埃斯帕尼奥拉讲座

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Well, it is very itchy when... I can say that people can get any sickness but shingles. When it comes, it is painful and when it leave, leaves you, it is more painful. But it's fantastic, came to be just noted, things come and go. All things come from God.

YB：嗯，痒起来真难受……我可以说，人什么病都能得，就是别得带状疱疹。它来的时候疼，它走的时候，更疼。但它很奇妙，只是来提醒一下，事物来了又去。一切都来自神。

Students: All things go to God.

学生们：一切都归于神。

you, it is more painful. But it's fantastic, came to be just noted, things come and go. All things come from God.

你，它走的时候更疼。但它很奇妙，只是来提醒一下，事物来了又去。一切都来自神。

Students: All things go to God.

学生们：一切都归于神。

YB: Today we are talking on a very typical subject, that is called self-confirmation of grace, which is a very, very old teaching. Because self-confirmation is a habit. And people are trained like children, not as a adult. It is very difficult for you to understand that there is such thing as self-confirmation. You feel you are; you are not. Neither you are body, nor you are mind, nor you are the spirit, nor the soul. You are the cause of the three of these. Therefore, you must confirm, for every action into every sequence, that it will be just nothing but you. You cannot leave it to the environments and the circumstances.

YB：今天我们要谈一个非常典型的主题，叫做优雅的自我确认，这是一门非常非常古老的教导。因为自我确认是一种习惯。而人们被训练得像孩子，而不是像成人。你们很难理解有自我确认这回事。你觉得自己存在；你并不存在。你既不是身体，也不是心智，也不是精神，也不是灵魂。你是这三者的起因。因此，你必须确认，每一个行动进入每一个序列，都只会是你，别无其他。你不能把它交给环境和境遇。

Because each sequence can lead to consequences, which you may not know, specially people who are Gemini.

因为每个序列都会导致后果，而你可能并不知道，尤其是双子座的人。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

They are in trouble. And these are called birth defects.

他们有麻烦。这些叫做先天缺陷。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

which you may not know, specially people who are Gemini.

而你可能并不知道，尤其是双子座的人。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

They are in trouble. And these are called birth defects.

他们有麻烦。这些叫做先天缺陷。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Capricorns, they are stone headed, they also do not know how to confirm (?); Sagittarius. These are certain signs these are three main which I have picked up out of the twelve. They are very typically given example. And in this zodiac sign, zodiac sign is always symbolic to people. That means this is your base, this is how you have been granted in relation to animal nature. From this comparison of the animal nature you are supposed to grow to a human being of a caliber, which is very?

摩羯座，他们脑袋像石头，他们也不知道怎么确认（？）；射手座。这些是某些星座，是我从十二个里挑出来的三个主要的。它们是非常典型的例子。在这个星座里，星座对人来说总是象征性的。那意味着这是你的基础，这是你在与动物本性相关方面被赋予的样子。从这种动物本性的比较中，你应该成长为一个有某种水准的人，那是非常？

Students: Noble.

学生们：高贵的。

YB: And graceful.

YB：而且优雅的。

To become noble is a art and it is a scientific process. And process is, all the time, all the time obey the law, so that the law may obey you. This is a very serious sentence. If you obey the law, law shall obey you. When you obey the law of Mother Nature, Mother Nature shall obey you. When you obey the law of Divinity, law of Divinity will obey you.

成为高贵是一门艺术，也是一个科学的过程。而这个过程就是，时时刻刻，时时刻刻服从法则，这样法则才会服从你。这句话非常严肃。如果你服从法则，法则就会服从你。当你服从大自然母亲的法则，大自然母亲就会服从你。当你服从神性的法则，神性的法则就会服从你。

obey you. When you obey the law of Mother Nature, Mother Nature shall obey you. When you obey the law of Divinity, law of Divinity will obey you.

服从你。当你服从大自然母亲的法则，大自然母亲就会服从你。当你服从神性的法则，神性的法则就会服从你。

But you must confirm with yourself, 'is it or is it not; to be, not to be,' that is the human question. 'Should I get letters from my beloved secretly over my husband? Should I write letters to my darling over my wife? Should I feel tempted to make a deal over my partner? Should I do away with the money over my right? ' All these things shall continue to happen.

但你必须向自己确认，「是还是不是；存在，还是不存在」，这是人类的问题。「我该背着丈夫偷偷收我爱人的信吗？我该背着妻子给我亲爱的写信吗？我该受诱惑去背着合伙人做交易吗？我该把本该属于我的钱拿走吗？」所有这些事都会不断发生。

But there is a very fundamental and direct question, 'to be, not to be. ' If you adapt to confirm with your own grace, with your own nobility and you confirm each time and you do not give in to something which is not noble; you won't give in to something which is not noble, the end result will be, you will be noble living person.

但有一个非常根本、非常直接的问题，「存在，还是不存在。」如果你用自己的优雅、用自己的高贵去确认，每一次都确认，不向不高贵的事屈服；你不向不高贵的事屈服，最终的结果就是，你会成为一个高贵地活着的人。

give in to something which is not noble; you won't give in to something which is not noble, the end result will be, you will be noble living person.

向不高贵的事屈服；你不向不高贵的事屈服，最终的结果就是，你会成为一个高贵地活着的人。

Yesterday there was a question, 'How one can be, become noble? ' It is not manufactured outside of you. Nobility, if manufactured in you, it is within you. Nobility cannot be transported from outside. It is a self-training of self-esteem; it is a self-exertion of self-confirmation. If you are noble, you are the knight and you must fight unto death for your right to be right. You must fight to death, to the right for your?

昨天有个问题，「一个人怎样才能高贵，怎样才能变得高贵？」它不是在你之外制造出来的。高贵，如果它在你之内制造出来，它就在你之内。高贵无法从外面运送进来。它是对自尊的自我训练；它是对自我确认的自我努力。如果你高贵，你就是骑士，你必须为你有权做对的事战斗到死。你必须战斗到死，为你做对的事的权利？

Students: (------)

学生：（——）

YB: And who fights you first?

YB：谁第一个跟你战斗？

Students: (------)

学生：（——）

YB: Your husband.

YB：你的丈夫。

(Students laugh)

（学生笑）

Hmmm, hmmm. Noble woman shall fight her husband as a first instance. And when she'll win, then he will become noble. Who she will fight second? Her son and daughter. Who'll fight the third? The neighbors and the environments. So long, so forth that she will even fight her own pet dog.

嗯，嗯。高贵的女人第一个要战斗的就是她的丈夫。当她赢了，他才会变得高贵。她第二个要跟谁战斗？她的儿子和女儿。第三个要跟谁战斗？邻居和环境。就这样一直下去，她甚至会跟自己养的狗战斗。

(Student laughs)

（学生笑）

daughter. Who'll fight the third? The neighbors and the environments. So long, so forth that she will even fight her own pet dog.

女儿。第三个要跟谁战斗？邻居和环境。就这样一直下去，她甚至会跟自己养的狗战斗。

(Student laughs)

（学生笑）

I am not kidding. It is a path, it's a war path of fighting and it is endless fighting. Symbolically, this is the symbol of the noble woman. She has a double edged sword in one hand and she has left hand index finger raised towards God. That is the symbol. That means, anybody other than that one God shall meet my sword.

我不是在开玩笑。这是一条路，是一条战斗的路，是无休止的战斗。在象征意义上，这是高贵女人的象征。她一只手握着一把双刃剑，左手食指朝神举起。这就是那个象征。意思是，除了那唯一的神，任何人都会碰上我的剑。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Now, where you stop? I just gave you this Sadhana and you freak out. Look at the symbol, now, all the times, twenty-four hour, that is her symbol. She fights and she lives and she affects and she's invincible, she's the flow of spirit, she's the radiance of life, she's none else but God living in a woman.

现在，你停在哪里？我刚给了你这个萨达那，你就慌了。看看这个象征，现在，所有时候，二十四小时，那就是她的象征。她战斗，她活着，她影响一切，她不可战胜，她是灵性的流动，她是生命的光芒，她不是别人，正是活在女人之中的神。

Through her silence she dictates the destiny of a being by giving birth to one son. Noble woman shall give birth to?

