为了表达自己，而不是为了感到孤单。

Student: Yes Sir.

学生：是的，先生。

YB: Majority of the time you speak, not to feel lonely. And some people got to speak with the trees, some people speak with birds, some people will speak with animals. I have a friend he can speak to any bird and any animal and he once took me in New York, up north, in the state and he went into this jungle, you know it was a kind of a forest type of thing and he said, I don't know what he did, Fu, fuf, fu, something like that, and two, three, four birds flew him up on the head, and then he told one bird, ozo, zoo, zo, and he came on my shoulder.

YB：你说话，绝大多数时候，不是为了感到孤单。有些人非得跟树说话，有些人跟鸟说话，有些人会跟动物说话。我有个朋友，他能跟任何鸟、任何动物说话。有一次他带我去纽约，往北，在州里，他走进一片丛林，你知道，就是那种森林一样的地方，他说，我不知道他做了什么，Fu，fuf，fu，差不多这样，然后两、三、四只鸟飞到他头上，接着他跟一只鸟说，ozo，zoo，zo，那鸟就落到我肩膀上。

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And I said, I said, "How you can do it? " And he said, "I speak their language, they are my friends," I thought they were his pet birds, then I told him, I said, "Well, do you see that Eagle? They are kind of... "

我说，我说：“你怎么做到的？”他说：“我说它们的语言，它们是我的朋友。”我本以为那是他养的宠物鸟，然后我跟他说，我说：“嗯，你看见那只鹰了吗？它们是那种……”

He said, "No, it is not Eagle, it is, it is a prey bird, but it, he named something. "

他说：“不，那不是鹰，它是，它是只猛禽，但它是，他给它起了个名字。”

And I said, "Can you call that one? "

我说：“你能把那只叫过来吗？”

They are kind of... "

它们是那种……

He said, "No, it is not Eagle, it is, it is a prey bird, but it, he named something. "

他说：“不，那不是鹰，它是，它是只猛禽，但它是，他给它起了个名字。”

And I said, "Can you call that one? "

我说：“你能把那只叫过来吗？”

So, he did a kind of a cry, and in few minutes that bird flew up and whewwww, and he laid the hand and his toe, and the most amazing part was, he has no hand cover, of leather or anything and the bird did not put his claws, those big nails on his hand, he was not injured, amazed me, okay, next question. Oh, thanks a lot. Well I have prepared this for you, it is our mind, eighty-one facets, how to conquer for peace, within ourself and our planet, it's a little thing by me, done by her mother, I will share that with you in a minute, but let us start the questions which you want to know, go ahead, yes.

于是，他发出一种叫声，几分钟之内那只鸟就飞上来了，呼——，他把手和脚趾伸出去，最惊人的是，他手上没有任何皮套之类的东西，那鸟也没把爪子、那些大指甲按在他手上，他没受伤，让我惊叹，好，下一个问题。哦，多谢。嗯，我给你们准备了这个，它是我们的心智，81 个刻面，如何征服它，为了和平，在我们自身之内和我们的星球上，这是我写的一点东西，由她母亲做的，我一会儿就跟你们分享，但让我们先开始你们想知道的问题，继续，请。

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I will share that with you in a minute, but let us start the questions which you want to know, go ahead, yes.

我一会儿就跟你们分享，但让我们先开始你们想知道的问题，继续，请。

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YB: Well the first thing is, if you want to be very heavy and not obnoxious, use silence. Silence is a weapon which will never miss the goal. In the middle of conversation, just go silent, and the person say, "What? " Say, "I have nothing more to say," that is a killer, that can bring lot of anger, that will bring lot of violence sometime, it's a weapon which will never miss, but if you want to, not be mean, just say, very politely, "May I say something. I am not interested in this. "

YB：好，第一件事是，如果你想显得很有分量又不惹人厌，就用沉默。沉默是一件永远不会偏离目标的武器。谈话谈到一半，你就突然安静下来，对方会问：“怎么了？”你说：“我没什么可说的了。”这是致命一击，会激起很多愤怒，有时会引来很多暴力，它是一件永远不会偏离目标的武器，但如果你不想刻薄，就非常礼貌地说：“我可以说一句吗。我对这个不感兴趣。”

it's a weapon which will never miss, but if you want to, not be mean, just say, very politely, "May I say something. I am not interested in this. "

它是一件永远不会偏离目标的武器，但如果你不想刻薄，就非常礼貌地说：“我可以说一句吗。我对这个不感兴趣。”

Create a mystery and get to silence and you got it all, you don't have to be mean, abusive, you have to be mean and abusive only where your interest lies to, shipping somebody and creating somebody, you have to do it and person is not taking the frequency and you have to do it, and it's all pressure tactics, which normally, it is very Divine in humanity, but your interest have to be totally two hundred percent, and that is what parents do, they yell and scream and do whole thing to tell their children what is right and wrong, because, they have never learnt dialogue, they feel authoritative, they are the final authority, if the subject and the object and that's why they take the subject and they tell the object, what to do, they can't create a dialogue, why?

制造一个谜，进入沉默，你就全都有了，你不必刻薄、辱骂，你只有在自己的利益所在之处才必须刻薄、辱骂，去推动某人、塑造某人，你必须这么做，而对方没有接收那个频率，你就必须这么做，这全是施压的手段，通常来说，这在人性中是非常神圣的，但你的利益必须是百分之二百的，父母就是这么做的，他们又吼又叫，做尽一切，就为了告诉孩子什么是对什么是错，因为，他们从来没学会对话，他们觉得自己有权威，他们是最终权威，主体和客体，所以他们抓住主体，告诉客体该怎么做，他们没法创造对话，为什么？

They don't have time.

他们没有时间。

and the object and that's why they take the subject and they tell the object, what to do, they can't create a dialogue, why?

客体，所以他们抓住主体，告诉客体该怎么做，他们没法创造对话，为什么？

They don't have time.

他们没有时间。

No parents have ever found time for their children. And in our society today, it's impossible. There was a time when parents, mother was always at home, father was always at work, now both are at work, and now, today mothers are modern mothers. They have no time for children, but they have all the time for shopping, they have time for many other things, they have no time for children, and this is a modern society you can't help it. Next. Yeah!

从来没有父母为孩子找出时间来。在我们今天的社会里，这不可能。曾经有一段时间，父母当中，母亲总是在家，父亲总是在工作，现在两个人都要工作，而现在，今天的母亲是现代母亲。她们没有时间给孩子，但她们有全部的时间去购物，她们有时间做很多别的事，她们没有时间给孩子，而这是现代社会，你没办法。下一个。嗯！

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and this is a modern society you can't help it. Next. Yeah!

而这是现代社会，你没办法。下一个。嗯！

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YB: Through a discussion, there goes a debate, and it's the most painful effort parents must undertake, listen to both, let them debate it and you have to referee it. A question of complaint must be decided by both, and you can only umpire it, you can referee it, and they will all end up in conversation of understanding, but they don't ever enforce the decision, they will not come next time. Because, it is not they are coming to parents for judgment, they will go to the court for judgment, they will go, everything, every person, grownup will like to be having a judgment on a situation. So parents have to do that.

YB：通过讨论，就会有一场辩论，而这是父母必须承担的最痛苦的功课——听双方说，让他们辩论，而你得当裁判。一个抱怨的问题必须由双方共同决定，你只能当公断人，你可以当裁判，最后他们都会在相互理解的对话中收场，但要是你强行替他们做决定，他们下次就不会来了。因为，他们来找父母不是要一个判决，要判决他们会去法院，他们会去，每一个人，每一个成年人，都希望有人对某个情况做个判决。所以父母必须做这件事。

At that time you can order around, you can't tell one, 'shut up,' the other, 'get out,' here normally parents say timeout, put in a room, that's totally ridiculous, insulting, that's not the way to do it. You can't tell your own born, you have no time to listen and no time to do justice, moment as parents you do that, you have committed the biggest felony on the planet Earth. Next.

在那个时候你可以发号施令，但你不能对一个说「闭嘴」，对另一个说「滚出去」，通常父母在这里会说暂停，关进房间，那完全是荒唐、侮辱人的，不是这么做的。你不能对自己亲生的孩子说，你没时间听，也没时间主持公道，做父母的一旦这么做，你就犯下了地球最大的重罪。下一个。

you have no time to listen and no time to do justice, moment as parents you do that, you have committed the biggest felony on the planet Earth. Next.

你没时间听，也没时间主持公道，做父母的一旦这么做，你就犯下了地球最大的重罪。下一个。

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YB: Your biggest power is meditation, if you have clear mind, you are intuitive, moment you are intuitive you know the truth, you can speak it, there is nothing wrong in it, it is not you are vouching or your ego is vouching, it is what true is, if you know tomorrow what is happening and if you love somebody, just say it, let them not believe it, who cares, they won't believe you once, they don't do it twice, they going to ten times, well eleventh time they will believe you. They believe you by experience, they trust you by, by hard, hard luck, nobody trust anybody, nobody believes anybody, people don't trust any other person, it's the wisdom, which people want to trust, not the person.

YB：你最大的力量是冥想，如果你心智清明，你就有直觉，你一旦有直觉，你就知道真相，你就能说出来，这没有什么错，这不是你在担保，也不是你的小我在担保，而是真相本身，如果你知道明天会发生什么，而你又爱某个人，就直接说出来，让他们不信好了，谁在乎，他们第一次不信你，第二次也不信，到第十次，好吧，第十一次他们就会信你。他们靠经验信你，他们信你是靠，靠苦，靠苦头，没有人信任任何人，没有人相信任何人，人们不信任任何别人，人们想信任的是智慧，不是那个人。

That's another problem in life, nobody wants to trust you ever, nobody loves you ever, nobody knows you ever, it's the amount of wisdom you can shell out.

那是人生里的另一个问题，没有人想永远信任你，没有人永远爱你，没有人永远懂你，靠的是你能倒出多少智慧。

another problem in life, nobody wants to trust you ever, nobody loves you ever, nobody knows you ever, it's the amount of wisdom you can shell out.

人生里的另一个问题，没有人想永远信任你，没有人永远爱你，没有人永远懂你，靠的是你能倒出多少智慧。

Deh khona, eh badi simple, it's one of the simplest thing. Gul, gul, vul, hul, chal, these are four things. Gul means communication, talk. Vul means, the procedure, the technique. Hul means through which you can solve somebody's problem and Chal is you create a drama to cheat somebody, three are okay, fourth if you use, nobody will trust you ever, simple. Yeah Ong Kar what is it?

