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Hey I don't eat people, come near, I can't yell all the way down there. Well, we wanted to create a little family situation. Come here. Come, come, come, come. Hey it is pretty cold, isn't it? It's shady or you are in trouble? Okay now what we are going to talk about is not important for me to talk about. I have lived this age. What is important about is in this time what I am saying is very important for you. Not that I am your guide, spiritual, mental, physical whatever. That doesn't make difference. Life! Today you are studying with me; I am father of humanology, science to be human. Includes everything.
嘿，我不吃人，靠近点，我没法一路喊到下面去。好吧，我们想营造一点家庭的氛围。过来。来，来，来，来。嘿，挺冷的，是不是？是阴凉，还是你有麻烦了？好，现在我们要谈的，对我来说并不重要。我这个年纪已经活过了。重要的是，在这个时代，我说的对你们非常重要。不是说我是你们的导师——灵性上的、心理上的、身体上的，随便什么。那不重要。是生活！今天你们跟我一起学习；我是人类学之父，做人的科学。它包含一切。
There is a fundamental rule, there is a cause and effect, there is a sequence and consequence you cannot change. For example, you are teenager, you ought to be horny, admit it. You ought to be sexy, admit it.
有一条根本法则，有因就有果，有先后就有后果，你改变不了。比如，你是青少年，你就该有性冲动，承认吧。你就该性感，承认吧。
there is a sequence and consequence you cannot change. For example, you are teenager, you ought to be horny, admit it. You ought to be sexy, admit it.
有先后就有后果，你改变不了。比如，你是青少年，你就该有性冲动，承认吧。你就该性感，承认吧。
You will like to have an intercourse out of sheer blindness of your experience. Perfectly you will like to lose virginity as young girl. Certainly you will menstruate. Definitely you will grow your breast. For men, it's positively they grow their beard whether they like it or not. It's positively the circumstances of projection will be different than their basic values. We understand that. It's not that you are more sexy than we were not. It's not that your BS is not known to us as you think. The problem is you have a X amount of energy, uno energy. Either to take this energy, make your life comfortable, wonderful, successful or not take this energy and go down the hill.
你会想发生性关系，纯粹是因为你对经验一无所知。你完全会想，年纪轻轻就失去童贞。你当然会来月经。你肯定会乳房发育。对男人来说，他们肯定会长胡子，不管他们喜不喜欢。他们的投射环境肯定和他们的基本价值观不一样。我们明白这一点。不是说你们比我们当年更性感。不是说你们那点小把戏我们不知道，像你们以为的那样。问题是你有 X 量的能量，一份能量。要么拿这份能量，让你的生活舒适、精彩、成功，要么不拿这份能量，一路滑下坡。
You sometime say we are interfering with you, we are not interfering.
你们有时说我们在干涉你们，我们没有干涉。
wonderful, successful or not take this energy and go down the hill.
精彩、成功，要么不拿这份能量，一路滑下坡。
You sometime say we are interfering with you, we are not interfering.
你们有时说我们在干涉你们，我们没有干涉。
We read a meter; we can sit in a remote control and can know exactly about you who is going to fall apart and who is going to make it. Because your car tank can have only that many gallons. Each gallon can make that many miles and that many miles can cover that much distance. Give and take. Now your life is young, you are teenager. There is a miles in life you have to cover, whether you can make perfectly maximum miles out of your take you can take maximum mileage out of life or you will not. If you are not to take the maximum mileage of your life you don't belong to Sikh Dharma. That's where the problem is.
我们读一个仪表；我们可以坐在遥控器前，就能准确知道你们谁要垮掉，谁能成。因为你的车油箱只能装那么多加仑。每一加仑能跑那么多英里，那么多英里能覆盖那么远的距离。有给有取。现在你的生命还年轻，你是青少年。生命里有英里数要你走完，你能不能从你的所得里跑出最完美的最大英里数，你能不能从生命里跑出最大里程，还是不能。如果你不能从生命里跑出最大里程，你就不属于锡克正法。问题就在这儿。
out of life or you will not. If you are not to take the maximum mileage of your life you don't belong to Sikh Dharma. That's where the problem is.
从生活中榨取最大的价值，否则你就不会。如果你不打算把这一生的价值用到极致，你就不属于锡克正法。问题就出在这里。
Problem with us and with normal people is simple. Excellence is our start, excellence is their goal. Thus we differ. We are not putting down anybody. You have your emotional problems right now, you want to relate to each other, you want to talk to each other, your base is on friends. You have friends here in the palm of your hand. You have your Id, your existence, you have your Jupiter, your personality, you have your Saturn, social environmental life, you have your Sun line your professional life, and you have your Mercury your art and the science of your communication. If these friends are not yours and anyone is missing, your life is missing a gap, it will all spill through that.
我们和普通人的问题很简单。卓越是我们的起点，卓越是他们的目标。所以我们不同。我们不是在贬低任何人。你们现在有自己的情绪问题，你们想彼此建立关系，你们想彼此交谈，你们的根基在朋友身上。你们的朋友就在这里，在你们的手掌心里。你有你的本我，你的存在，你有你的木星，你的人格，你有你的土星，你的社会与环境生活，你有你的太阳线，你的职业生活，你有你的水星，你的艺术与沟通的科学。如果这些朋友不属于你，缺了任何一个，你的生命就缺了一个缺口，一切都会从那里漏出去。
the science of your communication. If these friends are not yours and anyone is missing, your life is missing a gap, it will all spill through that.
你的沟通的科学。如果这些朋友不属于你，缺了任何一个，你的生命就缺了一个缺口，一切都会从那里漏出去。
So you have to understand, we are not interested, I am not going to marry anybody of you. But one day you have to marry, do you know the art of marriage? Do you understand the science of it? Do you understand the analysis of your personality? Do you understand your sexual, sensual, physical, biological, psychological, mental, projective, realistic, reactive, all things taken together, you can't even pronounce all these things I have pronounced. You can't even repeat these words in one line. But this is your life and you have to decide it. I can't decide it for you but on the other hand I am not willing to even cover your gaps.
所以你必须明白，我们没兴趣，我不会把你们任何人嫁出去。但有一天你必须结婚，你知道婚姻的艺术吗？你懂它的科学吗？你懂对你人格的分析吗？你懂你的性、感官、身体、生物、心理、心智、投射、现实、反应，这一切加在一起，你连我刚刚念出的这些词都念不出来。你连把这些词排成一行重复一遍都做不到。但这是你的生命，你必须自己决定。我无法替你决定，但另一方面，我甚至不愿意替你补上那些缺口。
one line. But this is your life and you have to decide it. I can't decide it for you but on the other hand I am not willing to even cover your gaps.
