KWTC 讲座

The radiant, the beaming quality, the happiness it comes from woman who is secure, woman doesn't make the man secure, that is not true. Now this is America, you think I can make my man secure and man think I can make my woman secure, forget it, this is not the way you can workout. It is the secure woman which makes a man to live secure. You see the happy man, I can do it, he knows when he goes home he will have a hot meal, but if he knows there is a sister of the golden sitting there in the house, with teeth out you know, what I mean.

那光芒、那闪耀的品质、那份幸福，来自一个有安全感的女人。女人并不能让男人有安全感，那不是真的。这里是美国，你们以为我能让我的男人有安全感，男人以为我能让我的女人有安全感，算了吧，这不是你能行得通的方式。是有安全感的女人让男人活得有安全感。你看那个快乐的男人，我能做到，他知道回家会有一顿热饭，但如果他知道家里坐着一个金家的姐妹，龇着牙，你知道我什么意思。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生们：（笑声。）

YB: 'From where you have come. '

YB：「你从哪儿来的。」

is a sister of the golden sitting there in the house, with teeth out you know, what I mean.

家里坐着一个金家的姐妹，龇着牙，你知道我什么意思。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生们：（笑声。）

YB: 'From where you have come. '

YB：「你从哪儿来的。」

Now how strong one may be, how big one may be, life is miserable. Let us take 3HO, now we have to take one living example, no teacher has fallen whose wife is secure in dharma, not a single one and no teacher has survived whose wife is not secure, nobody has left 3HO, not a single person whose wife wanted to live righteously, wanted, not living righteously, wanted and anywhere, where things happen materialistically put down that person has not survived, this is exactly eight years very calculated experience we have got.

现在，一个人不管多强大，不管多伟大，生活都是悲惨的。我们拿 3HO 来说，现在我们必须拿一个活生生的例子，没有一个老师倒下，只要他的妻子在正法中有安全感，一个都没有；也没有一个老师活下来，只要他的妻子没有安全感，没有一个人离开 3HO，只要他的妻子想要正法地生活——是想要，不是已经在正法地生活——是想要，而且在任何地方，凡是事情以物质主义的方式发生、把那个人压下去，那个人就没有活下来。这是我们八年来非常精确计算过的经验。

So what Manu said thousands of year ago is very true today because first statement is very horrible, what is it?

所以 Manu 几千年前说的话，今天非常真实，因为第一句话非常可怕，是什么？

Students: No man has a downfall, the cause is the woman.

学生们：没有男人会堕落，原因是女人。

YB: It looks horrible isn't it. It looks like somebody with malicious intention is blaming the woman. No, no, no he is a wise man, he is a known wise man, world recognizes him today, it recognized him then, and it shall recognize him and also he made the other statement and what was that?

YB：看起来糟透了，是不是。看起来像是有个心怀恶意的人在指责女人。不，不，不，他是个智者，他是个公认的智者，今天世界认可他，那时也认可他，将来也会认可他，而且他还说过另一句话，那是什么？

Students: No man shines, it is the spirit of the woman.

学生：没有男人能发光，发光的是女人的精神。

him then, and it shall recognize him and also he made the other statement and what was that?

那时也认可他，将来也会认可他，而且他还说过另一句话，那是什么？

Students: No man shines, it is the spirit of the woman.

学生：没有男人能发光，发光的是女人的精神。

YB: We do say in the west for every great man there is a great woman behind, that you feel gives you a secondary place, no. What this means there is a great woman behind? You know how you run the yoked oxen, you have to go behind.

YB：我们在西方确实说，每个伟大的男人背后都有一个伟大的女人，你会觉得这给了你次要的位置，不是的。这句话的意思是背后有一个伟大的女人？你知道怎么驾驭套在一起的牛吗，你得走在后面。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: It is going to mean, you understand what I am saying.

YB：它的意思是，你明白我在说什么。

I do not know from which area woman should feel that she is secure, woman is never secure, never, never. Men are not mentally stable, man can only be stable if he has to deal with a dharmic woman, then he will be stable because one thing no man can do, man cannot cross the line of consciousness because he projects out. So the security of woman is to keep in, in the framework of the spirituality, you have a spirit, this is against the spirit, this is for the spirit, this is the technology in which a woman can always keep the man contained.

我不知道女人该从哪个领域感到自己是安全的，女人从来都不安全，从来，从来都不。男人在精神上不稳定，男人只有在面对一个合乎正法的女人时才能稳定，那时他就会稳定，因为有一件事没有男人能做到，男人无法越过意识的界线，因为他向外投射。所以女人的安全感就是守住内在，守在灵性的框架里，你有精神，这是违背精神的，这是为了精神的，这就是那门技术，女人靠它总能把这个男人管住。

you have a spirit, this is against the spirit, this is for the spirit, this is the technology in which a woman can always keep the man contained.

你有精神，这是违背精神的，这是为了精神的，这就是那门技术，女人靠它总能把这个男人管住。

Men are very clever, they will ask sometime, hey let us do this thing, it will make us this, this, this. Man is very good to lay the temptation and when he will fall her in temptation then he say, 'oh, oh, oh, I have to go to prostitute you know I told you, I have to deal with the mafia, I have to deal with the underworld, you know you approved that time honey, money doesn't come without that. ' Oh look at a son of a gun. His own wife, they are willing to play, why?

男人非常聪明，他们有时会问，嘿，我们来做这件事吧，它会让我们这样、这样、这样。男人很擅长布下诱惑，等他把她诱进诱惑里，他就说，「哦，哦，哦，我得去找妓女，你知道我跟你说过，我得跟黑手党打交道，我得跟黑社会打交道，你知道你当时同意了的，亲爱的，钱不那样来不了。」哦，看看这个混蛋。他自己的妻子，他们愿意玩这一套，为什么？

The capacity of a male is still to look towards the mama, the ma, the ma sound, Sa-Ta-Na-Ma, that ma, ma is very powerful. In birth, during the life after birth man shall continue to look to the woman and that can be very advantageous and is very advantageous when you direct him to Infinity. Now this is the statement you should know, I know, I know the unknown is known to me. I know the unknown is known to me is the guidance, spirit of the woman.

男性的能力仍然是朝向 mama，ma，ma 这个音，Sa-Ta-Na-Ma，那个 ma，ma 非常强大。在出生时，在出生后的整个生命里，男人会一直看向女人，而当你把他引向无限时，这会非常有利，也确实非常有利。现在这是你应该知道的那句话，我知道，我知道未知对我是已知的。我知道未知对我是已知的，这就是指引，女人的精神。

is the statement you should know, I know, I know the unknown is known to me. I know the unknown is known to me is the guidance, spirit of the woman.

这句话你应该知道，我知道，我知道那未知的对我而言是已知的。我知道那未知的对我而言是已知的，这就是女人的指引、精神。

You know any woman who does not know or believe in the unknown she cannot even survive happily for a moment, I know the unknown is known to me and this is the capacity of every woman to manifest God. This is the secret of manifesting God and what is the unknown? Unknown is the totality, known is the confinement. Known has to know the unknown, has to experience the unknown, has to deal with the unknown, has to find the unknown, has to walk into the unknown, unknown is unknown, but when you take a pattern of friendship I know the unknown is known to me, then it gives you inner confidence that is called equilibrium and total stability.

你知道，任何女人如果不了解或不相信那未知的，她连一刻都无法快乐地活下去，我知道那未知的对我而言是已知的，这是每个女人显化神的能力。这是显化神的秘密，而那未知是什么？未知是整体，已知是局限。已知必须去了解未知，必须去体验未知，必须去应对未知，必须去找到未知，必须走进未知，未知就是未知，但当你采取一种友谊的模式——我知道那未知的对我而言是已知的——那么它会给你内在的自信，那叫做平衡和彻底的稳定。

There is no beauty in your life; husband, sex, money, security, no, no, no, no, you can never depend on that, you can never depend on that, that is the wrong dependency, you have to depend on your relationship of the unknown because that is your totality and that is your power and that is your wholesomeness.