Deh khona，这很简单，是最简单的事情之一。Gul、gul、vul、hul、chal，这是四样东西。Gul 意思是沟通、谈话。Vul 意思是，程序、技巧。Hul 意思是，通过它你能解决某人的问题，而 Chal 是你编一出戏去骗人，前三个没问题，第四个你要是用了，再没人会信任你，就这么简单。嗯，Ong Kar 是什么？

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YB: Opposite polarities. Sides are very difficult to judge, polarity is always there, they have different interest, they are on different polarities, different frequencies.

YB：对立的极性。立场很难判断，极性始终都在，它们有不同的利益，它们处在不同的极性、不同的频率上。

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YB: Very simple, make temporary truce.

YB：很简单，先达成临时停战。

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YB: Become permanent.

YB：变成永久的。

Student: Yeah!

学生：对！

YB: Huh!

YB：嗯！

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YB: Pardon.

YB：再说一遍。

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Yeah!

对！

YB: Huh!

YB：嗯！

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YB: Pardon.

YB：再说一遍。

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YB: No, no, no, when you cannot deal with the thing right on create a temporary truce. That means the other person know, that you are not sure, you know, you are not sure, and that's very honest. Yeah go ahead, ask the question. You are not clear on your question is it, Hah?

YB：不，不，不，当你没法当场处理这件事时，就先达成临时停战。那意味着对方知道，你不确定，你知道，你不确定，这非常诚实。嗯，继续，问问题。你对你的问题不清楚，是吧，哈？

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YB: Your father is totally negative to me and I am very positive to him, I don't care.

YB：你父亲对我完全负面，我对他非常正面，我不在乎。

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Your father is totally negative to me and I am very positive to him, I don't care.

你父亲对我完全负面，我对他非常正面，我不在乎。

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YB: Yeah, but you understand, my solution to everything is, I have to be super positive, doesn't matter what. The question is when I come to their level, then there is a fight, I will never come to their level, your father was talking so negative, the whole community end up in arms, all I did is call him and put him on forty days silence, I told him forty days you will speak nothing, but positive, he agreed, matter ended, and he did it too, those forty days he never spoke negative once, I checked through everybody, no fight, he cannot help but being negative, that is his halo, he is miserable himself, he is not that he is happy about it.

YB：对，但你明白，我对一切事情的解决办法就是，我必须超级正面，不管怎样。问题是，当我降到他们的层次，就会打起来，我永远不会降到他们的层次，你父亲当时说话那么负面，整个社区最后都剑拔弩张，我所做的就是打电话给他，让他做 40 天禁语，我告诉他 40 天里你什么负面的话都不说，只说正面的，他同意了，事情就结束了，他也真做到了，那 40 天他一次负面的话都没说过，我向所有人核实过，没有争吵，他忍不住要负面，那就是他的光环，他自己很痛苦，他并不是乐在其中。

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YB：你母亲。

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that he is happy about it.

他并不是乐在其中。

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YB：你母亲。

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YB: Your mother knows it that there are children involved and she is now first mother, and woman next, therefore she will come through doesn't matter what, it's a sad story, but it has a wonderful result. I am yet to see a woman who can be that positive, with that negativity and still smile, she is one example in whole 3HO we shall be proud of, you don't like it, that I know, I don't like it either.

YB：你母亲知道这里面牵涉到孩子，现在她首先是母亲，其次才是女人，所以不管怎样她都会挺过来，这是个悲伤的故事，但结果很美好。我还没见过哪个女人能那么正向，带着那样的负向还能微笑，她是整个 3HO 里我们该引以为傲的一个例子，你不喜欢这样，我知道，我也不喜欢。

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YB: No, he is not bad, he is absolutely not bad, he is negative, negative is not always bad, why you call him bad, bad is too much, negative, he is not bad, he is Mister Negative, he starts with everything negative, and then you discuss positive with him for three hours, in the end he will find out negative in your positive, very good, why not, that's his specialty. In Army strategy, that man will be paid highest.

YB：不，他不坏，他绝对不坏，他是负向的，负向不总是坏，你为什么说他坏，坏太重了，是负向，他不坏，他是负向先生，他什么事都从负向开始，然后你跟他讨论正向讨论三个小时，最后他会在你的正向里找出负向，很好，为什么不呢，那是他的专长。在军队战略里，那个人会拿最高的薪水。

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YB: Hah!

YB：哈！

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that man will be paid highest.

那个人会拿最高的薪水。

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YB: Hah!

YB：哈！

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YB: No, no, no, in Army we applies, employ some people at a very high salary. Their job is, we give anything to them, they totally get to the negative of it. It's not a wrong idea, he has a very natural intuition, but sometime his negative intuition is based on his fears and other stuffs and that messes up the things, otherwise he is a nice guy, he is not wrong, he is negative, I like him, that's why I never bother. You have to have a very special technique to like such a man. He is very kind hearted, he is very generous and he has all the great qualities, he is Mister Negative, and he should not bug anybody, but people don't like it, I don't know why, why people don't like it?

YB：不，不，不，在军队里我们会用，会雇一些人，薪水非常高。他们的工作就是，我们给他们任何东西，他们都能完全找出其中的负向。这不是个错的想法，他有非常天然的直觉，但有时他的负向直觉是建立在他的恐惧和其他东西上的，那就把事情搞乱了，否则他是个好人，他没错，他是负向的，我喜欢他，所以我才从不计较。你得有非常特别的方法才能喜欢这样一个人。他心地非常善良，他非常慷慨，他具备所有伟大的品质，他是负向先生，他不该惹任何人烦，但人们不喜欢这样，我不知道为什么，为什么人们不喜欢呢？

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YB: Hah!

YB：哈！

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YB: But why don't you tell him, 'Papa stop it. '

YB：可你为什么不告诉他，「爸爸，别这样。」

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YB: No, no, say it with love and affection, not the way you say it to him, I know.

YB：不，不，带着爱和感情说，不是你现在对他说话的那个样子，我知道。

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No, no, say it with love and affection, not the way you say it to him, I know.

不，不，带着爱和感情说，不是你现在对他说话的那个样子，我知道。

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YB: Future possibilities are, past, future, present, no, no, no, he has the right to tell the past, he has the privilege to tell the positive now, and he has to bring hope for tomorrow, and that's the way to communicate. You always bring the facts to somebody attention, you always deal with the now and you must elevate the person for tomorrow. Next, yeah.

YB：未来的可能性是，过去、未来、现在，不，不，不，他有权讲过去，他有特权讲正向的现在，他必须为明天带来希望，这就是沟通的方式。你总是把事实带到别人的注意里，你总是处理当下，你必须为明天把人提升起来。下一个，嗯。

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YB: Ho, ho, what a question, have you heard the question, how you want to help somebody who doesn't want to help himself? Tell me, there is not a one person living, who wants to help himself, none, including me, nobody wants to help themself. How many of you, I ask you a question. How many of you get up in the morning, stand before a mirror and appreciate yourself. Get out of the Sun, there is direct angle Sun, it's going to burn your skin, this is New Mexico Sun, come this way please.

YB：嚯，嚯，多好的问题，你听到这个问题了吗，你想怎么帮助一个不想帮助自己的人？告诉我，活着的人里没有一个想帮助自己，一个都没有，包括我，没有人想帮助自己。你们有多少人，我问你们一个问题。你们有多少人早上起来，站在镜子前欣赏自己。从太阳底下出来，那是直射角度的太阳，会晒伤你的皮肤，这是新墨西哥的太阳，请往这边来。

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YB: Ram, oh he does everything to survive.

YB：Ram，哦，他做一切来活下去。

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please.

请。

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YB: Ram, oh he does everything to survive.

YB：Ram，哦，他做一切来活下去。

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YB: Oh, definitely without that he can't make a day.

YB：哦，绝对是这样，没有那个他一天都过不下去。

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（学生们笑）

Remember, one day he was fanatic Sikh, he learned everything, now he practices it, but he is mad with us, it's okay, he will come home sooner or later, he is not going anywhere, we watch every summer.

记住，有一天他是个狂热的锡克教徒，他什么都学了，现在他在实践它，但他对我们很生气，没关系，他早晚会回家，他哪儿也不去，我们每年夏天都看着。

(Student laugh)

（学生笑）

The day was good with you.

这一天和你在一起很好。

Student: Oh yes sir, fine.

学生：哦是的，先生，很好。

YB: Perfect, okay go ahead. Nobody wants to help him and herself, tell me why?

YB：完美，好，继续。没有人想帮助他或她自己，告诉我为什么？

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help him and herself, tell me why?

帮助他或她自己，告诉我为什么？

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YB：呃！

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YB: Because, they think, they are perfect themself already, that's true, correct answer. Because in our life, helping means something is crippled, something is wrong, something is not right. Actually helping yourself means your homework, and homework about your living, your life, your being. You need yourself and you need to help it, you need to maintain it, you need some hour to think about yourself, be yourself, workout your day, workout your life, workout your plan, workout your belief, you need all that, and if you don't do that, you shall be confused, is that understood?

YB：因为，他们认为，他们自己已经完美了，这是真的，正确答案。因为在我们的生活里，帮助意味着有什么东西残废了，有什么东西错了，有什么东西不对劲。其实帮助你自己意味着你的功课，关于你活着的功课，你的生命，你的存在。你需要你自己，你需要帮助它，你需要维持它，你需要一些小时去想想你自己，做你自己，理清你的一天，理清你的生活，理清你的计划，理清你的信念，你需要这一切，如果你不做这些，你就会困惑，明白了吗？

Students: Yes Sir.

学生们：是的，先生。

YB: That's why we are always in tension, that's why we are all in pain, that's why we are in trouble, we don't have time for ourself, we have time for everything.

YB：这就是为什么我们总是紧张，这就是为什么我们都在痛苦中，这就是为什么我们有麻烦，我们没有时间给自己，我们有时间做一切事。

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pain, that's why we are in trouble, we don't have time for ourself, we have time for everything.

痛苦，这就是为什么我们有麻烦，我们没有时间给自己，我们有时间做一切事。

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YB: Simple thing, Sadhana, get up in the morning, be yourself, do your exercise, meditate, clean your mind, breathe open your lungs, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera, one tenth of the day, is two and a half hour of the twenty-four hours, is that correct, is that correct.

YB：很简单，萨达那（Sadhana），早上起床，做你自己，做你的练习，冥想，清理你的心智，呼吸打开你的肺，等等，等等，等等，一天十分之一，就是 24 小时里的 2 个半小时，对不对，对不对。

Students: Yes Sir.

学生们：是的，先生。

YB: You must spend two and a half hour everyday on yourself, on your exercise, on your meditation, on your purity, you understand what we are doing, we ask ourself four things. Bana, Bani, Seva, Simran, when I use the word Bani, you think Gurbani, but that's not true, Bani is, Bana, does one thing for you, you declare your identity, it's not that you don't have identity.