一行。但这是你的生命，你必须自己决定。我无法替你决定，但另一方面，我甚至不愿意替你补上那些缺口。
That's why one line I said to all the boys and girls, spread your wings so you can reach your heights, don't spread your legs, that will result in nothing. And we are very open and honest and straightforward, many of you are very dishonest. It is your dishonesty not towards yourself; it's your dishonesty not knowing yourself. Your dishonesty totally doesn't affect me. If I find out somebody is not communicating with me, I say okay avoid it, what do I lose? You have to fundamentally understand you have to learn and you have to learn anywhere and everywhere you can get it. Learning is for you, learning is not for me. Learning is not for us; learning is for each one of us.
所以我对所有男孩和女孩说过一句话：展开你的翅膀，这样你才能达到你的高度；不要张开你的双腿，那不会带来任何结果。我们非常开放、诚实、直率，你们很多人却很不诚实。你的不诚实不是对你自己不诚实，是你的不诚实，因为你并不认识你自己。你的不诚实完全不影响我。如果我发现有人不跟我沟通，我就说好吧，避开它，我损失了什么？你必须从根本上明白，你必须学习，你必须在任何能得到它的地方、任何地方学习。学习是为了你，学习不是为了我。学习不是为了我们，学习是为了我们每一个人。
to learn anywhere and everywhere you can get it. Learning is for you, learning is not for me. Learning is not for us; learning is for each one of us.
在任何地方、任何你能得到它的地方去学习。学习是为了你，学习不是为了我。学习不是为了我们；学习是为了我们每一个人。
A Sikh means who is willing to learn and is learned. Live by learning is called a Sikh. It became a religion by... I don't know what for. The process is that one God created the creation, but created one as a unique one. It is the uniqueness of an individual, which is at stake. You are not problem to us, whether you are blonde or brunette, whether you are sexy or wrong, whether you do everything in the world or you do nothing, it doesn't bother us. You are wrong to think we are your police. No, we are your projection; there is a difference between a police and projection. We can plan for you. We can give you the pros and cons and we ask you to decide.
一个锡克（Sikh）意味着愿意学习并且已经学有所成。以学习为生就叫锡克。它变成了一种宗教，是因为……我不知道是为了什么。这个过程是：一个神创造了创造物，但把每一个都创造成独一无二的。处在危险中的，正是个体的这种独一无二。你对我们来说不是问题，不管你是金发还是深色头发，不管你是性感还是不对，不管你做遍世上所有的事还是什么都不做，都不困扰我们。你认为我们是你的警察，这是错的。不，我们是你的投射；警察和投射之间是有区别的。我们可以为你做计划。我们可以把利与弊都告诉你，然后请你来决定。
But are you willing to learn for your sake, your life? That's the main question.
但你愿意为了你自己、为了你的生命去学习吗？这才是主要的问题。
for you. We can give you the pros and cons and we ask you to decide.
为了你。我们可以把利与弊都告诉你，然后请你来决定。
But are you willing to learn for your sake, your life? That's the main question.
但你愿意为了你自己、为了你的生命去学习吗？这才是主要的问题。
If we want to police you, we have to put you in cage, nobody can afford it. That's not proper either. Are you willing to put yourself in a discipline that you are not taken advantage of? Are you willing to plan your life that there is no sorrow in your tomorrow? Are you willing enough to be realistic? Do you know who you are? Do you know you have physical biorhythm? None, I know. Do you have your thought and thought expansion? No.
如果我们想管着你，我们就得把你关进笼子里，没人受得了。那也不合适。你愿意把自己放进一种纪律里，让自己不被人占便宜吗？你愿意规划你的生活，让你的明天没有悲伤吗？你愿意足够现实吗？你知道你是谁吗？你知道你有身体的生物节律吗？没有，我知道。你有你的念头和念头的扩展吗？没有。
Do you have your intuitive sense to identify yourself that you induce, deduce and you investigate and deduct and you calculate and you take pros and con and cost effectiveness and the sequence and consequences and the help available and the cover and the action and reaction of that? And how much mileage you can get successfully where you need a help and how far in every thought? Have you trained yourself with that?
你有你的直觉去认出你自己吗——你归纳、演绎，你调查、推断，你计算，你权衡利与弊、成本效益、顺序与后果、可得的帮助、掩护，以及那件事的行动与反应？还有，在每一个念头里，你能成功地走多远，在哪里你需要帮助，能走多远？你训练过自己这些吗？
of that? And how much mileage you can get successfully where you need a help and how far in every thought? Have you trained yourself with that?
那件事？还有，在每一个念头里，你能成功地走多远，在哪里你需要帮助，能走多远？你训练过自己这些吗？
So what is the idea being a disaster? So anybody who is little sharper, who can little bait you, who can little put you in a pit, will get away with you and then you cry I am sorry. There should be no word I am sorry, there should be no word excuse me, there should be no word please forgive me in your life, there should not be a time when you have to say that. You know when I say that? When I write off a person. That's the last word I speak to somebody, I am sorry, it's the will of God, thank you, good-bye.
那么，成为一场灾难是什么意思？就是任何比你精明一点、能稍微引诱你一下、能稍微把你推进坑里的人，都能把你骗过去，然后你哭着说对不起。你的生命里不该有「对不起」这个词，不该有「抱歉」这个词，不该有「请原谅我」这个词，不该有你必须说这些话的时候。你知道我什么时候说这种话吗？当我把一个人一笔勾销的时候。那是我对一个人说的最后一句话：对不起，这是神的意志，谢谢你，再见。
Is your life can be free of sorry, excuse me? Yes. Provided you organize the basic elementary life system. You have a basic life system? Have you have a basic blueprint of it? Have you thought how you will proceed, how you will achieve, how you will be going? These are certain questions, which your life is asking you. You know what you are doing? You are very funny kids.
你的生命能不能没有对不起、没有抱歉？能。只要你把最基本、最基础的生命系统组织好。你有基本的生活系统吗？你有它的基本蓝图吗？你想过你要怎么走、你要怎么达成、你要往哪里去吗？这些是某些问题，是你的生命在问你的。你知道你在做什么吗？你们是非常好笑的孩子。
will achieve, how you will be going? These are certain questions, which your life is asking you. You know what you are doing? You are very funny kids.
