心理学与沟通讲座

He is a very good student. He followed the road. And this is what our policy will be; all those who wants to follow the are road are welcome. We'll give them a party, we don't have any way to change. We do not want one thing to live in pain and continue be the cause of it. We can endure our pain.

他是个非常好的学生。他走了这条道路。这就是我们的方针；所有想走这条道路的人都欢迎。我们会给他们办一场聚会，我们没有任何办法去改变。我们不愿让一件事活在痛苦里，还继续做痛苦的因。我们能忍受自己的痛苦。

Oh my God, it is something. Who got this? Those my Tantric students? They are everywhere. There is not a place in the world, it's a full house, yeah, it's a old wood full house and lot of time. I try to find a flying eagle and I want to put it somewhere, because this old woman is looking into the future, she is very grim, very thinking and very, very real and she is thinking if tomorrow can be all right. So I wanted to give her a flying eagle somewhere but I didn't get it.

噢我的神，这真了不起。这是谁弄的？我那些谭崔学生？他们无处不在。世界上没有一个地方没有他们，满座了，是啊，一座老木头房子满座了，还有很多时间。我想找一只飞翔的鹰，想把它放在某个地方，因为这位老妇人正在望向未来，她非常严峻，非常在思考，非常非常真实，她在想明天会不会好起来。所以我想在某处给她一只飞翔的鹰，可我没找到。

The subject we are going to deal is the psychology and the practical knowledge of communication. That's the gift of house of Nanak. Nadi, Nadh, Nadan. Each one of us wants to communicate. Even that is the desire with those who are dumb. You know that thing? What is that? Sign language. Communication is the gift. Animals do talk, birds do talk, fishes do talk, stones communicate, trees communicate, it is the principle that every living thing must vibrate. All material things have a communication capacity of three and a half foot, we call it aura; it is mental vibration, nothing else. All animals have an aura, how much is that, huh?

我们要谈的主题是沟通的心理学和实用知识。那是那纳克之家的礼物。Nadi、Nadh、Nadan。我们每个人都想沟通。就连哑巴也有这个渴望。你知道那东西吗？那是什么？手语。沟通是礼物。动物会说话，鸟会说话，鱼会说话，石头会沟通，树木会沟通，这是一个原理：每一个活着的生命都必须振动。所有物质的东西都有 3 英尺半的沟通能力，我们称之为能量圈（aura）；它是心智的振动，没别的。所有动物都有能量圈，那是多少，嗯？

Student: (----)

学生：（----）

YB: Three and a half foot. Every dead thing communicates foot and a half.

Yogi Bhajan：3 英尺半。每一个死掉的东西沟通 1 英尺半。

Everything which is a composition of electron, proton and neutron, whatever you want to call it, plus, minus and neutral, every molecule, every atom has a trinity of dancing, and that dance has vibration and that dance is nothing but a communication. Every human normally can have an aura of nine feet on each side, it means eighteen foot. Do you understand that? And it is the desire of each one of you to communicate, it can go three way; if you just want to communicate you want to impress to communicate and you want to convey the message to communicate or you want to be effective through your communication. Do you understand that? Yeah, come on, ask me if you don't. Why you want to communicate?

每一个由电子、质子、中子——随你怎么叫，正、负、中性——构成的东西，每一个分子、每一个原子都有三位一体的舞蹈，而那舞蹈有振动，那舞蹈不是别的，正是沟通。每一个普通人通常每侧可以有 9 英尺的能量圈，也就是 18 英尺。你明白吗？你们每一个人都有沟通的渴望，它可以走三条路；如果你只是想沟通，你想 impress 去沟通，你想传达那个信息去沟通，或者你想通过你的沟通产生效果。你明白吗？嗯，来吧，不明白就问我。你为什么想沟通？

Aristotle said man is a social animal. You cannot be lonely. To begin with you must communicate with your own soul. You must communicate with your own mind and you must communicate with your own self. You have three things to communicate with, your soul, your mind, your self, right? Then, your soul your mind and your self makes you a identity or a psyche or a Id, call it anyway you want. You got the idea? Now this Id can exist, act and react, project and receive in this earth, from all around it, all around it. This is beautiful.

亚里士多德说人是社会性动物。你不可能孤独。首先你必须和你自己的灵魂沟通。你必须和你自己的心智沟通，你必须和你自己沟通。你有三样东西要沟通，你的灵魂、你的心智、你自己，对吧？然后，你的灵魂、你的心智和你的自己，让你成为一个身份、一个心识、一个本我，你想怎么叫都行。你明白了吗？现在这个本我可以在这地球上存在、行动和反应、投射和接收，从它周围的一切，从它周围的一切。这很美。

Now you are talking to something. There is a communication, this is beautiful, it is white, it is a piece of art, it can hold my rose, it has water in it. Oh my God, darling, I love the person who gave it to me, really she is sweet. Last night I had a dream, and she was in the dream, and he was this and she was this. If somebody can tape record, you it look like nuts, sometime see you with the dog, you can't believe it, you kiss, hug and all those bacteria's you don't care, 'oh my lovely, oh my dog, oh my darling.' Sometime I have seen husbands getting jealous their wife loving their dogs.

现在你在对某个东西说话。有一种沟通，这很美，它是白色的，它是一件艺术品，它能托住我的玫瑰，里面有水。哦我的神，亲爱的，我爱送它给我的那个人，她真的很甜。昨晚我做了个梦，她在梦里，他是这个，她是那个。如果有人能用磁带把你录下来，你看起来像个疯子，有时候看见你和狗在一起，你简直不敢相信，你亲它、抱它，还有那些细菌你都不在乎，「哦我可爱的，哦我的狗，哦我亲爱的。」有时候我见过丈夫嫉妒他们的妻子爱他们的狗。

One day I asked the husband, "What is your problem?"