你的生活里没有美；丈夫、性、金钱、安全感，不，不，不，不，你永远不能依赖那些，你永远不能依赖那些，那是错误的依赖，你必须依赖你与未知的关系，因为那是你的整体，那是你的力量，那是你的完整。

you have to depend on your relationship of the unknown because that is your totality and that is your power and that is your wholesomeness.

你必须依赖你与未知的关系，因为那是你的整体，那是你的力量，那是你的完整。

You know how men do? I tell you a scheme, man will first fall in the love of a woman, you are beautiful, wonderful, and bah-bah-bah, we should have house, ha, ha, ha, we have house, now we should have children, so you have, now we should raise the children, ha, ha, ha beautiful and you know you should take care of the garden, nothing beyond those four walls.

你知道男人是怎么做的吗？我告诉你一个套路，男人会先爱上一个女人，你真美，真棒，吧啦吧啦，我们应该有房子，哈，哈，哈，我们有房子了，现在我们应该有孩子，所以你有了，现在我们应该把孩子养大，哈，哈，哈真美，你知道你应该打理花园，那四堵墙之外什么都没有。

'Darling you came very late last night. '

「亲爱的，你昨晚回来得很晚。」

'Oh, oh, oh I had something you know, I was going to consult a scheme to make more money. '

「哦，哦，哦，我有点事你知道，我正打算商量一个赚更多钱的方案。」

four walls.

四堵墙。

'Darling you came very late last night. '

「亲爱的，你昨晚回来得很晚。」

'Oh, oh, oh I had something you know, I was going to consult a scheme to make more money. '

「哦，哦，哦，我有点事你知道，我正打算商量一个赚更多钱的方案。」

Everything, he may be doing some most weird trips, why? Because the relationship was very confined relationship, it was relationship of the known, limited, ground, earth, house, garden, backyard, children, but if they do Sadhana very well and they have to get up in the morning to do Sadhana together he won't come at 3 o'clock in the morning, not at all. And if he knows that I have to get up and do Sadhana with my own wife that man I can guarantee you cannot betray. He cannot be achieved, he, he will not have any instinct of it, but if a man cannot do that he can...

什么都行，他可能在做一些最古怪的事，为什么？因为那段关系是非常受限的关系，它是已知的关系，有限的、地面、土地、房子、花园、后院、孩子，但如果他们萨达那做得很好，他们必须早上起来一起做萨达那，他就不会凌晨3点才回来，绝对不会。而如果他知道我必须起来和我自己的妻子一起做萨达那，那个人我向你保证无法背叛。他做不到，他，他不会有任何那样的本能，但如果一个男人做不到这一点，他就可以……

wife that man I can guarantee you cannot betray. He cannot be achieved, he, he will not have any instinct of it, but if a man cannot do that he can...

那样的男人，我向你保证，他不可能背叛。他无法被达到，他，他不会有任何这样的本能，但如果一个男人做不到这一点，他就能……

After all, what is the proof that your happiness is guarantee, after all this is what the point in view is so that you can be radiant, you can beam, and you can be happy, after all, how can that be possible you have to depend on sure grounds, sure grounds, secure grounds, and grounds worthwhile and that is the Infinity because Friday if you are in sure ground, you need Saturday sure grounds, you need Sunday sure ground, you need Monday sure grounds, you need Tuesday sure grounds, and you need each day sure grounds, each month sure grounds and each year sure grounds; that means Infinity.

说到底，有什么能证明你的快乐是有保障的？说到底，这正是关键所在——这样你才能光芒四射，你才能容光焕发，你才能快乐。说到底，这怎么可能呢？你必须依靠可靠的基础，可靠的基础，稳固的基础，有价值的基础，那就是无限。因为周五如果你站在可靠的基础上，你需要周六可靠的基础，你需要周日可靠的基础，你需要周一可靠的基础，你需要周二可靠的基础，你需要每一天可靠的基础，每个月可靠的基础，每一年可靠的基础；那就意味着无限。

grounds, you need Tuesday sure grounds, and you need each day sure grounds, each month sure grounds and each year sure grounds; that means Infinity.

基础，你需要周二可靠的基础，你需要每一天可靠的基础，每个月可靠的基础，每一年可靠的基础；那就意味着无限。

Life is lived each day towards Infinity therefore it must be pointed towards Infinity, it must be calculated that Infinity is known to me and I am known to Infinity. Stop finding, stop finding, start living, start living with infinity, after all, what is the 3HO way of life? People don't even understand, some say it is a Sikh dharma, some say it is a healthy, happy, and holy, it is nothing, it is a guarantee unto Infinity that nobody shall be betrayed and nobody should be fired, it is a homogeneity. It is so homogeneous that people who just walk out of the discipline their whole life period they have spent here is punched out. They start allover again.

生命是每一天朝着无限而活的，因此它必须指向无限，必须这样来计算：无限为我所知，我为无限所知。停止寻找，停止寻找，开始生活，开始与无限一起生活。说到底，什么是3HO的生活方式？人们甚至都不明白，有人说是锡克正法，有人说是健康、快乐和神圣，它什么都不是，它是对无限的一份保证：没有人会被背叛，没有人会被开除，它是一种同质性。它是如此同质，以至于那些刚走出纪律的人，他们在这里度过的整个生命期都被打孔作废了。他们从头再来。

so homogeneous that people who just walk out of the discipline their whole life period they have spent here is punched out. They start allover again.

如此同质，以至于那些刚走出纪律的人，他们在这里度过的整个生命期都被打孔作废了。他们从头再来。

I couldn't believe when a person who was seven years a very strong teacher, somebody told me, somebody reported me that he is distributing cocaine, can you believe this. Man taught eight years against cocaine, against marijuana, against smoking, against drinking, and after eight years he is doing it, it's not believable, that's the way it is. When you fall you fall, fall is a fall, there is nothing else. If you cannot keep one discipline, you cannot keep the other, you cannot, how down you can go? You can go down and down and down and that down is also Infinity. As you can go up towards Infinity you can go down towards Infinity too.

我无法相信，当一个人做了七年非常强的老师，有人告诉我，有人向我报告说他在分发可卡因，你能相信吗。这个人教了八年反对可卡因、反对大麻、反对吸烟、反对饮酒，八年后他自己却在做这件事，这不可信，但事情就是这样。当你跌倒时你就是跌倒了，跌倒就是跌倒，没有别的。如果你守不住一条纪律，你就守不住另一条，你守不住，你能往下走多深？你可以往下、往下、再往下，那个往下也是无限。正如你可以向上走向无限，你也可以向下走向无限。

Because the cycle of the circuit must complete, it takes same energy to be radiant, to be divine, to be dignified, to be holy, to be healthy, to be happy, and exactly you spend the same energy to be bitchy, to be negative, to be depressed, whatever you want to call it, I even don't even count what else.

因为回路的循环必须完成，成为光芒四射、成为神圣、成为有尊严、成为圣洁、成为健康、成为快乐，需要同样的能量，而你花在刻薄、消极、抑郁上的能量也完全一样，随便你怎么称呼它，我甚至都懒得数还有什么别的。

and exactly you spend the same energy to be bitchy, to be negative, to be depressed, whatever you want to call it, I even don't even count what else.

而你花在刻薄、消极、抑郁上的能量也完全一样，随便你怎么称呼它，我甚至都懒得数还有什么别的。

I have been to Europe this time, I have seen people; ha, ha, ha, Denmark, six beers inside, six beers in the hand, six beers in the bag...