你要怎么达成、你要往哪里去？这些是某些问题，是你的生命在问你的。你知道你在做什么吗？你们是非常好笑的孩子。
You think you are parents, some you have, some you don't, some you have half parents, some you have three fourth, some you have spaced out, some are very grounded. Fine. Does that make difference? No. Because every tomorrow you are going towards your tomorrow. Your parents are going to their tomorrow. You are all running on different sides on different roads. You are not willing to accept it. All the help parents are doing in one way or the other so that you can choose your road and you successfully make it to the destiny. Between you and destiny there is a long distance. Whether you have gas enough to cover the mileage and whether you can take mileage or not.
你以为你是父母，有的你有，有的你没有，有的你有一半父母，有的你有四分之三，有的心不在焉，有的非常踏实。行。这有区别吗？没有。因为每一个明天你都在走向你的明天。你的父母在走向他们的明天。你们全都在不同的路上朝不同的方向跑。你不愿意接受这一点。父母用这样或那样的方式做的一切帮助，都是为了让你能选好自己的路，成功地走到天命那里。在你和天命之间有一段很长的距离。你有没有足够的油跑完这段里程，以及你能不能承受这段里程。
destiny. Between you and destiny there is a long distance. Whether you have gas enough to cover the mileage and whether you can take mileage or not.
天命。在你和天命之间有一段很长的距离。你有没有足够的油跑完这段里程，以及你能不能承受这段里程。
I tell you my own story, once I was caught in my jeep and I said, "Aa-aaa! We are on empty, it can go ten miles on empty, we have to have some gas left in it and the distance is fifteen miles. " Capacity of the car is ten miles, distance is fifteen miles, I can't take the risk. What you will do? Come on. You have gas only for ten miles. You have gas for ten miles, your meter shows you have gas for ten miles, you know the distance is fifteen miles. How you will make it? Haa?
我讲我自己的故事，有一次我的吉普车抛锚了，我说：「啊——啊！我们没油了，没油还能跑 10 英里，我们得留点油在里面，而距离是 15 英里。」车的容量是 10 英里，距离是 15 英里，我不能冒这个险。你会怎么做？来啊。你的油只够跑 10 英里。你的油够跑 10 英里，你的油表显示你的油够跑 10 英里，你知道距离是 15 英里。你怎么跑得到？哈？
Students: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Walk rest of the way, drive ten miles and then God will take care of it. Next? Come on, I want to see this is supreme intelligence of United States of America. Yeah?
YB：剩下的路走过去，开 10 英里，然后神会照管它。下一个？来吧，我想看看这就是美利坚合众国的至高智力。是吧？
Student: (-----)
学生：（-----）
and then God will take care of it. Next? Come on, I want to see this is supreme intelligence of United States of America. Yeah?
然后神会照管它。下一个？来吧，我想看看这就是美利坚合众国的至高智力。是吧？
Student: (-----)
学生：（-----）
YB: That's right, that's absolutely right. Drive in the highest gear fast, put in the neutral, let it roll, till it comes to the point give him a push, get it to the neutral, get it, you can always get twenty miles out of it. True. But that is where your intelligence comes in, that is where you have to work. Emotions are very good, feelings are good, thoughts are good but ultimately it's the thoughts, which kill you, every thought you don't have to ask for. You are telephoning behind me to somebody on my back; it means you are sitting here physically but you are not mentally attentive. You might be doing this all your life and that will be a handicap to start with.
YB：对，完全对。用最高挡快速开，挂空挡，让它滑行，直到快到那个点，推它一把，挂回空挡，再挂上，你总能多跑出 20 英里。真的。但正是在那里，你的智力才派上用场，正是在那里，你必须下功夫。情绪很好，感受很好，念头很好，但最终是念头把你害死，每一个念头你都不必去求它。你在我背后给我后面的某个人打电话；这意味着你人坐在这里，但心智没有专注。你可能一辈子都这样，那一开始就会是个障碍。
Being not attentive is not bothering anybody. It's just missing your opportunity for your tomorrow. You know it's called rustic behavior.
不专注并不打扰任何人。它只是让你错过明天的机会。你知道，这叫做粗野的行为。
start with.
一开始。
Being not attentive is not bothering anybody. It's just missing your opportunity for your tomorrow. You know it's called rustic behavior.
不专注并不打扰任何人。它只是让你错过明天的机会。你知道，这叫做粗野的行为。
Indiscipline in a company where you have come to learn is a rustic behavior. This is a class, you have come here for your betterment, for you being students and if you cannot professionally show you are students and you are not attentive, you will learn nothing. Why to waste time, why don't you go to Santa Fe and screw yourself? If that is the way you want to learn in life and that's what you think life is all about and that you care for your life and that's all your value is about life then it is useless. Why not to admit it? That is what a teenager can do.
在你来学习的团体里不守纪律，就是粗野的行为。这是一堂课，你来这里是为了让自己变得更好，因为你是学生，如果你不能专业地表现出你是学生，而且你不专注，你就什么也学不到。为什么要浪费时间，你为什么不去圣达菲把自己搞烂？如果那就是你想在生活中学习的方式，如果那就是你认为生活的全部，如果你在乎你的生活，如果你对生活的全部价值就只是那样，那它就没用。为什么不承认呢？这正是青少年能做的事。
Life starts at thirteen, fourteen, fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, nineteen, after nineteen you think you are not going to be teenager, you are wrong.
人生从 13、14、15、16、17、18、19 岁开始，19 岁以后你以为自己不再是青少年了，你错了。
at thirteen, fourteen, fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, nineteen, after nineteen you think you are not going to be teenager, you are wrong.
13、14、15、16、17、18、19 岁，19 岁以后你以为自己不再是青少年了，你错了。
The child in you is never going to die, the teenager in you is never going to die, the grown up in you is not going to die, the adult is not going to die, ultimately you have to die. It only one becomes the basic, others takeover. One becomes the basic, other takeover. The basic is not right, takeover will not be right. That's where your parents have failed to teach you. They cater your emotion, not your character. That's where you have gone spoiled, that's where you are gone rotten. That's where your parents have messed it up. As I as a teacher gave them the basic character values, if they should have passed those character to children, you would have been teaching today than learning.
你内在的孩子永远不会死，你内在的少年永远不会死，你内在的长大的人不会死，成年人不会死，最终你都得死。只是其中一个成为基础，其他的接管。一个成为基础，其他接管。基础不对，接管就不会对。这就是你父母没能教你的地方。他们迎合的是你的情绪，不是你的品格。你就是在这里被惯坏的，你就是在这里烂掉的。你就是在这里被父母搞砸的。作为老师，我给了他们基本的品格价值，如果他们把这些品格传给了孩子，你们今天就该是在教别人，而不是在学。
That's the whole mess is. If wealth is gone, nothing is gone. Health is gone, something is gone. Once a character is gone, everything is gone. And if you have not built in your first eleven years the character values and then you have covered it with teenage values, you won't make it.