有一天我问那个丈夫：「你有什么问题？」

He said, "My problem is my own parrot."

他说：「我的问题是我自己的鹦鹉。」

I said, "Godji, what is the problem with the parrot?"

我说：「神啊，鹦鹉有什么问题？」

He said, "My wife is in love with my parrot, I had that my parrot as my pet. I want that parrot for myself and she has totally overtaken my parrot, I hate her."

他说：「我妻子爱上了我的鹦鹉，我本来把那只鹦鹉当我的宠物。我想那只鹦鹉只属于我，而她却完全把我的鹦鹉占为己有，我恨她。」

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

He said, "I can't talk to anybody. I thought you are a holy man, give me some argument or reason, I don't want to hurt her, because now the parrots love her."

他说：「我跟谁都说不通。我以为你是个圣人，给我点道理或理由，我不想伤她的心，因为现在鹦鹉们爱她。」

And I said, "Does that mean anything to you?"

我说：「那对你来说有任何意义吗？」

He said, "Yeah it will save our marriage. I don't want to break the heart of my parrot."

他说：「有，这样能挽救我们的婚姻。我不想伤我鹦鹉的心。」

Aha... isn't something you will learn today. There is a one guy I know, he was in love with his dog to the extend that since his dog has died and his wife couldn't take care of the dog and he didn't live, now he is blaming her and asking for a divorce. Your love and your communication has no boundary line. You talk, you communicate, you vibrate, whatever you want to call it, logically, psychologically and personally you are all in it. But you don't simply talk. You talk to create influence and environment. If you talk, you are welcome, God bless you. Then you are the best, you are the angel. Angels speak, you talk, these two words have difference. You will never say I talk the truth, you always say I speak the truth. You speak the truth, angels speak, you talk and your talking has a hook and a bait in it. You talk to create, influence and environment and you also through influence and environment you want to create called territory. Man is always like animals. Animals go and pee, ah uh that's their way to mark territory, have you seen all these animals, dogs and everything, they put their leg up, totototo, with trees and all have you seen? That is their communication, to all other dogs the bears, the grizzly bears, the fox, every animal has a communication and he has the communication of smell of pee and that is their whole territory. You don't pee, that's the difference, but you do pee and you not only pee, you peepee!

啊哈……这不是你们今天要学的东西。我认识的一个人，他爱他的狗爱到了那种程度，他的狗死后，他怪他妻子没照顾好那只狗，他自己也活不下去，现在他怪她，还要求离婚。你的爱和你的沟通是没有边界的。你说话，你沟通，你振动，随你怎么叫它，从逻辑上、心理上、个人上，你整个人都在里面。但你不只是说话。你说话是为了制造影响和环境。如果你说话，欢迎你，神保佑你。那你就是最好的，你就是天使。天使“讲”（speak），你“说”（talk），这两个词有区别。你永远不会说“I talk the truth”，你总是说“I speak the truth”。你“讲”真话，天使“讲”，而你“说”，你的“说”里带着钩子和诱饵。你说话是为了制造、影响和环境，你也通过影响和环境，想要造出一个所谓的领地。人总是像动物一样。动物过去撒尿，啊呃，那是它们标记领地的方式，你们见过所有这些动物吗，狗啊什么的，它们把腿抬起来，嘟嘟嘟嘟，对着树啊什么的，你们见过吗？那就是它们的沟通，对所有别的狗、熊、灰熊、狐狸，每个动物都有一种沟通，它有尿味儿的沟通，那就是它们的全部领地。你不撒尿，这是区别，可你也撒尿，而且你不只是撒尿，你是“尿尿”！

(Students laugh)

（学生笑）

Talking is called peepeeing and the bird, which always talk we call it Papiya. And the man who has a authority is called papa. The basic sound word is pa-pa. Pa means to get. Have it, have it. The word is padre. Re mean the ray of the Sun and pa means who give you the ray of the Sun, who give you the light, that is the priest. Words do not get manufactured they come out of us in our experience and our basic elementary communication. All sounds represent our elementary power to communicate and every language changes, bring changes in two hundred and fifty miles and the dialect changes in twelve miles, that's a natural law by longitude and latitude. That's why southerns cannot take like northern, westerns cannot take like eastern and (?) cannot take like Missouri, Missouri cannot take like Florida, Florida cannot take like San Francisco in California and Alaska cannot take like Hawaii and Hawaii cannot take like Alaskans, it's all there. But you do communicate.

说话就叫“尿尿”，那种老是说话的鸟，我们叫它 Papiya。而有权威的人叫 papa。最基本的音词就是 pa-pa。Pa 的意思是得到。拿着，拿着。这个词是 padre。Re 意思是太阳的光线，pa 的意思是谁给你太阳的光线，谁给你光，那就是牧师。词不是被制造出来的，它们是从我们的经验和我们最基本的沟通中出来的。所有的声音都代表我们沟通的基本能力，每一种语言在二百五十英里内就会变化，方言在十二英里内就会变，这是按经度和纬度来的自然法则。所以南方人受不了北方人那样，西部人受不了东部人那样，（？）受不了密苏里人那样，密苏里人受不了佛罗里达人那样，佛罗里达人受不了加州旧金山人那样，阿拉斯加人受不了夏威夷人那样，夏威夷人受不了阿拉斯加人那样，全都在那儿。但你在沟通。

The purpose of communication is to know to establish and be. If you just resort to speaking, no problem. Speak your mind, speak your heart, speak your head, speak your identity then you cannot speak your identity, because within you, you have identical identity. That's your experience, that's your knowledge, that's what you have been told, that's what you have learnt, that's what tells you by the history, that's what tells you experiments, experience, your are cheating, you are breeding, you are lying, your truthfulness, you this, you that all collectively builds in you a identical identity. Now you have identity, self, the Id and you have a identical identity. You are the man or the person but there is a person behind the mask. Your greatest secret is not to let the person behind the mask known to anybody, it's your private thing. You got it over your death.

