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KWTC 讲座

KWTC Lecture

日期:1984-07-31地点:Espanola, NM

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Three hundred other extras and three things in real, repeat those three things.

另外三百个额外的东西,还有三件真实的事,把那三件事重复一遍。

Students: (-----)

学生:(-----)

YB: Actually that is what he is seeking. He wants his home, he wants his coziness, he wants everything and he doesn't want to lift a pinky. That's a man. You want to change him, forget it? Make him wash dishes, make him wash dishes he will do it with love but he will get even with you. But if he washes dishes and he will wash you too. Try to understand the difference what he does that is his ego, 'I do it to love you' that's his expression whatever you call it but if you make him wash dishes forget it he is going to do you in whenever he gets the time never forgets it. The problem is just understand his vastness, his shallowness, his depth and his smallness and also same way yours and just match it. Do you understand it? You have a idea? Yeah?

YB:其实那正是他在追寻的。他想要他的家,他想要他的舒适,他什么都想要,却连小指头都不肯抬一下。男人就是这样。你想改变他,算了吧?让他洗碗,让他洗碗他会带着爱去做,但他会跟你算账。可要是他洗碗,他也会把你给洗了。试着去理解这个差别——他做那件事是他的小我,「我这么做是为了爱你」,那是他的表达,随你怎么叫它;但如果你让他洗碗,算了吧,他一有机会就会整你,永远不会忘。问题就在于,去理解他的广阔、他的浅薄、他的深度和他的渺小,也同样理解你自己的,然后把它配平。你明白吗?你有概念吗?嗯?

Student: Sir, when my husband gets angry,

学生:先生,当我丈夫生气的时候,

YB: Why you bring his name otherwise it will be (?) when you say when a man gets angry moment you work husband I have to (?) punch that, but it's not about your husband, right? Okay when a man, go ahead?

YB:你干嘛提他的名字,不然就会(?)当你说一个男人生气的时候,你一说到丈夫我就得(?)揍那个,但这跟你的丈夫无关,对吧?好,当一个男人,继续说?

(Students laugh)

(学生们笑)

Nobody talks about husband they talk about man? Huh, huh?

没人谈丈夫,他们谈的是男人?哈,哈?

Student: When a man gets angry it's usually is it (?) but (?) get angry?

学生:当一个男人生气的时候,通常是不是(?)但(?)生气?