整个乱局就在这里。财富没了，什么都没没。健康没了，有些东西没了。一旦品格没了，一切都没了。如果你在头 11 年里没有建立起品格价值，然后又用青少年的价值观把它盖住，你就成不了。
gone. And if you have not built in your first eleven years the character values and then you have covered it with teenage values, you won't make it.
没了。如果你在头 11 年里没有建立起品格价值，然后又用青少年的价值观把它盖住，你就成不了。
You must understand your basic value is where you stand as a foundation. Whatever you are building on that foundation is simply a coincidence. And if there is a weak foundation, then cracks will show up. That is my study children. My working with you is based on that idea. I am only working you... I think this is second or third year? Second year. I was not with you, I thought your parents will take care of you; they will give you all the values. Then I found out it's not true. That's why this class is all about to tell you your fundamental basic values and if the foundation have to be covered it should be covered. If something has to be done it can be done. This is a chance in teenage.
你必须明白，你的基本价值就是你立足的地基。你在这个地基上盖什么，都只是碰巧。如果地基是弱的，裂缝就会冒出来。孩子们，这就是我的研究。我和你们一起做的工作就建立在这个想法上。我只是在带你们……我想这是第 2 年还是第 3 年？第 2 年。我之前没和你们在一起，我以为你们的父母会照顾你们；他们会把所有的价值都给你们。后来我发现不是这样。所以这堂课就是要告诉你们，你们根本的基本价值是什么，如果地基需要补，就该补。如果有事要做，就能做。这是青少年时期的一个机会。
basic values and if the foundation have to be covered it should be covered. If something has to be done it can be done. This is a chance in teenage.
基本价值，如果地基需要补，就该补。如果有事要做，就能做。这是青少年时期的一个机会。
After eighteen years if you have missed a basic value at seven, and you have not developed your conscious character, if at eleven years you have missed not to project your intelligence profile, if in eighteen years you have not going to correct these and walk into the life, rest of the life you are just on paining neck of your own. Do you understand that? No, you don't even want to understand. Tell me what you understand what I have said so for? You are so interested in you, you want a good husband, good money, good job, somebody is telling me they want to be president, somebody is going to be... God knows what you want to be. Do you know who you are first?
十八年之后，如果你在七岁时漏掉了一个基本价值，没有培养出有意识的品格，如果十一岁时你没能投射出你的智力轮廓，如果十八年里你都没去纠正这些就走进生活，那余生你只是在给自己找罪受。你明白吗？不，你根本不想明白。告诉我，到现在为止，你对我说的理解了什么？你太关注自己了，你想要个好丈夫、好钱、好工作，有人跟我说想当总统，有人要成为……天知道你想成为什么。你先知道自己是谁吗？
Do you understand you deserve and then desire, not desire and deserve nothing? I am asking you a question. What do you understand what I have said.
你明白吗，你先配得上，再去渴望，而不是先渴望却什么都不配？我在问你一个问题。你对我说的理解了什么。
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you deserve and then desire, not desire and deserve nothing? I am asking you a question. What do you understand what I have said.
你先配得上，再去渴望，而不是先渴望却什么都不配？我在问你一个问题。你对我说的理解了什么。
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YB: No, no, you are sitting in front line, is there somebody old (?) past, those who have been massaging each other somebody give me the answer? That's what they put a teacher on a high pedestal so that he can look at everybody. Fortunately God made me a teacher made me so long I can look anyway. Have you understood what I have said? Can anybody stand up and sum it up? Save them, they are not interested, you get up. Up, up. Oh give them at least a hope that they can sum up everything, good or bad doesn't matter. What did we say? What you say... what I said what you learn in teenage language, repeat it. Forget what I say. Turn them around and lecture them as I did.
YB：不，不，你坐在前排，有没有年纪大一点的（？）过来人，那些互相按摩过的人，谁来给我个答案？他们就是把老师放在高台上，好让他能看见所有人。幸好神把我造成老师，把我造得这么高，我怎么都能看见。你明白我说的话了吗？谁能站起来总结一下？救救他们吧，他们没兴趣，你起来。起来，起来。哦，至少给他们一点希望，让他们能总结一切，好坏都无所谓。我们说了什么？你说……我说了什么，你用青少年的语言学到了什么，重复一遍。别管我说了什么。把他们转过来，像我那样给他们讲课。
Yeah, yeah, speak to them in the language, they understand the slang. Loud, we will have a microphone tomorrow, don't worry.
对，对，用他们听得懂的语言跟他们说，用他们的俚语。大声点，我们明天会有麦克风，别担心。
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YB: Whatever you understood express it.
YB：你理解了什么就表达出来。
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the slang. Loud, we will have a microphone tomorrow, don't worry.
用他们的俚语。大声点，我们明天会有麦克风，别担心。
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YB: Whatever you understood express it.
YB：你理解了什么就表达出来。
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YB: Learn it yourself. First eighteen years you have to have a projective life in which you have to have a corrective foundation and if foundation is not right correct it now, after eighteen it will be no good. Yeah.
YB：你自己去学。头十八年你必须有一种投射性的生活，在其中你必须有一个矫正性的基础，如果基础不对，现在就纠正，十八岁以后就没用了。嗯。
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YB: Oh, how can I say that? With each parent the time and amount I spend I could have made twenty-two million dollars a year free, tax-free even, all taxes paid if I would not have been a yogi, if I would have professionally doing what I was doing with each one I could have made tons of money maybe internationally popular and all that but I chose to work with every individual and correct them. The workload was above two thousand times more than ordinary person can understand. But that was the age that was the era I had to work with their parents.
YB：哦，我怎么说呢？对每一位父母，我花的时间和精力，如果我不是一个瑜伽士，如果我按专业去做我为每个人做的事，我本可以每年白赚两千两百万美元，还免税，所有税都付清，我本可以赚大把的钱，也许还国际闻名，诸如此类，但我选择去跟每一个人工作，纠正他们。这个工作量比普通人能理解的要大两千倍以上。但那就是那个年代，那个时代，我必须跟他们的父母工作。
was above two thousand times more than ordinary person can understand. But that was the age that was the era I had to work with their parents.
比普通人能理解的要大两千倍以上。但那就是那个年代，那个时代，我必须跟他们的父母工作。
And many did not survive but some are those who survived my concept was that they will give it to their children because they learnt from me, there was nothing wrong in that but they didn't and now I cannot depend on the parents, because they are in middle-age crisis themself. I don't know what to do with them. So last year I think we started talking with the teenagers ourself. That's what it is.