通过她的沉默，她生下一个儿子，从而决定了一个存在的命运。高贵的女人会生下什么？

Students: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Saintly children.

YB：圣洁的孩子。

silence she dictates the destiny of a being by giving birth to one son. Noble woman shall give birth to?

通过她的沉默，她生下一个儿子，从而决定了一个存在的命运。高贵的女人会生下什么？

Students: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Saintly children.

YB：圣洁的孩子。

It is the land on which the seed shall get the quality, not the quantity. Noble woman is confirmed to herself, confirmed to herself that she is nothing but virtues. And what is the first virtue of the noble woman? She's selfless. She's a selfless living grace through time and space, a messenger of God, radiance of light and existence of peace. And these all things are not difficult. They may look big to you, but they are very small. They become very, very small and very, very easy if a woman start confirming to herself to be, not to be.

正是这片土地，让种子得到的是品质，而不是数量。高贵的女人向自己确认，向自己确认她除了美德什么都不是。而高贵女人的第一个美德是什么？她无私。她是穿越时间和空间的无私的活生生的优雅，是神的使者，是光的光芒，是和平的存在。而这一切都不难。它们在你看来也许很大，但它们非常小。如果一个女人开始向自己确认要成为，而不是不要成为，它们就会变得非常、非常小，非常、非常容易。

She must know that she's noble and she must know, everything around her must fall to that nobility, that standard of nobility which she possesses. That is why once I said to you, when you are in trouble share not with anybody except your spiritual teacher. Because with anybody if you share the secret, it will be exploited against you, it maybe your weakness. Noble woman doesn't give her weakness to anybody, she conquers the weakness herself. Nobility conquers duality.

她必须知道自己高贵，她必须知道，她周围的一切都必须落到那份高贵，落到她所拥有的那份高贵标准上。这就是为什么我曾经对你说，当你陷入困境时，除了你的灵性老师，不要跟任何人分享。因为跟任何人分享秘密，它都会被用来对付你，它可能就是你的弱点。高贵的女人不把自己的弱点交给任何人，她自己征服弱点。高贵征服二元对立。

against you, it maybe your weakness. Noble woman doesn't give her weakness to anybody, she conquers the weakness herself. Nobility conquers duality.

用来对付你，它可能就是你的弱点。高贵的女人不把自己的弱点交给任何人，她自己征服弱点。高贵征服二元对立。

Therefore it is very obligatory to understand, that it is called self-talking process. You must talk to yourself, you have to. It is obligatory that you must know yourself and you must talk to yourself and you must talk to yourself to the extent that you must love yourself and you must love yourself and you must have a very high esteem of yourself. And you must know that can you (?) all this with one sentence, 'who's student you are. ' You should just remember that you are the student of Sat Nam, you belong to the Sat Nam, your first word is Sat Nam, your last word is Sat Nam, you don't need anytime, any other thing to measure yourself. You must remember.

所以，非常有必要明白，这叫做自言自语的过程。你必须对自己说话，你不得不。你有义务必须认识自己，必须对自己说话，必须对自己说到你必须要爱自己，必须爱自己，必须对自己有极高的尊重。你必须知道，你能不能用一句话做到这一切，「你是谁的学生。」你只要记住，你是Sat Nam的学生，你属于Sat Nam，你的第一个词是Sat Nam，你的最后一个词是Sat Nam，你不需要任何时候、任何别的东西来衡量自己。你必须记住。

Sat, Sat will give you satya. Satya means the spiritual power. It will give you a parameter, a convincible, evincible situation of your own radiance, which will make you satyavati, the one who possesses that flow of the spirit of the truth.

Sat，Sat会给你satya。Satya意味着灵性力量。它会给你一个尺度，一个关于你自己光芒的、令人信服、可以证实的境况，这会让你成为satyavati，那个拥有真理之灵流动的人。

a convincible, evincible situation of your own radiance, which will make you satyavati, the one who possesses that flow of the spirit of the truth.

一个关于你自己光芒的、令人信服、可以证实的境况，这会让你成为satyavati，那个拥有真理之灵流动的人。

You must understand happiness will never come to you because of money. People who are rich are not happy, people who have power are not happy. People are happy those who live in their own truth. That is the secret of happiness. Happiness is a virtue, it's a byproduct, it is a offshoot of truth. You must be so happy, so confirmed in happiness, so much entrenched in happiness that death will come to you just as a happy. You must be born happy, you must confirm with yourself always to live happy and then you must die happy.

你必须明白，快乐永远不会因为钱而来到你身上。有钱的人不快乐，有权力的人不快乐。快乐的人是那些活在自己真理中的人。这就是快乐的秘密。快乐是一种品德，它是副产品，它是真理的分枝。你必须如此快乐，如此确信于快乐，如此扎根于快乐，以至于死亡来到你面前时也像一件快乐的事。你必须快乐地出生，你必须始终对自己确认要快乐地活着，然后你必须快乐地死去。

that death will come to you just as a happy. You must be born happy, you must confirm with yourself always to live happy and then you must die happy.

以至于死亡来到你面前时也像一件快乐的事。你必须快乐地出生，你必须始终对自己确认要快乐地活着，然后你必须快乐地死去。

In this country, you people have been raised as children for ego. If your ego gets way, you feel happy. When ego gets stuck, you feel very sad and unhappy. Actually, when ego get stuck, you should be very happy to see how you can solve the tangle. That is where your self starts. Ego is a challenge, because ego is limiting, it is belittlement of the self. In Trinity is the source of Godhood and it must come to you when you know who you are. And you can never know who you are, if your ego always flow the way, it'll give you the way. Only you know who you are, then ego is challenged.

在这个国家，你们这些人从小就是被当作小我养大的。如果你的小我顺了，你就觉得快乐。当小我卡住了，你就觉得非常悲伤、不快乐。其实，当小我卡住时，你应该非常高兴，看看自己怎么解开这个结。你的自我就是从那里开始的。小我是一个挑战，因为小我是局限的，是对自我的贬低。三位一体中是神性的源头，当你知道自己是谁时，它必然会来到你身上。而如果你的小我一直顺它的路走，它就会给你指路，你就永远无法知道自己是谁。只有你知道自己是谁，小我才会受到挑战。

Frustration, depression, these are all the means of ego. Argument, reason, discussion, yelling, screaming, all this is very egocentric, ego motivated with expressions and do not belong to woman, they all belong to man.

挫败、抑郁，这些都是小我的手段。争辩、讲理、讨论、叫嚷、尖叫，这一切都非常以自我为中心，是小我在驱动着表达，它们不属于女人，它们都属于男人。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Do you know that? Woman who speaks under values herself. If somebody comes and tell you, "(?). "

你知道吗？说话的女人是在贬低自己。如果有人走过来对你说：“（？）。”

And you look at it, you say, "Hmmm, would you like to have a glass of water? "

你看着它，说：“嗯，你想喝杯水吗？”

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

herself. If somebody comes and tell you, "(?). "

她自己。如果有人走过来对你说：“（？）。”

And you look at it, you say, "Hmmm, would you like to have a glass of water? "

你看着它，说：“嗯，你想喝杯水吗？”

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

See how flat that person goes.

看那个人怎么一下子就瘪下去了。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

It is not the criteria of woman to relate in everything she hears. It is not the criteria of woman to speak everything that she feels. Woman is self-contained unit. That is why God has blessed this machine to produce another human being. That's why she can conceive. Woman should hear, see and understand everything and should conceive everything like that of the seed of another being. And then shell it out, sprout it, feed it and then use it the way she feels in confirmation to her nature, she will never land into wrong consequences.

