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(Students sing)
（学生们唱歌）
(Song stops)
（歌声停止）
... I and Bibiji have invited young ladies to morning breakfast; there should be no jealousy on the part of the older ones.
……我和 Bibiji 邀请了年轻女士们来吃早餐；年长的那几位不该有嫉妒。
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
Is that all right?
这样可以吗？
Students: Yes sir.
学生：好的，先生。
YB: Well, this is the way we felt that day and we wanted that way. But if you really want to know what is being cooked and what is being fed then you can come and wash dishes.
YB：嗯，那天我们就是这么感觉的，我们就想那样。但如果你真想知道在煮什么、在喂什么，那你可以来洗碗。
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YB: Why not? Oh that's beautiful. Thank you. Something very beautiful has been printed and I think every woman should read this. Your Excellency from Washington, you gave me beautiful tree yesterday that was fine but I have to sit down... I am so overworked that yesterday from one O' clock to four O' clock I didn't have even consciousness, I had terrible fever. Thanks to Guru Amrit and her healing tricks I should say that I am sitting before you and talking, totally broken up in my own body. Oh beautiful, that's nice! The psychology of invincible woman. Here you are. It's quite a weight. Do you really read these things or not?
YB：为什么不呢？哦，太美了。谢谢你。有样东西印得非常美，我觉得每个女人都该读一读。来自华盛顿的阁下，你昨天送了我一棵漂亮的树，那很好，但我得坐下来……我太劳累了，昨天从 1 点到 4 点我连意识都没有了，我发着可怕的高烧。多亏 Guru Amrit 和她的疗愈手法，我该说，我现在能坐在你面前说话，身体却彻底垮了。哦，美，真好！不可战胜的女人的心理学。给你。这挺沉的。你真的读这些东西吗？
Students: Yes sir.
学生：是的，先生。
YB: This much I talked?
YB：我讲了这么多？
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
woman. Here you are. It's quite a weight. Do you really read these things or not?
女人。给你。这挺沉的。你真的读这些东西吗？
Students: Yes sir.
学生：是的，先生。
YB: This much I talked?
YB：我讲了这么多？
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
It's unbelievable. Who did it? You? Several people, those several people are going to do this year too?
难以置信。谁做的？你？好几个人，那好几个人今年还要做这个吗？
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YB: What do you mean manage? No, I understand... no I know somewhere along the line things are happening. Okay, give me a pencil. Now this is yours. Don't tell anybody what I wrote.
YB：你说管理是什么意思？不，我明白……不，我知道事情在某个环节上正在发生。好，给我一支铅笔。现在这是你的了。别告诉任何人我写了什么。
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
Subject is very unique; you are not going to like it. But if you just have enough tolerance to hear me that will be enough. Okay? How to get worshipped as a woman? You know what I am saying? How to get worshipped as a?
主题非常独特；你不会喜欢它。但只要你有一点耐心听我说，那就够了。好吗？怎样作为一个女人被崇拜？你知道我在说什么吗？怎样作为一个什么被崇拜？
Students: Woman.
学生：女人。
YB: First of all let us talk freely; do you want to get worshipped? Haa?
YB：首先，我们自由地谈一谈；你想被崇拜吗？哈？
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YB: Now let us be honest.
YB：现在让我们诚实一点。
Students: Yes sir.
学生：是的，先生。
Woman.
女人。
YB: First of all let us talk freely; do you want to get worshipped? Haa?
YB：首先，我们自由地谈一谈；你想被崇拜吗？哈？
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YB: Now let us be honest.
YB：现在让我们诚实一点。
Students: Yes sir.
学生：是的，先生。
YB: Then why you want to commercialize yourself to go out and sell yourself sexually and sensually. Explain it to me. Tell me. I'll like to have a answer. What is in you, which is missing? What is in you, which is wrong? What is in you, which makes you even to do it? I have never... I am fifty-five year old. You know in our village... from our village to railway station it was about what fifteen miles? Twelve to fifteen miles... can't measure it... it was a flag station, flag station means if we get up there, you know and if there is a passenger for that place then the train will stop. If not then it will go through.
YB：那你为什么想把自己商业化，出去把自己从性和感官上卖掉。给我解释解释。告诉我。我想得到一个答案。你里面到底有什么，是缺失的？你里面到底有什么，是错的？你里面到底有什么，竟让你去做这种事？我从来没有……我 55 岁了。你知道在我们村里……从我们村到火车站大概有 15 英里吧？12 到 15 英里……量不准……那是个旗站，旗站的意思是，如果我们到了那儿，你知道，如果那个地方有乘客，火车就会停。如果没有，它就直接开过去。
flag station means if we get up there, you know and if there is a passenger for that place then the train will stop. If not then it will go through.
旗站的意思是，如果我们到了那儿，你知道，如果那个地方有乘客，火车就会停。如果没有，它就直接开过去。
It was a big station, every train used to stop but it used to stop for us and you know then there was a road available so people will come through road and through cars, nobody started using lot of trains so they thought not to do that. But suppose I am coming, okay? And train stops, right? I got down. Then there is a horse for me to pick up, right? There is a one man and one horse, one horse for luggage, one horse for me, so we will come, right? It's normal in villages it happens.
那是个大站，每趟火车都会停，但它会为我们停，你知道，那时候还有一条路可走，所以人们会从路上来，坐车来，没人开始大量坐火车，所以他们觉得不必那样做。但假设我来了，好吧？火车停了，对吧？我下了车。然后有一匹马等着接我，对吧？有一个人和一匹马，一匹马驮行李，一匹马给我骑，所以我们就回来，对吧？这在村里很正常，就是这样。
But suppose at that time the village sweeper's daughter gets down the same train, I get down from first class, she gets down from third class, she has a luggage and she gets down the train and she is a sweeper in the village whose daughter she is, right? You understand? Untouchable, low-class, menial work all that and I am son of the landlord and first son and Prince of Wales and whatever. You understand what I mean? All right, what will happen? Give me a idea.
但假设那时候，村里清扫工的女儿坐同一趟火车下车，我从头等车厢下来，她从三等车厢下来，她带着行李，她下了火车，她是村里清扫工的女儿，对吧？你明白吗？不可触碰的、低种姓的、做卑贱工作的，全是这些，而我是地主的儿子，还是长子，还是威尔士亲王什么的。你明白我的意思吗？好，那会发生什么？给我个说法。
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the landlord and first son and Prince of Wales and whatever. You understand what I mean? All right, what will happen? Give me a idea.
地主的儿子，还是长子，还是威尔士亲王什么的。你明白我的意思吗？好，那会发生什么？给我个说法。
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YB: She gets to ride the horse and I had to hold the rein and bring her all over to the town. Twelve miles walking straight. Why these traditions were there? And why these are not now? Why people choose (?) I will just give you big thing of twelve miles that men used to open the door, right? Man will go from the steering wheel, go around the car, open the door, open the door, make you sit, close the door, go all the way back and sit on the steering wheel. Why? The same thing. Why? Haa? Why they used to do it?
YB：结果是她骑上了马，而我得牵着缰绳，一路把她带回镇上。整整走 12 英里。为什么会有这些传统？为什么现在没有了？为什么人们选择（？）我就给你讲 12 英里这件大事，男人过去会开车门，对吧？男人会从方向盘那儿下来，绕车一圈，打开车门，打开车门，让你坐进去，关上车门，再一路绕回去，坐回方向盘后面。为什么？同样的事。为什么？哈？他们过去为什么要这么做？
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YB: No, a simple thing, you were a woman and they were men. Now you have become men and they have become men, nobody opens door for you. That's a fact. That's what has happened. You have lost their identity; they have lost your reverence. There is nothing gone bad. You have lost identity, and they have lost?
YB：不，很简单，你曾是女人，他们是男人。现在你变成了男人，他们也变成了男人，没人再为你开门。这是事实。事情就是这样。你失去了她们的身份；他们失去了对你的敬意。没有什么变坏了。你失去了身份，而他们失去了什么？
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You have lost their identity; they have lost your reverence. There is nothing gone bad. You have lost identity, and they have lost?
你失去了她们的身份；他们失去了对你的敬意。没有什么变坏了。你失去了身份，而他们失去了什么？
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YB: And I also tell you something in other twelve... in one decade, you know one more ten years that's one decade... men won't give you even a lift. Forget about opening the door. Marriages will be by contract if you sleep with me three nights I'll pay you forty dollars. Life between male and a female has come to a point if it is not worth living. Why? I have explained to you many, many, many times a man does not need woman for meat, for flesh and for sex and for social life. You won't believe it, you don't, do you? No, you don't. Man believes woman for everything as what they call is extracurricular activity, sex, friendship, social, home, children everything.
YB：我还要告诉你，在另外十二……在十年里，你知道再过十年就是一个年代……男人连顺路载你一程都不会。别提开门了。婚姻会变成合同，如果你跟我睡三晚，我就付你四十美元。男女之间的关系已经到了不值得活的地步。为什么？我已经跟你解释过很多很多很多次，男人不需要女人来满足肉欲、肉体、性、社交生活。你不会相信，你不信，对吧？不，你不信。男人为了这一切才需要女人，就是他们所谓的课外活动，性、友谊、社交、家庭、孩子，一切。
A to Z everything in life between a male and a female is a extracurricular activity. Then what is man needs out of a woman? Haa? Woman.
男女之间生活中的一切，从 A 到 Z，都是课外活动。那男人从女人那里需要的到底是什么？哈？女人。
everything.
一切。
A to Z everything in life between a male and a female is a extracurricular activity. Then what is man needs out of a woman? Haa? Woman.
男女之间生活中的一切，从 A 到 Z，都是课外活动。那男人从女人那里需要的到底是什么？哈？女人。
He needs out of a woman, a woman. Inspiration, he can hire somebody to give him inspiration. It takes thirty dollars a week. Maid can come and clean the house and if he pays another twenty dollars she can also sleep with him. I know there are arrangements like that. This guy has four maids they come as maids, they take care of it, and with anyone it's just calculated stuff. And this is nothing. A no man will need anything but a woman and no woman needs anything but a man and this has to be established. So long you will think that a man needs you for so and so, such and such, it is a business. So business between male and a female, then there is a profit and loss, you understand that?
他从女人那里需要的，是一个女人。灵感，他可以雇个人给他灵感。一周三十美元。女佣可以来打扫房子，如果他再付二十美元，她还可以陪他睡。我知道有这样的安排。这家伙有四个女佣，她们以女佣的身份来，她们把这些都打理了，跟谁都只是算计好的东西。这不算什么。没有男人会需要别的，只需要一个女人；没有女人会需要别的，只需要一个男人，这一点必须被确立。只要你还认为男人需要你是为了这个那个、如此这般，那就是一笔生意。男女之间一旦成了生意，就会有盈亏，你明白吗？
When the relationship is established with no profit, no loss, it is it. Then you both have understood each other. Are you willing to accept it? No, no, no, no, you don't accept it; I know it I have been crying on top of my voice from last fifteen years.
当关系建立起来，没有盈利，没有亏损，那就是它。那时你们双方就彼此理解了。你愿意接受吗？不，不，不，不，你不接受；我知道，我已经扯着嗓子喊了十五年了。
other. Are you willing to accept it? No, no, no, no, you don't accept it; I know it I have been crying on top of my voice from last fifteen years.