YB：你必须每天花 2 个半小时在自己身上，在你的练习上，在你的冥想上，在你的纯净上，你明白我们在做什么，我们问自己四件事。灵性装束（Bana）、圣言（Bani）、服务（Seva）、忆念（Simran），当我说 Bani 这个词，你以为说的是 Gurbani，但不对，Bani 是，Bana 为你做一件事，你宣告你的身份，不是说你没有身份。

Bani, you think Gurbani, but that's not true, Bani is, Bana, does one thing for you, you declare your identity, it's not that you don't have identity.

Bani，你以为说的是 Gurbani，但不对，Bani 是，Bana 为你做一件事，你宣告你的身份，不是说你没有身份。

Normally as a human being, you will hide your identity, everybody does it, and everybody wants to do it and everybody wants to live like a commoner and look like a commoner and be like a commoner, because that is called fishing, you want to be in the crowd, but when you see the thing, you want to grab it, that's your hunter policy, that's your mentality. To conquer that mentality, you come out in Bana, you declare your identity, that's why a policeman has to wear it.

通常作为一个人，你会隐藏自己的身份，每个人都这样，每个人都想这样，每个人都想活得像个普通人，看起来像个普通人，做个普通人，因为那叫钓鱼，你想待在人群里，但当你看到东西时，你想抓住它，那是你的猎人策略，那是你的心态。要征服那种心态，你穿上灵性装束（Bana）走出来，你宣告你的身份，这就是为什么警察必须穿制服。

policy, that's your mentality. To conquer that mentality, you come out in Bana, you declare your identity, that's why a policeman has to wear it.

策略，那是你的心态。要征服那种心态，你穿上灵性装束（Bana）走出来，你宣告你的身份，这就是为什么警察必须穿制服。

By appearance look and discipline, you can find out a policeman, then he has to carry his name, then he has to carry his tag, his rank and over and above that, he carries the identity card, so he has to declare himself. Bani, what you speak, doesn't matter who you are, it will take three minutes to figure you out. Two things. Either you are a flirt or you are alert. If you are alert, price will go sky high, if you are flirt, they will bargain cheap. Seva, means coming out and serving and helping and pulling people out of troubles and etcetera, etcetera, that will give you perpetual friendship, a territory forever.

通过外表、样子和纪律，你能认出警察，然后他必须带着他的名字，然后他必须带着他的标签、他的警衔，而且除此之外，他还带着身份证，所以他必须宣告自己。Bani，你说的话，不管你是谁，三分钟就能看透你。两件事。要么你是个轻浮的人，要么你是警觉的。如果你警觉，你的身价会涨到天上去，如果你轻浮，他们会廉价地讨价还价。Seva，意思是走出来服务、帮助、把人从麻烦里拉出来等等，等等，那会给你永久的友谊，一片永远属于你的领地。

Simran it's your self cleansing, your mind cleaning, your inner strength, it's the strength of your soul, nothing more, nothing less, you can have it all, and you may have none, it's your choice.

Simran 是你的自我净化，是你的心智清理，是你的内在力量，它是你灵魂的力量，不多不少，你可以拥有全部，也可能一无所有，这是你的选择。

your inner strength, it's the strength of your soul, nothing more, nothing less, you can have it all, and you may have none, it's your choice.

你的内在力量，它是你灵魂的力量，不多不少，你可以拥有全部，也可能一无所有，这是你的选择。

When Guru Gobind Singh laid down this rule, at that time this was the condition of India, any man can be picked up and butchered, to get his blood, to feed the hunting animals of the king, any man. If a person doesn't come out, he is gone, everybody knew it, it was a rule, nobody can sit higher than two and a half foot, if he does, he must be beheaded. Every girl, who is sixteen and above, must be presented to the local chief, for a night to sleep with, that's why in India, the custom, they started, marrying everybody six, seven year old, no, no that's true. It's true.

当 Guru Gobind Singh 定下这条规矩时，那时印度就是这样的状况，任何人都可能被抓走杀掉，取他的血，去喂国王的猎兽，任何人。如果一个人不出来，他就完了，人人都知道，这是一条规矩，没有人能坐得高过两英尺半，如果坐了，就得被斩首。每个十六岁以上的女孩，都必须被送到当地首领那里，陪睡一夜，所以在印度，他们开始形成一种习俗，让所有人六七岁就结婚，不，不，那是真的。那是真的。

for a night to sleep with, that's why in India, the custom, they started, marrying everybody six, seven year old, no, no that's true. It's true.

陪睡一夜，所以在印度，他们开始形成一种习俗，让所有人六七岁就结婚，不，不，那是真的。那是真的。

If a soldier spits and a man is around he must receive it on the hand, if he misses it, soldier has the right to behead him. These were the rule, when Guru Gobind Singh took over, he was nine year old, when he was forty-two, the Mogul Empire trembled to its last. So these are few facts of life I wanted to tell you, and he brought those people into life who never had a dream, even to rise above the ground. Next. You don't ask lot of questions now, why, you don't want the answer.

如果一个士兵吐口水，旁边有人，那人必须用手接住，如果没接住，士兵有权把他斩首。这就是当时的规矩，当 Guru Gobind Singh 接手时，他才九岁，到他四十二岁时，莫卧儿帝国已经摇摇欲坠到最后一刻。所以这些就是我想告诉你们的一些人生事实，他把那些人带进了生命，那些人连做梦都不敢想自己能离开地面。下一个。你现在不要问那么多问题，为什么，因为你并不想要答案。

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rise above the ground. Next. You don't ask lot of questions now, why, you don't want the answer.

离开地面。下一个。你现在不要问那么多问题，为什么，因为你并不想要答案。

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YB: If the relationship goes wrong in the very beginning, you can start beginning anytime you want, there is no beginning, no end, if you want it, question is you want or you don't. All beginnings are with you, and all ends are with you and all middle is with you, there is no beginning without you, there is no middle without you, and there is no end without you, there is nothing more important than you, please value yourself, if you do not value yourself, nobody shall value you. If you sell cheap, you will end up as a creep, there is no way out, it is that cut and dry. Next. Yeah.

YB：如果关系一开始就出了问题，你随时都可以重新开始，没有开始，没有结束，如果你想要它，问题是你想要还是不想要。所有的开始都在你这里，所有的结束都在你这里，所有的中间也都在你这里，没有你，就没有开始，没有你，就没有中间，没有你，就没有结束，没有什么比你更重要，请珍视你自己，如果你不珍视自己，没有人会珍视你。如果你把自己贱卖，最后只会落得个可怜虫，没有出路，就是这么干脆利落。下一个。嗯。

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sell cheap, you will end up as a creep, there is no way out, it is that cut and dry. Next. Yeah.

把自己贱卖，最后只会落得个可怜虫，没有出路，就是这么干脆利落。下一个。嗯。

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YB: How you gets you want, it's the simplest thing. If you are willing to put your hundred percent into it, and you are willing to fail all the sacrifices for it, you will get it, it's matter of time, I always get what I want, always do. That's why always people leave me, I never leave them, because I want one thing, the best of everybody. They got so scared, he want my best, what about him, I don't care. I am the best, why should I care, see I get everything what I want, on time, right folks, next. Hey you littles, you have to face life, talk to me, if you keep this damn question to yourself, you are not going to find the answers, and you are going to suffer.

YB：你想得到什么就能得到，这是最简单的事。只要你愿意投入百分之百，愿意为它承受一切牺牲，你就会得到它，只是时间问题。我总是得到我想要的，一直都是。所以人们总是离开我，我从不离开他们，因为我只要一样东西——每个人身上最好的那部分。他们吓坏了，他想要我最好的，那他呢，我不在乎。我就是最好的，我何必在乎。你看，我想要的一切都能得到，准时得到，对吧各位，下一个。嘿，你们这些小不点，你们得面对生活，跟我说话。你要是把这个该死的问题憋在自己心里，你就找不到答案，你就会受苦。

At least you can hear my version, you don't have to believe it.

至少你可以听听我的说法，你不必相信它。

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YB: Biological need, time clicking, destiny, passions, need of somebody to sleep with better than a pillow, sale sex, safe sex, what else, security.

YB：生理需要、时间在滴答走、命运、激情、需要有个人一起睡比枕头强、安全性爱、安全性行为，还有什么，安全感。

Student: Why you need money, when security only is money.

学生：你为什么需要钱，当安全感本身就是钱的时候。

of somebody to sleep with better than a pillow, sale sex, safe sex, what else, security.

需要有个人一起睡比枕头强、安全性爱、安全性行为，还有什么，安全感。

Student: Why you need money, when security only is money.

学生：你为什么需要钱，当安全感本身就是钱的时候。

YB: No, familiar (?), things to brag about, thing to yell at, think to give bad time, get angry with somebody free of cost.

YB：不，熟悉的（？）、可以拿来吹嘘的东西、可以拿来吼的东西、可以拿来给人苦头吃的东西、可以免费对某个人发脾气。

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YB: Because he has to cook you every night, it's better you feed him during the day. In olden days that was the time, but now it's modern time, both go to a restaurant with their different friends, either they get (?) from each other or they get, that what they call Dutch treat.

YB：因为他每天晚上都得给你做饭，不如你白天喂饱他。从前是那个时代，但现在是现代，两个人各自带着不同的朋友去餐馆，要么他们从彼此那里得到（？），要么他们得到，那就是他们说的各付各的。

Student: Dutch treat.

学生：各付各的。

YB: World is changing. Huh.

YB：世界在变。哈。

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YB: Kids are the most innocent Angels in life and they are real joy, time is always there, if you want it. Problem what happened with parents is, they got the kids, everything was right to begin with, then they now got them, and they think kids are their furniture, they are like slaves, he has kids, (?) two kids, ask him how much trouble he is in, why, ask him why?

YB：孩子是生命中最纯真的天使，他们是真的喜悦，时间一直都在，只要你想要。父母的问题出在，他们有了孩子，一开始一切都没问题，然后他们现在有了孩子，就以为孩子是他们的家具，孩子像奴隶一样。他有孩子，（？）两个孩子，问问他有多麻烦，为什么，问问他为什么？

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are like slaves, he has kids, (?) two kids, ask him how much trouble he is in, why, ask him why?

像奴隶一样，他有孩子，（？）两个孩子，问问他有多麻烦，为什么，问问他为什么？

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Student: I am not in any trouble, I don't know why he pointed me out, I have been blessed, I have got wonderful kids.

学生：我没有任何麻烦，我不知道他为什么点我，我一直被祝福，我有很棒的孩子。

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Student: Huh.

学生：哈。

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Student: No, I will have it, I got a perfect teacher who raised us.