我这次去了欧洲，我看到了那些人；哈，哈，哈，丹麦，肚子里六瓶啤酒，手里六瓶啤酒，包里六瓶啤酒……

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: I asked a question, "Why these people drink beer all the time? "

YB：我问了一个问题，「为什么这些人整天喝啤酒？」

They said, "Otherwise they go crazy, they can't stand life. "

他们说，「不然他们会发疯，他们受不了生活。」

First day you feel depressed, little on the rock will do, ha, it is good ha, ha, wonderful, wonderful God, I slept very well, oh I feel fresh. Next day two more drops and drop by drop one day you drowned in it. You never want to be slave, do you want to be slave? Is there anybody who wants to be slave? And when you become a slave of a habit are you not slave? Slave of a habit and slave of a country or slave of a kingdom are slave, slave is a slave. Slave is no different than a slave, slave is slave. What we call a slave of a habit? Anybody knows the real name of that?

第一天你觉得抑郁，来一点那玩意儿就行，哈，很好，哈，哈，太棒了，太棒了神，我睡得很好，哦我觉得很清爽。第二天再多两滴，一滴一滴，有一天你就淹死在里面了。你从来不想当奴隶，对吧，你想当奴隶吗？有谁想当奴隶吗？当你成为一个习惯的奴隶时，你不是奴隶吗？习惯的奴隶、国家的奴隶或王国的奴隶都是奴隶，奴隶就是奴隶。奴隶和奴隶没有区别，奴隶就是奴隶。我们管一个习惯的奴隶叫什么？有谁知道那个真正的名字？

Students: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Junky, junky is a person who is a slave of a habit, only not this heroin and all that, it applies to all habits, all negative habit, they call him a...

YB：瘾君子，瘾君子就是一个成为习惯奴隶的人，不只是海洛因那一类，它适用于所有习惯，所有负面的习惯，他们叫他……

junky is a person who is a slave of a habit, only not this heroin and all that, it applies to all habits, all negative habit, they call him a...

瘾君子就是一个成为习惯奴隶的人，不只是海洛因那一类，它适用于所有习惯，所有负面的习惯，他们叫他……

Students: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: And what they call the man who is of a positive habit?

YB：那他们管一个有正面习惯的人叫什么？

Students: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Sadhu.

YB：Sadhu。

Students: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Sadhu is a person who through the Sadhana is going towards the positive area of Infinity and Malecha or a junky is the one who is going down the hill.

YB：Sadhu 是一个通过萨达那（Sadhana）走向无限正面领域的人，而 Malecha 或瘾君子则是那个一路往下滑的人。

What day is today?

今天是什么日子？

Students: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Monday.

YB：星期一。

Students: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Day is a Monday, date is fourteenth, right.

YB：日子是星期一，日期是十四号，对。

Students: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: All right this day is going to go away, Monday, can you bring it back?

YB：好，这一天就要过去了，星期一，你能把它带回来吗？

Students: No.

学生：不能。

YB: No. So whatever you have lived today that you have lived once for all and it can never come back and you can never react. If you cannot react to today why you react to yesterday and waste the memory and why you react to tomorrow and waste the energy? See the difference of living, see it clearly.

YB：不能。所以你今天活过的一切，你已经一次性活过了，它永远回不来，你也永远无法对它做出反应。如果你无法对今天做出反应，为什么要对昨天做出反应、浪费记忆？为什么要对明天做出反应、浪费能量？看看活着的差别，看清楚它。

why you react to yesterday and waste the memory and why you react to tomorrow and waste the energy? See the difference of living, see it clearly.

你为什么对昨天起反应，浪费记忆，又为什么对明天起反应，浪费能量？看看活着的差别，看清楚它。

Khalsa woman lives, some are trying to live, some are very alive, and some wants to live right, everybody reacts to you, why? Which makes to react? Your radiance. Some husbands are afraid that she is a Khalsa woman how to tackle her, that's their problem. Because pure woman is nothing but a living Infinity in peace, real Shalom, real Shalom, real Christ consciousness, real dignity and Divinity can be seen by a woman living the purity of Infinity and that is a very threat to negativity and any threat to negativity puts a question, how to tackle it? Because what is positive?

卡尔萨女性活着，有些人在努力活着，有些人非常鲜活，有些人想活得端正，每个人都对你起反应，为什么？是什么让人起反应？你的光芒。有些丈夫害怕，她是卡尔萨女性，怎么对付她，那是他们的问题。因为纯洁的女性不过是活在平安中的无限，真正的 Shalom，真正的 Shalom，真正的基督意识，真正的尊严与神性，可以在一个活出无限之纯洁的女性身上看见，而这对负面是极大的威胁，任何对负面的威胁都会提出一个问题：怎么对付它？因为什么是正面的？

Anything which is positive, negative wants to harness it, we are negative human being, we don't have energy, we want to harness energy, we don't have food, we want to harness food, everything we want to do we want to harness, we want to possess and purity does not get possessed, it flows and the greatest grace of a pure woman is that its very existence is happiness. You don't get happiness, I tell you an experience and then I'll ask you ask me questions.

任何正面的东西，负面都想驾驭它，我们是负面的人，我们没有能量，我们想驾驭能量，我们没有食物，我们想驾驭食物，我们想做的一切都想驾驭，我们想占有，而纯洁无法被占有，它流动，一个纯洁女性最大的优雅就是，它的存在本身就是快乐。你得不到快乐，我告诉你一个经历，然后我会让你问我问题。

of a pure woman is that its very existence is happiness. You don't get happiness, I tell you an experience and then I'll ask you ask me questions.

一个纯洁女性的，就是它的存在本身就是快乐。你得不到快乐，我告诉你一个经历，然后我会让你问我问题。

Six years ago, there was a one woman, she was student of 3HO and her husband said, "If you leave 3HO I'll provide you whatever you want, but if you continue in 3HO then you go and move out to ashram and I'll leave you. "

六年前，有一个女人，她是 3HO 的学生，她丈夫说：「如果你离开 3HO，你要什么我都给你，但如果你继续留在 3HO，那你就搬去灵修社区，我就离开你。」

She asked me, she said, "Overnight this lightning has fell one me, and guy was very good, but now he has given a challenge. "

她问我，她说：「一夜之间这道闪电落在我身上，这男人本来很好，可现在他给了我一个挑战。」

I said, "He has not given any challenge, he is afraid now that you are becoming conscious and aware, by doing yoga of awareness you are going to find out his weaknesses and so he wants you to get out of it. "

我说：「他没有给任何挑战，他现在害怕，因为你正在变得有意识、有觉知，通过做觉知的瑜伽，你会找出他的弱点，所以他想让你退出。」

She said, "Why, why he feels? "

她说：「为什么，他为什么会有这种感觉？」

I said, "That's what every thief," every thief feels anything which moves is a policeman, "so there is nothing to be upset about it. "

我说：「每个贼都是这样，」每个贼都觉得任何动的东西都是警察，「所以没什么好难过的。」

She said, "What should I say? "

她说：「我该说什么？」

I said, "If you want to live in ignorance then tell him I leave 3HO. "

我说：「如果你想活在无明里，就告诉他我离开 3HO。」

She said, "Suppose he is a right man I don't know. "

她说：「假设他是个正派的人，我不知道。」

"What should I say? "

「我该说什么？」

I said, "If you want to live in ignorance then tell him I leave 3HO. "

我说：「如果你想活在无明里，就告诉他我离开 3HO。」

She said, "Suppose he is a right man I don't know. "

她说：「假设他是个正派的人，我不知道。」

You know those days people never used to believe me as many don't do it today, same thing, I said, "All right tell him I will leave 3HO, do yoga at home, he didn't say that leave 3HO in the sense that leave at your home. "

你知道那些日子，人们从来都不相信我，就像今天很多人也不信一样，同样的事，我说：「好吧，告诉他我会离开 3HO，在家做瑜伽，他没说离开 3HO 是指离开你自己的家。」

So she told him, "See I have considered everything, I have left 3HO. "

于是她告诉他：「你看，我什么都考虑过了，我已经离开了 3HO。」

He said, "Oh good, good, good, wonderful, nice, it's nice. "

他说：「哦，好，好，好，太好了，不错，挺好的。」

So she will do yoga and meditation and Sadhana, so what she did? He leaves around 11 o'clock, so 11 o'clock she will sit down in Sadhana and she will do it up to 2 o'clock. When she is in yoga posture, whole day she will compensate and when he comes she will put lipstick, then the whole stuff and look like that she has no whites, nothing, she burnt them, you know in that outside that thing, she burnt all her white clothes.

