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演讲库 / 1992-06-04

圣塔菲讲座

Santa Fe Lecture

日期:1992-06-04地点:Santa Fe, NM

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Okay, uhu-hu-hu-hu. We have been trying to pursue a simple course of action based on human desire to live and it's not that you express you don't want to live or you want to live, that's not what we are discussing here, it is our tendency that we want to live. And we want to be known, we want to be successful, with all that there is a one problem. We want to be loved. That's the subject, which I am touching tonight.

好,呼——呼——呼——呼。我们一直在试着走一条简单的路,它基于人想活下去的渴望。并不是说你要表达你不想活,或者你想活,我们这里讨论的不是这个,而是我们有一种倾向:我们想活。我们想被人知道,我们想成功,可这一切里面有一个问题。我们想被爱。这就是我今晚要谈的主题。

It is not what we want. We all want to be loved. And we want somebody to love you and.... Welcome, welcome, come in. It's not that you want to not be loved. You should be loved. But, on average the average marriage, which happens by love or arrangement is nine years and two months by national record. Divorce rate at this time is forty-two percent and within this one decade, it is 52.7. It's a tragedy of ten percent five increase.

这不是我们想要什么的问题。我们都想被爱。我们想有人爱你,还有……欢迎,欢迎,进来。并不是说你想不被爱。你应该被爱。可是平均来说,一场普通的婚姻,不管是因爱结合还是安排结合,按全国记录是 9 年零 2 个月。现在的离婚率是 42%,而在这十年之内,它是 52.7。这是增加了 10% 点五的悲剧。

national record. Divorce rate at this time is forty-two percent and within this one decade, it is 52.7. It's a tragedy of ten percent five increase.

全国记录。现在的离婚率是 42%,而在这十年之内,它是 52.7。这是增加了 10% 点五的悲剧。

There is a very simple question I am going to raise tonight. Love is in us. That will not go away, the need will not go away, we will love one, love two, love three, love four, love, love, love. And if you look in the dictionary tennis game starts with a love. So love has many meanings. But why we are in love and people say love is blind and why our love turns sour, that's the question today. What happens to us that we love and then we don't love. Same people, nothing changes. Between love and hatred, hatred and love, our life moves around. Qualifying factor is, what is love. I love you, you love me, we love you, they love us. Is that a expression? Yes.

今晚我要提出一个很简单的问题。爱就在我们里面。它不会消失,这份需要不会消失,我们会爱一个、爱两个、爱三个、爱四个,爱、爱、爱。你要是去查字典,网球比赛就是从 love 开始的。所以爱有很多含义。可为什么我们会在爱里,人们又说爱是盲目的,为什么我们的爱会变酸,这就是今天的问题。我们身上发生了什么,让我们先爱,然后又不爱了。同样的人,什么都没变。在爱与恨之间,恨与爱之间,我们的一生就这样转来转去。衡量标准是:什么是爱。我爱你,你爱我,我们爱你,他们爱我们。这是一种表达吗?是的。

If you do not love yourself to the depth of totality, you will never love, love as a reality. And that's the tragedy. If you do not love yourself unto totality of your own self, not of anybody, you will never love the love's reality.

如果你不爱自己,不爱到彻底完整的深度,你就永远不会爱,不会把爱当作真实去爱。这就是悲剧。如果你不爱自己,不爱到你自己这个存在的彻底完整,不是别人的,你就永远不会爱到爱的真实。

So what is love? A expression. A demonstration. A reach. What it teaches you? Pain.

那什么是爱?一种表达。一种展示。一种触及。它教会你什么?痛。

(Student's laughter)

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