学生：不，我会有的，我有一位完美的老师，把我们养大。

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Student: No, I got a perfect teacher who raised them (?) lucky one.

学生：不，我有一位完美的老师，把他们养大（？）幸运的家伙。

(laughs hilariously)

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YB: His children are so independent. Once that little thing says, Papa, what she said to you?

YB：他的孩子们那么独立。有一次那个小家伙说，爸爸，她跟你说了什么？

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YB: Not good, tell them.

YB：不好，告诉他们。

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YB: When she figure it out, I am your boss.

YB：等她弄明白了，我是你的老板。

Student: Oh, yeah, she said, she said to me, (?) she said, "Papa. "

学生：哦，对，她说，她对我说，（？）她说，“爸爸。”

I said, "What dear? "

我说，“怎么了，亲爱的？”

She said, "Is the Siri Singh Sahib your boss? '

她说，“Siri Singh Sahib 是你的老板吗？”

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Oh, yeah, she said, she said to me, (?) she said, "Papa. "

哦，对，她说，她对我说，（？）她说，“爸爸。”

I said, "What dear? "

我说，“怎么了，亲爱的？”

She said, "Is the Siri Singh Sahib your boss? '

她说，“Siri Singh Sahib 是你的老板吗？”

(Students laugh)

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And I do, I said, Yes, dear (?) is. " We never had the same relationship since, she doesn't think I am the final words, so whatever I go (?) into negotiation, so she has no fear of me, what a wonderful way for a kid to be raised, without fear of the parents.

而我真的，我说，是的，亲爱的（？）是。”从那以后我们的关系就再也不一样了，她不认为我是最终说了算的人，所以不管我（？）去谈判什么，她都不怕我，一个孩子能这样被养大，多好啊，不怕父母。

YB: He says, 'time out,' she says, 'your time out. '

YB：他说，“时间到，”她说，“你时间到。”

(YB and Students laughs)

（YB 和学生们笑）

She is so fast, you can't believe that little kid. She comes to me and (?) tells me, "Well she is very hyper, she is not behaving all right. " She said, "No. Let Siri Singh Sahib be the judge, I behave all right, no problem. "

她反应太快了，你简直不敢相信那个小家伙。她来找我，（？）告诉我，“她太亢奋了，她表现不好。”她说，“不。让 Siri Singh Sahib 来评判，我表现很好，没问题。”

(Students laughs)

（学生们笑）

And she said, "You didn't behave with me. "

她说，“你对我表现不好。”

She said, "That's outside here. We will discuss it later. "

她说，“那是在外面的事。我们以后再讨论。”

all right, no problem. "

好吧，没问题。”

(Students laughs)

（学生们笑）

And she said, "You didn't behave with me. "

她说，“你对我表现不好。”

She said, "That's outside here. We will discuss it later. "

她说，“那是在外面的事。我们以后再讨论。”

This, this, this, she is this much. What we taught those children as a experiment, that they have to be free, they have to be themself, in that house, lives, auntyji called Guru Amrit, she is six foot two, and she is a living logic, and once a while I visit too, I am the applet authority, so if there are any complaints, they come duly and justice has to be done. So both parents are aware of the fact, so there was never a trouble. It's a very beautifully lived house, but they also know, they can't freak out from school, they got to do their work right, they have to behave well, then they have to, rest is the time they are...

这个，这个，这个，她这么点大。我们教那些孩子，作为一个实验，他们必须自由，他们必须做自己，在那个家里，住着，auntyji 叫 Guru Amrit，她身高六英尺二，她是一个活生生的逻辑，我偶尔也会去，我是上诉权威，所以如果有任何投诉，它们会按时呈上来，正义必须得到伸张。所以父母双方都知道这个事实，所以从来没有过麻烦。那是一个过得非常美好的家，但他们也知道，他们不能在学校里失控，他们必须把功课做好，他们必须表现好，然后他们必须，剩下的时间他们就是……

(?) If they want to freak out they have the privilege. If you allow your children not to mix their right and privileges, then you are in good shape. Children's have certain rights, they should be theirs, and they have some privileges, those should be decided on the merits only, that's all. But we start doing, we start punishing children and they become hardcore, and then one thing leads to the other, (?)...

（？）如果他们想发疯，那是他们的特权。如果你不让孩子把权利和特权混在一起，那你就做得不错。孩子有某些权利，那些权利该归他们；他们也有一些特权，那些只能按实际表现来决定，就这样。可我们却开始动手，开始惩罚孩子，他们就变得顽固不化，然后一件事引出另一件事，（？）……

the merits only, that's all. But we start doing, we start punishing children and they become hardcore, and then one thing leads to the other, (?)...

只能按实际表现来决定，就这样。可我们却开始动手，开始惩罚孩子，他们就变得顽固不化，然后一件事引出另一件事，（？）……

Side B

B 面

A proper attention, and then parents justify, '(?) look at me, and look at me and your mother are miserable,' while you are miserable, you have labor pains too. The worst experience which I have in America is, when the parents are not willing to sacrifice for their poor, innocent children. They want what they need. I want A grades, the guy doesn't know what to do about it, and they damn willing to help, they can't sit down and do their homework, they can't help them all they want is grades, the damn paper makes them happy and unhappy.

要有恰当的关注，然后父母还辩解，「（？）看看我，看看我和你妈多痛苦」，你自己痛苦，你也有分娩的阵痛。我在美国最糟糕的经历，就是父母不愿为他们可怜、无辜的孩子做出牺牲。他们只想要自己需要的。我要 A 的成绩，那孩子根本不知道该怎么办，而他们压根不愿帮忙，他们没法坐下来陪孩子做作业，他们帮不上忙，他们要的只是成绩，那张该死的纸让他们高兴，也让他们不高兴。

Where they were the whole year, doing parties, that's the most tragic part of it, it's a very damn continuous process, and the tragedy of it is, when you threat your child, you damage the personality. You are the basic God given damn security, and you start threatening your child, where the child has to go, which way, there is no place, yeah.

这一年他们都在哪儿，忙着办派对，这是最悲惨的部分，这是个该死的、没完没了的过程，而它的悲剧在于，你威胁你的孩子，你就毁了他的人格。你是神给的那份该死的、根本的安全感，而你开始威胁你的孩子，孩子该往哪儿去，走哪条路，没有地方可去，是的。

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YB: Uh.

YB：嗯。

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there is no place, yeah.

没有地方可去，是的。

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YB: Uh.

YB：嗯。

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YB: No, it's very simple, it is explained, I tell you, it's so simple, lot of people tell me what to do. You know how many people, regularly, on daily basis, tell me to do, my eleven secretaries, my regional teachers, name a thing, everybody has right to tell me what to do, normally. What I do is, put the facts before them and ask their opinion, they back off. Makeup a fake example and I will give you the example how to communicate.

YB：不，这很简单，已经解释过了，我告诉你，就这么简单，很多人告诉我该做什么。你知道有多少人，经常，每天都告诉我该做什么吗，我的 11 个秘书，我的地区老师，随便说一个，通常每个人都有权告诉我该做什么。我做的就是，把事实摆在他们面前，问他们的意见，他们就退回去了。编一个假的例子，我就给你举个例子，说明该怎么沟通。

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YB: Yeah, I tell everybody to get married, when I find something good, they tell me not to, I don't care.

YB：是的，我让每个人都结婚，等我发现好的，他们却叫我别结，我不在乎。

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YB: Get on with what?

YB：继续做什么？

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Get on with what?

继续什么？

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YB: All they have to just tell me, 'I don't want it,' I also find some jewelry piece, I will give it to people, all they have to tell me, 'I don't want to wear it,' fine, between that and that there is no difference. I don't expect hundred percent obedience, I don't care a damn, I am just interested in the kids, if there is an opportunity I will take care of it.

YB：他们只要告诉我，「我不想要它」，我也会找到某件首饰，我会把它给人，他们只要告诉我，「我不想戴它」，好，这个和那个之间没有区别。我不指望百分之百的服从，我一点也不在乎，我只是关心这些孩子，如果有机会，我会照顾它。

Siri Simran's junior never wanted to get married, she is my ward legally and my estate could have taken care of her, but she was not in a position to take care of by that estate, and I honestly got to bum, do not trust anybody, I wanted to create that relationship and, look at that, after hospital I moved in her house, what more you expect from me, I live in that house, just to, anytime she asks a question, I am there, what more I can do.

Siri Simran 的小女儿从来不想结婚，她是我法律上的被监护人，我的遗产本可以照顾她，但她没有能力靠那份遗产照顾自己，而我老实说变得很烦，不要相信任何人，我想建立那种关系，而且，你看，出院后我搬进了她的房子，你还想从我这里得到什么，我住在那栋房子里，只是为了，任何时候她问一个问题，我就在那里，我还能做什么。

I moved in her house, what more you expect from me, I live in that house, just to, anytime she asks a question, I am there, what more I can do.

我搬进了她的房子，你还想从我这里得到什么，我住在那栋房子里，只是为了，任何时候她问一个问题，我就在那里，我还能做什么。

I took a responsibility, whether I was fool or wise I don't care, at that time there was a need of security for that girl, and I raised her, I changed her diapers, I understand her, right, I could not betray her, she is a part of my will, she is a part of my estate, and she will never need anybody, but still I know, this world is normal and she still wants to live a normal life, and she was too innocent and I asked for my sake, that she should marry, in case I die, I will have a peace, and she said, "Okay I will sacrifice. " She was not un-open to me oh, she was absolutely open.

我承担了一份责任，不管我是傻瓜还是智者，我不在乎，那时候那个女孩需要安全感，我把她养大，我给她换过尿布，我了解她，对吧，我不能背叛她，她是我遗嘱的一部分，她是我遗产的一部分，她永远不需要任何人，但我仍然知道，这个世界是正常的，她仍然想过正常的生活，而她太天真了，我为了我自己请求，她应该结婚，万一我死了，我会有一份安宁，她说，「好，我会牺牲。」她对我并不是不敞开，哦，她绝对是敞开的。

She said, "I will sacrifice. "

她说，「我会牺牲。」

I said, "Agreed. "

我说，「同意。」

Now she is happy. Now I don't find her any Sunday afternoon, now they once, now the telephone is never free, I know it,

现在她很快乐。现在我在任何一个周日下午都找不到她，现在他们有一次，现在电话从来都不空闲，我知道，

(Laughs)

（笑）

I said, "Agreed. "

我说，「同意。」

Now she is happy. Now I don't find her any Sunday afternoon, now they once, now the telephone is never free, I know it,

现在她很快乐。现在我在任何一个周日下午都找不到她，现在他们有一次，现在电话从来都不空闲，我知道，

(Laughs)

（笑）

When I commit to something my dear, I go with it, the best part is me in it. Normally I don't expect that without understanding, anybody should obey anybody, and while asking certain things, I give pros and con and education, that's the way I use this as a tool. I know some people, I said, "Well this is the best boy, grab it. "

亲爱的，当我承诺一件事，我就跟着它走，最好的部分是我在其中。通常我不指望在不理解的情况下，任何人应该服从任何人，而在要求某些事情时，我会给出利弊和教育，这就是我把这个当作工具来用的方式。我认识一些人，我说，「嗯，这是最好的男孩，抓住他。」

She said, "No. I don't want to marry. "

她说，「不。我不想结婚。」

"What do you want to do? "

「你想做什么？」

"I want to graduate, I want to do this, all that ivory palace. "

「我想毕业，我想做这个，所有那些象牙宫殿。」

Fine, fine.