沟通的目的是去知道、去建立、去存在。如果你只是靠说话，没问题。说出你的心智，说出你的心，说出你的头脑，说出你的身份，那么你无法说出你的身份，因为在你的里面，你有一个同一化的身份。那是你的经验，那是你的知识，那是别人告诉你的，那是你学来的，那是历史告诉你的，那是实验、经验告诉你的，你在欺骗，你在繁殖，你在撒谎，你的真诚，你这个，你那个，所有这些加在一起，在你里面建起了一个同一化的身份。现在你有了身份、自我、本我，你还有一个同一化的身份。你是那个人，但面具背后还有一个人。你最大的秘密，就是不让面具背后的那个人被任何人知道，那是你私人的东西。你至死都攥着它。

In the modern world we have a psychologist or a psychiatrist whatever the case is, either the psychologist will give you a chance to speak out, so that you will become little light, your steam is out, yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, forty-five minutes over, thank you, come again, seventy-two dollars, matter ends. You have said, somebody has heard good or there is a new conscious psychology now, that he confronts you on things and you can mess around with that for a while, fight out with him, get your anger out, get your ego out and get little touched and rubbed and then he says forty-five minutes out and hundred twenty-five dollars and then you go home and say, what he say it, you start eating and digesting what he said and you have to do homework with that psychology, that's working better than the other than lie down on the table yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, what is it? You want to talk and you want somebody's sympathetic listening. It's very essential for a human to listen or to be listened to and have you seen some people say, "You don't love me anymore, you don't talk to me, you don't even listen to me, you don't care" all that in one breath you say, you know why? Because, that's your basic satisfaction. The other person says don't make me crazy, I know everything, I know what you are, what I am, what I am tell me, tell me, tell me, there is a fight, right there on the spot, you don't even have to go to kitchen to get the knife, it's right there, tongue becomes soft, little meat, but tongue cuts aura, left and right, ruin the psyche, ruin the whole thing; do you know through your verbal psyche, you can totally destroy a person?

在现代世界里，我们有心理学家或者精神科医生，不管哪种情况，要么心理医生会给你一个说话的机会，让你稍微轻松一点，把心里的蒸汽放出来，是是是，好了，45 分钟到了，谢谢，下次再来，72 美元，事情到此为止。你说过了，有人好好听过了，或者现在有一种新的意识心理学，他会当面质问你，你可以跟他纠缠一阵子，跟他吵出来，把你的愤怒发泄出来，把你的小我发泄出来，被稍微戳一戳、揉一揉，然后他说 45 分钟到了，125 美元，然后你回家说，他说了什么来着，你开始吃、开始消化他说的东西，你还得为那种心理学做功课，那比另一种管用，比躺在椅子上是是是是是是是，那算什么？你想说话，你想有人同情地聆听。对人来说，聆听或者被聆听非常根本，你有没有见过有些人说：「你不爱我了，你不跟我说话了，你甚至都不听我说话，你根本不在乎。」一口气全说出来，你知道为什么吗？因为那是你最基本的满足。另一个人说，别把我逼疯，我什么都懂，我知道你是什么，我是什么，我是什么，告诉我，告诉我，告诉我，当场就吵起来了，你都不用去厨房拿刀，刀就在那儿，舌头变软，一点点肉，但舌头一刀刀砍能量圈，左一刀右一刀，毁了心识，毁了整件事；你知道通过你口头的心识，你能彻底毁掉一个人吗？

And I will give you, just now experiment; Ram Das Kaur come here. That's simple, I choose because she is a Leo, she is macho and she is a secretary of the religion, so she fits in, lot of category, she has wearing a kirpan, you know what I mean? She has voluntarily and a personal image to defend, you know lot of good stuff. I mean to say it is a setup, we just wanted it on with, just watch her out and that's your right hand, good, put it staright and keep it here. You see this hand? This person is known individually to us as Ram Das Kaur, is that true?

我现在就给你做个实验；Ram Das Kaur 过来一下。很简单，我选她是因为她是狮子座，她很硬气，而且她是宗教的秘书，所以各种条件她都符合，她戴着短剑，你懂我的意思吧？她自愿承担、有一个个人形象要维护，你知道，好处多着呢。我是说这是个设定好的局，我们就是想当场试试，看着她就行，那是你的右手，好，把它伸直，放在这里。你看见这只手了吗？这个人，我们私下认识她，叫 Ram Das Kaur，对吧？

Students: Yes sir.

学生：是的，先生。

YB: We also know her as she is the secretary of the religion. Is that true?

YB：我们也知道她是宗教的秘书。对吧？

Students: Yes sir.

学生：是的，先生。

YB: We expect her to be truthful. Is that true?

YB：我们期望她说真话。对吧？

Students: Yes sir.

学生：是的，先生。

YB: She may or may not be, that's her problem, not ours, we expect her, right? Now you defend your hand, don't let it come down, because you let down everybody.