女人不是听到什么都去回应，这不是女人的标准。女人不是感觉到什么就说什么，这不是女人的标准。女人是自给自足的整体。所以神才赐福这台机器，让它能孕育另一个人。所以她才可能受孕。女人应该听见、看见、理解一切，并且像孕育另一个生命的种子那样去孕育一切。然后把它剥出来、让它发芽、喂养它，再按照她自己的本性、以她感觉合适的方式去使用它，她就永远不会落入错误的结果。

When a woman projects and draw attention, she endangers herself. Showy women, talkative, talkative women, gossiping women, these are all low quality women. You know what you call them? Have you seen a car, old, low riding car, with a Ford engine and Chevrolet body?

当一个女人去投射、去吸引注意时，她就把自己置于危险之中。爱炫耀的女人、话多的女人、爱嚼舌根的女人，这些都是低品质的女人。你知道你叫她们什么吗？你见过一辆车吗，老旧、底盘很低的车，福特引擎、雪佛兰车身？

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

all low quality women. You know what you call them? Have you seen a car, old, low riding car, with a Ford engine and Chevrolet body?

都是低品质的女人。你知道你叫她们什么吗？你见过一辆车吗，老旧、底盘很低的车，福特引擎、雪佛兰车身？

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

And something else as steering and you know, some junkyard put it together. But if it has a license number and it runs, you will call it a car. That is the exact definition of a woman, who does not behave in the required standard. As there is a standard for a vehicle, there's a standard for a woman. Remember this, woman is a woman, nothing else and nothing else can replace it. If you ever want to replace yourself with anything else, you are committing a fault and it will bring you difficulties, trouble and lot of tragedy.

再加上别的什么东西当方向盘，你知道的，某个废车场把它拼凑起来。可只要它有车牌号、能跑，你就会叫它一辆车。这就是一个不按应有标准行事的女人的确切定义。就像车有车的标准，女人也有女人的标准。记住这一点，女人就是女人，没有别的，也没有别的能取代它。如果你什么时候想用别的什么来取代自己，你就是在犯错，它会给你带来困难、麻烦和许多悲剧。

If you ever want to replace yourself with anything else, you are committing a fault and it will bring you difficulties, trouble and lot of tragedy.

如果你什么时候想用别的什么来取代自己，你就是在犯错，它会给你带来困难、麻烦和许多悲剧。

The dangerous point between man and a woman is, if woman will grieve the tragedy, she will breed and multiply it and she will live with that. Whereas man will only grieve a tragedy, will face it and live with it and will change to the next. It is very impossible for a woman to live with one tragedy. Because once you have started living in one tragedy, you'll multiply. Therefore it is very obligatory for you to confirm yourself with yourself all the time. Self-convincing, self-convincing is thy art a woman. You must convince yourself that you are right and the surroundings are right, what you have heard, what you have seen is right. Therefore you are supposed to be a born judge of time and?

男人和女人之间的危险之处在于，如果女人会为悲剧悲伤，她就会孕育它、让它繁衍，然后带着它活下去。而男人只会为一场悲剧悲伤，会面对它、带着它活下去，然后转向下一件事。女人几乎不可能只带着一场悲剧活下去。因为一旦你开始活在一场悲剧里，你就会让它繁衍。所以，你时时刻刻都必须与自己确认。自我说服，自我说服是女人的艺术。你必须说服自己，你是对的，周围是对的，你听到的、你看到的都是对的。因此，你天生就该是时间和什么的裁判？

Students: Space.

学生：空间。

YB: Running around for thirty-two Baskin & Robins and sneaking out this and sneaking out that. No sneakish value or sneakish behavior suits a woman. Anything which is ungraceful is sneakish.

YB：为了32个Baskin & Robins跑来跑去，偷偷摸摸这个，偷偷摸摸那个。任何偷偷摸摸的价值或偷偷摸摸的行为都不适合女人。任何不优雅的东西都是偷偷摸摸的。

& Robins and sneaking out this and sneaking out that. No sneakish value or sneakish behavior suits a woman. Anything which is ungraceful is sneakish.

& Robins，偷偷摸摸这个，偷偷摸摸那个。任何偷偷摸摸的价值或偷偷摸摸的行为都不适合女人。任何不优雅的东西都是偷偷摸摸的。

You must be straight. Because no woman can be happy who is a puppet. It's not her nature, it, it does not suit her environments. That is why I say to you that you are first married to Dharma and it is the will of the God. If a woman is married to Dharma and will of the God and everything comes next to it, she will be happy. Otherwise, she's married to Karma and the whole world maybe in the palm of her hand and she'll be unhappy.

你必须正直。因为没有一个当傀儡的女人能快乐。那不是她的本性，它，它不适合她的环境。所以我对你说，你首先是嫁给正法，那是神的意志。如果一个女人嫁给正法和神的意志，其他一切都排在后面，她就会快乐。否则，她就是嫁给了业力，哪怕整个世界都在她掌心，她也不会快乐。

Don't convince yourself that you can get away with this; you can get away with that. You don't change your standard, don't change your mood and model. If you have adapted, remember, if you have adapted a path and you are convinced that you are a woman, just walk all the way unto Infinity of God. Don't bargain on the way, you'll be exploited, you'll be used and you'll be sorry.

不要说服自己，你可以逃过这个，你可以逃过那个。你不要改变你的标准，不要改变你的情绪和模式。如果你已经适应了，记住，如果你已经适应了一条路，并且确信自己是个女人，那就一路走到神的无限里去。不要在途中讨价还价，你会被剥削，你会被利用，你会后悔。

that you are a woman, just walk all the way unto Infinity of God. Don't bargain on the way, you'll be exploited, you'll be used and you'll be sorry.

你是个女人，那就一路走到神的无限里去。不要在途中讨价还价，你会被剥削，你会被利用，你会后悔。

If you check up the history of every woman who has suffered, only that woman has suffered who has no trust for herself. It is extremely essential for the body of the woman to honor her words. Giving is the quality of God and the woman. But before you promise to give, you must know what you are giving. That again means, you must confirm with yourself.

如果你去查每一个受过苦的女人的历史，只有那个对自己没有信任的女人才会受苦。女人的身体极其需要让自己的话有分量。给予是神和女人的品质。但在你承诺给予之前，你必须知道你在给予什么。这又意味着，你必须与自己确认。

Self-communication is the very way a woman can live. Self-communication will give you self-knowledge, self-knowledge will give you dignity and dignity will give you Divinity and Divinity will give you the experience of nobility and then you'll be nothing but living God.

自我沟通就是女人能够活出来的方式。自我沟通会给你自我认知，自我认知会给你尊严，尊严会给你神性，神性会给你高贵的体验，然后你就什么都不是，只是活生生的神。

give you dignity and dignity will give you Divinity and Divinity will give you the experience of nobility and then you'll be nothing but living God.

给你尊严，尊严会给你神性，神性会给你高贵的体验，然后你就什么都不是，只是活生生的神。

A woman who tries to live very cheap with cheap technologies, by skipping, by exploiting, by being mean, by being angry, by yelling, screaming, all these men quality, these are all men's quality. Man by nature has all these qualities, because man in nature wants to survive. Woman has to sprout, so, she must be calm, quiet like a land. You know land is land. Some land you can grow grass, some land you can grow vegetables, some land this and that, but land doesn't move, it, it is there. It is very nurtured, nursed land. Exactly, the same law of nature applies to woman, she is, she is. She's always she. She's such a she that she gives birth to?

一个女人如果试图用廉价的技术廉价地活着，靠跳过、靠剥削、靠刻薄、靠愤怒、靠大喊大叫，所有这些男人的品质，这些都是男人的品质。男人天生就有所有这些品质，因为男人天生想要生存。女人必须发芽，所以，她必须平静、安静，像土地一样。你知道土地就是土地。有些土地你能种出草，有些土地你能种出蔬菜，有些土地能种这个那个，但土地不动，它，它就在那里。它是被精心滋养、照料的土地。正是如此，同样的自然法则适用于女人，她是，她就是。她永远是「她」。她是这样一个「她」，以至于她生出了？

Student: He.

学生：他。

YB: He. Perfect.

YB：他。完美。

And from she the he can be born. SHE, cut down the S, what remains?