另一个。你愿意接受它吗？不，不，不，不，你不接受它；我知道，过去十五年来我一直扯着嗓子在喊。
I said, 'don't go after a man; find out how much man he is. ' You don't go after a man, you go A-age, B-beauty, C-caste, D-dowry, E-education, F-blah blah blah... you look around, he is tall, he is handsome, he is wealthy, he is good to talk, he is good, he smells good, his habits are good, he dresses up clean, his shoes are shining, you know all that stuff, haa? But in that there maybe a pigeon not a man. What is a man? There is nothing to laugh, you got to tell me. What is a man? Haa? Man is a man. That I agree. Yeah, what is a man?
我说过：「不要追着一个男人跑；要看清他到底有多少男人味。」你不是去追一个男人，你是去追 A——年龄，B——美貌，C——种姓，D——嫁妆，E——学历，F——巴拉巴拉巴拉……你四下打量，他个子高，他长得帅，他有钱，他谈吐好，他人不错，他气味好闻，他习惯好，他穿得干净，他的鞋锃亮，你知道那一套，哈？可那里面也许只是一只鸽子，不是个男人。什么是男人？没什么好笑的，你得告诉我。什么是男人？哈？男人就是男人。这一点我同意。对，什么是男人？
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YB: He doesn't fail as a man he is a man. Right? Agreed? You are so many women; and you can't tell me what is a man? You all deal with them one way or the other. Haa?
YB：他作为男人不失败，他就是个男人。对吧？同意吗？你们这么多女人，却没法告诉我什么是男人？你们都在以各种方式跟他们打交道。哈？
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YB: Knocking head? Your husband doesn't knock I know that.
YB：敲脑袋？你丈夫不敲，这我知道。
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a man? You all deal with them one way or the other. Haa?
男人？你们都在以各种方式跟他们打交道。哈？
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YB: Knocking head? Your husband doesn't knock I know that.
YB：敲脑袋？你丈夫不敲，这我知道。
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YB: General what? You got the pretty one therefore everybody should go to hell that's not fair. You are school lovers, right? Yeah, they are school lovers. There is a one couple if you look at their life you should just enjoy it. She thinks she wears the pant and he thinks he wears the pant, when nobody wears the pant they both are nude.
YB：什么将军？你捞到了那个漂亮的，所以别人都该下地狱，这不公平。你们是校园恋人，对吧？对，他们是校园恋人。有那么一对夫妻，你要是看看他们的生活，你就只管享受吧。她以为她穿着裤子，他以为他穿着裤子，等到谁都没穿裤子，两个人就都光着。
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
It's a very funny couple. It is funny couple. I go all the way to Alaska to study them. There are two couples, which are most unique in 3HO. One is Anchorage Alaska, another is Toronto. Guru Tej Kaur and Guru Tej Singh, very funny couple. It's just... these two couples are very special one here and one here and you study them how they talk to each other. I love the... there is nothing more special about it, when they communicate with each other it's very funny. In Anchorage Alaska, Nirvair Kaur does all the talking and Nirvair Singh does all the knocking!
这是一对很好笑的夫妻。是很好笑的夫妻。我大老远跑到阿拉斯加去研究他们。有两对夫妻，在 3HO 里最独特。一对在阿拉斯加安克雷奇，另一对在多伦多。Guru Tej Kaur 和 Guru Tej Singh，很好笑的夫妻。就是……这两对夫妻很特别，一对在这儿，一对在那儿，你去研究他们怎么跟对方说话。我喜欢那个……再没有比这更特别的了，他们彼此交流的时候非常好笑。在阿拉斯加安克雷奇，Nirvair Kaur 包揽了所有的话，Nirvair Singh 包揽了所有的敲！
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
But he is the one who does everything and she doesn't do a thing.
可活儿全是他干的，她什么也不干。
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
and Nirvair Singh does all the knocking!
Nirvair Singh 包揽了所有的敲！
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
But he is the one who does everything and she doesn't do a thing.
可活儿全是他干的，她什么也不干。
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
It's very surprising, it's true. And in Toronto Guru Tej Kaur is who talks. And Guru Tej Singh who does talk. They both talk, over, over flapping talk, you listen to them. She talks and he talks then he talks and she talks and it's just like that. And she end up doing and he end up looking. It's unique, it's called... it is uniquety, it is uniquety in couples. All couples are... in 3HO there are lot of couples, which are very the couple at that place somewhere Tennessee what is their name?
这很让人惊讶，但确实如此。在多伦多，讲话的是 Guru Tej Kaur。而 Guru Tej Singh 也讲话。他们俩都讲，翻来覆去地讲，你听着他们。她讲，他讲，然后他讲，她讲，就是这样。最后她动手去做，他最后看着。这很独特，它叫……它是独特性，是夫妻之间的独特性。所有夫妻都……在 3HO 里有很多夫妻，就是田纳西那边某个地方的那对夫妻，他们叫什么名字？
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All couples are... in 3HO there are lot of couples, which are very the couple at that place somewhere Tennessee what is their name?
所有夫妻都……在 3HO 里有很多夫妻，就是田纳西那边某个地方的那对夫妻，他们叫什么名字？
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YB: Have you ever seen them? Go and sometime stay with them. You can learn something very unique. That's the most unique couple in 3HO. Nothing equal like it. They hardly talk, they look at each other. And something happens everybody knows nothing but they know the whole thing. How many of you have been to Germany. How many of you have seen Tarn Taran Singh and Tarn Taran Kaur talking? Aren't they unique? Will you ever understand who is saying what? It's very... yeah, yeah, there are some people it's fun to see them even talking. Life is not that bore, which you think it is. In Tarn Taran Kaur and Tarn Taran Singh something you can all learn, they don't talk to each other to win. Never!
YB：你见过他们吗？去，找个时间跟他们住一阵。你能学到一些非常独特的东西。那是 3HO 里最独特的夫妻。没有能与之相比的。他们几乎不说话，他们看着彼此。然后事情就发生了，所有人都不知道，但他们知道全部。你们有多少人去过德国。你们有多少人见过 Tarn Taran Singh 和 Tarn Taran Kaur 说话？他们是不是很独特？你能弄明白谁在说什么吗？这很……对，对，有些人光是看他们说话就很有趣。生活并不像你以为的那么无聊。在 Tarn Taran Kaur 和 Tarn Taran Singh 身上，你们都能学到一些东西，他们彼此说话不是为了赢。从来不！
that bore, which you think it is. In Tarn Taran Kaur and Tarn Taran Singh something you can all learn, they don't talk to each other to win. Never!
那么无聊，像你以为的那样。在 Tarn Taran Kaur 和 Tarn Taran Singh 身上，你们都能学到一些东西，他们彼此说话不是为了赢。从来不！
Tarn Taran Kaur talks very strongly, I think because she has (?) since she has been to Germany she has that what they call push expression and Tarn Taran Singh, just he is like a minister... he is kind of a (?) minister, he takes it that way but they don't make I win you lose, you win I lose, not at all. It is very cohesive communication system established in their family. There is nothing wrong, there is nothing right, there is nothing push, there is nothing pull, there is nothing to let down each other, how many of you have been to Copenhagen? You know my that sweet girl what is her name? You know rapid fire?
Tarn Taran Kaur 说话非常强势，我想是因为她（？）自从她去了德国，她就有那种他们所说的推压式表达，而 Tarn Taran Singh，他就像一位大臣……他有点像（？）大臣，他就那样接受，但他们不会制造我赢你输、你赢我输，完全不会。在他们家里建立起了一套非常凝聚的沟通系统。没有什么是错的，没有什么是对的，没有什么推，没有什么拉，没有什么让彼此失望，你们有多少人去过哥本哈根？你知道我那个甜美的女孩，她叫什么名字？你知道 rapid fire 吗？
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
to let down each other, how many of you have been to Copenhagen? You know my that sweet girl what is her name? You know rapid fire?
让彼此失望，你们有多少人去过哥本哈根？你知道我那个甜美的女孩，她叫什么名字？你知道 rapid fire 吗？
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
And problem is with that rapid fire she is always right. It's the worst problem of life. She will take a point as a woman; she will understand the responsibility, right? And she says Trrrr... Trrrr...trrrr...trrr... that goes and it never stops. And nobody knows what to do with it. And you tape her talk and relisten to it; you will be surprisingly finding it accurate. She is very good, she is very upforward, she is a beautiful woman but trrtrrr... Much faster than that. I mean it goes and nobody knows what to do with it. And once somebody said, "I can't talk to her. "
问题就在于，她那种连珠炮似的方式，让她永远都是对的。这是人生最糟糕的问题。作为女人，她会抓住一个点；她会明白那份责任，对吧？然后她说 Trrrr……Trrrr……trrrr……trrr……就这么一路下去，永远不停。没人知道该拿它怎么办。你把她说的话录下来，再听一遍，你会惊讶地发现它准确得很。她非常好，她非常直率，她是个美丽的女人，可是 trrtrrr……比那还要快得多。我是说，它就这么一路下去，没人知道该拿它怎么办。有一次有人跟我说：「我没法跟她说话。」
I said, "What she said? "
我说：「她说了什么？」
She said, "I say the same thing," she said, "When you say I understand when she says I don't. "
她说：「我说的是同一件事，」她说，「你说的时候我明白，她说的时候我就不明白。」
I said, "Well, try to understand what she says. "
我说：「那好，试着去听懂她说的是什么。」
"
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She said, "I say the same thing," she said, "When you say I understand when she says I don't. "
她说：「我说的是同一件事，」她说，「你说的时候我明白，她说的时候我就不明白。」
I said, "Well, try to understand what she says. "
我说：「那好，试着去听懂她说的是什么。」
So the main difficulty in your language is that when a woman talks is there is a tension in her communication or there is not. The identity of woman lies in her politeness in communication. If you take away politeness out of... it is not from which version you are in and what you actually want to say. If the woman takes away politeness out of her communication she has to face the consequences that is called repulsion. And what happens? When you communicate tensed you are repelled. When you are repelled you feel insulted. You feel insulted you feel insecure. You feel insecure you feel angry. You feel angry you get mad. Either you get it out or you get a way to get out.
所以你们语言里最大的难处是：一个女人说话的时候，她的沟通里有没有紧张。女人的身份就落在她沟通时的礼貌里。如果你把礼貌从……这跟你处在哪个版本里、你实际想说什么无关。如果一个女人把礼貌从她的沟通里拿掉，她就得面对后果，那叫排斥。然后会怎样？当你带着紧张去沟通，你就会被排斥。当你被排斥，你就觉得受了侮辱。你觉得受了侮辱，你就觉得没有安全感。你觉得没有安全感，你就觉得愤怒。你觉得愤怒，你就发疯。要么你把它发泄出来，要么你找个办法逃出去。
That's the worst you do.
那是你做的最糟的事。
insecure. You feel insecure you feel angry. You feel angry you get mad. Either you get it out or you get a way to get out.
没有安全感。你觉得没有安全感，你就觉得愤怒。你觉得愤怒，你就发疯。要么你把它发泄出来，要么你找个办法逃出去。
That's the worst you do.
那是你做的最糟的事。
When you become mad you don't say 'I am mad on such and such thing. ' That's not woman. She will just sit like a cat and wait and put her paws and wait for the opportunity and then it comes and... and God, if a guy is not ready he says hohooho... and if he is ready he says... and forget it then! No, no. No woman ever has been insulted because she did it wrong. She has been ever insulted but she did it right thing or wrong thing at wrong time in wrong way. You always mess up time and the method. For a good genuine woman requires a good genuine method. What is your strongest way of communication? Politeness. Rudeness is the male's method. Men talk rudely.