Yogi Bhajan：她是不是那样，或不是那样，那是她的问题，不是我们的，我们期待她，对吧？现在你守住你的手，别让它落下来，因为你一落下来，就把所有人都带垮了。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Okay. Watch this. Right. Now I am not going to utter a word, I am going to say certain things called Mantra and be strong, good, huh uh.

好。看这个。对。现在我不打算说一个字，我要说一些叫作曼陀罗（Mantra）的东西，而且要很强，很好，嗯哈。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Hurry up.

快点。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Ask me what I said.

问我刚说了什么。

Students: (----)

学生们：（----）

YB: I said, three times I said, surrender, surrender, strender and I said, breakdown and I did this. Now she should defend it, come on and I am going to say the same thing, I am not going to utter even. I am going to be silently saying it.

Yogi Bhajan：我说了，我说了三遍，臣服，臣服，臣服，然后我说，崩溃，我还做了这个动作。现在她该守住它了，来吧，我要说同样的话，可我一个字都不说出口。我要在心里默默地说。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

You know why? I said surrender in the name of the Guru, surrender in the name of the Guru, surrender in name of Guru, breakdown in his name, all she was doing, Guru protect me... is that true?

你知道为什么吗？我说，以古茹（Guru）之名臣服，以古茹之名臣服，以古茹之名臣服，以他的名崩溃，而她在做的一切，就是，古茹保护我……是这样吗？

Student: True. Guru Gobind Singh Ji my father, don't let me down!

学生：是真的。Guru Gobind Singh Ji 我父亲，别让我倒下！

YB: And I was asking her to surrender in the name of Guru, I knew it otherwise, I knew I can't do it, because what I saw, she shifted out of love from the fourth Chakra on to the Shashara and I tuned into the Shashara to communicate to break her down and that's all it is. I just wanted to share something with you very, very practical. There is no such thing as God, but it is just a word, which combines three forces, what creates, what sustains and what destroys and if you want to find God the only place you can find God is the English dictionary. You won't find it anywhere or you have to write it yourself, choice is yours. There is no power more than the power of the word, because God is a word. Simply you have not to talk the word; you have to speak the word, that's the secret.

Yogi Bhajan：而我是在请她以古茹之名臣服，我心里清楚，我清楚我做不到，因为我看到的是，她把爱从第四脉轮（Chakra）挪到了顶轮（sahasrara），我调频到顶轮去沟通，把她击垮，就只是这样。我只是想和你们分享一件非常非常实际的事。根本没有神这个东西，它只是一个词，里面含着三种力量——创造的、维系的和毁灭的，你若想找到神，唯一能找到神的地方就是英文词典。你在哪儿都找不到它，要不你就得自己写出来，选哪个随你。没有什么力量大过词的力量，因为神就是一个词。只是你别去说这个词，你得说出这个词，这就是秘密。

When a Nadi speaks the Naad, becomes the Nadang, Namo Naad, Nadang. Namo Naad, Nading, Anaadi Akaling, must understand that. It is that undying one, who is beyond Naad, that is a Naadi. But the power to you of God is through the word and the entire Sikh Dharma is based on the science of the Shabad. Siri Guru Granth is nothing but the compilation of the word in the rhythmic sound of creativity from finite to Infinity and Infinity to finite combining it, it has done the Charna, it is called Madhavni and the Madhavni is done in such way, this churning is done such way, that the cream can come out. It is that sound current at a frequency, if uttered, spoken or remembered, it can give you the power of God, the infinite, being finite. Now test it out. This one beauty in Leos, they can accept a challenge, doesn't matter what.

当一条经脉（Nadi）说出音流（Naad），它就变成音流的回响，Namo Naad，Nadang。Namo Naad，Nading，Anaadi Akaling，必须明白这一点。就是那个不朽者，超越音流，才是一条经脉。但神赋予你的力量是透过话语，整个锡克正法都建立在圣音（Shabd）的科学之上。《圣格兰特经》不过是话语的汇编，以创造力的节奏之声，从有限到无限，又从无限到有限，将二者合一，它做了搅拌，这叫Madhavni，而Madhavni是这样做的，搅拌是这样做的，这样奶油才能出来。就是那个处于某一频率的音流，如果被说出、被念诵或被忆念，它就能在你是有限之时，给你神、无限者的力量。现在试试看。这里这位狮子座的美人，她们能接受挑战，不管是什么。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Try it again. Now I did to you, because I chanted Akal, now you chant Akal, mentally and concentrate on your arm and on your sciatica.

再来一次。刚才我对你做了，因为我念了Akal，现在你来念Akal，在心里念，专注于你的手臂和你的坐骨神经痛。

(Students yell and clap)

（学生们叫喊并鼓掌）

It's not a camouflage, it is a reality and I learnt it, I experienced it and I know it and I know it works. It's the same Ram Das Kaur, it's the same arm, it is same me. That's why I say to you, if you know how to chant Jap Sahib, you can never ever be defeated, doesn't matter what and to that extent if you have to confirm Almighty God, the God will lose, that's how powerful that Anaadi Naad is, it's the Jap of the Sahib, it's the Jap of Thee God. Don't have any misunderstanding. Sometime it is (will) bother you to chant Rehras in the evening, one who regularly chants Rehras can never, ever be poor. One who chants Japji can never ever be coward. One who chants Shabad Hazare will always prosper, doesn't matter what. One who chants Kirtan Solah can never be dishonored, there is no powerful prayer than Chaupai Benti. These five Banis given to you is for you, not for the Guru or for the God. That is why all these Banis are called Bani is the Guru, in the Bani is all the nectar, it is written on the Gurdwara, you can read it in English.