很多人没撑过来，但有些撑过来的人，我的想法是他们会把从我这里学到的传给孩子，这本身没什么错，但他们没有，现在我不能指望父母了，因为他们自己正处在中年危机里。我不知道拿他们怎么办。所以去年我想我们开始直接跟青少年谈话了。就是这样。
I have seen mother, there is a tragedy among all these kids. When a mother does not challenge a child and father does not give the alternative you ruin the child right there in your own house. That's a law, which I can't change. That's a biological law of expansion. And when a child gets the mother and father emotionally in their hand, they think they got the universe, when they go away then mother and father is not there, all is left the mother Earth and fatherly heavens, they can't handle that because they don't have a expansion. These children are very intelligent.
我见过母亲，所有这些孩子身上都有一场悲剧。当母亲不去挑战孩子，父亲不给另一个选择，你就在自己家里把孩子毁了。这是一条法则，我改变不了。这是生长的生物法则。当孩子在情绪上把母亲和父亲握在手里，他们以为自己得到了整个宇宙，等他们走出去，母亲和父亲不在了，只剩下大地母亲和父亲般的天堂，他们应付不了，因为他们没有生长。这些孩子非常聪明。
all is left the mother Earth and fatherly heavens, they can't handle that because they don't have a expansion. These children are very intelligent. They are super children because majority of them should come through but those who will not come through is a pain.
只剩下大地母亲和父亲般的天堂，他们应付不了，因为他们没有生长。这些孩子非常聪明。他们是超级孩子，因为他们大多数人本该走过来，但那些走不过来的人，是一种痛。
That's why we tried to gather this gathering. We know where the fault has been. I thought every parent will do for their children best and they did. But they forgot one thing; children have their own emotions.
这就是为什么我们试着办这次聚会。我们知道错在哪里。我以为每位父母都会为孩子做到最好，他们也做到了。但他们忘了一件事：孩子有自己的情绪。
When children emotions and parent's emotion get together disaster happens, rejection happens. When the two polarities of the same meet together, rejection happens and that's why some are depressed, some are rejected, some are not feeling good, some do not know where the right is where wrong is, otherwise these kids should have all the knowledge even before somebody can give them knowledge. I am not saying that as a kid you don't have the right to fault. But when a fault takes the price be ready to pay for it. I am not asking you not to hide under wine and liquor, go ahead and drink it. See where it takes you.
当孩子的情绪和父母的情绪搅在一起，灾难就发生了，排斥就发生了。当同一个东西的两极碰在一起，排斥就发生了，所以有些人抑郁，有些人被排斥，有些人感觉不好，有些人不知道哪里是对哪里是错，否则这些孩子早在别人能教他们知识之前就该拥有全部知识了。我不是说你还是个孩子就没有犯错的权利。但当错误要你付出代价时，就准备好去付。我不是叫你别躲在葡萄酒和烈酒底下，去喝吧。看看它会把你带到哪里。
a fault takes the price be ready to pay for it. I am not asking you not to hide under wine and liquor, go ahead and drink it. See where it takes you.
错误要你付出代价时，就准备好去付。我不是叫你别躲在葡萄酒和烈酒底下，去喝吧。看看它会把你带到哪里。
If you are so blind you can't read the national record, average marriage is nine year two days. Average income of a person is thirty percent handicap to pay all the bills. Six million young girls join the prostitution ring of the sales force in United States. Three million children leave home, never come back.
如果你瞎到连全国记录都读不了：平均婚姻是九年零两天。一个人的平均收入要付清所有账单还差百分之三十。美国有六百万年轻女孩加入销售大军的卖淫圈。三百万孩子离家，再也没回来。
We consume sixty percent of the entire drug of the world. We meet on average nationally twenty-seven men and women relationship before deciding the spouse. Sixty-two intercourses we do before we decide what a intercourse has or something or nothing. Every seven years our chemistry changes and our relation changes, we feel handicapped; we do not know how to socially adjust. These are our national defects. Are we going to push you into that pit? You know as individual you have X amount of energy right now. That will decrease, age will increase energy will decrease, so with this energy as much as height you can take that will be your flight. Life is not a aeroplane, it's a glider.
我们消耗掉全世界百分之六十的毒品。全国平均下来，我们在决定配偶之前要经历二十七段男女关系。我们要做六十二次性交，才决定一次性交到底有点什么，还是什么都没有。每七年我们的化学就变一次，我们的关系就变一次，我们觉得自己残废了；我们不知道怎么在社会上调整自己。这些是我们的全国性缺陷。我们要把你推进那个坑里吗？你知道，作为个人，你现在有 X 量的能量。它会减少，年龄会增加，能量会减少，所以用这点能量，你能爬多高，那就是你的飞行。人生不是飞机，它是滑翔机。
increase energy will decrease, so with this energy as much as height you can take that will be your flight. Life is not a aeroplane, it's a glider.
能量会增加，能量会减少，所以用这点能量，你能爬多高，那就是你的飞行。人生不是飞机，它是滑翔机。
Anybody knows how the glider runs? Yeah. Glider is a plane without any engine. So they take a very heavy-duty car, tug it up, run. And it takes a height; if it reaches the jet wind then you can glide around for happiness forever. But if it doesn't, in couple minutes you come down and sometime you come nose down. That's life.
有谁知道滑翔机是怎么跑的？对。滑翔机是一架没有引擎的飞机。所以他们用一辆很重型的车，把它拖上去，跑起来。它爬到一个高度；如果它碰到喷流风，你就可以永远滑翔，一直快乐。但如果碰不到，几分钟你就下来了，有时还是机头朝下栽下来。这就是人生。
Whatever available to you right now if you can take with that height and reach that level you will make it. Otherwise you won't. The idea here to discuss the basic, idea here is not to lecture you to be a Sikh. Idea here is not also to lecture you how to be a human. You look human; you are Sikhs better than me. But you are stupid and we don't want you to be stupid, that's the fight. Fight here is not who wins who loses. If you act not stupid and you win, it is our victory.
现在你能拿到什么，如果你能带着那样的高度去拿，达到那个层次，你就能成。否则你就成不了。这里要讨论的是根本的东西，这里不是要教训你去做一个锡克教徒。这里也不是要教训你怎么做人。你看起来像人；你们是锡克教徒，比我强。但你们很蠢，我们不想让你们蠢，这就是这场仗。这里的仗不是谁赢谁输。如果你不犯蠢，你赢了，那就是我们的胜利。
and we don't want you to be stupid, that's the fight. Fight here is not who wins who loses. If you act not stupid and you win, it is our victory.