从「她」可以生出「他」。SHE，去掉 S，剩下什么？

Students: He.

学生们：He。

a she that she gives birth to?

一个「她」，以至于她生出了？

Student: He.

学生：他。

YB: He. Perfect.

YB：他。完美。

And from she the he can be born. SHE, cut down the S, what remains?

从「她」可以生出「他」。SHE，去掉 S，剩下什么？

Students: He.

学生们：He。

YB: Even in she, he's contained; in female, male is contained; in woman, man is contained, what else you want? Even in your married life, if you cannot contain the man in you, you are a failure. And you cannot contain the man if you do not negotiate with yourself all the time. You got to confirm, you got to know, you got to talk to yourself, you have to understand. Because a man will show the left and hit the right. Why so? Do you think every man is a liar? No, not that. Because man is a sensitive seeder, he must find a space to seed, that is his nature. God made that way. So, he has to find a space where he can seed on a time. So, being a seeder, he has to feel the vibrations.

YB：即使在「她」里面，也包含着「他」；在女性里面，包含着男性；在女人里面，包含着男人，你还想要什么？即使在你的婚姻生活里，如果你不能容纳你内在的男人，你就是个失败者。如果你不时刻与自己协商，你就无法容纳那个男人。你必须确认，你必须知道，你必须和自己说话，你必须理解。因为男人会指左边，打右边。为什么会这样？你觉得每个男人都是骗子吗？不，不是那样。因为男人是一个敏感的播种者，他必须找到一块可以播种的空间，那是他的天性。神就是这么造的。所以，他必须找到一块空间，让他能在某个时候播种。所以，作为一个播种者，他必须感受振动。

So, he always shows left to see the right and always show the right to see the left. So, in other words, man by nature is left and right. But you have to draw the diagonal to make the block into two times, so that you can live happily. When a woman falls, the generation falls; when a man falls, a individual falls.

所以，他总是指左边来看右边，总是指右边来看左边。换句话说，男人天生就是左和右。但你必须画出对角线，把这块地分成两半，这样你才能快乐地生活。当一个女人倒下，一代人倒下；当一个男人倒下，一个人倒下。

to make the block into two times, so that you can live happily. When a woman falls, the generation falls; when a man falls, a individual falls.

把这块地分成两半，这样你才能快乐地生活。当一个女人倒下，一代人倒下；当一个男人倒下，一个人倒下。

I would like to discuss with you also certain natures of woman. 'Why woman believes in deceit, why woman uses (?) to communicate, why woman is not direct and use the sign language. ' All this comes from fear.

我还想和你们讨论一下女人的某些天性。「为什么女人相信欺骗，为什么女人用（？）来沟通，为什么女人不直接，而用暗示的语言。」这一切都来自恐惧。

But I will like to be excused today and I'll be with you tomorrow. I think I cannot be with you for longer than this. But hopefully, we'll cover up those subjects tomorrow, because once I get into those subject, it's a long way and then you'll mess up your adrenal.

但今天请允许我先告退，明天我再和你们在一起。我想我没法再待更久了。但希望明天我们能把这些主题讲完，因为一旦我进入这些主题，那是一条很长的路，到时候你们的肾上腺会被搞乱。

So, what time is now?

那么，现在几点了？

Students: Five-twenty.

学生：五点二十。

YB: Five-twenty. So, it is all right. You can ask me certain question if this, these question have brought up in you some ideas, so that we can share also, we can participate and know.

YB：五点二十。那好。如果这些问题在你们心里引出了一些想法，你们可以问我某些问题，这样我们也能分享，也能参与、去了解。

Yes, Krishna.

是的，Krishna。

Krishna: (------)

Krishna：（------）

YB: Yeah, man in polarity with a woman when communicates, he wants to know where to rest, where to dive, what to believe. So, he's to start with he's inquisitive. So, sometime you will see men saying, 'Oh, look, you look very beautiful and very fresh. '

YB：是的，男人与女人处在二元对立中，当他沟通时，他想知道在哪里安歇，在哪里潜入，该相信什么。所以他一开始就是好奇的。所以有时你会看到男人说：「哦，看，你看起来非常美，非常清新。」

what to believe. So, he's to start with he's inquisitive. So, sometime you will see men saying, 'Oh, look, you look very beautiful and very fresh. '

该相信什么。所以他一开始就是好奇的。所以有时你会看到男人说：「哦，看，你看起来非常美，非常清新。」

He maybe asking you to go and he had left somewhere his suitcase, go and bring it.

他也许是在叫你去，而他把手提箱落在什么地方了，去把它拿回来。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

You know what I mean? Don't misunderstand when he says, 'you are beautiful and you look very fresh. ' And he's going to take you right away to dinner. You know what I am saying? And don't blame a man. 'Oh you, you told me I am beautiful and fresh, what you are talking? '

你懂我的意思吗？当他说「你很美，你看起来非常清新」时，别误会。他马上要带你去吃晚饭。你懂我在说什么吗？别怪男人。「哦你，你跟我说我很美很清新，你在说什么？」

It is his nature to see how, how the cookie, what the cookie crumble?

他的天性就是要看看，这块饼干怎么，这块饼干怎么碎？

Students: Crumbling.

学生：碎。

(Students and Yogi Bhajan laugh)

（学生和Yogi Bhajan笑）

YB: That is a, that's a common new phrase, I, I met a girl and with every sentence she will say, 'This is how the cookie crumble. '

YB：那是一个，那是一个常见的新说法，我，我遇到一个女孩，她每句话都要说：「饼干就是这么碎的。」

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

And I said, God, she's just crumbling cookies all the time.

我说，神啊，她一直在碎饼干。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

So, man by nature is inquisitive to know how the cookie?

所以，男人天生就好奇，想知道饼干怎么？

Students: Crumble.

学生：碎。

said, God, she's just crumbling cookies all the time.

我说，神啊，她一直在碎饼干。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

So, man by nature is inquisitive to know how the cookie?

所以，男人天生就好奇，想知道饼干怎么？

Students: Crumble.

学生：碎。

YB: So, don't take his first impression and first communication with you as a understanding. Just wait and communicate with yourself, what is coming next till it completes and then you have a foundation to communicate. Otherwise you are laying right direct into a trap, which is no good.

YB：所以，别把他对你的第一印象和第一次沟通当成理解。只要等一等，和自己沟通，看看接下来是什么，直到它完成，然后你才有基础去沟通。否则你就直接落进一个陷阱，那没有好处。

Yes dear.

是的，亲爱的。

Student: How do you know when to (?) with a man (?)?

学生：你怎么知道什么时候该（？）和一个男人（？）？

YB: It is very simple thing. When a man tells you something, you ask him, 'Is it according to the Dharma? ' Fight starts right there.

YB：这很简单。当一个男人对你说些什么，你就问他：「这符合正法（Dharma）吗？」战争当场就开始了。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

A woman is not supposed to wage a war. Simply she has to turn the energy out.

女人不该发动战争。她只需把能量转出去。

Somebody say, "All right, tonight we'll do this and then we'll do this and we do this and doesn't matter we sleep or not. "

有人说：「好吧，今晚我们做这个，然后做那个，再做那个，睡不睡都无所谓。」

You just ask him, "Fantastic, but what about the Sadhana? "

你就问他：「太好了，那萨达那（Sadhana）呢？」

He say, "What Sadhana? "

他说：「什么萨达那？」

You say, "Well my dear Sadhana. "

你说：「就是我的萨达那呀，亲爱的。」

Just remind him. Whole program you can just null and void. When he talks whole night, just tell him, "What about Sadhana? "

只要提醒他。整个计划你都能让它一笔勾销。他讲一整晚，你就告诉他：「萨达那呢？」

"Well my dear Sadhana. "

「就是我的萨达那呀，亲爱的。」

Just remind him. Whole program you can just null and void. When he talks whole night, just tell him, "What about Sadhana? "

只要提醒他。整个计划你都能让它一笔勾销。他讲一整晚，你就告诉他：「萨达那呢？」

There's nothing to think. And then see how he turns around, he say, "All right, we'll go straight to Sadhana. "

没什么好想的。然后看他怎么转过来，他说：「好吧，我们直接去做萨达那。」

Say, "Are you sure? "

你说：「你确定吗？」

Men are real sneakish babies, if you really want to know their nature.