这不是伪装，这是真实，我学到了它，我体验了它，我知道它，我知道它管用。还是同一个Ram Das Kaur，还是同一条手臂，还是同一个我。所以我对你说，如果你懂得怎样唱诵Jap Sahib，你永远、永远不可能被击败，不管是什么，到了那个程度，就算你要和全能的神较量，神都会输，那个Anaadi Naad就有这么强大，它是Jap Sahib的Jap，它是对神的Jap。不要有任何误解。有时候晚上唱诵Rehras会让你觉得烦，但一个经常唱诵Rehras的人永远、永远不可能贫穷。一个唱诵Japji的人永远、永远不可能懦弱。一个唱诵Shabad Hazare的人永远会丰盛，不管是什么。一个唱诵Kirtan Solah的人永远不可能被羞辱，没有比Chaupai Benti更强大的祈祷。这五首Bani（圣言）赐给你，是为了你，不是为了古茹，也不是为了神。所以这些Bani都被称为Bani就是古茹，Bani里全是甘露，它写在谒师所（Gurdwara）上，你可以用英文读到它。

'Bani Guru, Guru Hei Bani, Vich Bani Amrith Saarey.'

「Bani Guru，Guru Hei Bani，Vich Bani Amrith Saarey。」

This line is true and it is eternal truth. So much is the power of the Bani of the Guru, that once when I was commanding and leaving Pakistan, we came to a place, between the two villages we had to cross and before us there were about hundred dead bodies lying down. It was a obligation to dig up the land, to put those dead bodies to give them respectful right. While doing so, we did a mistake. Two digging things, they call them (?) struck and created a very astonishing sound, you know the guy was digging and the other was digging, they hit each other so powerful, sound created and it created such a stir, it alerted both villagers and we have to pass through the center, we could see the lights, lit on, on that sound. We kept our silence and we started reciting

这一行是真的，它是永恒的真理。Guru 的 Bani 力量就是这么大——有一次我在指挥撤离巴基斯坦的时候，我们来到一个地方，要穿过两座村子之间，眼前躺着大约一百具尸体。我们有义务挖开土地，把这些尸体埋葬，给他们一个有尊严的归宿。就在挖的时候，我们犯了一个错。两把挖土的工具，他们叫它（？），撞到了一起，发出一种极其惊人的声音——你知道，一个人在挖，另一个人在挖，两把工具猛烈相撞，声音出来了，动静大得惊动了两个村子的人，而我们必须从中间穿过去，我们能看见灯一盏盏亮起来，就是被那个声音惊动的。我们保持静默，开始念诵——

'Jeyath Mushkal Aa Baney Toiee Koi Na Dey.'

「Jeyath Mushkal Aa Baney Toiee Koi Na Dey.」

Very slowly in absolute rhythm. Within half an hour all lights went out and we saw a clear passage, but not between the villages we decided to go, but around a village. Look at the human error. My assistant wanted to check why not through the villages? When he kicked his horse and went, he found there was a booby trap in the center of both villages. He just escaped by one foot, because all he was doing was putting his lance before the horse. Moment his lance touched the booby trap, the whole thing came up and he was just saved by one foot, he came back, he said, "Sir?"

很慢，完全合着节奏。半个小时内，所有灯都熄了，我们看到一条畅通的路，但不是两村之间我们原定要走的那条，而是绕着一个村子走。看看人的错误。我的助手想去查一下，为什么不走村子中间？他踢了一下马就去了，结果发现两座村子正中有一个诡雷。他只差一只脚的距离就没了命，因为他做的只是把长矛伸到马前面。长矛一碰到诡雷，整个东西就炸开了，他正好差一只脚的距离，捡回一条命。他回来说：「长官？」

I said, "Why you even try that, I told you go around this, what is wrong?"

我说：「你干吗去试那个？我跟你说了绕过去走，有什么问题？」

He said, "We should."

他说：「我们应该走那儿的。」

(Students laugh)

（学生笑）

Thank you and we did and we went. One more experiment. Use whatever you want, you have free choice. Right, we can't even move now.

谢谢你，我们就照做了，走了过去。再做一个实验。你想用什么就用什么，你有自由选择。现在，对了，我们动都动不了了。

(Students laugh)

（学生笑）

What you chanted to begin with?

你们刚开始唱的是什么？

Student: Akal.

学生：Akal。

YB: I chanted, "Har, Har Akal"

YB：我唱的是「Har，Har Akal」。

(Students laugh)

（学生笑）

Har, Har, Akal, I protected myself. Akal I couldn't move it, I knew it, there can't be anything less than that, because Akal is in love with Har and when you are in love you go (?). Love has one power in it. You can never be offensive in love. If you are offensive in love you are not in love, I don't want to use the right word for it, but it's very ugly. To be in love and to be offensive is very ugly, I don't want to explain it. Do you understand my sentiments, what I am trying to say or somebody who can really use third rate language, he can tell you what it means, how ugly you can be, you can't imagine. If you can imagine the ugliest of the ugliest of the ugliest of the ugly, I can tell you what ugly means, I can tell you that too, work it out. Just think that this arm is very ugly.