我们不想让你们蠢，这就是这场仗。这里的仗不是谁赢谁输。如果你不犯蠢，你赢了，那就是我们的胜利。
And I tell you something very funny, which you will be shocked, by knowing all the values and then having all the values, earthly, physical, if mental values are not proportionate and conscious values are not proportionate, you will not be fulfilled. And that is what every person fails in.
我告诉你一件很好笑的事，你听了会震惊：当你懂了所有的价值，然后拥有了所有世俗的、物质的价值，如果心智的价值不成比例，意识的价值不成比例，你就不会满足。而这就是每个人失败的地方。
I have worked with your parents, I have tried to establish them, I have tried to analyze for them, I gave them the opportunities, I plan it for them, strategize for them, but I have not done one thing, I have not worked for anybody because I want they work and they experience. Similarly I'll not do work for you. I'll let you know if you work on certain principles how you can make it and I am not upset if you can't follow those principles. That's your handicap not mine. I don't believe anybody can face a disaster. I believe happiness is our birthright. I have been ruined three times in my life.
我跟你们的父母一起工作过，我试着帮他们立起来，我试着替他们分析，我给他们机会，我替他们规划，替他们定策略，但有一件事我没做，我没有替任何人干活，因为我要他们自己去干、自己去体验。同样，我也不会替你们干活。我会让你知道，如果你按某些原则去做，你怎么能成；如果你跟不上那些原则，我也不会难过。那是你的障碍，不是我的。我不相信有谁非得面对灾难。我相信快乐是我们与生俱来的权利。我这一生被毁过三次。
Three times in my life I never had a friend, never had a money, never had food, never had clothes and each time I was in foreign country.
我这一生有三次，没有朋友，没有钱，没有食物，没有衣服，每一次我都在异国他乡。
in my life.
我这一生。
Three times in my life I never had a friend, never had a money, never had food, never had clothes and each time I was in foreign country.
我这一生有三次，没有朋友，没有钱，没有食物，没有衣服，每一次我都在异国他乡。
Each time I rose to the highest. So I know the procedure, it's not my personal procedure. I learnt the values. You do certain things as teenager, you disassociate with yourself. You pretend and feel depressed. I don't know is your normal answer. Then lot of things you do. We even started this summer to take some of you to give you what we call it Elementary Education & Personality Course. Let you know what a chief executive is, let you know what a director is, let you know what a secretary is, let you know what a secretariat is, let you know what is what. You go to the college, stay there ten years, come back, you will learn the same things same way.
每一次我都升到了最高处。所以我知道这个过程，这不是我个人的过程。我学到了那些价值。你在青少年时期做某些事，你就跟自己脱节了。你假装，你感到抑郁。「我不知道」是你的标准答案。然后你会做很多事。我们今年夏天甚至开始带你们中的一些人，给你们上我们所说的基础教育和人格课程。让你知道什么是首席执行官，让你知道什么是董事，让你知道什么是秘书，让你知道什么是秘书处，让你知道什么是什么。你去上大学，在那儿待十年，回来，你会用同样的方式学到同样的东西。
I met a gentleman, he used to be a Sikh, he walked away. Today he has millions. He met me that day; I couldn't ask him to leave me because my thing was wet with tears. Then I called and talked I asked him, "Now you are very rich! "
我见过一位先生，他曾经是锡克教徒，后来走掉了。今天他有几百万。那天他来见我；我没法叫他离开我，因为我那东西被泪水打湿了。后来我打电话跟他聊，我问他：「现在你很有钱了！」
And he said very softly to me, "Life is a bitch to me. If I knew that richness will bring me this, I would have never become rich. "
他很轻柔地对我说：「生活对我来说是个婊子。如果我知道富有会给我带来这个，我永远不会变得富有。」
are very rich! "
很有钱了！」
And he said very softly to me, "Life is a bitch to me. If I knew that richness will bring me this, I would have never become rich. "
他很轻柔地对我说：「生活对我来说是个婊子。如果我知道富有会给我带来这个，我永远不会变得富有。」
Three things you cannot handle in life, youth, money, prestige. You require wisdom to handle it. You have a question!
人生中有三样东西你应付不了：青春、金钱、声望。你需要智慧才能应付它。你有问题！
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YB: Conscious value will bring you success, mental value will give you expansion, mental value is like a blueprint, mentally you make things. Mental values... there are three values you have to have at this spontaneous site. Physical, mental, and conscious. Conscious includes spiritual and intuition. That's why we never use the word spiritual. And if anybody of you do not develop that, you will always be a beggar. What I can do now, what this means, you know all those questions? You always will be asked. That's called beggar's living. We call it that is not a person, that's a beggar's bowl. You always ask, 'what I do next? ' If you don't ask a wise person or counselor, you ask a friend.
YB：意识的价值会带给你成功，心智的价值会给你扩展，心智的价值就像一张蓝图，你在心智上造出东西。心智的价值……在这个自发发生的当下，你必须具备三种价值。肉体、心智和意识。意识包含灵性和直觉。这就是为什么我们从不用「灵性」这个词。如果你们中任何人没有发展出那个，你永远都会是个乞丐。我现在能做什么，这是什么意思，你知道所有那些问题吗？你永远都会被问到。那叫乞丐的生活。我们管它叫——那不是一个人，那是一个乞丐的碗。你总是问：「我下一步做什么？」如果你不问一个智者或顾问，你就去问朋友。
If you can't get a friend, you will ask somebody. If you won't find a friend, you are going to find a horoscope.
如果你找不到朋友，你会去问某个人。如果你找不到朋友，你就会去找星座运势。
or counselor, you ask a friend.
或顾问，你就去问朋友。
If you can't get a friend, you will ask somebody. If you won't find a friend, you are going to find a horoscope.
如果你找不到朋友，你会去问某个人。如果你找不到朋友，你就会去找星座运势。
If that you go to a psychic, if that you go to astrologer, God knows where you are going to go. Whether you like it or not every moment has a sequence and every moment has consequences and you have to analyze. You can't get out of this pain. You have the right to start a sequence and you shall face the consequences but you can start a sequence, you don't want to face consequences, that's where the fight is all about. What I am telling you is that the only chance and choice you have to think, to plan and to work before sequence, there is no use supplying on the split milk. Consequences you have to face and they will never change. There are certain things you can't change in life.