当你发疯的时候，你不会说「我是因为某某事才发疯的」。那不是女人。她会像只猫一样坐着，等着，伸出爪子，等着机会，然后机会来了，就……天哪，如果那男的没准备好，他就说 hohooho……如果他准备好了，他就说……那就完了，忘了吧！不，不。从来没有哪个女人因为做错了事而受侮辱。她受过侮辱，但都是因为她在错误的时间、用错误的方式做了对的事或错的事。你总是把时间和方法搞砸。一个真正的好女人，需要一个真正的好方法。你最强的沟通方式是什么？礼貌。粗鲁是男人的方式。男人说话粗鲁。
Believe me or not if you talk rudely you maybe the prettiest woman, you maybe?
信不信由你，如果你说话粗鲁，哪怕你是最漂亮的女人，你也许还是？
Students: Prettiest woman.
学生：最漂亮的女人。
is the male's method. Men talk rudely.
这是男性的方法。男人说话粗鲁。
Believe me or not if you talk rudely you maybe the prettiest woman, you maybe?
信不信由你，如果你说话粗鲁，你也许是最漂亮的女人，你也许是？
Students: Prettiest woman.
学生：最漂亮的女人。
YB: That's gone. Pretty and woman, that is gone. Then what you are? Person. Moment women not talk politely she becomes... and then person is a business, I like it; you are a person you like me as a person matter goes on. If you want to continue to identify as a woman doesn't matter you are professional woman, doesn't matter you are a rich woman, doesn't matter you're a beautiful woman, doesn't matter you are ugly woman, you are sick woman, you are healthy woman, you are sexual sensual anything, noble beautiful executive call anything. Moment out of your communication the polite politeness is gone. Politeness?
YB：那没了。漂亮和女人，那都没了。那你是什么？人。女人一开口不礼貌，她就变成……然后人就是一桩生意，我喜欢它；你是个人，你把我当人喜欢，事情就这么继续下去。如果你想继续把自己认同为女人，没关系，你是职业女性，没关系，你是有钱的女人，没关系，你是美丽的女人，没关系，你是丑陋的女人，你是生病的女人，你是健康的女人，你是性感的情欲的随便什么，高贵、美丽、高管随便怎么称呼。一旦你的交流中少了礼貌，礼貌就没了。礼貌？
Students: (-----)
学生：（-----）
YB: And you are then a person. And moment as a person your commitment is gone you are nothing. If a male shall know that you are neither polite nor committed somehow it may not be true. Please understand me. It may not be?
YB：那你就成了一个人。而一旦作为一个人，你的承诺没了，你就什么都不是。如果一个男性知道你又没礼貌又没承诺，不知怎么的，这可能不是真的。请理解我。这可能不是？
Students: True.
学生：真的。
If a male shall know that you are neither polite nor committed somehow it may not be true. Please understand me. It may not be?
如果一个男性知道你又没礼貌又没承诺，不知怎么的，这可能不是真的。请理解我。这可能不是？
Students: True.
学生：真的。
YB: You are a big zero. And your life shall be nothing but life of a hassle, insecurity, misery, pain. Call it anything. Rest you can add to it. That's why I am bringing these seven year old, eleven year old young girls here to make them feel that they have to deal with me. I am a big six foot two inches, two hundred forty pounds a big guy. You know? It's called grandpa image. If it continues that we will keep these all fortunate girls here, these girls and those girls who will not be in this camp shall be two different girls. They will become ladies. Because they are now getting conscious. It's a matter of conscious and unconscious that's all.
YB：你就是个大零蛋。你的生活只会是一场折腾、不安、痛苦、煎熬。随便你怎么叫它。剩下的你可以自己往上加。这就是为什么我把这些七岁、十一岁的小女孩带到这里，让她们感觉到她们必须跟我打交道。我是个六英尺二英寸、二百四十磅的大块头。你知道吗？这叫爷爷形象。如果这样继续下去，我们把这些有福气的女孩都留在这里，这些女孩和那些不会来这个营的女孩会是两种不同的女孩。她们会成为淑女。因为她们现在开始有觉知了。这是觉知与无觉知的问题，仅此而已。
If we can make our children conscious that's all we have to do in life.
如果我们能让我们的孩子有觉知，这就是我们一生要做的一切。
now getting conscious. It's a matter of conscious and unconscious that's all.
现在开始有觉知了。这是觉知与无觉知的问题，仅此而已。
If we can make our children conscious that's all we have to do in life.
如果我们能让我们的孩子有觉知，这就是我们一生要做的一切。
If we make our children conscious that they are going to be successful if they are going to be beautiful, mannerful, valuable, they will succeed. But if we can't tell them that cannot give them that experience forget it. If a child is treated rough it will bring out of him rudeness. Whenever a woman is treated as a child as rough when she will grow up she will be just as rude as she can be. But if you have been treated roughly and rudely as a child then as a adult don't dish out to others. Rather in compassion become more polite. If you are more polite you are more effective. Arey what is the idea of talking as a woman if you cannot be effective tell me. Am I right or wrong? Haa?
如果我们让孩子意识到，只要他们将来美丽、有礼貌、有价值，就会成功，他们就会成功。但如果我们没法告诉他们这些，没法给他们那种体验，那就别提了。如果一个孩子被粗暴对待，那会激发出他的粗鲁。一个女人小时候被粗暴对待，长大后就会尽可能地粗鲁。但如果你小时候被粗暴、无礼地对待，那成年后就不要把这一套施加给别人。反而要在慈悲中变得更礼貌。你越礼貌，就越有力量。哎，如果你说话没有力量，那像个女人一样说话又有什么意义，你告诉我。我说得对不对？哈？
You try one day driver's language whole day. Just find out how many people you offend that day. And next day be very polite see how many friends you make.
你试一天，整天用司机的语言说话。就看看那天你得罪了多少人。第二天非常礼貌，看看你交了多少朋友。
"Zabaan Sheeri Mulk Geeri. "
“Zabaan Sheeri Mulk Geeri。”
whole day. Just find out how many people you offend that day. And next day be very polite see how many friends you make.
一整天。就看看那天你得罪了多少人。第二天非常礼貌，看看你交了多少朋友。
"Zabaan Sheeri Mulk Geeri. "
“Zabaan Sheeri Mulk Geeri。”
If the tongue is sweet the world belongs to you. Zabaan means the tongue, Sheeri means sweet. Mulk Geeri, the whole world you can circle the world and that world belongs to you. Now what politeness does to a woman biologically? Haa? No, it keeps you young and healthy. Polite language gives your skin all the vitamins you need. When woman is unpolite her skin becomes rude. Try to understand. Now these are... now I am telling you the glandular game. When you talk rude rough and obnoxious it affects your skin. Temperamental misbehavior when you project out the most sensitive organ your skin has to compensate for it.
如果舌头是甜的，世界就属于你。Zabaan 意思是舌头，Sheeri 意思是甜。Mulk Geeri，整个世界你都能绕一圈，那个世界就属于你。那么礼貌对一个女人的生理做了什么？哈？不，它让你保持年轻健康。礼貌的语言给你的皮肤提供所需的一切维生素。当女人不礼貌时，她的皮肤就变得粗鲁。试着去理解。现在这些是……现在我在告诉你腺体的游戏。当你说话粗鲁、粗暴、令人厌恶时，它会影响你的皮肤。脾气上的失态，当你向外投射时，你最敏感的器官——你的皮肤——必须为此补偿。
And if skin is supposed to accelerate itself and change the cells faster than it normally has to then it will not change many cells and that means your skin will become harsher, rougher, and the touch, the feel, will be gone.
而如果皮肤本该加速自己、比正常更快地更换细胞，那它就不会更换多少细胞，这意味着你的皮肤会变得更粗糙、更粗粝，那种触感、那种感觉，都会消失。
it normally has to then it will not change many cells and that means your skin will become harsher, rougher, and the touch, the feel, will be gone.
它本该正常进行，那它就不会更换多少细胞，这意味着你的皮肤会变得更粗糙、更粗粝，那种触感、那种感觉，都会消失。
You know today I was seeing that oriental beauty that whole thing. And I was seeing that they brought some fans, fans looked like a you know throat cutter, you can't believe it. And you know I just looked around my all hairs on the arm they were standing up. To me fan is a delicacy, it's a delicate thing and the expression of (?) was just it's going to cut somebody's throat. And so affected my skin my all hairs stood up and where they are grown those things became like a parts. That much tension was all over me. Rudeness, roughness, yelling, screaming, all right this is called what you call is fighting nature, you know people fight... communicate and fight? They talk loud.
你知道，今天我看着那东方美人的整套东西。我看到他们带来了一些扇子，那些扇子看起来像——你知道——割喉的东西，你简直不敢相信。你知道，我环顾四周，手臂上所有的汗毛都竖了起来。对我来说，扇子是精致的东西，是精巧之物，而那个（？）的样子，简直就是要割断谁的喉咙。它就这样影响了我的皮肤，我所有的汗毛都竖了起来，长汗毛的地方都变得像一根根刺。我全身都是那么大的紧张。粗鲁、粗暴、大喊、尖叫，好了，这就是所谓的跟天性对抗，你知道，人们在对抗……一边交流一边对抗？他们大声说话。
Have you seen those people who talk loud? Haa? What they lose? Haa? Parasympathetic nerve system. All right, people who are angry and talk angrily. Come on.
你见过那些大声说话的人吗？哈？他们失去了什么？哈？副交感神经系统。好了，那些愤怒、愤怒地说话的人。来吧。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
who talk loud? Haa? What they lose? Haa? Parasympathetic nerve system. All right, people who are angry and talk angrily. Come on.
那些大声说话的人？哈？他们失去了什么？哈？副交感神经系统。好了，那些愤怒、愤怒地说话的人。来吧。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: No, they can't plan anything. Their power to plan is gone. They can't make two and two four. All right, people who talk bitter, bitter with jealousy, have you seen those curt language, bitter, they talk about that? Haa? They lose their digestive system, ulcers and everything. Yeh (?) human behavior of a woman, it is not just a behavior for another person. Just please remember this. Your misbehavior is not for another person. What this does to other person that is other person's luck. But it does to you that is your luck. And when you misbehave you miss lot of you and that lot of you is woman. You understand that? Arey, you have to understand you should...
YB：不，他们什么也计划不了。他们计划的能力没了。他们连二加二等于四都算不出来。好了，那些说话尖酸、带着嫉妒的尖酸的人，你见过那种简短刻薄的语言吗，尖酸，他们那样说话？哈？他们失去的是消化系统，溃疡什么的都来了。是的（？）一个女人的这种行为，它不只是对另一个人的行为。请记住这一点。你的不当行为不是冲着另一个人去的。它对另一个人做了什么，那是另一个人的运气。但它对你做了什么，那是你的运气。当你行为不当时，你失去了很多个你，而那很多个你就是女人。你明白吗？哎，你必须明白，你应该……
how many of you have come in my office and seen me? Raise your hands. Have you noticed those statues there? No?
你们有多少人来过我的办公室见过我？举手。你们注意到那里的那些雕像了吗？没有？
you have to understand you should...
你必须明白，你应该……
how many of you have come in my office and seen me? Raise your hands. Have you noticed those statues there? No?