Har，Har，Akal，我保护了自己。Akal，我无法移动它，我知道，没有什么能比它更少，因为Akal深爱着Har，当你坠入爱河，你会（？）。爱中有一种力量。在爱中，你永远不会冒犯。如果你在爱中冒犯，你就没有在爱中，我不想用那个恰当的词，但它非常丑陋。在爱中而又冒犯，是非常丑陋的，我不想解释。你明白我的感受吗，我试图说什么，或者某个真的能用三流语言的人，他能告诉你那意味着什么，你能有多丑陋，你无法想象。如果你能想象最丑陋中最丑陋中最丑陋的丑陋，我能告诉你丑陋意味着什么，我也能告诉你，自己去琢磨。就想想这只手臂非常丑陋。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

Just project mentally

就在心里投射

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

All is in your mind and how you project it. Your mind is subject to the word. 'Guru Teg Bahadur Boliya' thus spoke the Guru Teg Bahadur,

一切都在你的心智中，以及你如何投射它。你的心智受制于话语。「Guru Teg Bahadur Boliya」Guru Teg Bahadur如此说道，

'Gur Shabad Yeh Mann Horiye.'

「Gur Shabad Yeh Mann Horiye。」

This mind can be held by the Guru's Shabad.

这个心智可以被古茹的Shabad所掌控。

'Baahey Jinna Di Pakadiye.'

「Baahey Jinna Di Pakadiye。」

Whose hands you hold, let the head go, but not the hand.

你握住谁的手，让头去吧，但别放手。

'Sirr Deejiye Baahey Na Chodiye.'

「Sirr Deejiye Baahey Na Chodiye。」

I might have suffered, insulted, slandered, but everything. But this line I love beyond me. That is real, that is God. That was the truth, that is the truth and that shall be. If you really want to know the meaning of;

我可能受过苦、被侮辱、被诽谤，但一切。但这一句我爱得超越我自己。那是真实的，那是神。那是真理，那是真理，将来也永远是。如果你真的想知道这句话的意思；

'Aad Sach, Jugad Sach, Hai Bhee Sach, Nanak Hosee Bhee Sach.'

「Aad Sach, Jugad Sach, Hai Bhee Sach, Nanak Hosee Bhee Sach。」

'In the beginning there was a truth, through the time it was truth , now is the truth, Nanak it shall be truth' then remember two things. With the Guru's word, control your mind and if you hold somebody's hand, let death, let it go, not you. If love is not forever, you have betrayed yourself. If love is not forever?

「起初有真理，穿越时间它是真理，现在是真理，Nanak它将永远是真理」，那么记住两件事。用古茹的话语，掌控你的心智，如果你握住某人的手，让死亡来吧，让它去，而不是你。如果爱不是永恒的，你就背叛了自己。如果爱不是永恒的？

Students: You have betrayed yourself.

学生：你就背叛了自己。

YB: You can go anywhere you want and find love anywhere you want, your style. But if you ever want to love my style and our style or divine style or human style, then just remember. Love is forever. When love ends God cries, after all what is above is below.

YB：你可以去任何你想去的地方，以任何你想要的方式找到爱，你的风格。但如果你曾经想以我的风格、我们的风格、神圣的风格或人类的风格去爱，那就只要记住。爱是永恒的。当爱结束时，神会哭泣，毕竟上面是什么，下面就是什么。

Psychology of communication and a practical knowledge of your self is create, love, destroy hatred. The only way you can do is, be you, be selfish, fish yourself. The destruction you create to yourself, when you want to be somebody, that's where you destroy yourself. Oh so and so is better, so and so is tall, there is a one little girl, I love her so much. The only thing we cannot communicate with each other, because she feels that I have made her four foot some inches and I am six foot two inches, my fault and I think it is her fault, we do not know whose fault it is. She is mad at God, she is mad at everything and I do not know what should I do, take her neck in my hand and legs and pull it all the way and make her six foot, two inches and say you are like me, doesn't work, I am not going to name that person because that's very embarrassing. I have to look like that when I talk to her and she wants me to look like that and talk to her, not possible. But if you just understand the God wanted you this way and that's the way you are and just speak, not talk. 'Sir, I want to talk to you?' Now look at a bullet. I want to talk to you and if you say, 'may I speak with you please?' What a sweet way! Words are the ultimate power and ultimate powers are the word. Word is God and God is word. There is nothing in between. The secret and the psychology of the richness is... The secret and the psychology of the richness is speak like God. Thank you very much.

沟通的心理学，以及你对自身的实用认识，就是创造、爱、摧毁仇恨。你能做的唯一一件事，就是做你自己，自私一点，钓你自己。当你想要成为某个别人时，你就在那一刻摧毁自己。哦，某某更好，某某更高，有个小姑娘，我很爱她。我们唯一没办法沟通的事，就是她觉得我把她弄得只有四英尺几英寸，而我有六英尺两英寸，是我的错，而我觉得是她的错，我们不知道是谁的错。她对神发火，她对一切都发火，我不知道该怎么办，抓住她的脖子和腿一直拉，把她拉成六英尺两英寸，然后说你就是像我一样，没用，我不会说出那个人是谁，因为那太让人尴尬了。我跟她说话时得看起来那样，她希望我看起来那样再跟她说话，不可能。但如果你只是明白，神想让你就是这个样子，你就是这个样子，然后去说话，而不是交谈。「先生，我想跟你谈谈？」现在看一颗子弹。我想跟你谈谈，如果你说「我可以跟您说句话吗？」多甜的方式！言语是终极的力量，终极的力量就是言语。言语是神，神是言语。中间什么都没有。丰盛的秘密和心理学就是……丰盛的秘密和心理学就是像神一样说话。非常感谢。

'May the Longtime Sunshine Upon You and love around you and surround you and the whole thing happens to you...'

「愿永恒的阳光照耀着你，爱围绕着你、环绕着你，一切都发生在你身上……」

(Students laugh)

（学生笑）

Hey is that professor? Are you going to talk to these ladies upon psychology?