如果你去找通灵者，如果你去找占星师，天知道你会去哪里。不管你喜不喜欢，每一刻都有它的顺序，每一刻都有它的后果，你必须去分析。你逃不出这份痛苦。你有权开启一个顺序，你就得面对后果，但你可以开启一个顺序，你不想面对后果，争斗就在那里。我要告诉你的是，你唯一的机会和选择，就是在顺序发生之前去思考、去计划、去行动，牛奶洒了再补没有用。后果你必须面对，它们永远不会改变。人生中有某些东西你改变不了。
You cannot have a commotional bursting behavior. You cannot walk into a pit unconsciously and then feel that you are going to be okay. You cannot fall in life and not be injured. You cannot take a bait and be sure there is no hook in it.
你不能有情绪爆发式的行为。你不能无意识地走进坑里，然后觉得自己会没事。你不能在人生中跌倒而不受伤。你不能咬下诱饵，还确信里面没有钩。
and then feel that you are going to be okay. You cannot fall in life and not be injured. You cannot take a bait and be sure there is no hook in it.
然后觉得自己会没事。你不能在人生中跌倒而不受伤。你不能咬下诱饵，还确信里面没有钩。
These are the fundamental consequences and sequence of life; life is nothing but to rule your own life. You have to be your own queen and princess of your life. King and monster of your life. If you don't rule your life, life will rule you. You have any idea? You have any idea your life is not within your control? Do you have any idea your own emotions are not in your control? You have any idea your feelings are no feelings, you have no feeling for you feeling, you only feel them and you start acting on them? If I feel awful and I start looking awful, which I am feeling right now, I am feeling awful but I am not looking awful. I am in the middle of a misery.
这就是人生的根本后果和次序；人生不是别的，就是管好你自己的人生。你必须做自己人生的女王和公主。做自己人生的国王和怪物。如果你不管好自己的人生，人生就会来管你。你有概念吗？你知道你的人生不在你掌控之中吗？你知道你自己的情绪不在你掌控之中吗？你知道你的感受根本不算感受，你对自己的感受没有感觉，你只是感觉到它们，然后就开始照着它们行动吗？如果我感觉糟透了，我就开始看起来糟透了——我现在正是这样，我感觉糟透了，但我看起来并不糟。我正处在一场痛苦之中。
I feel awful and I start looking awful, which I am feeling right now, I am feeling awful but I am not looking awful. I am in the middle of a misery.
我感觉糟透了，我就开始看起来糟透了——我现在正是这样，我感觉糟透了，但我看起来并不糟。我正处在一场痛苦之中。
I was handling it, then I looked at the time, I said, "Not after eleven thirty, twelve thirty. " So I walked out. Moment I go from here, I am going to handle it. Misery is not going to be less or more, it is there. People involved are not going to handle it. They have already done their best. Answer has to come. In your every life challenge will be on every moment and answer has to come. Your life fails when it has no answer. That's why I say, "Romance doesn't buy grocery and love doesn't cook it and sex doesn't serve it. "
我一直在处理它，然后我看了看时间，我说：「过了十一点半、十二点半就不行了。」于是我就走了出来。我一离开这里，就会去处理它。痛苦不会变少也不会变多，它就在那里。牵扯其中的人不会去处理它。他们已经尽了全力。答案必须出来。在你的人生里，每一刻都会有挑战，答案必须出来。你的人生失败，是因为它没有答案。所以我说：「浪漫买不来杂货，爱不会把它煮熟，性也不会把它端上来。」
to come. Your life fails when it has no answer. That's why I say, "Romance doesn't buy grocery and love doesn't cook it and sex doesn't serve it. "
答案必须出来。你的人生失败，是因为它没有答案。所以我说：「浪漫买不来杂货，爱不会把它煮熟，性也不会把它端上来。」
It's a very concluded idea. And as Guru Nanak said, "When you were child you wanted nothing but milk. Then you grew up little, then you wanted nothing but play with your relative, father, mother, relatives. Then you little grew up, you wanted food. Now you are in age where you want friends. After this friendship will be over, you want a career, after career will be over, you want to be settled. After settlement will be over you wanted the security, and that is the time all deficiency you have in life will fall on you and you look idiot to yourself. " That is self-condemnation starts. These are the trends, these are the steps you will go through them.
这是一个非常确定的观念。正如 Guru Nanak 所说：「当你还是孩子时，你只想要奶。然后你长大一点，你只想要和你的亲戚、父亲、母亲、亲戚玩耍。然后你又长大一点，你想要食物。现在你到了想要朋友的年纪。在这之后友谊会结束，你想要事业，事业结束后，你想要安定下来。安定下来之后你想要安全感，而那时候你生命中所有的匮乏都会落到你身上，你看着自己像个白痴。」那就是自我谴责的开始。这些是趋势，这些是你会经历的步骤。
fall on you and you look idiot to yourself. " That is self-condemnation starts. These are the trends, these are the steps you will go through them.
落到你身上，你看着自己像个白痴。」那就是自我谴责的开始。这些是趋势，这些是你会经历的步骤。
So this summer we will work on the elementary person, not the emotional, the consequential. We will not work on the resultant. Because if the elementary habits, basic thoughts and projections are weak, foundation is weak. And if you say my child is over, now I am free, I can be great, no. That's the base. Base will never change. Wrong foundation will guarantee you wrong building. Therefore please understand elementary value. Now tell me what do you mean by elementary value. You have heard word "elementary value" you are all very happy, what do you mean by elementary value?
所以这个夏天我们要处理的是基本的人，不是情绪的、后果的。我们不会处理结果。因为如果基本习惯、基本念头和投射是弱的，基础就是弱的。如果你说我的孩子已经结束了，现在我自由了，我可以很棒，不。那是基础。基础永远不会改变。错误的基础保证你会盖出错误的建筑。所以请理解基本价值。现在告诉我，你说的基本价值是什么意思。你听过「基本价值」这个词，你们都很高兴，你说的基本价值是什么意思？
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you mean by elementary value. You have heard word "elementary value" you are all very happy, what do you mean by elementary value?
你说的基本价值是什么意思。你听过「基本价值」这个词，你们都很高兴，你说的基本价值是什么意思？
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YB: Elementary means anything, which doesn't change through time and space correct. What is elementary value? Value, which doesn't change through time and space, is called basic character. Now meet me tomorrow, all of you who are interested in the lecture or not, write your individual elementary values. Guru Charan, you will collect from everybody elementary values, their own, and pass on to me and I'll evaluate and give it back to you, then you discuss with him because that will take hours.
YB：基本的意思是任何不随时间与空间改变的东西，对吗。什么是基本价值？不随时间与空间改变的价值，叫做基本品格。现在明天来见我，你们所有对讲座感兴趣或不感兴趣的人，写下你们个人的基本价值。Guru Charan，你会从每个人那里收集基本价值，他们自己的，然后交给我，我会评估并还给你，然后你和他讨论，因为那会花好几个小时。
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their own, and pass on to me and I'll evaluate and give it back to you, then you discuss with him because that will take hours.