你们有多少人来过我的办公室见过我？举手。你们注意到那里的那些雕像了吗？没有？
In my room there are lot of statues. Nobody notices them. They are very pretty statues of ladies. Nobody sees them. You follow what I am trying to say? Why you become a statue of a woman, why you not become a living woman? Your problem is I am a woman. That's a statue of a woman. I agree. Statue is a one time thing. Yeah, understand that? You are a living woman. You can't be one time thing. Sat Kartar Kaur, you got to give me a report tonight before I go to bed. Otherwise your neck will be on the guillotine. I know. Yeah, you better tell me tonight. Good. Do you understand? Statue is statue. It has eyes, ears, everything. What is missing in a statue tell me?
我的房间里有很多雕像。没人注意到它们。它们是非常漂亮的女性雕像。没人看见它们。你明白我想说什么吗？为什么你要变成一尊女人的雕像，为什么你不做一个活生生的女人？你的问题就是「我是个女人」。那是一尊女人的雕像。我同意。雕像是一次性的东西。对，明白吗？你是一个活生生的女人。你不可能是一次性的东西。Sat Kartar Kaur，今晚我睡觉之前你得给我一份报告。不然你的脖子就得上断头台。我知道。对，你最好今晚告诉我。好。你明白吗？雕像就是雕像。它有眼睛、耳朵，什么都有。告诉我，雕像缺的是什么？
Students: (-----)
学生：（-----）
YB: Life. And what is in you?
YB：生命。那你里面有什么？
Students: Life.
学生：生命。
YB: And why you want to be a statue? Arey come on, I talk so much to bring you to this point. That is where I wanted to trap you and now you are looking at me. I am saying why you want to become a statue?
YB：那你为什么想当一尊雕像？哎，来吧，我说了这么多，就是为了把你带到这一点上。那就是我想套住你的地方，现在你看着我了。我在说，你为什么想变成一尊雕像？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: No, no, no. No, no, no, yeah anybody?
YB：不，不，不。不，不，不，有谁？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Statues are safe...
YB：雕像是安全的……
me. I am saying why you want to become a statue?
我。我在说，你为什么想变成一尊雕像？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: No, no, no. No, no, no, yeah anybody?
YB：不，不，不。不，不，不，有谁？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Statues are safe...
YB：雕像是安全的……
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Hey, hey what is this? It's all in west or... woman? (?) says become statue? (?). What are you saying?
YB：嘿，嘿，这是怎么回事？这全是西方还是……女人？（？）说变成雕像？（？）。你在说什么？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Haa?
YB：哈？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Statues can't?
YB：雕像不能？
Students: (-----)
学生：（-----）
YB: That's why you want to be statues? No, no, what are you saying? Tell me. It's all right, say anything you want to say but say God say something.
YB：所以你想当雕像？不，不，你在说什么？告诉我。没关系，你想说什么就说，但说点神的东西，说点什么。
Students: (-----)
学生：（-----）
YB: You don't want to be statues. Then why you are statues? You are not?
YB：你不想当雕像。那你为什么是雕像？你不是？
Students: (-----)
学生：（-----）
(Students laugh)
（学生笑）
YB: Are you sure?
YB：你确定吗？
Students: Yes!
学生：确定！
YB: Then why you act wrong at all?
YB：那你为什么行为不对？
(Students laugh)
（学生笑）
This evening you cannot get out of my clutches I am going to bring you right to the point, which I want to bring. Definitely... you go around doesn't matter. You are all very intelligent people I know that. All right, why, if you are not a statue, if you are a living woman, alive, well, radiant, beautiful and you understand your identity why you act wrong, why you act (?) why you act cheap?
今晚你逃不出我的手掌心，我要把你直接带到我想要带你到的那一点上。绝对……你绕来绕去都没关系。你们都是非常聪明的人，这我知道。好，为什么，如果你不是一尊雕像，如果你是一个活生生的女人，活着、健康、光芒四射、美丽，而且你明白自己的身份，那你为什么行为不对，为什么你表现得（？），为什么你表现得廉价？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Ego, attention, fear, what else?
YB：小我、求关注、恐惧，还有什么？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
understand your identity why you act wrong, why you act (?) why you act cheap?
明白自己的身份，那你为什么行为不对，为什么你表现得（？），为什么你表现得廉价？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Ego, attention, fear, what else?
YB：小我、求关注、恐惧，还有什么？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Compensating for our fears.
YB：补偿我们的恐惧。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Immaturity.
YB：不成熟。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Fear of success. What else?
YB：害怕成功。还有什么？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Habit, haa, haa?
YB：习惯，哈，哈？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Not enough of exercise.
YB：运动不够。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Too much ice cream. That's one reason.
YB：冰淇淋吃太多。这是一个原因。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Low self-esteem, that is right. Yeah, no, no, no, one thing. When a woman has low self-esteem, she will act right otherwise none including Almighty God can make a woman act wrong. Low self-esteem.
YB：低自尊，说得对。对，不，不，不，就一件事。当一个女人自尊低的时候，她才会行为失当，否则没有任何人，包括全能的神，能让她行为失当。低自尊。
Students: (-----)
学生们：（-----）
a woman has low self-esteem, she will act right otherwise none including Almighty God can make a woman act wrong. Low self-esteem.
一个女人自尊低的时候，她才会行为失当，否则没有任何人，包括全能的神，能让她行为失当。低自尊。
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YB: No, when a woman has low self-esteem only then she can act wrong. Otherwise even God Almighty cannot make her act wrong. Inborn in you, inborn in you is the capacity to excel, which is sixteen times more than a man. True. It is a truth. A woman has inborn capacity to excel sixteen times more than a man. If she just has self-esteem that she is a woman there is no power on the Earth, which can make her to do wrong. Yeh tho priceless hai, woman is priceless, you can't buy her, can't hire her, can't... why there are prostitutes? Tell me, explain it to me. They are compensating for their low self-esteem on a very cheap basis. Otherwise you ask a woman what is your price? Forget it!
YB：不，当一个女人自尊低的时候，她才会行为失当。否则连全能的神也无法让她行为失当。你天生就有的，你天生就有的，是卓越的能力，比男人多十六倍。真的。这是真理。一个女人天生就有比男人多十六倍的卓越能力。只要她有自尊，知道自己是个女人，地球上就没有任何力量能让她做错事。这是无价的，女人是无价的，你买不到她，雇不到她，不能……为什么会有妓女？告诉我，给我解释解释。她们是在用非常廉价的方式补偿自己的低自尊。否则你去问一个女人，你的价钱是多少？算了吧！
Who is that man and what is that wealth, which can put a price on a woman, not at all. Arey who can put a price on Mary, Fathima? Come on! Can anybody in the world even she is dead? Why? She was the mother of?
哪个男人、哪笔财富，能给一个女人标价，根本不可能。哎，谁能给玛丽、法蒂玛标价？得了吧！世上有人能吗，哪怕她已经死了？为什么？她是谁的母亲？
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at all. Arey who can put a price on Mary, Fathima? Come on! Can anybody in the world even she is dead? Why? She was the mother of?
根本不可能。哎，谁能给玛丽、法蒂玛标价？得了吧！世上有人能吗，哪怕她已经死了？为什么？她是谁的母亲？
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YB: Mother of Christ. Who can put a price on the life and the value of the mother of Guru Nanak? Explain it to me. Yeh tho priceless hai! Woman in her capacity as a woman is priceless. Known, it's a established fact. A woman prostitutes herself. There is no power in the woman, in the world, which can defeat a woman. Woman can make a home with the needle; man cannot destroy it with a axe. The capacity... the different capacities, different powers, different energies. Yeah?
YB：基督的母亲。谁能给Guru Nanak母亲的生命和价值标价？给我解释解释。这是无价的！女人作为女人的能力是无价的。这是公认的，是既定的事实。一个女人去卖淫。女人身上、世上没有任何力量能打败一个女人。女人能用一根针建起一个家；男人用一把斧头也毁不掉它。这能力……不同的能力，不同的力量，不同的能量。是吧？
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YB: Now what is the difference if woman is grown in America, apple is a apple if it is grown in India or in... apple doesn't become a banana if it grows in America.
YB：那如果女人是在美国长大的，又有什么区别呢，苹果在印度长还是在……苹果在美国长也不会变成香蕉。
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if woman is grown in America, apple is a apple if it is grown in India or in... apple doesn't become a banana if it grows in America.
如果女人是在美国长大的，又有什么区别呢，苹果在印度长还是在……苹果在美国长也不会变成香蕉。
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YB: I am asking you question, why we grow up without values? No, this is two hundred year old country. There was a shortage of women and women were supposed to be just a commodity, she was made a doormat, you see all your old movies, a truckload, a cartload, a wagon came of whores, and established whore house and you know do you see all that? So there is a image to exploit women. Born of a woman exploits a woman, that's the funniest thing in the world. It is because it is two hundred year country, there is no respect for a woman, woman is just that image of a whore is still hanging that's why they call woman a chick. That's why we said we will make this chicken a eagle.
YB：我在问你问题，为什么我们长大却没有价值观？不，这是一个只有两百年历史的国家。那时女人短缺，女人只被当作一件商品，她被当成门垫，你看看你们那些老电影，一卡车、一车、一马车妓女来了，建起了妓院，你知道，你看到过那些吗？所以就有一种剥削女人的形象。女人生的人却剥削女人，这是世上最可笑的事。就是因为它是个只有两百年历史的国家，对女人没有尊重，女人就是那个妓女的形象还挂在那里，所以他们管女人叫小鸡（chick）。所以我们才说，我们要把这只小鸡变成雄鹰。
Some people have left 3HO what was the conflict? What was the conflict?
有些人离开了 3HO，冲突是什么？冲突是什么？
call woman a chick. That's why we said we will make this chicken a eagle.
管女人叫小鸡。所以我们才说，我们要把这只小鸡变成雄鹰。
Some people have left 3HO what was the conflict? What was the conflict?
有些人离开了 3HO，冲突是什么？冲突是什么？
Can you honestly tell me what was the conflict? We wanted everybody even now and ever to be stronger than ever. We die before we fall. That's the only one line on which conflict will ever come. They say no, we will fall and live. Then they cannot live among us. None of you can live among us. We don't accept it. Dekho, you may all feel yourself weak in one way or other, we all have weaknesses. But one thing you all know, we can't fall and if we fall we have to rise right away. You know I am not saying we don't fall. We fall but what is this 3HO way of life? Before you fall, rise. We are nothing but the total believer of resurrection.
你能诚实地告诉我冲突是什么吗？我们想要每个人，甚至现在和永远，都比以往更强大。我们宁可死也不倒下。冲突永远只会出在这一句话上。他们说，不，我们会倒下然后活着。那他们就不能活在我们中间。你们谁都不能活在我们中间。我们不接受。Dekho，你们可能都觉得自己在某方面很弱，我们都有弱点。但有一件事你们都知道，我们不能倒下，如果我们倒下了，就必须立刻站起来。你知道，我不是说我们不会倒下。我们会倒下，但 3HO 的生活方式是什么？在你倒下之前，站起来。我们什么都不是，只是复活（resurrection）的彻底信徒。
I am not saying we don't fall. We fall but what is this 3HO way of life? Before you fall, rise. We are nothing but the total believer of resurrection.
我不是说我们不会倒下。我们会倒下，但 3HO 的生活方式是什么？在你倒下之前，站起来。我们什么都不是，只是复活的彻底信徒。
We may not have erection, but we have resurrection capacity so much... I am true with you, I am just frank. Our capacity of resurrection is what 3HO is. Those who shall believe in erection they will live somewhere else. And those who will believe in resurrection will always be with us doesn't matter what. Err is a human, blunder and mistake can happen the glory of the man is to correct and walk again. That's the test of life. This cycle will continue of people coming and going, people falling and... all right, suppose caravan is going on. Suppose?