那她要做瑜伽、冥想和萨达那，她怎么做呢？他大概 11 点出门，所以 11 点她就坐下来做萨达那，一直做到 2 点。当她摆出瑜伽姿势时，一整天她都得补回来，等他回来她就涂上口红，然后全套打扮，看起来她根本没有那些白衣，什么都没有，她把它们烧了，你知道，在外面那个东西里，她烧掉了所有白衣。

Three months passed, nothing happened and she was very happy that you know she is doing right. After third month her husband told that he is going for a special business trip, two months passed by he never showed up...

三个月过去了，什么都没发生，她还很高兴，你知道，她觉得自己做得对。第三个月之后，她丈夫说他要出一趟特别的商务旅行，两个月过去了，他再也没出现……

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

After third month her husband told that he is going for a special business trip, two months passed by he never showed up...

第三个月之后，她丈夫说他要出一趟特别的商务旅行，两个月过去了，他再也没出现……

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: And then she found out who really he is. Had she not been good in her Sadhana and in her devotion she would have committed suicide.

YB：然后她才发现他到底是谁。如果她的萨达那和她的虔诚不够好，她早就自杀了。

That's my personal experience that whenever you feel that you are being baited as a woman to be provided by the man who loves you or say to love you, you are getting into a danger, because actually he is afraid that he is going to be found out and men don't like to be found out by their women because their ego cannot accept wrong, that's one weakness man has, his ego doesn't want to accept wrong. So normally men when they are disappointing in a woman or when they are afraid to be found out, they will say, all right take what you want.

这是我个人的经验：每当你觉得，作为一个女人，你被一个爱你的男人、或者说声称爱你的男人用提供生活来钓住，你就正在陷入危险，因为实际上他害怕自己会被发现，而男人不喜欢被自己的女人发现，因为他的小我无法接受错误，这是男人的一个弱点，他的小我不愿接受错误。所以通常男人对女人失望时，或者害怕被发现时，他们会说，好吧，你想要什么就拿去吧。

wrong. So normally men when they are disappointing in a woman or when they are afraid to be found out, they will say, all right take what you want.

错。所以通常男人对女人失望时，或者害怕被发现时，他们会说，好吧，你想要什么就拿去吧。

Whenever a man says, 'take what you want,' you are in real danger, it looks very sweet, but never feel secure thereafter, because once a man says take whatever you want he has made up his mind and because man is governed normally by ego, therefore it is pretty dangerous, it takes a very long time to men to make their mind, they are very fluctuating. It is the criteria of a woman, in her basic essential quality that she should know the statement of fact I know, I know the unknown. It is her basic quality and that is her security.

每当一个男人说「你想要什么就拿什么」，你就处在真正的危险里，那听起来很甜，但从那以后千万别觉得安全，因为一个男人一旦说出你想要什么就拿什么，他就已经下定了决心，而人通常受小我支配，所以这相当危险，男人要下定决心得花很长时间，他们非常摇摆不定。这是女人的标准，是她本质上的基本品质——她应当知道那句陈述事实的话：我知道，我知道那未知的。这是她的基本品质，也是她的安全所在。

The one word which Guru Nanak gave us, Ang Sang Wahe Guru, it doesn't exist in any scriptural world. They always say, God be with you, God be with you, nobody says God is with you and Ang Sang Wahe Guru actually means God is...

Guru Nanak 给我们的那一个词，Ang Sang Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo，它在任何经典的世界里都不存在。他们总是说，神与你同在，神与你同在，没人说神就在你之内，而 Ang Sang Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo 实际上意思是神是……

Students: With you.

学生：与你同在。

YB: God is with me, I know, what is that statement we made in the first?

YB：神与我同在，我知道，我们在开头说的那句陈述是什么？

Students: (---).

学生：（---）。

YB: What is that? Come on.

YB：那是什么？来啊。

Students: I know the unknown is known to me.

学生：我知道那未知的，它为我所知。

YB: I know the unknown is known to...

YB：我知道那未知的，它为……所知

Students: Me.

学生：我。

(---).

（---）。

YB: What is that? Come on.

YB：那是什么？来啊。

Students: I know the unknown is known to me.

学生：我知道那未知的，它为我所知。

YB: I know the unknown is known to...

YB：我知道那未知的，它为……所知

Students: Me.

学生：我。

YB: It's a statement, I know the unknown is known to me, think about it, you can think on it, you can meditate on it for all your life, it will always inspire you, it will always make you strong, it will always carry you through any diversity, I know the unknown is known to me, there is nothing more in self-confidence than this and anybody who has achieved the state of consciousness of self-confidence, self-equilibrium, self-balance is radiant.

YB：这是一句陈述，我知道那未知的，它为我所知，想想它，你可以想它，你可以用一辈子去冥想它，它会永远启发你，它会永远让你坚强，它会永远带你穿过任何逆境，我知道那未知的，它为我所知，在自信里没有比这更多的了，而任何达到自信、自我平衡、自我均衡这种意识状态的人，都是光芒四射的。

All right, now you can ask any question, it's your house. I made some very strong statement and I put all the burden on you. Sometime you wonder why I do not tell some men have to do anything. How can part be equal to a whole?

好，现在你们可以问任何问题，这是你们的家。我说了一些很强的话，把担子全压在你们身上。有时你会纳闷，为什么我不告诉某些男人该做什么。部分怎么可能等于整体？

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: It's impossible. Yes Harbhajan.

YB：不可能。好，Harbhajan。

Student: (---).

学生：（---）。

YB: That means by himself he doesn't care, he is heading for a disaster. This statement is a baited statement; or when I say I provide you this thing, I provide you that thing, when a man tempts to you, bait you, be alert, danger is on the corner. Yes.

YB：那意味着他自己不在乎，他正走向灾难。这句话是带饵的话；或者当我说我给你这个，我给你那个，当一个男人引诱你、给你下饵时，要警觉，危险就在拐角。好。

Student: (---).

学生：（---）。

I say I provide you this thing, I provide you that thing, when a man tempts to you, bait you, be alert, danger is on the corner. Yes.

我说我给你这个，我给你那个，当一个男人引诱你、给你下饵时，要警觉，危险就在拐角。好。

Student: (---).

学生：（---）。

YB: Right there, don't spare a second, tell him, 'I know the unknown is known to me and I don't need any security on this earth I am secure,' he will fall apart.

YB：就在当下，一秒都别耽搁，告诉他，「我知道那未知的，它为我所知，在这个地球上我不需要任何安全，我是安全的」，他会崩溃。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

Student: What do you do when you...

学生：当你……你会怎么做？

YB: A man who falls apart is like a drowning man and he wants the woman to drown with him and if you refuse his ego won't let him drown.

YB：一个崩溃的男人就像一个溺水的人，他想让那个女人跟他一起淹死，如果你拒绝，他的小我不会让他淹死。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生们：（笑声。）

YB: If you do not drown with a drowning man his ego won't let him drown, he will come out, he doesn't need help, men don't need help, all they need is your determination, polarity, they come out, they act to polarity like anything.

YB：如果你不跟一个溺水的人一起淹死，他的小我就不会让他淹死，他会自己出来，他不需要帮助，男人不需要帮助，他们需要的只是你的决心、极性，他们就会出来，他们对极性的反应比什么都强烈。

Student: A woman inspires man by living...

学生：女人通过活出……来启发男人

help, all they need is your determination, polarity, they come out, they act to polarity like anything.

帮助，他们需要的只是你的决心、极性，他们就会出来，他们对极性的反应比什么都强烈。

Student: A woman inspires man by living...