男人真是鬼鬼祟祟的宝宝，如果你真想了解他们的本性。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

It doesn't matter, right from Jesus Christ to Guru Nanak.

没关系，从耶稣基督到Guru Nanak，都一样。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Be truthful. Their nature is very direct. They shall live by the nature, because no man in the body of a man is over and above God. And God created the nature and the power. Those who overcome it, those who be something divine, God realized and everything, but still basic nature is the basic nature. And woman must act as a reminder to the truth.

说实话。他们的本性非常直接。他们会顺着本性活，因为没有一个活在男人身体里的人能高过神。神创造了本性和力量。那些超越它的人，那些变得神圣、证悟神的人，等等，但根本本性还是根本本性。而女人必须充当真理的提醒者。

Yeah.

是的。

Student: How does a woman balance doing Seva, as a giver and doing Simran, to communicate (?)?

学生：女人如何平衡做服务（Seva）——作为给予者——和做忆念（Simran），去沟通（？）？

And woman must act as a reminder to the truth.

而女人必须充当真理的提醒者。

Yeah.

是的。

Student: How does a woman balance doing Seva, as a giver and doing Simran, to communicate (?)?

学生：女人如何平衡做服务——作为给予者——和做忆念，去沟通（？）？

YB: Seva is very misunderstood. Seva is when you have and you can give. It is not Seva, when you have nothing and you want to give. I do not know what kind of Seva is that. That is called pushing too much. Seva is; Seva is to earn first and then share, that is Seva. Exploitation and get exploited is not Seva. I did Seva to the men, I charged them one hundred and eight dollars.

YB：服务被严重误解了。服务是当你有，而且你能给。当你什么都没有，却想给，那就不是服务。我不知道那算什么服务。那叫逼得太紧。服务是——服务是先赚到，再分享，那才是服务。剥削和被剥削都不是服务。我对男人们做过服务，我收他们一百零八美元。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

And taught them a course, which was worth a million dollars. It was a Seva. And they all understood; they valued it. Because you do not throw beauty before a beast, it's no use. Why to waste knowledge, let them earn, let them prepare themself. And then give them far more than they expect, that's called Seva. Seva is also, where our generation, our nature, like a Gurdwara, coming and serving a Gurdwara, Guru's house is a Seva. That is Seva, service. Where you are forced by environments and circumstances is selflessness and experience that is Seva. Where you do something to show, show off or communicate that you show off is not Seva.

还给他们教了一门课，那门课值一百万美元。那是服务。他们都懂了；他们珍惜它。因为你不会把美物扔到野兽面前，那没有用。何必浪费知识，让他们去挣，让他们自己去准备。然后给他们远超他们期待的东西，那才叫服务。服务也是，我们这一代、我们的天性，就像谒师所，来谒师所服务，古茹的家就是服务。那就是服务，服务。当你被环境和境遇逼着去做的无私和体验，那就是服务。当你做某件事是为了展示、炫耀，或者让人看出你在炫耀，那就不是服务。

and circumstances is selflessness and experience that is Seva. Where you do something to show, show off or communicate that you show off is not Seva.

和境遇逼着去做的无私和体验，那就是服务。当你做某件事是为了展示、炫耀，或者让人看出你在炫耀，那就不是服务。

Student: What is the difference between communicating with the self and communicating with God? (?) communicate with God?

学生：和自己沟通与和神沟通，有什么区别？（？）和神沟通？

YB: Communicating with yourself is, when you are trying to know between you and self what the environment of time and space are establishing in relationship. Communicating with God is, when you are trying to establish the relationship between you and Infinity. Communicating with everybody else is when you are communicating to (?) peace, harmony and understanding. You understand?

YB：和自己沟通，是当你想弄清楚，你和自己之间，时间和空间的环境在关系中建立了什么。和神沟通，是当你想建立你和无限之间的关系。和其他所有人沟通，是当你沟通（？）和平、和谐与理解。你明白吗？

Student: Ah, (?) and what (?) to (?)?

学生：啊，（？）还有什么（？）去（？）？

with everybody else is when you are communicating to (?) peace, harmony and understanding. You understand?

和其他所有人沟通，是当你沟通（？）和平、和谐与理解。你明白吗？

Student: Ah, (?) and what (?) to (?)?

学生：啊，（？）还有什么（？）去（？）？

YB: It is very unfortunate to note. The very fact that past is past and let it be a past. To pull the past and bring it to future is the tragedy which lot of people do, because of insecurity. 3HO way of life has one beauty. It gives you ultimate security unto Infinity. Therefore, when you belong to... That's why some people do not belong to 3HO, though they wear white and they are here and all that. They do not let the insecurity go. Can you show me in nine years, anybody, who has been let down by 3HO organization as a whole. Anyone, single example. We have incurred losses, but we have not let anybody fall down when it comes to principle.

YB：注意到这一点非常不幸。过去就是过去，就让它成为过去。把过去拉出来、带到未来，是很多人干的悲剧，因为缺乏安全感。3HO 的生活方式有一个美。它给你直到无限的终极安全感。所以，当你属于……这就是为什么有些人不属于 3HO，尽管他们穿白衣，他们在这里，诸如此类。他们不肯放下那份不安全感。你能给我指出，九年来，有哪一个人，被整个 3HO 组织辜负过吗。任何一个人，哪怕一个例子。我们蒙受过损失，但在原则问题上，我们没让任何人倒下。

by 3HO organization as a whole. Anyone, single example. We have incurred losses, but we have not let anybody fall down when it comes to principle.

被整个 3HO 组织辜负过吗。任何一个人，哪怕一个例子。我们蒙受过损失，但在原则问题上，我们没让任何人倒下。

So, therefore, when you belong to a, such a environments and way of life, whether, whether you are rich and poor, healthy or unhealthy, great or small, you shall be taken care of. So, don't lean on past. To free yourself, easiest way to free yourself is, don't lean on past and don't pull past and bring it before you. Then it is very heavy to let the past go. You will be doing a noble act for yourself, if you let the past be the past. But, let bygone.

所以，因此，当你属于这样一个环境、这样一种生活方式，无论你是富有还是贫穷，健康还是多病，伟大还是渺小，你都会被照顾好。所以，不要倚靠过去。要让自己自由，最容易的方式就是，不要倚靠过去，也不要把过去拉过来、摆在自己面前。那样的话，放下过去就会变得非常沉重。如果你让过去成为过去，你就是在为自己做一件高贵的事。但是，让往事……

Students: Be bygone.

学生：随风而去。

YB: Total western thing to learn.

YB：这是彻头彻尾要学的西方玩意儿。

Yes.

是的。

Student: Could you explain what you (?) a woman (?)?

学生：你能解释一下你（？）一个女人（？）吗？

YB: Two twines, two twines is a sign of good luck in astrology. And when a square is cut diagonally, it makes two triangles. Square is considered a block on the way of life and prosperity. Go through it.

YB：两条藤纹，两条藤纹在占星学里是好运的象征。而一个正方形被斜着切开，就成了两个三角形。正方形被认为是人生与丰盛之路上的障碍。穿过去。

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Yeah.

YB：是的。

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Sure, because you are the judge.

YB：当然，因为你就是那个审判者。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

way of life and prosperity. Go through it.

人生与丰盛之路。穿过去。

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Yeah.

YB：是的。

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Sure, because you are the judge.

YB：当然，因为你就是那个审判者。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Moment you talk about time and space, she's going to judge you and moment she will going to judge you, she's going to find the man's difficulty. I know that is why I made the price of that book very heavy, so, you may not buy it. But you have bought it, read it?

你一谈起时间和空间，她就要审判你；她一审判你，她就要找出这个男人的难处。我知道，所以我才把那本书的价格定得很重，好让你可能不会买它。可你还是买了，读了吗？

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Student: (?) I read it.