他们自己的，然后交给我，我会评估并还给你，然后你和他讨论，因为那会花好几个小时。
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YB: No, you collect them tonight, then work them at night and give me tomorrow morning and I'll work it out, when we will come to the class we will do the homework. Now look at him, he is the next future, look at him. He will collect tomorrow to do what? To look at them? Doesn't work that way. This is America. No, there is no tomorrow in the life of success. You will get the elementary values from them today. What you can do today you don't do it tomorrow. When you do something do it absolutely right. Then you will assess them, then you will give it to me. Then I'll evaluate them. Then I give it to you. Then they will ask you million questions, they will eat you up.
YB：不，你们今晚把它们收上来，晚上处理，明天早上交给我，我来处理。等我们上课的时候，我们就来做这个作业。现在看看他，他就是下一个未来，看看他。他明天收上来要干什么？看看它们？不是那么回事。这是美国。不，在成功的生命里没有明天。你今天就要从他们那里拿到基本数值。你今天能做的事，不要拖到明天。做一件事，就做得绝对正确。然后你去评估它们，然后交给我。然后我来评估它们。然后我再交给你。然后他们会问你一百万個问题，他们会把你吃掉。
Then you should have enough sugar to feed them. Then we will meet in the class. Is that okay? Do you have any question? Yeah.
那你就得有足够的糖去喂他们。然后我们在课堂上见。这样可以吗？你有什么问题吗？好。
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up.
起来。
Then you should have enough sugar to feed them. Then we will meet in the class. Is that okay? Do you have any question? Yeah.
那你就得有足够的糖去喂他们。然后我们在课堂上见。这样可以吗？你有什么问题吗？好。
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YB: No, no, no, I am not that kind of teacher, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, elementary values of your life as you think, that will give us your basic IQ. Understand all of you? Look into my eyes, look, look; we are starting on the road of success. We have to walk in the road for our own success and if you don't walk that's fine. But at least know that the chance was given to you. You have been very, very, absolutely thieves. You are stealing your personality and hiding under the guise of I don't want to be this, I don't like, I don't... I, I, I, I... that's not true.
YB：不，不，不，我不是那种老师，不，不，不，不，不，不，不，不，是你自己所认为的生命的基本数值，那会给我们你的基本智商。你们都明白了吗？看着我的眼睛，看，看；我们正走在成功的路上。我们必须为自身的成功走在这条路上，如果你不走，那也没关系。但至少要知道，机会已经给过你了。你们一直是非常、非常、绝对的贼。你们在偷窃自己的人格，躲在「我不想成为这个、我不喜欢、我不……」的伪装下。我、我、我、我……那不是真的。
The problem with you is you do not know elementary who are you, what your frequency is, what your projection is, what your elementary psyche is, what proportionate rate you go in, and how fast you can think and how fast you can manage and how fast you can deliver. You don't have any knowledge of it. All you show me the grades, grade will give you a good college, college will give you where? To hell? One boy once asked me, "I want you to meet my fiancé. "
你们的问题在于，你们根本不知道最基本的——你是谁，你的频率是什么，你的投射是什么，你的基本心识是什么，你以什么样的比例前进，你能想多快，你能处理多快，你能交付多快。你对此一无所知。你给我看的全是分数，分数会给你一所好大学，大学会给你什么？给你地狱？有个男孩曾经问我：「我想让你见见我的未婚妻。」
show me the grades, grade will give you a good college, college will give you where? To hell? One boy once asked me, "I want you to meet my fiancé. "
给我看的全是分数，分数会给你一所好大学，大学会给你什么？给你地狱？有个男孩曾经问我：「我想让你见见我的未婚妻。」
I said, "Okay. "
我说：「好。」
Fiancé came, we talked, we sat, we ate, we let him go. He said, "I am going to marry, I am in love with her. "
未婚妻来了，我们聊了聊，我们坐下，我们吃了饭，我们让他走了。他说：「我要结婚，我爱上她了。」
I said, "Don't. "
我说：「别。」
"Why? "
「为什么？」
I said, "You want a right answer? "
我说：「你想要一个正确的答案？」
He said, "Yeah. "
他说：「对。」
I said, "You are the dumbest kid and she is the smartest girl. And one day her eye is going to open, she will kick you out of the door, you can't believe it. "
我说：「你是最笨的男孩，她是最聪明的女孩。总有一天她的眼睛会睁开，她会把你踢出门外，你简直不敢相信。」
He said, "No sir, love is this, this. "
他说：「不，先生，爱就是这样，这样。」
I said, "Then marry, try it. "
我说：「那就结婚吧，试试看。」
It didn't last twenty days. In twenty days she found out there is such a elementary deficiency in the guy she was cheated, she was betrayed, she thought totally taken advantage of and the whole wrath. Because elements must choose the alloys. Elements must choose the alloys. There are certain elements they do not merge with other elements.
不到二十天就完了。二十天里她发现这男孩有根本性的缺陷，她觉得自己被骗了、被背叛了，觉得完全被利用了，满腔怒火。因为元素必须选择合金。元素必须选择合金。有些元素就是不与其他元素融合。
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B 面
Because elements must choose the alloys. Elements must choose the alloys. There are certain elements they do not merge with other elements.
因为元素必须选择合金。元素必须选择合金。有些元素就是不与其他元素融合。
Side B
B 面
Copper is not brass, brass is not bronze. Do you have that understanding? Now what you are going to do is to mix copper with platinum. You are not going to get anywhere. Do you understand? So first is find first thing first, find out your... I am coming, I am coming, I'll be there... find out your elementary values I am not going to tell you anything. Find out your elementary elements and give it to Guru Charan tonight, is everybody agreement?
铜不是黄铜，黄铜不是青铜。你明白这个道理吗？现在你要做的是把铜和铂混在一起。你哪儿也去不了。你懂吗？所以第一件事，先做第一件事，找出你的……我来了，我来了，我就到……找出你的基本价值，我什么都不会告诉你。找出你的基本元素，今晚交给 Guru Charan，大家都同意吗？
Students: Yes sir.
学生：是的，先生。
YB: It's a free work; normally we charge lot of money. Professionally as psychologists, (?) what you charge? Eighty-ninety dollars for twenty sessions? He is a thief too. I have to do it free. I love you but you got to do it.
YB：这是免费的活儿；通常我们收很多钱。作为心理学家，专业收费，（？）你们收多少？二十次咨询收八九十美元？他也是个贼。我得免费做。我爱你们，但你们必须去做。