学生：女人通过活出……来启发男人

YB: Yeah you don't tell your man, 'wake me up for Sadhana tomorrow morning,' you get up, make enough noise in the bathroom, get ready, do your own Sadhana, and don't even talk to him. In two, three days he will start doing himself, but if you tell him, 'Darling, wake me up for Sadhana tomorrow. ' Forget it, he'll say, 'I'll sleep, well yogi is not in the bedroom, what the hell you are talking. ' But if you do not do Sadhana for one day he is not going to do for a whole month and when you say 'do Sadhana,'

YB：对，你不要告诉你的男人，「明天早上叫我起来做萨达那」，你自己起来，在浴室里弄出足够的动静，准备好，做你自己的萨达那，连话都不要跟他说。两三天后他自己就会开始做，但如果你告诉他，「亲爱的，明天早上叫我起来做萨达那。」算了吧，他会说，「我要睡觉，瑜伽士又不在卧室里，你在胡说些什么。」但如果你有一天没做萨达那，他整整一个月都不会做，而当你一说「做萨达那」，

'What happened to you that Friday? What the hell you are lecturing me for? You are professing to be a saint, I know you Friday you are a great saint. '

「你那个星期五怎么了？你凭什么来教训我？你自称是个圣人，我知道你星期五是个大圣人。」

Students: (Laughter.)

学生们：（笑声。）

YB: 'You never even got up, you were snoring at the time when there was Sadhana going on,' he will not even get up himself, but once he knows you forget it, he will lay flat on your face. It's a ordinary nature of every man, no man is away from this, including me, that's their nature.

YB：「你根本没起来，萨达那进行的时候你还在打呼噜呢，」他自己连起都不会起，但一旦他知道你忘了，算了吧，他会直接趴在你脸上。这是每个男人的普通天性，没有一个男人能脱离这一点，包括我，这就是他们的天性。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生们：（笑声。）

will lay flat on your face. It's a ordinary nature of every man, no man is away from this, including me, that's their nature.

会直接趴在你脸上。这是每个男人的普通天性，没有一个男人能脱离这一点，包括我，这就是他们的天性。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生们：（笑声。）

YB: Oh little bit yoga might have I told you, that doesn't make any difference. But you know what I mean. They are all true to their nature. Yes.

YB：哦，我可能练过一点瑜伽，我跟你说过，那没什么区别。但你懂我的意思。他们都忠于自己的天性。是的。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Consciousness?

YB：意识？

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Seven year cycle is that of consciousness, intelligent cycle is eleven years and life cycle is eighteen years, and those who believe that everything should come from God they never suffer. If you have consciousness and intelligence in scroll of life that everything should come from God and you don't create hanky-panky of securities then everything will come so much in safe custody that He will make you happy, you will never have a trouble. Otherwise...

YB：七年的周期是意识的周期，智力的周期是 11 年，生命的周期是 18 年，而那些相信一切都应该来自神的人，他们从不受苦。如果你在生命的卷轴里有这样的意识和智力——一切都应该来自神，而你不去搞那些安全感的名堂，那么一切都会在如此安全的保管中到来，祂会让你快乐，你永远不会有麻烦。否则……

hanky-panky of securities then everything will come so much in safe custody that He will make you happy, you will never have a trouble. Otherwise...

证券的那些鬼把戏，然后一切都会在安全的保管中到来，多到祂会让你快乐，你永远不会有麻烦。否则……

You know there is a one fundamental thing, where there is a dharma there is no karma, that's a granted fact. Karma comes where there is no dharma and karma means action and reaction, that means problem. I have seen throughout my study people who are good in Sadhana and they are humble and they go Gadi Rah, they go by the path of Aradhana, there is no problem, they overcome their past karma. Past karmas hit you very badly, but you get through it. Yes.

你知道有一个根本的道理，哪里有正法，哪里就没有业力，这是铁定的事实。业力出现在没有正法的地方，业力意味着行动与反应，那就是问题。在我的研究中，我见过那些萨达那做得好、又谦卑的人，他们走在 Gadi Rah 上，走在专注修持的路上，没有麻烦，他们超越了自己过去的业力。过去的业力会狠狠地打击你，但你能挺过去。是的。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Yeah when you want, when you want to do something you are doing it under the impulse of ego and dharma has no ego, dharma has, as Guru say, if Guru says to you to commit to suicide, commit it, if Guru doesn't say it then what? You can't commit it. You will commit it when you want to commit it. As Guru said that Dharma is a dedicated path, Nimth, that is why there is no karma, it is as Guru has said it, that is called dharma and Guru is not going to say anything which is not infinite truth, when you are going to say that is going to cause the trouble.

YB：是的，当你想做某件事时，你是在小我的冲动下做的，而正法没有小我，正法有——正如古茹所说，如果古茹叫你去自杀，你就去自杀；如果古茹没这么说，那又怎样？你不能自杀。你想自杀的时候才会去自杀。正如古茹所说，正法是一条奉献的路，Nimth，所以没有业力，它是古茹说过的，那才叫正法，而古茹不会说任何不是无限真理的话，当你要说的时候，那就会惹出麻烦。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

and Guru is not going to say anything which is not infinite truth, when you are going to say that is going to cause the trouble.

而古茹不会说任何不是无限真理的话，当你要说的时候，那就会惹出麻烦。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: There is no unconsciousness, unconsciousness is not Kundalini yoga. Kundalini yoga is the yoga of awareness, start doing yoga, awareness will come to you, stand in (?) posture.

YB：没有无意识这回事，无意识不是昆达里尼瑜伽。昆达里尼瑜伽是觉知的瑜伽，开始做瑜伽，觉知就会来到你身上，站成（？）姿势。

It really worked in one case, the woman was so mad she wanted to go and jump out of the window, instead of jumping out of the window she went into (?) posture, after three minutes she just was enlightened. Do Sat Kriya. There was a one woman she wanted to kill her husband, it is true, and she decided 'I'll kill husband, I'll kill my three children, I'll kill myself,' and she knew where the revolver is and she found it out, perfect, instead of that she went in bathroom and did the Sat Kriya, she came out as a very divine. Yes.

它真的在一个案例里奏效了，那个女人气得要跳窗，她没有跳窗，而是进入了（？）姿势，三分钟后她就开悟了。做 Sat Kriya。有一个女人想杀了她丈夫，这是真的，她决定「我要杀了丈夫，我要杀了我三个孩子，我要杀了我自己」，她知道左轮手枪在哪里，还把它找了出来，完美，可她没有那么做，而是进了浴室做 Sat Kriya，出来时变得非常神圣。是的。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Oh yeah, yeah man in a gossip is far out. The quality of the man to paint a garden of Eden ha, ha, ha, ha, you know, this is the first quality, difference between a man and woman is woman love to listen to gossip and man is expert in it.

YB：哦是的，是的，男人在八卦上可是很超前的。男人描绘伊甸园的那种本事，哈哈哈，你知道，这是第一个特质，男人和女人的区别就是女人爱听八卦，而男人是这方面的专家。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生们：（笑声。）

know, this is the first quality, difference between a man and woman is woman love to listen to gossip and man is expert in it.

你知道，这是第一个特质，男人和女人的区别就是女人爱听八卦，而男人是这方面的专家。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生们：（笑声。）

YB: The only criteria unfortunate part on the part of a woman is that she wants to listen to it.

YB：不幸的是，女人唯一的准则就是她想听这些话。

Somebody once asked question to God, one saint presented himself to God and God said, "What do you want to know? "

有一次有人问神一个问题，一位圣人来到神面前，神说：“你想知道什么？”

He said, "God I know you, I know your creation, and I know time and space. "

他说：“神啊，我认识你，我认识你的造物，我也认识时间和空间。”

He said, "Then what you want to know? "

神说：“那你还想知道什么？”

He said, "God, why you created gossip? "

他说：“神啊，你为什么创造流言蜚语？”

He said, "The woman wanted to listen to it. "

神说：“因为女人想听。”

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

And he said, "That's what you made us to do it? "

他又说：“这就是你造我们来做的事？”

He said, "Yes, that is the polarity. "

神说：“是的，这就是二元对立。”

So banana spine will make more gossips and make look them real, then...