好，好。

Month later, "Well I don't know, I have found this boy and I am in love. "

一个月后，“唉，我不知道，我遇到了这个男孩，我恋爱了。”

want to graduate, I want to do this, all that ivory palace. "

我想毕业，我想做这个，那整个象牙塔。”

Fine, fine.

好，好。

Month later, "Well I don't know, I have found this boy and I am in love. "

一个月后，“唉，我不知道，我遇到了这个男孩，我恋爱了。”

I said, "Okay, let us sit on alphabetic table, find it out, pros and cons. " I just tell the pros and cons, let her decide it, I just don't want, later on she should say, "You didn't advise me right," it's her affair not mine, she is going to get into the gutter, is her life, not mine, but I don't to have the responsibility, that I didn't goof, I did goof, put myself on the line, said it what I have to say, one thing you must understand, God has done us one favor, there is a no meter on us to measure what we are doing, but one thing He did very cleverly, every action has a reaction, equal and opposite, you will get it, not today, little later.

我说：“好吧，我们坐到字母表前，把它弄清楚，利与弊。”我只讲利与弊，让她自己决定，我就是不想，以后她说：“你没给我正确的建议，”那是她的事，不是我的，她要掉进阴沟里，那是她的命，不是我的，但我不想担这个责任，说我没搞砸，我确实搞砸了，把自己摆上去，该说的都说了，有一件事你必须明白，神帮了我们一个忙，我们身上没有仪表来衡量我们在做什么，但有一件事祂做得很巧妙，每个行动都有反作用，大小相等、方向相反，你会收到的，不是今天，是稍后。

You can hide a shit under every cover you want, one day it will breakup and stink, it can never be permanent. As far as I am concerned, I have never advised somebody, definite, except in certain cases, where people are my personal ward of the state.

你可以把一坨屎藏在任何你想藏的盖子底下，总有一天它会裂开、发臭，它永远不可能长久。就我而言，我从不给别人确定的建议，除了某些情况，那些人是我的法定监护对象。

permanent. As far as I am concerned, I have never advised somebody, definite, except in certain cases, where people are my personal ward of the state.

长久。就我而言，我从不给别人确定的建议，除了某些情况，那些人是我的法定监护对象。

In that situation, I am a legal authority and I feel with all my honesty, and if the situation is beyond my control, and my situation, I do need a help, I am very honest and we normally have a dialogue, but I always win, that is unfortunate part of it, but it is true, we go through the discussion, maximum, and then in certain cases, things are laid down very flat, 'I don't agree with you,' I say, 'okay, I will vouch this,' and then I have to go through it.

在那种情况下，我是法定权威，我凭着全部的诚实去感受，如果情况超出我的掌控，而我的处境，我确实需要帮助，我非常诚实，我们通常会有对话，但我总是赢，这是其中不幸的部分，但这是真的，我们最多把讨论走一遍，然后在某些情况下，事情被摆得非常平，“我不同意你，”我说，“好吧，我来担保这个，”然后我就得走完它。

I don't think Siri Simran is married, I think I am married, with both of them, and she got me by the horns, if I would have known, that I would not have been that sick, I would have never, ever told her to get married, I would have send her to college myself, I couldn't make her a doctor, but I made her (?)

我不认为 Siri Simran 结婚了，我认为是我结婚了，和他们两个，她抓住了我的角，如果我早知道，我就不会病成那样，我绝不会、绝不会叫她结婚，我会亲自送她去上大学，我没能让她成为医生，但我让她（？）

that sick, I would have never, ever told her to get married, I would have send her to college myself, I couldn't make her a doctor, but I made her (?)

病成那样，我绝不会、绝不会叫她结婚，我会亲自送她去上大学，我没能让她成为医生，但我让她（？）

me, she is married to a doctor, at least I achieve half of it, I never had latest dream in my life, that I will marry her anytime, I wanted her to be such a perfect human being, and so good, and create an example, I raised her, she is part of me and so many others too, I stick around with everybody, here is one example, she is the best bully fighter with me, she fights everyday, so what should I do? She is born in my hands, she has different syllabus and timetable, I have different syllabus and timetable, don't we fight, don't we, (?)

我，她嫁给了一位医生，至少我做到了一半，我这辈子从来没有过最新的梦想，说我什么时候会把她嫁出去，我希望她成为这样一个完美的人，那么好，创造一个榜样，我把她养大，她是我的一部分，也是很多其他人的一部分，我和每个人都待在一起，这里有一个例子，她是我最好的斗嘴对手，她每天都跟我斗，那我该怎么办？她是在我手里出生的，她有她的课程表和时间表，我有我的课程表和时间表，我们不斗吗，我们不斗吗，（？）

we are perfect bull fighters, I allow her to fight, she cries, sometime I yell, but you know, so long we have a communication we are okay, she never tells me anything, I find it out, then I get her to attention, sometime she denies sometime she tells me, we discuss, I play my maturity role, she play her baby role, it goes on.

我们是完美的斗嘴高手，我允许她斗，她哭，有时我吼，但你知道，只要我们有沟通，我们就没事，她从来不告诉我任何事，我自己发现，然后我让她注意，有时她否认，有时她告诉我，我们讨论，我扮演我成熟的角色，她扮演她宝宝的角色，就这样继续下去。

out, then I get her to attention, sometime she denies sometime she tells me, we discuss, I play my maturity role, she play her baby role, it goes on.

出来，然后我让她注意，有时她否认，有时她告诉我，我们讨论，我扮演我成熟的角色，她扮演她宝宝的角色，就这样继续下去。

So long there is a communication, it's okay. The deadly thing is when communication stops, that's deadly, there is no good and bad, thinking make it so, but when your ego stops the communication, then from that onward God be with you, that's how it is, that's the way it's always going to be, nobody can change it. If you don't have tools of your life with you, and one of the most powerful tool is communication, you will always end up as a fool, and whenever your romance, your projection, is more, is the more, has more priority in it, than the reality, you will always fall in ditch, and if you desire, desire, desire, and you don't become deserving, you will always have a mess on hand.

只要有沟通，就没事。致命的是沟通停止的时候，那才致命，没有好和坏，是念头把它变成那样，但当你的小我停止了沟通，从那一刻起，神就与你同在，事情就是这样，它永远都会是这样，没有人能改变它。如果你没有你生活的工具，而最强大的工具之一就是沟通，你最终总会变成一个傻瓜，而每当你的浪漫、你的投射，更多，是更多，在其中有更高的优先级，超过现实，你总会掉进沟里，而如果你欲望、欲望、欲望，却没有变得值得，你手上总会是一团乱。

Desiring is not wrong, but deserving is must, that's as simple as it is. You know I am dealing with that girl right now, she is daughter of my friend, she is what, thirty-four, thirty-five, she has a daughter about ten or twelve, right.

欲望没有错，但值得是必须的，就这么简单。你知道我现在正在处理那个女孩，她是我朋友的女儿，她多大，三十四、三十五，她有一个大约十岁或十二岁的女儿，对吧。

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right now, she is daughter of my friend, she is what, thirty-four, thirty-five, she has a daughter about ten or twelve, right.

现在，她是我朋友的女儿，她多大，三十四、三十五，她有一个大约十岁或十二岁的女儿，对吧。

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YB: Right, and thank God she is alive, I have to take care of her. I took care of her three days and mind you, they are multi, multi millionaire, and this girl is worth fifty, sixty million dollar herself, can't take care of themself. They have forty bedroom house, they have swimming pool, they have hundred sixty servants, bah, bah, bah, what that matters, nothing. She gets up, her hands shakes to catch a cup of glass, the day she came, I have to arrange a Helicopter in case, her eyes were so bulgy, she could have bulged out all her eyeballs, I want to put her in a hospital in Albuquerque a case of emergency.

YB：对，谢天谢地她还活着，我得照顾她。我照顾了她三天，你听好了，他们是亿万富翁，亿万级别的，这女孩自己就值五六千万美元，却照顾不了自己。他们有四十间卧室的房子，有游泳池，有一百六十个仆人， blah，blah，blah，那又怎样，什么都不是。她起床时，手抖得连杯子都拿不住，她来的那天，我还得安排一架直升机以防万一，她的眼睛凸得那么厉害，眼珠子都快掉出来了，我想把她送进阿尔伯克基的医院，当作紧急情况处理。

You talk of money, their father makes two hundred million dollar a day and he still does it, he is the biggest Tycoon, in the south-east Asia, big deal. Yesterday night, on telephone he was crying, in gratitude "How is she? "

你谈钱，她父亲一天赚两亿美元，现在还在赚，他是东南亚最大的巨头，了不起。昨晚，他在电话里哭着，满怀感激地问：“她怎么样？”

I said, "Fine, she is perfect. "

我说：“很好，她没事。”

"Is she, is she. "

“是吗，是吗。”

I said, "Yeah, there is nothing wrong. "

我说：“是的，没什么问题。”

"And what she is doing this for. "

“那她这是为了什么。”

"How is she? "

“她怎么样？”

I said, "Fine, she is perfect. "

我说：“很好，她没事。”

"Is she, is she. "

“是吗，是吗。”

I said, "Yeah, there is nothing wrong. "

我说：“是的，没什么问题。”

"And what she is doing this for. "

“那她这是为了什么。”

I said, "Drama. She is a very good actress. She wanted your attention, she is getting it. Good-luck. "

我说：“演戏。她是个很好的演员。她想要你的关注，她得到了。祝你好运。”

Right now, before lunch, she was yelling and screaming at me, I started it, I provoked her. I said, "I know you have married me," right, and she just opened her mouth, I nailed her so badly, she will never forget it. Finally she compromised.