我们可能没有勃起（erection），但我们有复活的能耐，大得很……我对你们说的是真话，我就是直说。我们复活的能耐就是 3HO 的全部。那些相信勃起的人，他们会住在别的地方。而那些相信复活的人，将永远和我们在一起，不管发生什么。犯错的是人，大错和过失都可能发生，人的荣耀就是改正并重新走下去。这就是生命的考验。这个循环会继续，人来人往，人倒下又……好吧，假设商队正在前行。假设？
Students: Caravan is going on.
学生：商队正在前行。
cycle will continue of people coming and going, people falling and... all right, suppose caravan is going on. Suppose?
这个循环会继续，人来人往，人倒下又……好吧，假设商队正在前行。假设？
Students: Caravan is going on.
学生：商队正在前行。
YB: Have you seen the film on the retreat of the French, Napoleon soldier from Russia? It was a terrible winter, they got defeated, they retreated and they blew up the bridges, they couldn't go back, they didn't have anything. At one moment they burnt their flag, French flag to just get a heat. I mean to that capacity. It is said about Napoleon soldiers they got defeated. You understand what I am saying? They got defeated. But they never got defeated even in their retreat. Why Napoleon is a hero? Have you understood this ever? There was a man who got...
YB：你们看过那部讲法国人、拿破仑的士兵从俄罗斯撤退的电影吗？那是个可怕的冬天，他们被打败了，他们撤退，炸掉了桥梁，回不去了，什么都没有了。有一刻他们烧掉了自己的旗帜——法国国旗，就为了取一点暖。我是说，到了那种地步。据说拿破仑的士兵被打败了。你们明白我在说什么吗？他们被打败了。但即便在撤退中，他们也从未被打败。为什么拿破仑是个英雄？你们有没有真正明白过这一点？有一个人，他……
took on the France, did the whole thing, got defeated, was imprisoned but he had that capacity, a human powerful capacity that he could inspire his people to rise before they even fell.
他扛起了整个法国，做完了这一切，被打败了，被囚禁了，但他有那种能力，一种人类强大的能力，能激励他的人民在跌倒之前就站起来。
got defeated, was imprisoned but he had that capacity, a human powerful capacity that he could inspire his people to rise before they even fell.
被打败了，被囚禁了，但他有那种能力，一种人类强大的能力，能激励他的人民在跌倒之前就站起来。
What is Kundalini Yoga, what is Cherdi Kala? Rise before fall. We don't guarantee that there will not be a fall. We are not guaranteeing you at all. I am not saying. After twenty minutes I am not going to meet a obnoxious person. But I know I am not going to give up my nobility. I am not saying to you the environments are going to be all perfect for you. But I am saying to you, you are going to act perfect. A woman who believes to be a woman and acts as a woman shall always be worshipped and respected because doesn't matter come she shall resurrect herself. Resurrection is the law of life. Resurrection?
什么是昆达里尼瑜伽（Kundalini Yoga），什么是 Cherdi Kala？在跌倒之前站起来。我们不保证不会有跌倒。我们根本不向你保证。我不是说，二十分钟后我不会遇到一个讨厌的人。但我知道我不会放弃我的高贵。我不是对你说，环境会对你完全完美。但我是对你说，你会表现得完美。一个相信自己是女人、并像女人那样行事的女人，永远会被敬拜和尊重，因为无论发生什么，她都会让自己复活。复活是生命的法则。复活？
Students: Is the law of life.
学生：是生命的法则。
YB: And that is the base... what is that... you put a statue on what they call that base?
YB：而那就是底座……那是什么……你把雕像放在那个他们叫做什么底座的东西上？
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YB: Haa?
YB：哈？
Students: Pedestal.
学生：底座。
YB: That is pedestal of the living being. It is in genuineness of a woman, it is in?
YB：那是活着的生命的底座。它在一个女人的真诚里，它在？
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YB: Haa?
YB：哈？
Students: Pedestal.
学生：底座。
YB: That is pedestal of the living being. It is in genuineness of a woman, it is in?
YB：那是活着的生命的底座。它在一个女人的真诚里，它在？
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YB: Genuineness of a woman she is born to resurrect because she is born to create, because she is a channel of Shakti, because all humanity is born out of a woman God made her that way therefore no woman can fall. Falling of a woman is never falling of a woman. Statues fall. Statues?
YB：一个女人的真诚——她生来就是为了复活，因为她生来就是为了创造，因为她是夏克提（Shakti）的通道，因为全人类都是从女人而生的，神把她造成那样，因此没有女人能跌倒。女人的跌倒从来不是女人的跌倒。雕像才会跌倒。雕像？
Students: Fall.
学生：跌倒。
YB: Statues break. Statues' heart gets broken. Woman heart throbs in compassion. Her psyche meditates. Woman has a meditating psyche. God-given psyche. Her child maybe anywhere. When he is hungry, she gets the milk. Is that true or not? So what are you asking me for? Why should I teach you? Is it not that you know? You believe me or not once I was on a tour, I was somewhere; I came back after few days. One of my lady inspector looked at me and she said, "Thank you, you have come back safe. "
YB：雕像会破碎。雕像的心会碎。女人的心在慈悲中跳动。她的心识在冥想。女人有一颗冥想性的心识。神赐的心识。她的孩子也许在任何地方。孩子饿了，她就会有奶。这是真的还是假的？那你还问我干什么？我为什么要教你？难道你不知道吗？你信不信由你，有一次我在旅行，我在某个地方；几天后我回来了。我的一位女督察看着我，她说：“谢谢你，你平安回来了。”
I said, "How you know? "
我说：“你怎么知道的？”
She said, "I knew it. "
她说：“我就是知道。”
I said, "What you know I know it? Somebody must have told you. "
我说：“你知道什么我知道什么？一定有人告诉你了。”
She said, "Who? Your party has not yet come. "
她说：“谁？你的人还没到呢。”
I looked around, I said, "That's true. How you know? "
我环顾四周，我说：“没错。你怎么知道的？”
know I know it? Somebody must have told you. "
知道我知道？一定有人告诉你了。
She said, "Who? Your party has not yet come. "
她说：“谁？你的人还没到呢。”
I looked around, I said, "That's true. How you know? "
我环顾四周，我说：“没错。你怎么知道的？”
She said, "No, three days ago you were attacked. Wasn't it? "
她说：“不，三天前你遭到了袭击。是不是？”
I said, "Yeah. "
我说：“是啊。”
She said, "I was taking the breakfast, and I just felt something has happened to you. "
她说：“我当时正在吃早餐，我就感觉到你出了什么事。”
It's no miracle; a ordinary psyche of a ordinary woman can reach out in every direction where she is a protective seal. How can anybody damage you? You can protect a person across the world. Because you have the capacity of a beam of a... you forgot that day I told you. Your aura can?
这不是什么奇迹；一个普通女人的普通心识，可以伸向每一个方向，在那里她是一道保护的封印。谁能伤害你？你可以保护世界另一头的人。因为你拥有光束的能力……你忘了那天我告诉你的。你的能量圈可以？
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YB：你的能量圈可以？
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you have the capacity of a beam of a... you forgot that day I told you. Your aura can?
你拥有光束的能力……你忘了那天我告诉你的。你的能量圈可以？
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YB: Your aura can?
YB：你的能量圈可以？
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YB: That's God-given gift to you as a woman. You may not use it, that's not the problem. You may not know it, nobody has told you, isn't it? How can you not know this? If the calf is ten miles away hungry cow will run to the home. How come? Haa? I was taking a lunch with somebody today and the lady got up and she said I am going to call and moment she came back who was there... you must have called for the child. Next. She said, "Yeah, he is hungry. I wanted to know. " Because child was hungry I think about three-four miles away and she could feel while eating the food. There is nothing you have to know, you all know. You may not use it. You understand?
YB：那是神赐给你的礼物，作为女人。你可能不用它，那不是问题。你可能不知道它，没人告诉过你，是不是？你怎么可能不知道这个？如果小牛在十英里外，饿了的母牛会跑回家。怎么会？哈？今天我和某人一起吃午饭，那位女士站起来，她说我要打个电话，她一回来，谁在那儿……你一定是为了孩子打的。接着。她说：“是啊，他饿了。我想知道。”因为孩子在三四英里外饿了，她吃饭的时候就能感觉到。没有什么你必须知道的，你们全都知道。你可能不用它。你明白吗？
Now is it something serious I have said? Why you are so serious? Haa? Something gone wrong? Looks like. What's the matter?
现在我说了什么严重的话吗？你为什么这么严肃？哈？出了什么事？看起来像。怎么了？
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is it something serious I have said? Why you are so serious? Haa? Something gone wrong? Looks like. What's the matter?
我说了什么严重的话吗？你为什么这么严肃？哈？出了什么事？看起来像。怎么了？
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YB: Why not? Arey something, which can turn your blood into milk, something, which is so wireless that at miles your child, your husband, your lover, your knowledge and acknowledge of defense can make you feel and act at reality? You can even make a picture what is going on. What was the name of that lady, which they sent from Afghanistan...
YB：为什么不呢？有些东西，能把你的血变成奶，有些东西，如此无形无线，隔着多少里，你的孩子、你的丈夫、你的爱人、你的知识和防御的认知，都能让你感受到并按照真实去行动？你甚至能描绘出正在发生什么。那位女士叫什么名字，他们从阿富汗派来的那位……
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YB: Well, Bibiji will tell you that story tomorrow somehow. There was a woman in the Fort of Jamrud. I forget her name, when they were all circled and enemy Afghans were all around to kill them, and they asked her, "Can you go and tell Lahore durbar that we cannot hold more than two days? That's it. Enemy is stronger and deaths are many and we are left few and this Fort of Jamrud will go. And if the army doesn't come and help... "
YB：好吧，Bibiji 明天会想办法给你讲那个故事。贾姆鲁德堡里有一个女人。我忘了她的名字，当时他们被团团围住，阿富汗敌人四面围上来要杀他们，他们问她：「你能不能去告诉拉合尔杜巴，我们撑不过两天了？就这样。敌人更强，死的人很多，我们剩下的人很少，贾姆鲁德堡要丢了。如果军队不来帮忙……」
She said, "I can go and I can tell you tomorrow, tomorrow exactly at the dawn time a cannon will be fired. Then take it granted I have reached. And that means army will come and help you. "
她说：「我能去，我明天就能告诉你们，明天正好在黎明时分，会开一炮。那就当我已经到了。那意味着军队会来帮你们。」
They said, "But how you know that you will reach? "
他们说：「可你怎么知道你能到？」
will be fired. Then take it granted I have reached. And that means army will come and help you. "
会开一炮。那就当我已经到了。那意味着军队会来帮你们。
They said, "But how you know that you will reach? "
他们说：「可你怎么知道你能到？」
She said, "Be sure, I'll reach. There is no way I'll be caught. "
她说：「放心，我会到的。我绝不会被抓到。」
They said, "No, no, no, no, you are a woman forget it. We will send some smart man. "
他们说：「不行，不行，不行，不行，你是个女人，别想了。我们派个机灵的男人去。」
She said, "Don't send any man. Send me. I'll do it. "
她说：「别派男人。派我去。我能做到。」
They said, "How? "
他们说：「怎么做？」
She said, "I am sensitive enough that I know where enemy is entrenched. And I can make my way. Secondly, I can run like a dog on my four, hands and legs. "
她说：「我够敏锐，我知道敌人驻扎在哪里。我能找到路。第二，我能像狗一样用四肢跑，手和腿。」
He said, "How come you have practiced that? "
他说：「你怎么练过这个？」
She said, "I have practiced it. Don't worry. "
她说：「我练过。别担心。」
So she showed them and she wrapped herself in a blanket, make her face like a dog, big dog and make herself like a big animal. Let her go. Four O' clock in the morning and Maharaja Ranjit Singh forces, she announced that Jamrud is in trouble. They said, "How we can tell them? "
于是她演示给他们看，她把自己裹在毯子里，把脸弄得像狗，一条大狗，把自己弄得像一头大野兽。让她走。凌晨四点，Maharaja Ranjit Singh 的部队，她宣布贾姆鲁德有难。他们说：「我们怎么告诉他们？」
She said, "Fire a cannon at the dawn of the Sun. "
她说：「在太阳黎明时开一炮。」
Ranjit Singh forces, she announced that Jamrud is in trouble. They said, "How we can tell them? "
Ranjit Singh 的部队，她宣布贾姆鲁德有难。他们说：「我们怎么告诉他们？」
She said, "Fire a cannon at the dawn of the Sun. "
她说：「在太阳黎明时开一炮。」
Distance was long. So they took a horse cannon, you know what is a horse cannon? A cannon, which goes on two horses. They tie it between the two horses and they run together, they are trained. So they made heavy distance as much as they could in two hours, there was two to three hours between the Sun dawn. And when the Sun came little up they thought from here the cannon fire can be heard, they fired. Meanwhile the forces moved and Jamrud didn't surrender. Just her sensitivity she could totally clearly went through the enemy's line and made it. Greatest power of woman is sensitivity, not complaining.