所以香蕉型的脊柱会制造更多流言蜚语，还会让它们看起来像真的，然后……

I tell you one thing, real men are heavy, there are certain qualities of real men; heavy, critical, very critical, very touchy because they are very sophisticated. They are like what you call Geneva watch, you know little movement everything upset because they can stand nonsense. What is a sophisticated man? Who cannot stand nonsense. What is a righteous man? Who cannot stand nonsense.

我告诉你一件事，真正的男人是沉重的，真正的男人有某些特质；沉重、挑剔、非常挑剔、非常敏感，因为他们非常精细。他们就像你说的日内瓦手表，你知道，一点点动静就全都乱了，因为他们受不了胡闹。什么是精细的男人？就是受不了胡闹的人。什么是正直的男人？就是受不了胡闹的人。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

they can stand nonsense. What is a sophisticated man? Who cannot stand nonsense. What is a righteous man? Who cannot stand nonsense.

他们受不了胡闹。什么是精细的男人？就是受不了胡闹的人。什么是正直的男人？就是受不了胡闹的人。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: You happen to meet a perfect man what should you do? That is what you are saying, do your Sadhana.

YB：你碰巧遇到一个完美的男人，你该怎么做？这就是你刚才说的，做你的萨达那（Sadhana）。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: Exactly, Sadhana, you know...

YB：没错，萨达那，你知道……

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: It is perfect. You do not know you are going to find out banana spines now or this new generation which is coming is almost like that. Yes.

YB：它是完美的。你不知道，你现在就要发现香蕉型脊柱了，或者正在到来的这一代新人几乎就是这样。是的。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Bani Anand Sahib and Sukhmani Sahib are very perfect banis. Dekho, Japji, they are not bani, if your Ji Ji means the very inner essence of you and your grace that is Jap Sahib, if that internal peace is imbalance then Anand Sahib. (?), when you want to augment yourself. These banis have purpose, there is no bani without purpose, it's a cosmic power. Contain into that vocabulary combination and permutation.

YB：Bani《极乐颂》（Anand Sahib）和《Sukhmani Sahib》是非常完美的 bani。你看，Japji，它们不是 bani，如果你的 Ji Ji 指的是你最深处的内在本质和你的优雅，那就是 Jap Sahib，如果那份内在的和平失衡了，那就是《极乐颂》。（？），当你想壮大自己的时候。这些 bani 都有目的，没有哪个 bani 是没有目的的，它是一种宇宙力量。包含在那套词汇的组合与排列之中。

yourself. These banis have purpose, there is no bani without purpose, it's a cosmic power. Contain into that vocabulary combination and permutation.

你自己。这些 bani 都有目的，没有哪个 bani 是没有目的的，它是一种宇宙力量。包含在那套词汇的组合与排列之中。

What is a bani? Write down the English definition of it. Bani is a cosmic power contained in the permutation and combination of that Nad originated by the Gurus and which are contained in the living vibratory essence Siri Guru Granth Sahib, that's why is Sahib living being, graceful being. It's not a holy book, remember, that is a greatest insult you when you address that thing as a holy book. Then you are talking of a very finite earthly thing, it's a cosmic contained energy in that great container, that great being and reading it is revitalizing yourself. Yes.

什么是 bani？把它的英文定义写下来。Bani 是一种宇宙力量，它包含在古茹们所创生的 Naad 的排列与组合之中，也包含在活生生的振动本质《圣格兰特经》（Siri Guru Granth Sahib）之中，所以它是 Sahib，是活着的存在，是优雅的存在。记住，它不是一本圣书，你把它称作圣书，那是对它最大的侮辱。那样你就是在说一件非常有限的地球上的东西，它是包含在那个伟大容器、那个伟大存在之中的宇宙能量，读它就是在让自己恢复活力。是的。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Mool mantra, Guru Gayatri, all Asthang mantras are that way. Yes.

YB：Mool mantra、Guru Gayatri，所有 Asthang 曼陀罗都是这样。是的。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

and reading it is revitalizing yourself. Yes.

读它就是在让自己恢复活力。是的。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Mool mantra, Guru Gayatri, all Asthang mantras are that way. Yes.

YB：Mool mantra、Guru Gayatri，所有 Asthang 曼陀罗都是这样。是的。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Heavy man is a man like a elephant who walks and is very sure of his beat. Heavy men are those called men with very strong will and absolute character, you can't mushroom around. Heavy man is also a very self-contained personality. Some of American men I have met are very heavy, they are very sure of themselves, very sure of their grounds, and they are very sure what they are doing.

YB：厚重的人就像大象一样走路，对自己的步点非常确定。厚重的人就是那些被称为意志极强、品格绝对的人，你没法在他周围蘑菇来蘑菇去。厚重的人也是一种非常自足的人格。我见过的一些美国男人非常厚重，他们对自己非常确定，对自己的立足点非常确定，对自己在做什么非常确定。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: It is very good for life partnership, it is very good for life friendship, because you are always sure how this man is going to be. There is no guess work with heavy man. You are always sure how negative he is. Heavy does not mean he is always positive man, don't misunderstand, heavy man can be negative heavy. There was a one woman she knew her negative heavy man is very objectionable to any kind of soft music. So when she want him out of the house she will play the soft music and there he goes, picks up the car and gone for the whole day. She has never to tell him please quit or get out.

YB：这对人生伴侣关系非常好，对一生的友谊非常好，因为你总是确定这个人会是什么样。跟厚重的人在一起没有猜测。你总是确定他有多负面。厚重并不意味着他总是正面的人，别误会，厚重的人也可以是负面的厚重。有一个女人，她知道她那个负面厚重的男人对任何柔和的音乐都非常反感。所以当她想让他离开家时，她就放柔和的音乐，他就走了，拿起车钥匙，一整天都不回来。她从来不用告诉他请你停下或者出去。

house she will play the soft music and there he goes, picks up the car and gone for the whole day. She has never to tell him please quit or get out.

家时，她就放柔和的音乐，他就走了，拿起车钥匙，一整天都不回来。她从来不用告诉他请你停下或者出去。

She knew it by nature that whenever there is a beautiful western soft symphony music there he goes and she wants to keep him in the house then that heavy jazz what they call it, hallelujah hoooo, that, he will keep his head moving and he will be right around.

她凭天性就知道，只要一有美妙的西方柔和交响乐，他就走了；而她想把他留在家里时，就放那种厚重的爵士乐，他们管它叫什么，哈利路亚呼呼，那个，他就会脑袋一直晃，一直待在旁边。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: With a husband you are always alone.

YB：有了丈夫，你永远是孤独的。

Student: Well.

学生：嗯。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生们：（笑声。）

YB: I have never seen in man and a woman who does not have their own language, not at all, not a single one.

YB：我从未见过一个男人和一个女人没有他们自己的语言，从来没有，一个都没有。

Every relationship have three things their own-relationship have their three things, their language, their sign language, and their common habits, common intuitions, habit intuition, you know if they want to sneak out to eat, they both will say, let us meditate, they will never say let us go and yell at the food and eat pizza.

每一种关系都有三样东西，它们各自的关系有三样东西，它们的语言、它们的手语，还有它们共同的习惯、共同的直觉、习惯性直觉，你知道，如果它们想偷偷溜出去吃东西，它们俩都会说，我们来冥想吧，它们绝不会说，我们去冲着食物大喊大叫然后吃披萨。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

"Darling, did you meditate this morning all right? "

“亲爱的，你今天早上冥想得还好吗？”

He will say, "You know kind of. "

他会说，“你知道，还行吧。”

"How about evening meditation? "

“那晚上的冥想呢？”

"Let us go out in the wilderness and do it. "

“我们出去到野外做吧。”

And you can find them in pizza hut.

然后你能在必胜客找到他们。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

of. "

的。”

"How about evening meditation? "

“那晚上的冥想呢？”

"Let us go out in the wilderness and do it. "

“我们出去到野外做吧。”

And you can find them in pizza hut.