就在刚才，午饭前，她对我大喊大叫，是我挑起的，我激怒了她。我说：“我知道你嫁给了我，”对吧，她刚一张嘴，我就把她钉得那么狠，她永远不会忘记。最后她妥协了。

She said, "Okay, okay, I am co-operating, I am co-operating. "

她说：“好吧，好吧，我配合，我配合。”

I said, "Okay, so long you co-operate, it's fine, after that you will be all right, fine, then you can go, do, whatever you want to do, come back again, doesn't matter. "

我说：“好，只要你配合，就没问题，之后你就会好起来，行，然后你可以走，做你想做的事，再回来，都没关系。”

you co-operate, it's fine, after that you will be all right, fine, then you can go, do, whatever you want to do, come back again, doesn't matter. "

你配合，就没问题，之后你就会好起来，行，然后你可以走，做你想做的事，再回来，都没关系。”

Sometime my dear child, life become so complicated by us that we cannot even communicate with ourself that is the tragic part of life. There are three things, you must remember folks. One is a stage, you should not be allowed to come in, but it does come in, when you cannot talk to yourself. Second stage is, you cannot listen to your own self. Third stage is, you argue, debate and reconfirm, your emotional belief, than your reality. Those three stages are the most dangerous stages, we ever have to live in, anything else.

有时候，我亲爱的孩子，生活被我们搞得如此复杂，以至于我们甚至无法与自己沟通，这才是生活悲剧的部分。有三件事，你们必须记住。第一是舞台，本不该让你进来，但它确实进来了，当你无法与自己对话时。第二个阶段是，你无法聆听自己。第三个阶段是，你争辩、辩论，并再次确认你的情绪信念，而不是你的现实。这三个阶段是我们不得不活在其中最危险的阶段，比任何其他事都危险。

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Hah...

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YB: When somebody is going to hurt, just draw their attention, divert the attention, say nothing, other than diversion, you must say something, which his diversion must change, attention must change. Moment we change the attention of a person, he will know, they are doing wrong, they will change it, don't start yelling and screaming, that's the way we change the attention, that's the wrong way to do it. It's pretty simple, if you do it right. Anything else, you have become serious, we wanted to have fun. I came here to tell you, how to talk, not what to talk, you end up, asking me question, what to talk, what to do, ask me question, how to talk, what time we have.

YB：当有人要伤害别人时，只要把他们的注意力引开，转移注意力，什么都别说，除了转移，你必须说点什么，他的转移必须改变，注意力必须改变。一旦我们改变了某人的注意力，他就会知道，他们做错了，他们会改，不要开始大喊大叫，那是我们改变注意力的方式，那是错误的做法。很简单，如果你做对了。还有别的吗，你们变得严肃了，我们本来想开心一点。我来这里是告诉你们，怎么说话，不是说什么话，你们最后却问我，该说什么，该做什么，问我，怎么说话，我们还有多少时间。

Student: Quarter to five.

学生：四点四十五。

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YB: Five O' five, you have five minutes, utilize them as best as you can.

YB：五点零五分，你们有五分钟，尽可能好好利用。

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YB: Nobody wants to listen to you to begin with.

YB：一开始就没人想听你说话。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

them as best as you can.

尽可能好好利用。

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YB: Nobody wants to listen to you to begin with.

YB：一开始就没人想听你说话。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

You try to understand, that's a human faculty, you don't want to listen because you listen, then you have to work it out, who wants the work, draw their attention, draw their interest and draw their ego, three things. Attention, interest and ego, then everybody is willing to listen, and you miss all these three, forget it. That's why people when they read their Bani, they start, fu, fu, huh, huhhhhh, and they go. That's why, have you seen in Gurdwara.

你试着去理解，那是人的一种能力，你不想听，因为你一听，就得去解决它，谁想干活呢，把他们的注意力引过来，把他们的兴趣引过来，把他们的引过来，三样东西。注意力、兴趣和小我，这样每个人都愿意听，而这三样你全都错过了，那就别想了。这就是为什么人们读他们的圣言时，一开始，呼，呼，哼，哼——，然后就过去了。这就是为什么，你们在谒师所里见过吧。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Have you gone to ever morning Sadhana.

你们去过早晨的萨达那吗。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Because nobody is interested in their self purification.

因为没人对自己的自我净化感兴趣。

Hari Jeevan, read these to them. Sit down, here I am going to bathroom, so he can record it right.

Hari Jeevan，把这些读给他们听。坐下，我要去洗手间，这样他就能录下来，对吧。

Student: Okay

学生：好的

YB: I have the permission to use the bathroom?

YB：我可以用洗手间吗？

Student: Yes Sir.

学生：是的，先生。

YB: Listen to this...

YB：听听这个……

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to use the bathroom?

用洗手间吗？

Student: Yes Sir.

学生：是的，先生。

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Student: Sometimes there are trouble, tragedy, treachery, ups and downs, can you all hear me, that won't help. Sometimes there are troubles, tragedy, treachery, ups and downs, if you don't want the pain, if you don't want it to happen to you, then one simple thing, the simplest thing, just conquer your own mind. If your mind is yours, the universe is yours. The universe is not yours, and the universe is not, if your mind is not yours, universe is not yours and in proportion. If your mind is three percent, your universe is three percent, if your mind is seventy percent, your universe is seventy percent or hundred percent, it's either way.

学生：有时会有麻烦、悲剧、背叛、起起落落，你们都能听见我吗，那没有用。有时会有麻烦、悲剧、背叛、起起落落，如果你不想要那份痛苦，如果你不想让它发生在你身上，那就做一件简单的事，最简单的事，只要征服你自己的心智。如果你的心智是你的，宇宙就是你的。宇宙不是你的，宇宙也不是，如果你的心智不是你的，宇宙就不是你的，而且成正比。如果你的心智是百分之三，你的宇宙就是百分之三，如果你的心智是百分之七十，你的宇宙就是百分之七十或者百分之百，两者皆然。

My dears, if you don't want to have a mind, if you, don't want, if you don't have your mind, could you tell me what you have, you have nothing, Yogi Bhajan.

我亲爱的，如果你不想要一个心智，如果你，不想要，如果你没有你的心智，你能告诉我你有什么吗，你什么都没有，Yogi Bhajan。

if you don't want to have a mind, if you, don't want, if you don't have your mind, could you tell me what you have, you have nothing, Yogi Bhajan.

如果你不想要一个心智，如果你，不想要，如果你没有你的心智，你能告诉我你有什么吗，你什么都没有，Yogi Bhajan。

Oh Yogi, let contemptment be your earning, your earnings, modesty, your beging bowl, and wallet And the Lords meditation, your ashes. Let the remembrance of death be your patched coat. Let your chosen path be your life of purity, and faith in God, as your staff. Let the highest sect be your brotherhood of all mankind, and let the control of the self, be your conquest of the world, Guru Nanak, that's Japji,

哦瑜伽士，让知足成为你的收入，你的收入，谦逊，你的乞讨碗，和钱包 而主的冥想，你的灰烬。让对死亡的忆念成为你的补丁外套。让你选择的道路成为你纯净的生活，和对神的信仰，作为你的手杖。让最高的教派成为全人类的兄弟情谊，让对自我的控制，成为你对世界的征服，Guru Nanak，那就是Japji，

Question is, how to win the mind? There are two simple paths. Bhakti, that's the path of Devotion, Simran that's the path of meditation or mental exercise. There are two ways to get money, Bhakti, pray for, Simran work for, these two ways to do anything in life, Bhakti, Simran. The path of Devotion is to take the words of God, and literally precede upon it, not to use your own intellect and intelligence.

问题是，如何赢得心智？有两条简单的路。Bhakti，那是奉爱之路，Simran那是冥想或心智锻炼之路。有两种方式得到钱，Bhakti，祈祷得到，Simran为之努力，这两种方式可以做生活中的任何事，Bhakti，Simran。奉爱之路是拿神的话语，并照着它去做，不要用你自己的智性和智力。

"Sochai soch naa hov-a-ee jay sochee lakh vaar. "

“Sochai soch naa hov-a-ee jay sochee lakh vaar。”

the words of God, and literally precede upon it, not to use your own intellect and intelligence.

神的话语，并照着它去做，不要用你自己的智性和智力。

"Sochai soch naa hov-a-ee jay sochee lakh vaar. "

“Sochai soch naa hov-a-ee jay sochee lakh vaar。”

Means, thinking, think so many times, you think, and it means nothing, because you can't conquer your mind that way. In the nineteen nineties the path of Devotion is difficult. When you do it, you will do it halfway. When you want to do your own thing, modern living is called profit living. It has reached to such a point of insanity and insensitivity, that nobody understands the will of God, because you want it so high, your fashion, dialogue, talking, projection has very little Divinity. Anyone who applies their mind, not to the real shall never know the reality, and the peaceful enjoyment of spirituality.

意思是，思考，想那么多次，你想来想去，却毫无意义，因为你那样根本征服不了你的心智。在九十年代，奉爱之路很艰难。你去做的时候，只会做一半。当你想做自己的事时，现代生活被称为逐利生活。它已经到了如此疯狂和麻木的地步，没人理解神的意志，因为你把它抬得那么高，你的时尚、对话、言谈、投射里，神性少得可怜。任何人把心智用在不是真实的东西上，就永远不会知道真相，也永远体会不到灵性那份平静的喜悦。

has very little Divinity. Anyone who applies their mind, not to the real shall never know the reality, and the peaceful enjoyment of spirituality.

神性少得可怜。任何人把心智用在不是真实的东西上，就永远不会知道真相，也永远体会不到灵性那份平静的喜悦。

pratyahar, the control of the mind, through with the prowl of the senses. The joy in your life, which you really want to enjoy, is within you, there is nothing more precise, than you within you, not to find you within you is a curse, because you have not found you within you. The day you find you within you, your mind will be yours. Continue. The alternate path is conquering the mind, through deep meditation and mental exercise, that's, that's, Simran, to understand how to develop, exercises for the mind, it is essential to know, we have three minds, negative mind, positive mind, neutral mind, with a composite of eighty-one chambers.

制感（Pratyahaar），就是通过收摄感官来控制心智。你生命中真正想享受的那份喜悦，就在你之内，没有什么比你之内那个你更精确，找不到你之内的你是一种诅咒，因为你没有找到你之内的你。你找到你之内的你的那一天，你的心智就会属于你。继续。另一条路是通过深度冥想和心智练习来征服心智，那就是，那就是，忆念（Simran），去理解如何发展，心智的练习，必须知道，我们有三个心智，负面心智（Negative Mind）、正面心智（Positive Mind）、中性心智（Neutral Mind），合起来有 81 个房间。

All of these facets of the mind are preceded through intellectual inner cross, intellectual inner cross and in intelligence inner cross and a conscious inner cross, which registers the caliber of thought, feeling and wishes. The minds activity is affected and can be affected through understanding the positive, negative and neutral minds.