距离很远。于是他们带了一门马炮，你知道什么是马炮吗？就是一门炮，由两匹马驮着。他们把炮绑在两匹马之间，两匹马一起奔跑，它们是受过训练的。他们用两个小时尽量赶完那段很长的路，从太阳破晓起有两到三个小时。等太阳稍稍升起，他们想，从这里炮声应该能听得见，就开炮了。与此同时，部队已经开拔，而贾姆鲁德并没有投降。就凭她的敏感，她完全清清楚楚地穿过了敌人的防线，成功了。女人最大的力量是敏感，不是抱怨。
(Students laugh)
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Your power is in complaining. 'You didn't ask me, you don't love me, you don't take care of me, you don't pay attention to me' and all that stuff. It's all bracketed, bracket A, category A, schedule A. Complaining. That you love. Love to complain. That's the polarity of sensitivity. You understand? You won't complain any more?
你的力量就在抱怨里。「你没问我，你不爱我，你不照顾我，你不注意我」还有那一大堆。全都归在括号里，A 类，A 号清单。抱怨。你就爱这个。爱抱怨。这就是敏感的另一极。你明白吗？你不再抱怨了？
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YB: What? There is a secretary of religion what she said?
YB：什么？有一位宗教秘书，她说了什么？
polarity of sensitivity. You understand? You won't complain any more?
敏感的另一极。你明白吗？你不再抱怨了？
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YB: What? There is a secretary of religion what she said?
YB：什么？有一位宗教秘书，她说了什么？
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YB: No, she said something; I want to hear what she said.
YB：不，她说了些什么；我想听听她说了什么。
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YB: Oh she said it, that's what...
YB：哦，她说了，就是那个……
"Manny Ki Gath Kahee Na Jaa. "
「Manny Ki Gath Kahee Na Jaa.」
She agrees to it, that's all. If you just agree to it that I am not going to complain from this minute any more the second part, automatically you will become sensitive. Give up the right to complain, get the right to be sensitive, period. Koi duality nei! You switch off one side the other side will go on. Moment you admit your identity as a woman nobody, nobody can defeat you. Even death can't do it. Moment you agree that you have given up your right to complain you will become sensitive and you will become intuitive so that you are not to learn Kundalini Yoga to become intuitive. Oh that's for men. Aha, true! Have you seen in all Kundalini Yoga books any woman doing anything? All men.
她同意这一点，仅此而已。如果你就同意这一点——从这一分钟起我不再抱怨了——那么第二部分，你会自动变得敏感。放弃抱怨的权利，就得到敏感的权利，就这样。Koi duality nei！你关掉一边，另一边就会打开。你一旦承认自己作为女人的身份，没有人，没有人能打败你。连死亡都做不到。你一旦同意放弃抱怨的权利，你就会变得敏感，你就会变得有直觉，所以你根本不需要学昆达里尼瑜伽来变得有直觉。哦，那是给男人的。啊哈，真的！你在所有昆达里尼瑜伽书里见过哪个女人在做动作吗？全是男人。
Because men have to go through... it's true, they are sixteen times less insensitive they have to go through the procedure.
因为男人必须经历……这是真的，他们比女人不敏感十六倍，他们必须走那套程序。
doing anything? All men.
在做动作吗？全是男人。
Because men have to go through... it's true, they are sixteen times less insensitive they have to go through the procedure.
因为男人必须经历……这是真的，他们比女人不敏感十六倍，他们必须走那套程序。
Woman is born sensitive. She doesn't need it. Kundalini kee hei? What is Kundalini Yoga? Kundalini Yoga will make you extremely sensitive from that point of sensitivity, you will become conscious, right? That's all it is and when your higher consciousness will start governing you, you will become you know, you have great knowledge. The woman has her sensitivity. If she stops being depressed and being complaining and mourning and moaning and making her faces and trying and getting attention and all that jackpot snake pit, she gets out of it, she is free. Who can defeat a woman? If she does not defeat herself there is nobody to defeat a woman.
女人天生就是敏感的。她不需要去修这个。Kundalini 是什么？昆达里尼瑜伽是什么？昆达里尼瑜伽会让你从那个敏感点上变得极度敏感，你会从那里变得有觉知，对吧？就是这样而已。当你的更高意识开始主宰你，你就会变得，你知道，你会拥有伟大的知识。女人有她的敏感。如果她不再抑郁、不再抱怨、不再哀叹呻吟、不再做鬼脸、不再试图博取关注，不再陷进那一整套陷阱泥潭，她就能从中走出来，她就自由了。谁能打败一个女人？只要她不打败自己，就没有人能打败一个女人。
Now I am open to question, I know now you are just... you are boiling out. Yeah, Sita!
现在我可以回答问题了，我知道你们现在只是……你们在沸腾。好，Sita！
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YB: Dekho, my dear girl, meditation and Kundalini Yoga is to clear the obnoxious.... I could have been lying down today, tomorrow, day after, three days. It's fun to be sick, isn't it? Aha. You would have all sent flowers. You would have all done prayer. I could have created a commotion.
YB：Dekho，我亲爱的姑娘，冥想和昆达里尼瑜伽是为了清除那些令人厌恶的……我今天本来可以躺下，明天、后天，三天。生病挺好玩，不是吗？啊哈。你们都会送花来。你们都会做祈祷。我本可以闹出一场动静。
three days. It's fun to be sick, isn't it? Aha. You would have all sent flowers. You would have all done prayer. I could have created a commotion.
三天。生病挺好玩，不是吗？啊哈。你们都会送花来。你们都会做祈祷。我本可以闹出一场动静。
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I know you all love me but I was there. I came here, I told you what to do, and I slipped away oh by the way how was the meditation?
我知道你们都爱我，但我当时就在那儿。我来到这里，告诉你们该做什么，然后我就溜走了——哦，顺便问一下，冥想怎么样？
Students: Wahe Guru!
学生们：Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo！
YB: That is very powerful. Other version of it is very powerful but you are not physically yet built up in muscles but few days I'll build you up and then I'll teach you the other version. You got to be really for that solid. Yeah.
YB：那个非常强大。它的另一个版本也非常强大，但你们的肌肉在身体上还没练出来，不过过几天我会把你们练起来，然后我再教你们另一个版本。你们得真的练得结实才行。好。
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YB: Overload is so many times. Yesterday you saw me coming in? Haa?
YB：超负荷太多次了。昨天你们看见我进来了吗？哈？
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YB: Was I not overloaded?
YB：我难道不是超负荷了吗？
Students: Yes.
学生们：是的。
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YB: Overload is so many times. Yesterday you saw me coming in? Haa?
YB：超负荷太多次了。昨天你们看见我进来了吗？哈？
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YB: Was I not overloaded?
YB：我难道不是超负荷了吗？
Students: Yes.
学生们：是的。
YB: Have you seen the cars overloaded, what do you mean by cars overloaded. Stereo, this that the whole thing. When multiple things are happening by just one person it's a very heavy load on the circuits of being... after all brain is one and there are... it can handle two hundred directions but instead of two hundred directions you put four hundred direction you do not know sensitivity how it works. Sometime you see me in my living room, yelling screaming people at me and I am then trying... dah-dah-dah, here I come and sit... gears. Learn to change gears in your life, it's not hypocrisy, it's real. Your sensitivity is your what that thing they call it in the car? Transmission! Yeah.
YB：你见过超载的车吗，你说的超载是什么意思。音响、这个那个，一大堆东西。当一个人身上同时发生多件事，对存在的线路来说就是很重的负担……毕竟大脑只有一个，而且有……它能处理两百个方向，但你不放两百个方向，你放四百个方向，你不知道它的敏感度是怎么运作的。有时候你看到我在客厅里，人们对我大喊大叫，我就在那儿试着……嗒-嗒-嗒，我过来坐下……换挡。学会在你的人生里换挡，这不是虚伪，这是真的。你的敏感度就是车上那个东西，他们管它叫什么？变速箱！对。
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YB: No, no, don't learn not to complain. Just don't complain.
YB：不，不，不要学着不抱怨。就是别抱怨。
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YB: No, no, no you are talking of a system; mind is above time and space, if you decide not to complain it will immediately compensate you with intuition. Dekho Na, what is ahimsa? Suppose you decide not to harm anybody, suppose you decide,
YB：不，不，不，你说的是一个系统；心智在时间和空间之上，如果你决定不抱怨，它会立刻用直觉来补偿你。Dekho Na，什么是 ahimsa？假设你决定不伤害任何人，假设你决定，
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immediately compensate you with intuition. Dekho Na, what is ahimsa? Suppose you decide not to harm anybody, suppose you decide,
它会立刻用直觉来补偿你。Dekho Na，什么是 ahimsa？假设你决定不伤害任何人，假设你决定，
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YB: Nobody can kill you. Four times in the life of Buddha they tried to kill him with arms, four times, four times they could not physically use the arms, four times. It happened.