然后你能在必胜客找到他们。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: Meditating on double cheese and double onions and the whole stuff.

YB：冥想双份奶酪、双份洋葱和那一大堆东西。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: And this, this is called lovers language, lovers language is totally secret in every openness.

YB：而这，这就叫恋人的语言，恋人的语言在一切敞开之中完全是秘密的。

Student: Sometimes it is interrupted very much in the ashram.

学生：有时候它在灵修社区里被打断得很厉害。

YB: Yeah it is interrupted very much in the ashram when you are very foolish. Don't ask back, what do you mean by meditation? Meditation means meditate and get along. Man says, "My dear, how about evening walk? " Now he wants to go to ice-cream, right.

YB：是啊，当你非常愚蠢的时候，它在灵修社区里被打断得很厉害。别反问，你说的冥想是什么意思？冥想就是去冥想，然后好好相处。男人说，“亲爱的，晚上去散个步怎么样？”现在他想去的是冰淇淋店，对吧。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: There is no evening walk, everybody knows 3HO can't afford evening walk, it is ice-cream walk.

YB：根本没有什么晚间散步，谁都知道 3HO 负担不起晚间散步，那是冰淇淋散步。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: So why not to get along and just silently do it and later on tell him sugar is not good for health.

YB：那为什么不顺着来，就默默地去做，过后再告诉他糖对健康不好。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: You understand what I mean?

YB：你明白我的意思吗？

not to get along and just silently do it and later on tell him sugar is not good for health.

不顺着来，就默默地去做，过后再告诉他糖对健康不好。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: You understand what I mean?

YB：你明白我的意思吗？

I know of a lady, the man invite him to evening walk and the wife knew what that evening walk shall mean, so what she did was, she took away a lot of apples and all that, I mean, she was very fast in that and she said, "Before we go for a long evening walk we should sit in the park. " So they sat in the park, so she said, "Oh by the way I have just carried few plums and apples and this and... " You know, sweet tooth is sweet tooth. He ate whole, it's very tasty, very good, bah-bah-bah, and that his sweet tooth was totally quenched he said, "Come let's go back home. " That's a woman who can divert a disaster.

我认识一位女士，男人邀请她去晚间散步，妻子知道那晚间散步意味着什么，所以她做的是，她带走了很多苹果和那一类东西，我是说，她在这上面反应非常快，她说，“在我们去长时间晚间散步之前，我们应该先在公园里坐坐。”于是他们坐在公园里，她说，“哦，顺便说一句，我刚带了些李子和苹果还有这个和……”你知道，爱吃甜的就是爱吃甜的。他全吃了，很好吃，非常好，吧啦吧啦吧啦，等他的甜食瘾完全被满足了，他说，“来，我们回家吧。”这就是一个能把灾难转移开的女人。

Side – B

B 面

And please note it down woman is responsible to earth because she is the earth and she is responsible to God because He is the Creator of the earth, this we will discuss tomorrow in the beaming woman and the beaming faculty of the human being as a creative woman. Wahe Wahe Guru Ji Ka Khalsa...

请把它记下来：女人对大地负责，因为她就是大地；她也对神负责，因为祂是大地的创造者。这个我们明天再讲，讲光芒四射的女人，以及人作为有创造力的女人所具备的光芒四射的官能。Wahe Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo Ji Ka Khalsa……

Students: Wahe Guru Ji Ki Fateh...

学生：Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo Ji Ki Fateh……

YB: Okay how you feel? I feel good after coming back, my luggage has still not come.

YB：好，你们感觉怎么样？我回来以后感觉很好，我的行李还没到。

Wahe Guru Ji Ka Khalsa...

Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo Ji Ka Khalsa……

Students: Wahe Guru Ji Ki Fateh...

学生：Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo Ji Ki Fateh……

YB: Okay how you feel? I feel good after coming back, my luggage has still not come.

YB：好，你们感觉怎么样？我回来以后感觉很好，我的行李还没到。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: Listen you guys, this is going to be three weeks and three weeks of heavy Sadhana. Ladies camp this year has been designated to bring in the negativity, the very hidden negativity of the subconscious, routine has been made that way including the food. It was amaze, but you can cheat on it and it will not only affect more than twenty-five percent, we are getting perfect and perfect. We are going to add new activities next year and if God willing somehow some money comes and we are willing to have better facilities, but I like to remind to you 1979 is coming and 1980s is on our head. Normal frequency of insanity among people is going to be higher than we have experienced in the past.

YB：听着，各位，接下来是 3 周，3 周高强度的萨达那。今年的女士营被指定用来带出负面性，带出潜意识里藏得最深的负面性，日常安排就是照这个做的，连食物也是。这很了不起，但你可以作弊，那影响的可不止 25%，我们正在变得越来越完美。明年我们会加进新的活动，如果神愿意，能来一些钱，我们愿意有更好的设施，但我想提醒你们，1979 年要来了，1980 年代就压在我们头上。人们当中精神失常的常态频率，会比我们过去经历的高得多。

to you 1979 is coming and 1980s is on our head. Normal frequency of insanity among people is going to be higher than we have experienced in the past.

1979 年要来了，1980 年代就压在我们头上。人们当中精神失常的常态频率，会比我们过去经历的高得多。

So I'll pray to God and request you, save your husbands, save your homes, and save your dharma, that is guarantee that you will pass through this tidal wave of insanity. Don't totally get sleepy, look around and see what is happening to people, you will feel how bizarre the situation is. It is not very convenient to get up early in the morning and do Sadhana, but it is very inconvenient to live in a uncozy environments. To guarantee cozy environments you have to have discipline and there is no better discipline than self-discipline and self-discipline belongs to those who getup in the morning, do their own Sadhana, and feel free before their consciousness and they can say I know...

所以我会向神祈祷，也请求你们：救你们的丈夫，救你们的家，救你们的正法，这就是保证你能穿过这股精神失常的浪潮。别完全睡死过去，看看四周，看看人们身上在发生什么，你会感觉到情况有多怪异。一大早起来做萨达那并不太方便，但住在一个不舒服的环境里非常不方便。要保证有舒服的环境，你就得有纪律，没有比自律更好的纪律，而自律属于那些早上起来、做自己的萨达那、在自己的意识面前感到自由的人，他们可以说：我知道……

Students: The unknown is known to me.

学生：未知对我是已知的。

YB: Is known to me, I know the unknown is known to me and that is only practically with you when you do your own Sadhana and not somebody come with a guitar, happy are those who rise for God in the morning.

YB：对我是已知的，我知道未知对我是已知的，而这只有在你做自己的萨达那、而不是别人拿着吉他来的时候，才真正发生在你身上。那些早上为神起身的人是快乐的。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

He said, "Well what time it is? I'll be there in another fifteen minutes. "

他说：“嗯，现在几点了？我再过 15 分钟就到。”

happy are those who rise for God in the morning.

那些清晨为神起身的人是有福的。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

He said, "Well what time it is? I'll be there in another fifteen minutes. "

他说：“嗯，现在几点了？我再过十五分钟就到。”

Look I have gone through all this, don't misunderstand I am making it up, I have gone through all this nonsense. You know so much cheating I used to do, now I am old enough I can confess.

你看，这些事我都经历过，别误会，我不是在编，这些胡闹的事我都干过。你知道我以前作弊作得多厉害，现在我年纪够大了，可以坦白了。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: When our guide used to come in the hostel I was in Guru Nanak Khalsa college hostel and he will come for Divinity. If we do in the morning Divinity then it was you cannot come for the Divinity period and then you can play your football. So before five minutes of his arrival we will get up, sit down put a blanket around Sat Nam, Sat Nam, Sat Nam, so he will say, "Why to wake him, he is already wake. " You know what I mean. He will go away and we say Sat Nam.