嘿，那是教授吗？你要跟这些女士谈心理学吗？

Professor: (----)

教授：（----）

YB: Yeah, you know one thing tomorrow I am coming, here. What time I will be with you on the Yoga class?

YB：对，你知道一件事，明天我来这里。我什么时候来跟你们上瑜伽课？

Students: (----)

学生：（----）

YB: Eleven.

YB：11 点。

Students: Yes sir.

学生：好的，先生。

YB: I come at eleven O' clock? Why don't you start at eleven O' clock with them? Give them little taste of the modern psychology and your point of view, free and clear. All right. From eleven O' clock everybody should be sharp here, till eleven thirty my friend will talk to you. Come on here. Introduce yourself, let them know, tell your all degrees and everything, look at this skinny beautiful man, he is very fine. I like him. Come on, come on be brave.

YB：我 11 点来？你们为什么不跟他们从 11 点开始？给他们尝一点现代心理学和你观点的小滋味，自由又清楚。好。从 11 点开始，每个人都应该准时到这里，到 11 点半我朋友会跟你们讲。过来这里。介绍一下你自己，让他们知道，说说你所有的学位什么的，看看这个瘦削又漂亮的人，他很棒。我喜欢他。来，来，勇敢点。

(Students claps)

（学生鼓掌）

Yeah, yeah. All right. Tell them about what you do, what is your name everything, and you can communicate friendly.

对，对。好。跟他们讲讲你做什么，你叫什么，所有一切，你可以友好地沟通。

Student: Speak.

学生：说吧。

(Student laugh)

（学生笑）

YB: See how sharp he is!

YB：看他多机灵！

Professor: Learnt very fast, learnt very fast. This is a rather new experience, I haven't talked to these many people in quite sometime, University of Alaska is little bit smaller than the most universities. I was invited by the Siri Singh Sahib when I went to Anchorage to participate in his Tantric Yoga workshop, right now I am a professor of psychology at the University of Alaska, Fairbanks, just a little bit far from home, enjoying the beautiful New Mexico, which I traveled to some years ago. I haven't yet decided what it is, I am supposed to speak with you about tomorrow but I am sure that I would be enlightened a little bit and hopefully by then. As far as degrees, I got my degree, my degrees in psychology specifically Neurophysiology and Neuroanatomy, brain mechanisms and behavior, I got that at the University of Montana several years ago and rather nice being back in the country again, where I can see (?) flying around and some of the other beauties, which Montana had (?) of New Mexico and I am very pleased to be here with all of you.

教授：学得非常快，学得非常快。这是一次相当新的体验，我有一阵子没跟这么多人说过话了，阿拉斯加大学比大多数大学要小一点。我去安克雷奇参加 Siri Singh Sahib 的谭崔瑜伽工作坊时，是他邀请我去的，现在我是阿拉斯加大学费尔班克斯分校的心理学教授，离家有点远，正在享受美丽的新墨西哥，我几年前去过那里。我还没决定好明天该跟你们讲什么，但我相信我会得到一点启发，希望到那时候吧。说到学位，我拿的学位、我的心理学学位，具体是神经生理学和神经解剖学，大脑机制与行为，几年前在蒙大拿大学拿到的，能再回到这个地方挺好，我能看到（？）飞来飞去，还有别的美景，蒙大拿有的（？）新墨西哥也有，我很高兴能在这儿和你们所有人在一起。

YB: (?)

YB：（？）

Professor: We certainly do a good job messing ourselves up.

教授：我们确实很擅长把自己搞得一团糟。

YB: (?)

YB：（？）

Professor: No, I am not.

教授：不，我不是。

(Students laugh)

（学生笑）

YB: It will be soon. Keep in mind.

YB：很快就走了。记住。

(Low voice)

（低声）

So we will be talking to you half an hour tomorrow and (?) and see what comes out of that (?). There are two enemies in the world, "Lazies and Fanatics." (?) to a modern level and I hope everything (?). And my basic approach to you is that just learn one thing and learn it from the heart and the head. What you are creating is a tussle between head and heart. And when you are not in a position to decide what your heart says and what your head says, please speak through your head and also speak through your heart, and then speak to yourself and be the woman who you want to be. Not that what others want you to be. (?) that God wants you to do.

所以我们明天会跟你们讲半个小时，（？）看看会出来什么（？）。世界上有两种敌人，「懒惰的人和狂热分子。」（？）到现代的水平，我希望一切（？）。我对你们的基本态度就是：只学一件事，从心学和从头学。你正在制造的，是头和心之间的拉扯。当你没法决定你的心在说什么、你的头在说什么时，请通过你的头说话，也通过你的心说话，然后对你自己说话，做你想成为的那个女人。不是别人想让你成为的样子。（？）神想让你做的事。

(Blank)

（空白）

What your uncle says and your ankle says, forget it. What your niece says and what your knees says forget, what your head says and heart says forget it, it is all you. Don't forget, don't spilt yourself up for God's sake. All say everything, but one thing you say to yourself, that you have to be you. Do you understand? It doesn't matter what I say, doesn't matter what everybody says. You have to live with yourself. You are a hue-Mann-being. Hue means the halo, the light, the aura, mann means the mind, being is now you are the mental light, (?) you are the God. (?) and all of you are born in guilt (?). You are not born in guilt or in sin, it couldn't be. If that is true, then you are not born in the image of God. You are born in the image of God and truth as God is, so you are, and further remember, God is with you. And without you, nobody even express God, you are the projective, expression of Almighty God. You are the grace of God. And you are not born in sin, we do err, err is a human and come along and mess around no problem. God forgives you if you have personal God. And please do not find God. God is not lost. He is going nowhere, don't waste your time. Do not do anything to find God or provoke God or anything, just prayer means nothing but speaking to God (?). Prayer is our habit of speaking to God,