学生：（？）我读了。

YB: Moment you play with a woman about time and space, you are giving her a time to judge. And moment she judges you, forget it, she's like God.

YB：你一跟一个女人玩时间和空间的游戏，你就是在给她时间来审判你。而一旦她审判你，算了吧，她就像神一样。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

So, don't tell her about time and space, what is time, what is space, just tell her goodies.

所以，不要跟她讲时间和空间，什么是时间，什么是空间，只跟她说好东西。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

It doesn't mean when I teach men I forget about women and when I teach women I forget about men. I try to separate both, because they both have a definite knowledge to learn.

这并不意味着我教男人时就忘了女人，教女人时就忘了男人。我试着把两者分开，因为他们各自都有确定的知识要学。

Yes dear.

是的，亲爱的。

Student: You said that woman should not (?), she should also confirm and (?).

学生：你说过女人不应该（？），她也应该确认并且（？）。

both, because they both have a definite knowledge to learn.

两者，因为他们各自都有确定的知识要学。

Yes dear.

是的，亲爱的。

Student: You said that woman should not (?), she should also confirm and (?).

学生：你说过女人不应该（？），她也应该确认并且（？）。

YB: Yes, she should self-communicate what she hears, what she sees and what she knows, and then proceed. In other words she has to give a buffer time they call it. She cannot act with a impulse. She can fall into a trap. And no woman can afford it.

YB：是的，她应该自我沟通她所听到的、她所看到的和她所知道的，然后再行动。换句话说，她必须给自己一段缓冲时间，他们这么叫它。她不能凭冲动行事。她会掉进陷阱。而没有哪个女人承受得起。

Student: How could a woman (?) when convincing (?)?

学生：一个女人怎么能在说服（？）的时候（？）？

YB: No, in case of doubt you can go through the teachings. You have to have some philosophical (?). And then when you have a doubt, relate to Dharma, 'does it fit in the canons of Dharma or not? ' Always you'll come through.

YB：不，有疑问的时候，你可以去翻 teachings。你得有一些哲学（？）。然后当你有了疑问，就对照正法，「它符不符合正法的准则？」你总能找到答案。

Yes.

是的。

Student: You were just talking about sharing our problems with spiritual teacher. (?) we consider our husband (?)?

学生：你刚才讲到要把我们的问题跟灵性老师分享。（？）我们把丈夫当成（？）？

YB: No, husbands are never spiritual teacher. My wife will tell me something, I'll not like to answer her. I'll tell her, 'Ask Wahe Guru Singh. '

YB：不，丈夫从来不是灵性老师。我妻子会跟我说点什么，我不想回答她。我会跟她说，「去问 Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo Singh。」

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

are never spiritual teacher. My wife will tell me something, I'll not like to answer her. I'll tell her, 'Ask Wahe Guru Singh. '

从来不是灵性老师。我妻子会跟我说点什么，我不想回答她。我会跟她说，「去问 Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo Singh。」

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Hmmm, hmmm, husband is not a spiritual teacher, though he maybe a spiritual teacher of the area. Husband is husband to begin with and husband in end. And some husbands are not elevated that they become teacher one time and husband other time. If you want to test your husband who's a teacher, tell him something very weird and see how he reacts.

嗯，嗯，丈夫不是灵性老师，尽管他可能是那一带的灵性老师。丈夫一开始是丈夫，到头来还是丈夫。有些丈夫也没高到那个份上，能一会儿当老师、一会儿当丈夫。你要是想试试你那个当老师的丈夫，就跟他说一件特别古怪的事，看他怎么反应。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

That will prove the point right on the spot. Spiritual teacher is a deep ingrown sensitivity above time and space. His problem is to solve the knot and guide the person. He's not interested in the person; he's interested in the problem of the person. Therefore there's no exploitation. With the husband there is a threat of security and insecurity, you can't share the problem. It takes one telephone call after five o'clock; it'll take very little time.

这一下就当场验证了。灵性老师是一种深深长在里面的敏感，超越时间和空间。他的任务是解开那个结，引导这个人。他对这个人不感兴趣；他感兴趣的是这个人的问题。所以没有剥削。跟丈夫在一起，就有安全和不安全的威胁，你没法分享问题。过了5点打一通电话，一会儿工夫就够了。

Yes.

是的。

Student: (?) one thing I felt very bad about myself is that I am unable to do all the things that were (?) to do everyday, (?)?

学生：（？）有一件事让我对自己感觉很糟，就是我没办法每天做完所有该做的事，（？）？

YB: That is the one of the luckiest thing, at least you feel guilty of not doing something.

YB：这已经是最幸运的事之一了，至少你还为没做某件事感到愧疚。

to do all the things that were (?) to do everyday, (?)?

每天做完所有该做的事，（？）？

YB: That is the one of the luckiest thing, at least you feel guilty of not doing something.

YB：这已经是最幸运的事之一了，至少你还为没做某件事感到愧疚。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Think of those who don't feel guilty at all and sleeping.

想想那些一点都不愧疚、还在睡觉的人。

(Student laughs)

（学生笑）

That is awakened stage. It is called awakened stage. When you know you have to do lot and you fail to do lot, at least something reminds you and that is awakened stage. But there are people, they call sleeping stage. First form of the stage of (?), normally people are in dream stage, they hallucinate. When they are in sleep stage, they don't consider anything, then they are in awakened stage and then called the effective stage. Effective stage is that, when you actually know and act at the same time. Active stage and effective stage are the two most beautiful mental stages for any woman to live in.

那就是觉醒的阶段。它叫觉醒的阶段。当你知道自己该做很多事，却没能做到，至少还有点什么提醒你，那就是觉醒的阶段。但也有人，他们叫它沉睡的阶段。那个阶段的第一种形态（？），通常人处在做梦的阶段，他们会产生幻觉。当他们处在睡眠阶段，他们什么都不考虑，然后他们进入觉醒的阶段，接着叫有效阶段。有效阶段就是，你真正知道并且同时行动。主动阶段和有效阶段，是任何女人能活出的两个最美的心理阶段。

Your all questions are answered now?

你所有的问题现在都解答了吗？

Yes.

是的。

Student: Sir, (?) grace of God meditation (?)?

学生：先生，（？）神的恩典冥想（？）？

YB: Grace of God meditation will give you self-effectiveness. It is designed that way. And any woman who will do it, will find grace in herself. It may take a little time, longer in one case, shorter in other, but surely it is going to be the positive.

YB：神的恩典冥想会给你自我效能。它就是这么设计的。任何女人做它，都会在自己身上找到优雅。可能要花一点时间，有人长些，有人短些，但它一定会是正向的。

will do it, will find grace in herself. It may take a little time, longer in one case, shorter in other, but surely it is going to be the positive.

做它，就会在自己身上找到优雅。可能要花一点时间，有人长些，有人短些，但它一定会是正向的。

I remember one person was in 3HO and she left the 3HO and she got into drinking and boozing and finally she became junky. And this burnt about eighty thousand dollars, in all the scrap in year and a half. And one day she was going to inject and she looked at the stuff and looked at the thing, it is all her confession. And she said, "I have become junky. I used to be 3HO and take people junkies out of it and now I am in it, I won't do it. "

我记得有个人曾在3HO，后来她离开了3HO，开始喝酒酗酒，最后成了瘾君子。一年半里，这一切乱七八糟的事烧掉了大约八万美元。有一天她正要注射，她看着那东西，看着那玩意儿，这都是她自己的坦白。她说：「我成了瘾君子。我以前在3HO，把别人从毒瘾里拉出来，现在我自己陷进去了，我不干了。」

And she never did it. She admitted to me that she has done nothing, except at the moment when she was in that trouble she lied down and started doing, 'Sa, Ta, Na, Ma. ' And she knew it and she used it and she got out of it.

她再也没碰过。她向我承认，她什么都没做，只是在那麻烦当头的那一刻，她躺下来，开始做「Sa，Ta，Na，Ma」。她知道它，她用了它，她走了出来。

Knowledge never goes waste. Only it can be dormant when you don't use it. But when you use it, it is yours.