YB：当年我们的导师来宿舍的时候——我那时在 Guru Nanak Khalsa 学院的宿舍——他会来上神学课。如果早上上神学课，那你就不能来上神学课，然后才能去踢足球。所以在他到的五分钟前，我们就爬起来，坐好，裹上毯子，Sat Nam，Sat Nam，Sat Nam，他就会说：“何必叫醒他，他已经醒了。”你懂我的意思吧。他就走了，然后我们说 Sat Nam。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: Can you believe this high caliber cheating?

YB：你能相信这种高水平的作弊吗？

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: It's really professional job.

YB：这真是专业水准。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: So don't worry still there is a hope.

YB：所以别担心，还是有希望的。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

(Laughter.)

（笑声。）

YB: It's really professional job.

YB：这真是专业水准。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: So don't worry still there is a hope.

YB：所以别担心，还是有希望的。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: If I can become a yogi with all this affairs you all can be. You know what I mean? Now we laugh at things because light of God is the living principle of human life. So don't in your ignorance and in your temptation and in your environments get into the areas where you don't belong to, you are the radiant light of God, live that way. Yes.

YB：如果我干了这些事还能成为瑜伽士，你们所有人都能。你懂我的意思吧？现在我们拿这些事笑一笑，因为神的光就是人类生命的活的法则。所以不要在你的无知里、在你的诱惑里、在你的环境里，走进那些不属于你的地方，你是神那光芒四射的光，就那样活。好。

Student: (---).

学生：（---）。

YB: What?

YB：什么？

Students: (---).

学生：（---）。

YB: I didn't hear the question.

YB：我没听清问题。

Student: (---).

学生：（---）。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: In other words you are asking me to give an unprovokable order that Jasbir Kaur should be always in the march.

YB：换句话说，你是在要求我下一道无法被挑起的命令，让 Jasbir Kaur 永远都得在队列里。

Students: No, no.

学生：不，不。

YB: No, no, no, no and in relation to that question of your my answer is if this question is put as a demand I'll accede by telling Jasbir Kaur that she should be in the parade every morning.

YB：不，不，不，不，关于你那个问题，我的回答是：如果这个问题是作为一项要求提出来的，我就会答应，告诉 Jasbir Kaur 她每天早上都该在队列里。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: You have a very smart teacher darling.

YB：你有个非常聪明的老师，亲爱的。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: It will be very great on the part of Jasbir Kaur to march, to invoke those who do not believe in marching so when the time demands on us we can march together.

YB：Jasbir Kaur 要是能去走队列，去召唤那些不相信走队列的人，那是非常了不起的，这样当时候需要我们的时候，我们就能一起走。

very great on the part of Jasbir Kaur to march, to invoke those who do not believe in marching so when the time demands on us we can march together.

Jasbir Kaur 要是能去走队列，去召唤那些不相信走队列的人，那是非常了不起的，这样当时候需要我们的时候，我们就能一起走。

Students: Wahe Guru, Wahe Guru.

学生：Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo，Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo。

YB: Lesson of life is you have come marching from God, keep marching and go marching to the God Almighty in a rhythm.

YB：人生的功课就是，你是从神那里走着来的，继续走，带着节奏一路走向全能的 God。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: If I live and I am allowed to work in this physical body I'll make a woman so expert that the toppest trained solider and the most recognized saint shall not be in a position to beat our Khalsa women.

YB：如果我还活着，还能在这个肉体里工作，我会把一个女人训练得如此专业，以至于最顶尖的士兵和最受认可的圣人都无法打败我们的卡尔萨女性。

Students: Wahe Guru.

学生：Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo。

YB: And that is the intention we are not going to stop on any second to it. You want me to tell her that on every marching session she should be present five minutes ahead of everybody? I believe and trust Jasbir Kaur and she knows what is right that's why I never tell her anything, but anyway I will ask her to give a some special time.

YB：这就是我们的意图，我们一刻都不会停下。你想让我告诉她，每次行军训练她都应该比所有人提前五分钟到场吗？我相信并信任 Jasbir Kaur，她知道什么是对的，所以我才从不告诉她任何事，但不管怎样，我会请她给出一些特别的时间。

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Hey eight hours in camp, eight hours doing Sadhana, sixteen hours and eight hours for personal work, just cut down four hours of personal work and learn Kirtan. How you like that idea? Didn't satisfy you?

YB：嘿，在营地八小时，做萨达那八小时，十六小时，还有八小时用于个人事务，只要砍掉四小时的个人事务，去学 Kirtan。你觉得这个主意怎么样？没让你满意？

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

hours for personal work, just cut down four hours of personal work and learn Kirtan. How you like that idea? Didn't satisfy you?

小时用于个人事务，只要砍掉四小时的个人事务，去学 Kirtan。你觉得这个主意怎么样？没让你满意？

Student: (---).

学生：（——）。

YB: Hari Kishan come on now with a question, don't take the defeat.

YB：Hari Kishan，现在来问个问题，别认输。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: Jasbir Kaur one who is happily willing to learn Gurbani must be fulfilled. She will compensate it.

YB：Jasbir Kaur，一个乐于学习 Gurbani 的人必须得到满足。她会补偿的。

Sometime you do not understand this drill we are emphasizing now. I like to explain to you. Rhythmic body is based on three energies:-sympathetic, parasympathetic, and action nerve system and if the brain is not trained to correlate into these there energy into the unison of activity man feels frustrated and negative in life without any rhyme and reason. That is to avoid that we are now emphasizing on a movement posture in which to elaborately collaborate all these three energies into unison of the action of command so that reaction can be absolutely balanced.

有时你不理解我们现在强调的这个操练。我想向你解释。有节奏的身体基于三种能量：交感神经、副交感神经和运动神经系统，如果大脑没有被训练去把这三种能量协调到活动的统一中，人就会在生活中感到挫败和消极，毫无道理可言。为了避免这一点，我们现在强调一种动作姿势，在其中详尽地让这三种能量协作，进入命令行动的统一，这样反应才能绝对平衡。

posture in which to elaborately collaborate all these three energies into unison of the action of command so that reaction can be absolutely balanced.

姿势，在其中详尽地让这三种能量协作，进入命令行动的统一，这样反应才能绝对平衡。

It is very essential for you to learn to drill and learn to drill at a proper command so that the body can exactly move 'attention,' and twelve hundred people come to attention right on that 'tion. ' The first word 'atten,' is a caution and 'tion' is the action and one regiment called, platoon cost about twelve hundred people or can you imagine a ground with twenty-five thousand people in parade and a single voice 'turn to the right face right, right turn,' that's it and everything moves. Can you understand the unison of the energy? 'On your right forward march,' and every step moves.

对你来说，学会操练、学会在正确的口令下操练，是非常必要的，这样身体才能准确地移动「attention」，一千二百人就在那个「tion」上立正。「atten」这个词是警告，「tion」是行动，一个团叫一个排，大约一千二百人，或者你能想象一片场地上有两万五千人在阅兵，而一个声音「向右转，向右转」，就这样，一切都动了。你能理解能量的统一吗？「向右前进」，每一步都移动。

You have seen me as a teacher, not as an instructor. If one day I take you on a parade only God can save you.

你们把我当成老师，不是教练。哪天我带你们去游行，那就只有神能救你们了。

Students: (Laughter.)

学生：（笑声。）

YB: Nothing else, but that is real living, that is the real flow of energy, that what one knows Ang Sang Wahe Guru and each part of your body moves under the will of the command of the command which is just known and one day knowingly it becomes unknown and it is called Nirvana.

YB：别的都不算，那才是真正的活着，那才是能量的真正流动，就是一个人知道 Ang Sang Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo，你身体的每一个部分都随着那命令的意志而动，那命令只是被知道，而有一天，在知道中它变成了不知道，这就叫涅槃。

Students: Wahe Guru.

学生：Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo。

the will of the command of the command which is just known and one day knowingly it becomes unknown and it is called Nirvana.

那命令的意志，那命令只是被知道，而有一天，在知道中它变成了不知道，这就叫涅槃。

Students: Wahe Guru.

学生：Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo。

The class sings: "May the long time sunshine upon you... "

全班唱诵：「愿那长久的阳光照耀着你……」