你叔叔说的、你脚踝说的，全忘掉。你侄女说的、你膝盖说的，忘掉；你脑袋说的、你心说的，全忘掉，那全是你。别忘了，看在神的份上，别把自己分裂开。所有人都在说这说那，但你只对自己说一件事：你必须做你自己。明白吗？我说什么不重要，所有人说什么都不重要。你得跟自己过日子。你是 hue-Mann-being，hue 是那个能量圈、那道光、那个能量圈（Aura），mann 是心智（mind），being 就是此刻你，你是心智之光，你就是神。你们全都生在罪咎里？不对。你不是生在罪咎或罪里，那不可能。若真是那样，你就不是照神的形象生的。你是照神的形象生的，神是什么样，你就什么样，还要记住，神与你同在。没有你，没人能表达神，你是全能神的投射，是祂的表达。你是神的优雅（grace）。你不是生在罪里，我们确实会犯错，犯错是人之常情，做错了、搞乱了，没关系。如果你有一位个人的神，神会原谅你。拜托，别去找神。神没丢。祂哪儿也不去，别浪费时间。别为了找神、激怒神或别的什么去做任何事，祈祷不过就是对神说话。祈祷就是我们跟神说话的习惯，

'Binn Boliya Sab Kuch Jaandha.'

「Binn Boliya Sab Kuch Jaandha.」

God knows everything without us speaking, because we only speak with the very healthy power the energy God gave us. We are the unit, God unit number. Guru Amrit Kaur, Nancy Reagan. (?) God unit number thirty seven of thirty eight, ninety six whatever. You are all units. So long you live, you are registered with Almighty God, as our car plate is. And no two people are identical, never will be.

不用我们开口，神什么都知道，因为我们说话，用的只是神给我们的那股健康的力量、那份能量。我们是一个单位，神的单位编号。Guru Amrit Kaur，南希·里根（Nancy Reagan）。神的单位编号，三十八号里的第三十七号，九十六号随便。你们全都是单位。你活着多久，就在全能神那里注册多久，就像我们的车牌一样。没有两个人一模一样，永远也不会有。

The greatest sin ever we committed when we agree to find God, it means we have agreed that God is lost, you will only find something, which is lost. Now it is thousands and thousands of years of teaching that God is lost, you got to find it. You are holy because you have nine holes. Two ears, two eyes, nostril, mouth and other two you know.

我们犯下的最大罪过，就是同意去找神，那等于我们同意了神丢了；你只能找到丢了的东西。几千几万年的教导都说神丢了，你得去找它。你之所以神圣，是因为你有九个孔。两个耳朵、两只眼睛、两个鼻孔、一张嘴，还有你知道的另外两个。

(Students laugh)

（学生们笑）

You are holy! Anyone who has nine holes is holy and the tenth gate is that consciousness, which is in you, which tells you to be and if you let things come in you and get out of you under that conscious control, you are the holiest of the holy, otherwise you are (?). What we have to do is to psychologically (?) ourself the reason and argument and whatever convincing we have to do (?). I give you a practical example. (?), right? Your eyes are the same, your ears are the same, tongue is same, everything is intact, but you can't see, you can't speak, you can't hear. Because something in you is wrong. And that something is very important. And we have a very important mission on this Earth. We create every everlasting and evergreen relationship within our holes, because we are the part of God, we are born in the image of God, we have to (?) as God, real and true. (?). I'll be with you tomorrow, (?) will be before me, and then we will do the good (?) how was today?

你是神圣的！任何有九个孔的人都是神圣的，而第十道门就是那份意识，它在你之内，它告诉你要存在；如果你让事物在那份意识的掌控下进入你、离开你，你就是神圣中的至圣，否则你就是（？）。我们要做的，是在心理上（？）自己，那个理由和论据，以及我们不得不做的任何说服（？）。我给你们一个实际的例子。（？），对吧？你的眼睛是一样的，耳朵是一样的，舌头是一样的，一切完好无损，但你看不见，你不能说话，你听不见。因为你之内有某个东西错了。而那个东西非常重要。我们在这个地球上有一个非常重要的使命。我们在自己的孔窍之内，创造每一种永恒而不朽的关系，因为我们是神的一部分，我们按神的形象出生，我们必须像神一样（？），真实而真诚。（？）。我明天会和你们在一起，（？）会在我面前，然后我们会做那好的（？）今天怎么样？

Students: Great!

学生：太棒了！

YB: Well, that's a start. Wahe Guru they are going to say after two weeks. It's too early to say Wahe Guru! We want to really create environments where we want to be ourself. Feel it and experience it. And I just want to hear myself to those very early days when I was a student and I was going through this and I want you to come along with me just (?). Thank you.

YB：嗯，那是个开始。他们会说两周后说 Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo。现在说 Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo 还太早！我们真的想要创造出我们想做自己的环境。去感受它、体验它。我只想让自己听到那些很早的日子，那时我还是个学生，我经历着这些，我想让你们和我一起走，就（？）。谢谢。

Students sing: "May the Longtime Sunshine upon You..."

学生唱：「永恒的阳光照耀着你……」

Students chant: Saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat Nam.

学生唱诵：Saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat Nam。

"Wahe Guru Ji Ka Khalsa, Wahe Guru Ji Ki Fateh!"

「Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo Ji Ka Khalsa，Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo Ji Ki Fateh！」