心智的所有这些刻面（Facet），都要经过智性的内在交叉，智性的内在交叉，智力的内在交叉，以及意识的内在交叉，它记录念头、情绪和愿望的成色。心智的活动受到正面、负面和中性心智的影响，也可以通过理解它们而受到影响。

of thought, feeling and wishes. The minds activity is affected and can be affected through understanding the positive, negative and neutral minds.

念头、情绪和愿望的成色。心智的活动受到正面、负面和中性心智的影响，也可以通过理解它们而受到影响。

Characteristics of the negative mind are coping with threat, contending with accidents, registering a coincidence, relaying past memory, phases of mental projection, shadows of mental projection, deep memory of past projection, mental, mental intersection and mental outer projection.

负面心智的特征是应对威胁、对抗意外、记录巧合、传递过去的记忆、心智投射的各个阶段、心智投射的阴影、过去投射的深层记忆、心智的、心智的内在交叉和心智的外在投射。

Characteristics of the positive mind are, art of memorizing, creativity art of creating creativity, art of creating art, creating art through past memory, creating art by projecting into the future, pursuing the cycle of success, creating art through environmental effects, pursuing the cycle of artistic attributes, and pursuing the art of cohesiveness.

正面心智的特征是：记忆的艺术，创造创造力的艺术，创造艺术的艺术，通过过去的记忆创造艺术，通过投射到未来创造艺术，追求成功的循环，通过环境影响创造艺术，追求艺术属性的循环，以及追求凝聚力的艺术。

the cycle of success, creating art through environmental effects, pursuing the cycle of artistic attributes, and pursuing the art of cohesiveness.

成功的循环，通过环境影响创造艺术，追求艺术属性的循环，以及追求凝聚力的艺术。

Characteristics of the neutral mind are, judging positive environmental through intuition, judging environment, judging environment through the senses, assessing this of, assessment of success, interpretation of all facets of life, intuition, intuitive assessment of personality defects and intuitive assessment of personality, defects that need to be covered, assessment of personality and over projection that needs to be controlled. Try this practical exercise for the positive, negative and neutral minds, enter anything, into any situation, and think negatively. Do not let the subconscious, supported, negative minds sees the danger, that maybe present, and in any situation, it looks like...

中性心智的特征是：通过直觉判断正面的环境，判断环境，通过感官判断环境，评估这个，评估成功，解读生活的所有面向，直觉，对人格缺陷的直觉评估，以及对人格的直觉评估，需要被掩盖的缺陷，对人格的评估，以及需要被控制的过度投射。试试这个针对正面、负面和中性心智的练习，进入任何情境，往负面去想。不要让潜意识支持的负面心智看到危险，那危险可能存在，而在任何情境里，它看起来像……

YB: If you like to have this as printed for you. Give it to me.

YB：如果你想要这个印出来给你。把它交给我。

Student: It's beautiful, you need to read it couple times.

学生：它很美，你得读上几遍。

it looks like...

它看起来像……

YB: If you like to have this as printed for you. Give it to me.

YB：如果你想要这个印出来给你。把它交给我。

Student: It's beautiful, you need to read it couple times.

学生：它很美，你得读上几遍。

YB: All right, it's beautiful, I learned it when I was almost nine year old. Hey, what is in this few papers. It is by Yogi 'Bha-haan', you know what I mean. This will tell you in and out of your mind, how it works, what it does, how to deal with it, how to control it, how to use it and that is the only power you got. Your main power is your own mind. If your mind is subject under anything, and if the object of your life is that not to use creativity through your mind, you will be in trouble. So why should not we get it printed right, and give you like a handbook. Will that do.

YB：好吧，它很美，我学它的时候差不多九岁。嘿，这几页纸里是什么。这是 Yogi「Bha-haan」写的，你懂我的意思吧。它会告诉你心智的里里外外，它怎么运作，它做什么，怎么应对它，怎么控制它，怎么使用它，而那是你唯一拥有的力量。你主要的力量就是你自己的心智。如果你的心智受制于任何东西，如果你人生的目标不是通过你的心智去运用创造力，你就会陷入麻烦。那我们为什么不把它印出来，当作手册发给你们呢。这样行吗。

Students: Yes Sir.

学生们：好的，先生。

YB: This is the minimum you have to know, it's the basic alphabet. Beat him, beat him, beat him up, he deserves it. Professor. Would you come here and talk to these American students, you are from Russia, the professor (?) is the biggest Psychology known in the (?) world, he has come from Moscow to study, please give him a hand.

YB：这是你至少必须知道的，它是基本的字母表。打他，打他，揍他一顿，他活该。教授。你过来跟这些美国学生讲讲吧，你来自俄罗斯，这位教授（？）是（？）世界最著名的心理学（？），他从莫斯科来学习，请大家给他鼓个掌。

(Students clap)

（学生们鼓掌）

Among us, there is always one teacher at one time, so, feel free.

我们中间，任何时候总有一位老师，所以，随意吧。

world, he has come from Moscow to study, please give him a hand.

世界，他从莫斯科来学习，请给他鼓个掌。

(Students clap)

（学生们鼓掌）

Among us, there is always one teacher at one time, so, feel free.

在我们中间，任何时候总有一位老师，所以，放轻松。

Student: You must understand, though today I had my first class is in Kundalini Yoga, and I spent eight hours practicing, so you must...

学生：你得明白，虽然今天我上了我的第一堂昆达里尼瑜伽课，而且我花了 8 个小时练习，所以你必须……

YB: Sympathize with him and he has volunteered himself, give him a hand for that.

YB：同情他吧，他是自愿的，为这个给他鼓个掌。

(Students clap)

（学生们鼓掌）

Students: The main point is that, I am alive.

学生们：重点是，我还活着。

(YB and Students laugh)

（YB 和学生们大笑）

Well I am open to any of your questions, I enjoy this talk and I think it's a big thing, really that, you have such a camp, where you can discuss all these things, and from what I heard, I don't see that there is much difference, between the problems kids have in our country and you have here. Problem is with parents for not understanding, they don't want to understand that you have grownup, they still want you to be, you know, like small toys, you pick it up, you play with it and you put it aside. In my understanding children is the only purpose, for which the family should be created. This is the only one, and I agree that it is a big, responsibility and you must understand the (?)

好，我对你们的任何问题都敞开，我很享受这次谈话，我觉得这是件大事，真的，你们有这样的营地，可以讨论所有这些事情，而且据我所听到的，我看不出我们国家孩子的问题和你们这里的问题有多大区别。问题在于父母不理解，他们不想理解你们已经长大了，他们还想让你们，你知道，像小玩具一样，拿起来，玩一玩，然后放到一边。在我看来，孩子是家庭应该被创造出来的唯一目的。这是唯一的一个，我同意这是一份重大的责任，你们必须明白那个（？）

purpose, for which the family should be created. This is the only one, and I agree that it is a big, responsibility and you must understand the (?)

目的，家庭应该被创造出来的目的。这是唯一的一个，我同意这是一份重大的责任，你们必须明白那个（？）

, someday you will become parents too. I think, it's a great job you are doing here and some of you are very young, it's a good thing to come here and as I understand you come regularly.

，有一天你们也会成为父母。我觉得，你们在这里做的事很了不起，你们中有些人还很年轻，能来这里就是好事，据我了解你们是定期来的。

We will also have various camps, but these are, well, something like you have as boy Scout camps, and this is mainly for sports activities and other things, recreation, but we have nothing of the kind, where you could listen to wise people, who have life experience, good life experience, and who can teach you some simple truths, and as a Psychologist I can tell you, that if your man is to carry away with you from here, some ten percent, of what you have heard, it would be something great you know, because, you cannot have it all, you cannot memorize it, but if the time comes, then you remember it, and from your subconscious, certain very simple truths, that you will now don't understand even, and don't memorize, will spring up to your conscious and you will say that, I remember there was a day, when I heard something like this and it's a very precious

我们也会有各种营地，但这些，嗯，有点像你们有的童子军营地，主要是体育活动和其他事情，娱乐，但我们没有那种能让你聆听有智慧的人的地方，那些有生活经验、好的生活经验的人，他们能教你们一些简单的真理，而作为一名心理学家我可以告诉你们，如果你们能从这里带走你们所听到的百分之十，那就已经很了不起了，你知道，因为你不可能全部吸收，你不可能全部记住，但当时机到来时，你就会想起来，从你的潜意识里，某些非常简单的真理，那些你现在甚至都不理解、也不去记的真理，会涌上你的意识，你会说，我记得有那么一天，我听到过类似这样的话，那是非常珍贵的

will spring up to your conscious and you will say that, I remember there was a day, when I heard something like this and it's a very precious information, please ask questions.

它会涌进你的意识，你会说，我记得有那么一天，我听到过这样的话，这是非常珍贵的信息，请提问吧。

YB: Now, please feel free, ask him those question, you didn't ask me. I know you have them.

YB：现在，请随意，把那些你没问我的问题问他。我知道你们心里有。

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Russian Student: I don't, I don't see that, there is big difference, if you take middle class or if you take people who are living in the cities. There is a big difference all over the country because the country is multinational. There are one hundred twenty nationalities or ethnic groups, and if you go to the central Asia, it's the same as if you go to Iran or to Iraq or to Turkey, so, but basically, I think allover the world, the problem are the same.

俄罗斯学生：我不，我不觉得有什么大差别，不管你是看中产阶级，还是看住在城市里的人。整个国家差别很大，因为这个国家是多民族的。有一百二十个民族或族群，如果你去中亚，就跟去伊朗、伊拉克或土耳其一样，所以，但基本上，我觉得全世界的问题都一样。

the central Asia, it's the same as if you go to Iran or to Iraq or to Turkey, so, but basically, I think allover the world, the problem are the same.

中亚，就跟去伊朗、伊拉克或土耳其一样，所以，但基本上，我觉得全世界的问题都一样。

The difference is that, there are more, modern society, societies and more traditional societies, that's in traditional societies a family is, has the main authority, it's actually where individuals live for the family and family lives for the individual, but it's like, in an Army, there are very loving platoons in the Army, you know, there is a lot of friendship, but still it's platoon and it's an Army, and as I see the development of the Historical process, we are going towards more and more individual (?), nobody wants to take (?) and the only authority, that people accept all over the world, it's something which, bow, usually people, people call it God.

差别在于，有更多，现代社会，社会，和更多传统社会，在传统社会里，家庭是，拥有主要权威，实际上个人为家庭而活，家庭也为个人而活，但它就像，在军队里，军队里有非常友爱的排，你知道，有很多友谊，但它仍然是排，仍然是军队，而在我看来，历史进程的发展，我们正走向越来越多个体（？），没人愿意承担（？），而人们全世界唯一接受的权威，是某种，通常人们，人们称之为神的东西。

And if you have that, you have to face this authority, and you cannot shake this responsibility, if you take upon you the right to make your own decision, sooner, or later, you will have to answer the main question, what you have did with yourself, and with a life that I have given to you, even if you don't recognize any other authority.