YB：没人能杀你。佛陀一生中，他们四次想用武器杀他，四次，四次他们都没能在肉体上动用武器，四次。事情就是这样。
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YB: Oh Mahatma Gandhi had to die with that life to become a martyr otherwise Mahatma Gandhi knew it. Mahatma Gandhi was fully aware; he said that morning that this is going to be last lecture. I don't feel like lecturing even today. And those attendant girls told him not to go. He said, "But what I have to do I have to do. "
YB：哦，Mahatma Gandhi 必须用那样的生命死去，才能成为殉道者，否则 Mahatma Gandhi 是知道的。Mahatma Gandhi 完全清楚；那天早上他说，这将是最后一次讲课。我今天甚至都不想讲课。那些随侍的女孩叫他别去。他说：「但我必须做的事，我就必须做。」
be last lecture. I don't feel like lecturing even today. And those attendant girls told him not to go. He said, "But what I have to do I have to do. "
这将是最后一次讲课。我今天甚至都不想讲课。那些随侍的女孩叫他别去。他说：「但我必须做的事，我就必须做。」
When intuitive conscious people... Dekho, try to understand. These are the people to whom death doesn't mean anything. The intuitive vastness becomes so high that they become so Divine. Maha-Atma, Mahatma Gandhi, Mahatma means Maha-Atma, great soul! He became great soul. For him there was no death, what was revolver? He was shot, he said, "Hey Ram! " Oh God! And he died. Absolute peaceful. Yeh tha fear for us hai Na. Moment you touch your soul you become fearless. Don't touch your soul; deal it from the point of soul that I have a soul. You will never have fear. Fear, pain, hurt only comes to you when you are not dealing the life in the light of your soul. You are dealing the light of ego.
当有直觉意识的人……看，试着理解。这些人是死亡对他们毫无意义的人。直觉的广阔变得如此之高，以至于他们变得如此神圣。Maha-Atma，圣雄甘地，Mahatma 的意思就是 Maha-Atma，伟大的灵魂/真我！他成为了伟大的灵魂/真我。对他来说没有死亡，左轮手枪算什么？他被枪击，他说：「Hey Ram！」哦神！然后他死了。绝对的平静。Yeh tha fear for us hai Na。你一触碰你的灵魂/真我，你就变得无畏。不要触碰你的灵魂/真我；从灵魂/真我的角度去对待它——我有一个灵魂/真我。你就永远不会恐惧。恐惧、痛苦、伤害只会在你不以灵魂/真我之光照亮生活时来到你身上。你是在用小我的光来对待生活。
Pain will be there, hurt will be there, everything will be there. Yeah.
痛苦会在那里，伤害会在那里，一切都会在那里。是的。
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YB: Now people who do not fight when they have to fight they become fat. Aha!
YB：现在那些在该战斗时不战斗的人会变胖。啊哈！
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
everything will be there. Yeah.
一切都会在那里。是的。
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YB: Now people who do not fight when they have to fight they become fat. Aha!
YB：现在那些在该战斗时不战斗的人会变胖。啊哈！
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
It is true. You know if you see my picture in India you will find me the most skinny guy ever you have seen. I used to be like this. But my weight was not less. With all the weight you can count every rib and every bone in my life, perfect. Since I came in America I started dealing with people I don't want to react. I stopped reacting. I gained weight. That is the biological compensation you go through. Have you seen those people who are just like... haa? Provoke them, they won't. Somehow because of one reason or the other they don't want to fight, there won't be at anybody's... but they are angry.
这是真的。你知道，如果你看到我在印度的照片，你会发现我是你见过的最瘦的人。我以前就是这样。但我的体重并不轻。带着所有的体重，你可以数出我身上的每一根肋骨和每一根骨头，完美。自从我来到美国，我开始与人打交道，我不想反应。我停止了反应。我体重增加了。这就是你所经历的生物性补偿。你见过那些就像……哈？激怒他们，他们不会。不知怎的，因为这样或那样的原因，他们不想战斗，他们不会对任何人……但他们在生气。
When people are rude to me I get hurt. I am very sensitive; I am very sensitive to words. Arey word Wahe Guru mantra hai, that is also a word. God is word to me. I am so sensitive if a person coming smiling from one mile, starts from somewhere and come and talk to me, I start feeling that person is going to come and going to be rude. When Sat Simran tells me, "Do you have this appointment? "
当人们对我粗鲁时，我会受伤。我非常敏感；我对言语非常敏感。Arey word Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo mantra hai，那也是一个词。神对我来说就是词。我如此敏感，如果一个人从一英里外微笑着走来，从某处出发来和我说话，我就开始感觉到那个人要来，而且要变得粗鲁。当 Sat Simran 告诉我：「你有这个预约吗？」
and come and talk to me, I start feeling that person is going to come and going to be rude. When Sat Simran tells me, "Do you have this appointment? "
然后来和我说话，我就开始感觉到那个人要来，而且要变得粗鲁。当 Sat Simran 告诉我：「你有这个预约吗？」
I say, "Oh God, all right let her come. " I exactly know that she is going to be totally obnoxious. But there is no way I can reduce weight. That's the cost you pay. Yes?
我说：「哦神，好吧，让她来。」我确切地知道她会极其令人讨厌。但我没有办法减轻体重。这就是你付出的代价。是吗？
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YB: No, I also told you to walk five miles.
YB：不，我也告诉过你要走五英里。
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YB: Three?
YB：三？
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YB: Make it five.
YB：改成五。
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Sorry, I was... I did not calculate it right. Five miles will be all right. But as you have told now and under the given circumstances I don't want to see you fat therefore I feel extra two miles for fatness sake will be perfect. However, we will discuss it later. No, no, no, no, he is the one who fight with you, he is not here. What you are going to... you are not going to get fat here at all. They love to fight with each other. That is their recreation. He loves her, she loves him. But they fight. And I love when they fight. Because next morning I get a phone call and I tell them don't fight and they don't fight. That's all they do, it's beautiful. Okay one, two, three, four, start here.
抱歉，我刚才……我没算对。5 英里就够了。但既然你刚才说了，而且在目前的情况下，我不想看到你发胖，所以我觉得为了不发胖，再多加 2 英里就完美了。不过，这个我们以后再讨论。不，不，不，不，他就是那个跟你吵架的人，他不在这儿。你要……你在这儿根本不会发胖。他们就爱互相吵。那是他们的娱乐。他爱她，她爱他。可他们就是吵。他们吵的时候我特别喜欢。因为第二天早上我就会接到电话，我就告诉他们别吵了，他们就不吵了。他们就干这个，挺美的。好，一、二、三、四，从这儿开始。
You. Aha!
你。啊哈！
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I tell them don't fight and they don't fight. That's all they do, it's beautiful. Okay one, two, three, four, start here.
我就告诉他们别吵了，他们就不吵了。他们就干这个，挺美的。好，一、二、三、四，从这儿开始。
You. Aha!
你。啊哈！
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YB: Oh yeah, I know, I know, see these guys should have asked me the definition what a man is. Okay, I'll give you the definition. Don't let me forget okay? What else?
YB：哦对，我知道，我知道，你看这些人本该问我，男人的定义是什么。好，我给你们这个定义。别让我忘了，好吗？还有别的吗？
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
Yes?
是吗？
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YB: Oh very simple. When a man is fat and you want him to fight, take him on a long walk. Take him on a long walk, just after one mile he starts quarrelsome, at two miles he starts pouncing on you, on third mile sure fight, fourth and fifth mile he will sweat, curse, do everything, keep going. Simple, no big deal. Yeah.
YB：哦，很简单。一个男人胖了，你想让他打架，就带他去走长路。带他去走长路，刚走 1 英里他就开始找茬，到 2 英里他就开始扑你，到 3 英里肯定打起来，第 4、第 5 英里他会出汗、骂人、什么都干，继续走。简单，没什么大不了的。嗯。
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YB: Low self-esteem! Take the low and put the high. Simple, things are simple. Yeah?
YB：低自尊！把低的拿掉，把高的放上去。简单，事情很简单。是吗？
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YB: I understand you are going to a very romantic place!
YB：我明白，你要去一个非常浪漫的地方！
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YB: What is this romance in a wooden cabin? I like to know the details of the story. Hey, in 3HO great romance is happening, one is going to cross the country in a cabin to have a romance. The cabin is made of a Cedar wood and there is certain special leaves, juice of that is massaged on the floor is it? Something...
YB：在一间木屋里，这算什么浪漫？我倒想知道这故事的细节。嘿，在 3HO 里正发生着伟大的浪漫，一个人要坐着一间小屋横穿全国去浪漫。那屋子是雪松木做的，还有某种特别的叶子，把它的汁液按摩在地板上，是吗？什么……
to have a romance. The cabin is made of a Cedar wood and there is certain special leaves, juice of that is massaged on the floor is it? Something...
去浪漫。那屋子是雪松木做的，还有某种特别的叶子，把它的汁液按摩在地板上，是吗？什么……
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YB: Or the horny toad wants you all the way there. There must be something like that. I understand. Yeah? Haa?
YB：要么就是那只发情的蟾蜍想让你一路到那儿去。肯定有类似的东西。我明白。是吗？哈？
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YB: What? Loud.
YB：什么？大声点。
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YB: How to help make a man committed? It's so simple. A committed woman will not have to utter one word. Your total conversation with man that he should be a committed man does not mean a thing. If you are committed man gets the message on every second. They get committed faster than you even can feel them. Men have no commitment at all. Aha, honest to God. There is no man born who can be committed. Don't expect from them. Yeh faculty hai ni... it is not man's faculty to be committed, how you can make him committed? How you can... there can be a strong wood but it can't be steel. Men can never be committed. They don't have a faculty. It is the committed woman who can have a committed man.
YB：怎么帮助一个男人变得有承诺？太简单了。一个有承诺的女人一个字都不用说。你跟男人讲的所有话，要他成为一个有承诺的男人，一点用都没有。如果你是有承诺的，男人每一秒都能收到讯息。他们变得有承诺，比你感觉到他们还要快。男人根本没有承诺可言。啊，我对神发誓。没有一个男人生下来就能有承诺。别指望他们。Yeh faculty hai ni……承诺不是男人的能力，你怎么能让他有承诺？你怎么能……可以有一块结实的木头，但它成不了钢。男人永远不可能有承诺。他们没有这个能力。是有承诺的女人，才能拥有一个有承诺的男人。
be a strong wood but it can't be steel. Men can never be committed. They don't have a faculty. It is the committed woman who can have a committed man.
可以有一块结实的木头，但它成不了钢。男人永远不可能有承诺。他们没有这个能力。是有承诺的女人，才能拥有一个有承诺的男人。
Man is equally committed in proportion to the commitment of the woman as the life goes on. It's true. You commit two hundred percent; man will be committed two hundred percent. You commit twenty percent man will be committed twenty percent. What next? Who? Yeah.
日子过下去，男人的承诺程度，跟女人的承诺程度成正比。这是真的。你承诺百分之二百，男人就会承诺百分之二百。你承诺百分之二十，男人就承诺百分之二十。接下来呢？谁？嗯。
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YB: By drinking water! Aha. It's a very immediate treatment. Cold water. Take a glass of cold water and you will be surprised what happens to your anger. For a woman it's the easiest thing, glass of cold water. Or people who come become emotional, what is a emotion tears? That's a anger. Give them a glass of water and what they call... Kleenexes! Yes?
YB：喝点水就好了！啊。这是最立竿见影的处理。冷水。拿一杯冷水，你会惊讶你的愤怒会怎么样。对女人来说这是最容易的事，一杯冷水。或者有人来了，变得情绪化，情绪是什么？眼泪？那就是愤怒。给他们一杯水，还有他们所谓的……纸巾！是吧？
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who come become emotional, what is a emotion tears? That's a anger. Give them a glass of water and what they call... Kleenexes! Yes?
有人来了，变得情绪化，情绪是什么？眼泪？那就是愤怒。给他们一杯水，还有他们所谓的……纸巾！是吧？
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YB: How woman beams out? Her sensitivity beams out. Her domain is not in miles; her woman domain is not in time and space. It is not in miles and by hours. It is her mental intuitive self. She rules over her domain. She is the creative mother. Husband, child, relatives, everything. It's all under the domain of woman. And if she fixes her mind she beams out and when she beams out her beam is strong enough to heal the situation. Haa?