知识永远不会白费。它只会在你不用它的时候休眠。但你用它的时候，它就是你的。

Yes.

是的。

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

Side B

B面

"There´s a lot of words. You know we are very fortunate to have Jasbeer Kaur Bibi now with us. She knows a lot of Gurbani.

「有很多词。你知道我们很幸运，现在有Jasbeer Kaur Bibi和我们在一起。她懂很多Gurbani。

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

Side B

B面

"There´s a lot of words. You know we are very fortunate to have Jasbeer Kaur Bibi now with us. She knows a lot of Gurbani.

「有很多词。你知道我们很幸运，现在有Jasbeer Kaur Bibi和我们在一起。她懂很多Gurbani。

And I think we should try to see whether she is interested in us and we are interested in her. And that is the part I think she should play, to pick up all the words and share with you the Gurbani. Because that will give you lot of strength. Jasbeer is there anything in which nobility is expressed in Gurbani through any Sutra? Why don't you check it out and give out the information.

我想我们应该试着看看她是否对我们感兴趣，我们是否对她感兴趣。我认为这就是她该扮演的角色，把所有的词句拾起来，和你们分享《古尔巴尼》（Gurbani）。因为那会给你很多力量。Jasbeer，在《古尔巴尼》里，有没有哪句经文（Sutra）表达了高贵？你为什么不去查一查，把信息分享出来。

Yes dear. Yeah, how, how do you feel?

是的，亲爱的。嗯，你感觉怎么样？

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: So, so.

YB：这样，这样。

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Good.

YB：好。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

It is; it is better than the worst, hmmm.

它是；它比最糟的还要好，嗯。

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: I am going to discuss all the twelve signs. Just to create interest I hit the three.

YB：我要把十二个星座都讲一遍。只是为了引起兴趣，我先点了那三个。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

This course is going to be very interesting, I'll tell you that. I am very calm and quiet, Kamal Jeet is getting married on the twelfth of July, I have no more responsibility.

这门课会非常有意思，我告诉你。我现在非常平静安宁，Kamal Jeet 七月十二号结婚，我再没有责任了。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

I'll tell you that. I am very calm and quiet, Kamal Jeet is getting married on the twelfth of July, I have no more responsibility.

我告诉你。我现在非常平静安宁，Kamal Jeet 七月十二号结婚，我再没有责任了。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

I have done my job and I am through with all nonsense. That was one responsibility in my life I promised that I will marry that girl. And as a oriental father, it was a very deep responsibility, which I carry. And now God has laid down the path and if it happens it is His will. And once it happens, I'll be very, very free. I have nothing to work for, except 3HO which requires a quarter million dollars to keep going.

我的任务完成了，所有的胡闹我都了结了。那是我生命里的一份责任，我承诺过我会让那个女孩出嫁。作为一个东方父亲，这是我背负的一份非常沉重的责任。现在神已经铺好了路，如果它发生，那就是祂的意志。一旦它发生，我就会非常非常自由。我再没有什么要为之奔忙的，除了 3HO，它要维持下去需要二十五万美元。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

And most beautiful thing which is happening is we are shedding the skin. All the deadwood is going to go. 3HO is going to be very solid, in thing, very, very honest, very solid and very growing. It is a real healthy, happy and holy situation. Because through the time and space, we also have to prove that we believe what we say. So, it's going to be all right.

而正在发生的最美好的事情，就是我们在蜕皮。所有的枯枝败叶都要离去。3HO 会变得非常坚实，非常、非常诚实，非常坚实，非常成长。那是一个真正健康、快乐又神圣的局面。因为穿越时间和空间，我们也必须证明我们相信自己所说的话。所以，一切都会好的。

happy and holy situation. Because through the time and space, we also have to prove that we believe what we say. So, it's going to be all right.

快乐又神圣的局面。因为穿越时间和空间，我们也必须证明我们相信自己所说的话。所以，一切都会好的。

I am going to explain to you the zodiac, the interlocks and the Sun and the rising and whole thing. It's not, I am not going to (?) just on two-three sign. I just said those just to, because they are very prominent. Gemini's are six in one, Sagittarius is hit the back and Capricorn is I don't believe, though I know.

我要给你们讲黄道十二宫，那些连锁关系，还有太阳、上升以及整个东西。不是，我不会（？）只讲两三个星座。我刚才说那些，只是因为它们非常突出。双子座是六合一，射手座是打后背，摩羯座是我不信，虽然我知道。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

So, you know what I mean?

所以，你明白我的意思吗？

Yes.

是的。

Student: Could you please explain why a woman wears Kara on the left hand?

学生：你能解释一下为什么女人把钢镯（Kara）戴在左手上吗？

YB: Kara, the steel on the left of the woman and right of the man, gives you the freedom from the black tantric. That is how this is. Until you are reverse in your energy, you are left-hander or you are right-hander. That is how. Kara is the symbol of freedom from any mental influence by any other person through his mind.

YB：钢镯（Kara），戴在女人左手、男人右手的钢，让你从黑色谭崔中解脱出来。就是这样。除非你的能量是反向的，否则你要么是左撇子，要么是右撇子。就是这样。钢镯是象征，象征你从任何他人通过其心智施加于你的精神影响中解脱出来。

Student: I am left handed, should I wear steel on the left hand (?)?

学生：我是左撇子，我该把钢戴在左手上吗（？）？

of freedom from any mental influence by any other person through his mind.

从任何他人通过其心智施加于你的精神影响中解脱出来。

Student: I am left handed, should I wear steel on the left hand (?)?

学生：我是左撇子，我该把钢戴在左手上吗（？）？

YB: I think if you are a left handed, you should wear on the right. (?) it is a simple science, it has, listen, let us not do things ritualistically. They, they won't do any good. Learn it as a science and go by the science. And that's the way it is.

YB：我想如果你是左撇子，就该戴在右手上。（？）这是一门简单的科学，它——听着，我们别把事情做得仪式化。那样做，那样做没有好处。把它当作一门科学来学，照着科学去做。就是这样。

Student: Ah, are there any kinds of, like noble procedures, noble acts, any kinds of Shabads, Tantric,

学生：啊，有没有什么，比如高贵的程序、高贵的行为，什么样的圣音（Shabd）、谭崔的，

YB: We are going to talk almost whole year.

YB：我们差不多要讲一整年。

Student: Kind of chanting (?) do for a wedding, that we don't know about yet, because then we can (?) Kamal Jeet Kaur's wedding.

学生：什么样的唱诵（？）用在婚礼上，这我们还不了解，因为那样我们就能（？）Kamal Jeet Kaur 的婚礼。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

YB: Yeah, you can discuss with Kamal Jeet.

YB：是啊，你可以跟 Kamal Jeet 商量。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

I think, I think she's pretty noble that she's going through it very peacefully. That makes her very darling. And she understands. Because I am very happy with that girl, I would not have been very happy. She brought me a card, there was staircases and there was a little, little cat trying to jump and it says in very block letters, 'confidence is taking the first step. '

我想，我想她相当高贵，她非常平静地走过这一切。这让她非常可爱。她懂。因为我对那个女孩很满意，换了我，我不会那么满意。她给我带来一张卡片，上面有楼梯，有一只小、小猫想往上跳，上面用很大的字写着：「信心就是迈出第一步。」

Student: Wahe Guru.

学生：Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo。

and there was a little, little cat trying to jump and it says in very block letters, 'confidence is taking the first step. '

有一只小、小猫想往上跳，上面用很大的字写着：「信心就是迈出第一步。」

Student: Wahe Guru.

学生：Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo。

YB: And she brought it and bought it and gave it to me. And that shows deep in my mind and heart, it is God's will. And girl is also ready and prepared in her mind. And what a fortunate father more can ask? Boy is young, beautiful, simple, not crude at all and girl is very young and innocent. And now they will rough themself together and find a, some alliance. And it is very virtuous as far as I am concerned, because it was my responsibility to see that she's married. And God has been very merciful for my weaknesses; I might not have been in a position to find out a good family and good boy. He all, all the way walking, so, what more you can ask for?