如果你有那个，你就必须面对这个权威，你无法推卸这个责任，如果你承担起自己作决定的权利，迟早，你都必须回答那个主要问题，你把自己，把我给你的这一生，变成了什么，即使你不承认任何别的权威。

answer the main question, what you have did with yourself, and with a life that I have given to you, even if you don't recognize any other authority.

回答那个主要问题，你把自己，把我给你的这一生，变成了什么，即使你不承认任何别的权威。

Soon or later, you will come to those spiritual questions, and speaking about the difference, the difference maybe is that for several decades, in schools and everywhere the youth was taught, that everything can be explained by material forces, that is because, we have composed of Atoms and Molecules and Minerals and what not, and from the Biological point of view, you are nothing else but a chemical formula, but there is something more to it, and this something unfortunately was not well analyzed, and well taken into consideration.

迟早，你会遇到那些灵性问题，说到差别，差别也许在于，几十年来，在学校里、在各地，年轻人都被教导说，一切都能用物质力量来解释，那是因为我们由原子、分子、矿物质之类的东西组成，从生物学的角度看，你不过是一个化学公式，但这里面还有更多的东西，而这些东西不幸没有得到很好的分析，也没有得到很好的重视。

So the main difference is that there was a lot trouble, because people in the economic situation we have now, very often don't want to speak and to listen, to problem is about spirituality and (?)

所以主要的差别在于，过去有很多麻烦，因为在我们现在的经济状况下，人们常常不想说也不想聆听，问题在于灵性和（？）

trouble, because people in the economic situation we have now, very often don't want to speak and to listen, to problem is about spirituality and (?)

麻烦，因为在我们现在的经济状况下，人们常常不想说也不想聆听，问题在于灵性和（？）

they say, 'first of all we need bread,' and I am trying to explain to them that, there are countries where they have a lot of bread, and there are rich and unfortunate people, it's very hard to understand, they say, 'how come you have a car, you have a house, you have everything, you can travel, how can you be unhappy,' they cannot believe it, but I saw many unhappy people here in the United States and in Europe too, who have everything material, but they don't have something, which you have got here, and I don't think that in some, there are many classes in America, many students and many teenagers, who are as unhappy, as our teenagers are.

他们说，「首先我们需要面包」，而我试着向他们解释，有些国家有很多面包，却也有富有而不幸的人，这很难理解，他们说，「你怎么会有车、有房子、什么都有，还能旅行，你怎么会不快乐」，他们无法相信，但我在美国这里、在欧洲也见过许多不快乐的人，他们拥有一切物质的东西，却没有某种你在这里得到的东西，而且我不认为在某个……在美国有很多班级、很多学生、很多青少年，像我们的青少年一样不快乐。

I think that there is about, that this is probably the main difference as to the education, I think that, both countries have to change their educational systems.

我认为大约有，这大概就是教育方面的主要差别，我认为，两个国家都必须改变它们的教育体系。

there is about, that this is probably the main difference as to the education, I think that, both countries have to change their educational systems.

大约有，这大概就是教育方面的主要差别，我认为，两个国家都必须改变它们的教育体系。

The difference, is also between our countries is that you have private and public education, that you can go and pay big money and get better education, we don't have anything of this type, but it doesn't feel that we don't have, flaws differences and differentiation, you know there is a very good saying that, all animals are equal but some of them are more equal, it's from famous animal forum and this being applied to, to the countries which are, very proud of their equal rights, some of the people are more equal and some of them are sending their children abroad to the best colleges and universities, I mean some people in our country, but I would also to say that, as I see it, we are all converging, we are all transforming, all of us, all the human race, is transforming in to one big country.

差别还在于我们两国的教育制度不同，你们有私立和公立教育，你可以花大钱去得到更好的教育，我们完全没有这一类东西，但感觉上我们并不缺什么，缺陷、差异和区分，你知道有句很好的话，所有动物都是平等的，但有些动物更平等，这出自那本著名的动物论坛，这话也适用于那些，非常以自己的平等权利为傲的国家，有些人更平等，有些人把孩子送到国外最好的学院和大学，我是说我们国家的一些人，但我也想说的是，在我看来，我们都在汇聚，我们都在转变，我们所有人，全人类，都在转变成为一个大国。

also to say that, as I see it, we are all converging, we are all transforming, all of us, all the human race, is transforming in to one big country.

我也想说的是，在我看来，我们都在汇聚，我们都在转变，我们所有人，全人类，都在转变成为一个大国。

I don't hope that I'll live up to moment, when there will be no (?) no (?), but I think you maybe you will see it and you have to be ready for one simple fact, that human beings are everywhere, are the same, have the same basic foundations, which is spirituality, moral and ethic. I envy you. Any other questions.

我不指望自己能活到那一刻，那时不再有（？）不再有（？），但我想也许你会看到它，你必须为一个简单的事实做好准备，人类无论在哪里，都是一样的，有着同样的基本根基，那就是灵性、道德和伦理。我羡慕你。还有别的问题吗。

Why are you so, why are you so shy, you know I have, I taught several classes here, and one I was, once I was, so attacked by, attacked I mean on the positive sense, they bombarded me with questions of all types, I must..

你为什么这么，你为什么这么害羞，你知道我在这里教过好几个班，有一次我，有一次我，被如此攻击，我是说正面意义上的攻击，他们用各种问题轰炸我，我必须……

YB: They know too much doctor.

YB：他们知道得太多了，博士。

Russian Student: I have, yeah, this is what I wanted to say that, I arrive at a conclusion or either you know everything already.

俄罗斯学生：我有，对，这就是我想说的，我得出一个结论，要么就是你们已经什么都知道了。

YB: Yeah, they are, they are finding one difficulty, answer my question.

YB：对，他们，他们正遇到一个困难，回答我的问题。

(Russian student laughs)

（俄罗斯学生笑）

conclusion or either you know everything already.

结论，要么就是你们已经什么都知道了。

YB: Yeah, they are, they are finding one difficulty, answer my question.

YB：对，他们，他们正遇到一个困难，回答我的问题。

(Russian student laughs)

（俄罗斯学生笑）

They know everything, but they are having a difficulty, quite how to implement it. They are not normal kid, they have been raised with lot of wisdom, love and affection, but they do not know how, how to walk about, that's the main, isn't that a question, yes or no.

他们什么都知道，但他们有一个困难，就是到底该怎么把它落实。他们不是普通的孩子，他们是被大量的智慧、爱和深情养大的，但他们不知道该怎么，该怎么走路，这才是关键，这不就是个问题吗，是还是不是。

Students: Yes Sir.

学生们：是的，先生。

Russian Student: Well I think, the answer you know too, to practice.

俄罗斯学生：嗯，我想，答案你也知道，就是去练习。

(YB laughs)

（YB 笑）

To learn from your experience. Any knowledge taken from anywhere, from books or from, living world, is just one more piece of information, you have to go and to apply and find out for yourself, you have a different personality profile, what is good for some, someone, may not be good for you or not good to the extent, to the degree that is good for the other person, just go and apply, leave it, one more simple truth, which you know to. May I ask you one question?

从你的经验里学习。任何从别处得来的知识，从书本里，或者从活生生的世界里得来的，都只是又多了一条信息，你必须去应用，自己去发现，你有不同的人格特质，对某些人、某个人好的，对你可能不好，或者好的程度不一样，达不到对另一个人好的那种程度，你就去应用，放下它，还有一条简单的真理，你也知道。我能问你一个问题吗？

YB: Yeah, now it is their turn.

YB：好，现在轮到他们了。

Russian Student: Do any of you have, eastern European origin, maybe some grandparents, from Russia or from Europe, raise your hands please.

俄罗斯学生：你们当中谁有东欧血统，也许有祖父母来自俄罗斯或欧洲的，请举手。

turn.

轮到。

Russian Student: Do any of you have, eastern European origin, maybe some grandparents, from Russia or from Europe, raise your hands please.

俄罗斯学生：你们当中谁有东欧血统，也许有祖父母来自俄罗斯或欧洲的，请举手。

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Russian Student: Yeah.

俄罗斯学生：对。

YB: Yeah, there are lot.

YB：对，有很多。

Russian Student: I meet very often people, who will have some background from Russia or the eastern European countries.

俄罗斯学生：我经常遇到有俄罗斯或东欧国家背景的人。

YB: Some of them may have Russian background too.

YB：他们当中有些人可能也有俄罗斯背景。

Russian Student: Yeah.

俄罗斯学生：对。

YB: Grandparent at least, how many of you have one way or the other, Russian background, Ah pretty good.

YB：至少祖父母一辈，你们当中有多少人有这样或那样的俄罗斯背景，啊，相当多。

Russian Student: Okay. Well that's it.

俄罗斯学生：好。就这样。

YB: Oh, huh, oh, huh, oh, huh, oh hah.

YB：哦，哈，哦，哈，哦，哈，哦，哈。

Russian Student: Well Thank you.

俄罗斯学生：好，谢谢你。

Students: Thank you.

学生们：谢谢。

(Student claps)

（学生鼓掌）

YB: (?) have fun. Come on you adults. Oh, there is a invitation. Guru Jyoth Kaur, at her Trailer have a ice cream, cookies and everything as a party. (?) Guru Jyoth Singh and Kaur, you are all cordially invited and this way is the way and if you get out of the ranch, any where, you can't re-enter, well this is the way it is.

YB：（？）玩得开心。来吧，你们这些大人。哦，有个邀请。Guru Jyoth Kaur，在她的房车那里有冰淇淋、饼干，什么都有，像个派对。（？）Guru Jyoth Singh 和 Kaur，诚挚邀请你们所有人，走这条路就是走这条路，如果你出了庄园，不管从哪里出去，就不能再进来了，事情就是这样。

Hey you don't want to goof on ice cream.

嘿，你不想错过冰淇淋吧。

Students: No.

学生们：不想。

and if you get out of the ranch, any where, you can't re-enter, well this is the way it is.

如果你出了庄园，不管从哪里出去，就不能再进来了，事情就是这样。

Hey you don't want to goof on ice cream.

嘿，你不想错过冰淇淋吧。

Students: No.

学生们：不想。

YB: All the way, ice cream serve, another. I can give you the example, come on, come on, you want to know what's going on there.

YB：一路都有，冰淇淋供应，还有别的。我可以给你举个例子，来吧，来吧，你想知道那边在干什么。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Folks, it... is... (?) to it now.

各位，它……是……（？）现在到它了。

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