YB：女人怎么放出光芒？她的敏感放出光芒。她的领地不是用英里算的；女人的领地不在时间和空间里。它不是用英里和小时算的。是她那心智的直觉自我。她统辖自己的领地。她是创造性的母亲。丈夫、孩子、亲戚，一切。全都在女人的领地之下。如果她定住自己的心智，她就放出光芒，而当她放出光芒，她的光芒强到足以疗愈整个局面。哈？
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YB: Yeah, parasympathetic nervous system people who are nagging wives, they lose parasympathetic nervous system. Stop nagging and take B12 and you can recuperate in shortest possible time. Understand? It is so simple. If you brush your teeth on time and after every meal you won't get the cavities. Understand? So is the parasympathetic nervous system. Don't nag your husband on the telephone.
YB：对，副交感神经系统，那些爱唠叨的妻子，她们会失去副交感神经系统。别再唠叨，补充 B12，你就能在最短的时间内恢复。明白吗？就这么简单。如果你按时刷牙，每餐之后都刷，你就不会蛀牙。明白吗？副交感神经系统也是一样。别在电话上唠叨你丈夫。
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YB: Long anger, long anger you need a Yogi. For a long anger sit down with a Yogi and convince him you are right.
YB：长期的愤怒，长期的愤怒，你需要一位瑜伽士。对于长期的愤怒，坐下来和一位瑜伽士谈，说服他你是对的。
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
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YB: Long anger, long anger you need a Yogi. For a long anger sit down with a Yogi and convince him you are right.
YB：长期的愤怒，长期的愤怒，你需要一位瑜伽士。对于长期的愤怒，坐下来和一位瑜伽士谈，说服他你是对的。
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
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YB: Yeah, you are a Yogi; everybody has a Yogi in them. Arey nucleus of that is Yogi. Nucleus in each one is a Yogi. When you are in the womb of the mother you went through all the posture yourself. Yeah.
YB：是的，你就是一位瑜伽士；每个人内在都有一位瑜伽士。那个核心就是瑜伽士。每个人内在的核心都是瑜伽士。当你在母亲的子宫里时，你自己经历了所有的姿势。是的。
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YB: Fear?
YB：恐惧？
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
Woman and fear? What for? Woman doesn't have a fear, statue has a fear. No, no woman has a fear. Faculty of fear doesn't exist in a woman, not at all. Quality hai ni, that faculty doesn't exist.
女人和恐惧？为什么？女人没有恐惧，雕像才有恐惧。不，不，女人没有恐惧。恐惧的官能在女人身上不存在，完全不存在。Quality hai ni，那个官能不存在。
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(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
YB: Moment the statue becomes alive fear is gone. Fear of what? Anybody among 3HO who is afraid of anything is foolish. Because there is no way of... fear of what? You tell us what is you are afraid of we will come to your remedy in few minutes. There is no reason. Yeah. Oh your husband talked to me today. Yeah, I told him to discuss with Sopurkh and then discuss with me. You know when he misses you he wants to know what is going on. Haa.
YB：雕像活过来的那一刻，恐惧就消失了。恐惧什么？3HO 里任何人如果害怕任何东西，都是愚蠢的。因为没有办法……恐惧什么？你告诉我们你害怕什么，我们几分钟内就能找到你的对治方法。没有理由。是的。哦，你丈夫今天跟我谈过。是的，我让他先和 Sopurkh 讨论，然后再和我讨论。你知道，当他想念你时，他想知道发生了什么。哈。
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YB: Big!
YB：大！
Student: Yeah.
学生：是的。
YB: What is that?
YB：那是什么？
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me. You know when he misses you he wants to know what is going on. Haa.
我。你知道，当他想念你时，他想知道发生了什么。哈。
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YB: Big!
YB：大！
Student: Yeah.
学生：是的。
YB: What is that?
YB：那是什么？
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YB: That you will meet an accident. That's it? Driving on the freeway. Driving on the freeway... and you don't have fear, big fear of driving on other roads? But you had it in the beginning. Do you have a walking fear?
YB：你会遇到事故。就这个？在高速公路上开车。在高速公路上开车……而你不害怕，在其他路上开车有很大的恐惧？但你一开始就有。你有走路的恐惧吗？
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YB: No, do you have short sight or you have some eye defect or something? Near sighted? That's it. Aha. Do you wear glasses? Were you given glasses at the time you should have got them or it was discovered later? Yeah, that's what it is. If you are shortsighted and farsightedness is gone of your childhood or any of your childhood... that's what I am discussing all of you and if you discuss it quite later, the fear of driving a car or walking of a journey shall become a very heavily installed in you.
YB：不，你是近视，还是眼睛有缺陷之类的？近视？就这个。啊哈。你戴眼镜吗？你是在该配眼镜的时候配的，还是后来才发现的？是的，就是这样。如果你是近视，而远视在你童年时或你童年的某个时候消失了……这就是我在和你们所有人讨论的，如果你讨论得太晚，开车或走路的恐惧就会非常严重地植入你里面。
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YB: I think now you should do, you should have glasses, which are shortsighted and farsighted both. And don't wear glasses, which has one farsighted and not shortsighted. Are they short (?)?
YB：我想现在你应该做的是，你应该戴既能看近又能看远的眼镜。不要戴只能看远不能看近的眼镜。它们是短的吗（？）？
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are shortsighted and farsighted both. And don't wear glasses, which has one farsighted and not shortsighted. Are they short (?)?
既近视又远视。而且不戴眼镜，那眼镜只有远视没有近视。他们是近视吗（？）？
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YB: Well, then start wearing glasses. Forget about contact glasses. Or if you wear contact glasses get rid of fear.
YB：那好，那就开始戴眼镜吧。别管隐形眼镜了。或者如果你戴隐形眼镜，就把恐惧丢掉。
(Students laugh)
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Fear hai Na, this is your fear that I can't look in it... time ahead and I am going to be hit. That's what fear is. That's how the mind computes. All our problem... hey Kiran, those pictures on the oriental beauty were fantastic. Haa! I never knew you are so pretty. Help or no help babe, those three pictures with your hair that way and the one you are doing like that fantastic. They are great, we are going to use them all. Yeah.
Fear hai Na，这是你的恐惧——我无法直视它……前方的时间，我会被击中。恐惧就是这样。心智就是这样计算的。我们所有的问题……嘿 Kiran，那些东方美人的照片太棒了。哈！我从来不知道你这么漂亮。帮不帮忙都无所谓，宝贝，那三张你头发那样弄的照片，还有那张你那样做的，太棒了。它们很棒，我们要全部用上。是的。
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YB: Yeah.
YB：是的。
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YB: Cut down the in.
YB：把里面的剪掉。
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
Simple. Yeah.
简单。是的。
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are going to use them all. Yeah.
要全部用上。是的。
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YB: Yeah.
YB：是的。
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YB: Cut down the in.
YB：把里面的剪掉。
(Students laugh)
（学生们笑）
Simple. Yeah.
简单。是的。
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YB: Why you have to make him crazy, he is all right. Why you are after his blood what the poor man does, he is just a devotee, humble person. He loves you, what is the punishment, in America you cannot find a loving man. He loves you, leave him alone. I know what you are saying. Just take him easy. Don't make him different what he is. He is very courageous I tell you. To remain devotional at the cost of all temptations is very courageous. You look at life with his point of view. He is a great giver. He is a great student. Haa? Then what you want to change him for? He has changed you. You couldn't change him. Don't you see?
YB：你为什么要把他逼疯，他挺好的。你为什么要追着他的血不放，这个可怜人做了什么，他只是一个奉献者，一个谦卑的人。他爱你，这有什么惩罚，在美国你找不到一个充满爱的人。他爱你，别管他。我知道你在说什么。就对他宽容点。不要让他变得不像他自己。我告诉你，他非常勇敢。在所有诱惑的代价下依然保持虔诚，这是非常勇敢的。你从他的角度看生活。他是一个伟大的给予者。他是一个伟大的学生。哈？那你还想改变他什么？他已经改变了你。你改变不了他。你没看到吗？
All your company and executive and money and the promotion, he says no, no, no, we are humble students. He couldn't say a word. He comes to every class, he listens to every word, and he acts... leave me one good student at least. Please, have mercy on this poor old Yogi, he is great. He is great.
你所有的陪伴、高管职位、金钱和晋升，他说不，不，不，我们是谦卑的学生。他一个字都说不出来。他每堂课都来，他听每一个字，他行动……至少给我留一个好学生吧。求你了，可怜可怜这个可怜的老瑜伽士，他很伟大。他很伟大。
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to every word, and he acts... leave me one good student at least. Please, have mercy on this poor old Yogi, he is great. He is great.
每一个字，他行动……至少给我留一个好学生吧。求你了，可怜可怜这个可怜的老瑜伽士，他很伟大。他很伟大。
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YB: Oh father phobia and father phenomenon is very easy to get rid of. Substitute yourself with the domain of Guru Gobind Singh it takes almost a week or three days... between that is gone. You understand? Recreate the personality of Guru Gobind Singh. Okay? You understand that? Are you with me? Arey you can't recreate the personality of... I am going to tell about the man what you are going to do then? Hello!
YB：哦，父亲恐惧症和父亲现象很容易摆脱。用 Guru Gobind Singh 的领域来替代你自己，大概需要一周或三天……在那之间它就消失了。你明白吗？重新创造 Guru Gobind Singh 的人格。好吗？你明白吗？你跟上了吗？你可以重新创造……的人格，我要讲这个人，那你打算怎么办？喂！
(Students laugh)
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She didn't hear. You recreate the personality of Guru Gobind Singh and you relate that personality as a father, you will be surprised the father phobia and... father phobia is easy to go, father phenomenon cannot go. They both will leave. Yeh tha promised hai Na. It is a granted thing. Yeah.
她没听见。你重塑 Guru Gobind Singh 的人格，把那个人格当作父亲来联结，你会惊讶地发现，父亲恐惧症很容易走掉，但父亲现象走不掉。两者都会离开。这是承诺过的，那。这是被保证的事。是的。
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YB: Why you have to tell anything friends, you can feel always. Telling-tulling business is not good in life. You always know who is your friend and who is not. This telling-tulling business and arguments and all that is totally a rap. What time it is?
YB：朋友，你为什么非得说什么呢，你随时都能感觉到。说来说去、告来告去这种事在生活中并不好。你始终知道谁是你的朋友，谁不是。这种说来说去、告来告去的事，还有争论之类的，全是废话。现在几点了？
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know who is your friend and who is not. This telling-tulling business and arguments and all that is totally a rap. What time it is?
知道谁是你的朋友，谁不是。这种说来说去、告来告去的事，还有争论之类的，全是废话。现在几点了？
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YB: Quarter to seven? I have to make a phone call. Yeah, go ahead, you! You forgot the question. Let's go. May the long time... I have to make a phone call, all love surround you...
YB：六点四十五？我得打个电话。好，你继续！你把问题忘了。来吧。愿那长久……我得打个电话，爱围绕着你……
Students sing: May the long time Sun shine upon you...
学生们唱：愿那长久的阳光照耀着你……
YB: Oh definition of a man. "Man Is What Man Does! "
YB：哦，人的定义。「人就是他所做的事！」
(Discussion)
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