YB：她把它带来，买来，送给了我。这在我心智和心里深深表明，这是神的意志。女孩在心上也准备好了、预备好了。什么样的父亲还能求更多？男孩年轻、漂亮、单纯，一点也不粗野，女孩很年轻、很天真。现在他们会一起磨合，找到某种结合。就我而言，这非常有德，因为让她结婚是我的责任。神对我的弱点非常慈悲；我未必有能力找到一个好家庭、好男孩。他一路走来，所以，你还能求什么？

And I took it that way, as Jetha became Guru Ram Das. Because Guru Amar Das was sitting and divine mother, wife of Guru Amar Das said, "Well, now the girl is ready for the marriage age and you are just saintly too much all the time. When you are going to find any boy? "

我就这么理解了，Jetha 后来成了 Guru Ram Das。因为 Guru Amar Das 正坐着，神圣的母亲，Guru Amar Das 的妻子说：“好了，现在这姑娘到了该出嫁的年纪，你却整天一副圣人样。你什么时候才去找个男孩？”

Guru Amar Das said, "What kind of boy you are asking? "

Guru Amar Das 说：“你要找什么样的男孩？”

age and you are just saintly too much all the time. When you are going to find any boy? "

到了该出嫁的年纪，你却整天一副圣人样。你什么时候才去找个男孩？

Guru Amar Das said, "What kind of boy you are asking? "

Guru Amar Das 说：“你要找什么样的男孩？”

She said, "Well, look around the window, that little boy seems to be quite healthy and very radiant. "

她说：“你往窗外看看，那个小男孩看起来挺健康，而且很有光芒。”

And Guru Amar Das said, "Well, go and get that boy in. "

Guru Amar Das 说：“那好，去把那男孩带进来。”

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

And Jetha won't come, he thought he is shouting too much to sell those wheat berries and he might have disturbed the Guru and his meditation and he won't come. Then he played all innocence, "Oh, no, no, I am poor, I am not, I am this. "

可 Jetha 不肯来，他以为自己叫卖那些小麦叫得太大声，可能打扰了古茹和他的冥想，所以他不肯来。接着他装出一副无辜的样子：“哦，不，不，我穷，我不是，我是这个……”

And the sevak said, "Well, (?) Guru wants to somehow, please come. "

那个服务者说：“好了，（？）古茹想见你，请来吧。”

And he said, "No, no, you can punish me, you can slap me, you can do anything, don't take me before the Guru. "

他说：“不，不，你可以罚我，你可以打我耳光，你做什么都行，别把我带到古茹面前。”

He said, "No, no, you come, come, come, come. "

他说：“不，不，你来，来，来，来。”

He brought him in.

他把他带了进来。

And Guru said, "Well, Mata Ji, please look at the boy. "

古茹说：“好了，Mata Ji，请看看这男孩。”

She said, "Yes, I told you like this. "

她说：“是啊，我就是这么跟你说的。”

He said, "But when it's like this and this is it, there's nothing equal more than that. "

他说：“可事情就是这样，就是这样，没有什么比这更对等的了。”

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

And she said, "Are you going to marry my daughter with this? "

她说：“你就要用这个来娶我女儿？”

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

He said, "Yes. You said it, you have it (?). You asked for it, (?). "

他说：“对。是你说的，你有（？）。是你要求的，（？）。”

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

you going to marry my daughter with this? "

你就要用这个来娶我女儿？

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

He said, "Yes. You said it, you have it (?). You asked for it, (?). "

他说：“对。是你说的，你有（？）。是你要求的，（？）。”

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

"You pointed out, you said that is the boy, here it is and that's it. "

“是你指出来的，你说就是那个男孩，就是他，就这样。”

So, Jetha became Guru Ram Das. And Bibi Bhani, look at her, she was the daughter of the Guru, she was the wife of the Guru and she was the mother of the Guru, three honors in one lifetime.

于是，Jetha 成了 Guru Ram Das。再看看 Bibi Bhani，她是古茹的女儿，是古茹的妻子，也是古茹的母亲，一生之中三重荣耀。

So, virtually it was the grace of Guru Ram Das, circumstances becoming little (?) and boy is little becoming big and showing the daddy they are men now and they have to relate to America. So, before that anything goes weird and you may hear any news, it was better that Kamaljeet should go to her house. So, God is very kind and merciful to even people like, idiot people like me, who just pretend to have faith. You know there's no big deal, because that is His Infinity. Even those who pretend to have faith. Those who fake it, make it, that's what I always say.

所以，实际上那是 Guru Ram Das 的优雅，境况变得有点（？），男孩一点点长大，向老爸证明他们现在是男人了，他们得和美国打交道。所以，在事情变得古怪、你可能听到什么消息之前，Kamaljeet 最好还是回她自己的家。所以，神非常仁慈、慈悲，连像我这样、只是假装有信仰的傻瓜，他都眷顾。你知道这没什么大不了，因为那是他的无限。连那些假装有信仰的人也一样。那些假装的人，就成了，这是我一贯说的。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

The difference between Swami Trauma and Swami Rama is Swami Rama in the worst situation will fake it that he's a Swami Rama and Swami Trauma will fake it he's Swami Trauma. You understand?

Swami Trauma 和 Swami Rama 的区别在于，Swami Rama 在最糟糕的情况下会假装自己是 Swami Rama，而 Swami Trauma 会假装自己是 Swami Trauma。你明白吗？

Swami Rama is Swami Rama in the worst situation will fake it that he's a Swami Rama and Swami Trauma will fake it he's Swami Trauma. You understand?

Swami Rama 就是 Swami Rama，在最糟糕的情况下会假装自己是 Swami Rama，而 Swami Trauma 会假装自己是 Swami Trauma。你明白吗？

So, my dear folks, time and space always need to be tested. And communication with self must be there to confirm who you are before you take a step.

所以，我亲爱的朋友们，时间和空间总是需要被检验的。在你迈出一步之前，必须与自我沟通，来确认你是谁。

Thank you very much for this evening. I am just getting real itch, which is quite a big problem. But I think I'll be all right. And wish you happy Fourth of July and independence. It tells you not only be a member of a independent country, but you have to give independence to your soul. And Dharma is the path to cut down the Karma, the blocks of life, to go ahead, to merge from where you came. Greatest thing of the day is?

非常感谢今晚的到来。我正感到一阵真正的痒，这是个挺大的问题。但我想我会没事的。祝你们七月四日快乐，祝你们独立。它告诉你，你不仅是一个独立国家的成员，你还必须给你的灵魂以独立。而正法（Dharma）就是那条路，砍掉业力（Karma）、砍掉生活中的障碍，让你向前走，回到你来的地方，与之融合。今天最伟大的事情是什么？

Students: All things come from God and all things goes to God.

学生：万物都来自神，万物都归于神。

YB: Thank you very much for remembering this. Sat Nam.

YB：非常感谢你们记得这一点。Sat Nam。

Students: Sat Nam.

学生：Sat Nam。

YB: Oh, by the way, thanks for these beautiful. Ah, as the price is going up and all the money which I make goes to 3HO and its offices now, called secretariat. And thank you for making all these clothes; at least I have not to walk naked with a loin cloth.

YB：哦，顺便说一句，谢谢这些漂亮的东西。啊，随着物价上涨，我挣的所有钱现在都归 3HO 及其办公室，现在叫秘书处。谢谢你们做了所有这些衣服；至少我不用裹着一块遮羞布光着身子走路了。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Student: (?) loin cloth.

学生：（？）遮羞布。

And thank you for making all these clothes; at least I have not to walk naked with a loin cloth.

谢谢你们做了所有这些衣服；至少我不用裹着一块遮羞布光着身子走路了。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Student: (?) loin cloth.

学生：（？）遮羞布。

(Students sing, 'May the long time... ')

（学生们唱「永恒的阳光……」）

(Students stop singing)

（学生们停止唱诵）