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中英对照全文
(Students singing song)
（学生们唱歌）
(Students stop singing)
（学生们停止唱歌）
Okay I am very happy that you are chanting to Guru Ram Das. I have called you specially today. There is a very popular saying in the scripture, prostitutes do not prosper. I learnt it when I was very young and I believe in it and I believe a woman, which is destroyed sexually, sensually, emotionally and commotionally is not a woman in the real sense and I believe that men of all walks do not understand the grace of the woman. Woman has been used and misused as a sex object.
好，我很高兴你们在向 Guru Ram Das 唱诵。今天我特意叫你们来。经典里有一句很流行的话：妓女不会丰盛。我很小的时候就学到了它，我相信它，我相信一个女人，如果在性上、感官上、情绪上、骚动上被毁掉，就不是真正意义上的女人；我也相信，各行各业的男人都不懂女人的优雅。女人一直被当作性对象来使用和滥用。
And ten years ago, when I came in America and I saw the billboards, it hurt me and it still hurts me and it will continue to hurt me, I am never going to come back again, God likes it or not it is His problem I know He is Almighty but I think I have done enough. Many, many times and I cannot be rubbed back again into a Messiah role and I don't like these roles and I am no Messiah at all. It's a very simple thing that man is born of a woman therefore woman should have a place of respect and dignity. What we did is, we created insecure woman because only insecure woman can be sexually exploited. Now it's a part of the game.
十年前，我来到美国，看到那些广告牌，它伤了我，现在仍然伤着我，将来还会继续伤着我。我再也不会回来了，神喜不喜欢那是祂的问题，我知道祂是全能的，但我想我已经做得够多了。很多很多次，我不能再被拉回救世主的角色里，我不喜欢这些角色，我根本不是什么救世主。很简单，男人是女人生的，所以女人应该有一个受尊重、有尊严的位置。我们所做的，是造出了没有安全感的女人，因为只有没有安全感的女人才能被性剥削。现在这已经成了游戏的一部分。
of respect and dignity. What we did is, we created insecure woman because only insecure woman can be sexually exploited. Now it's a part of the game.
受尊重、有尊严的位置。我们所做的，是造出了没有安全感的女人，因为只有没有安全感的女人才能被性剥削。现在这已经成了游戏的一部分。
You have to have a insecure woman to exploit sexually, woman who is a woman, God cannot exploit that. What to talk of a man, man is just nothing, man is a peanut.
你必须有一个没有安全感的女人才能去性剥削，一个真正的女人，神不会去剥削她。男人就更不用说了，男人什么都不是，男人是颗花生米。
Now what we did it, we created a breed of, a big breed of insecure woman. 'You are ugly, you should look sexy, you are not right, you should look sensual, you are not this, you should look that. ' It is tremendous tragedy. What we do, we exploit a woman in her youth and in her childhood, because when she comes to the puberty and she adapts to the being something, there is a special essence, fragrance which comes out of woman, which men run after like mad, so that's why young girls are exploited and misused, but after all she is a human being and she sits at one say, he said, wait, wait a minute, stop, stop this, this is not going to go and it won't go.
现在我们做了什么，我们造出了一类人，一大类没有安全感的女人。「你丑，你应该看起来性感；你不对，你应该看起来撩人；你不是这个，你应该看起来是那个。」这是巨大的悲剧。我们所做的，是在女人年轻的时候、童年的时候剥削她，因为当她到了青春期，她开始适应成为某种存在，这时有一种特别的精华、芬芳从女人身上散发出来，男人像疯了一样追着它跑，所以年轻女孩被剥削、被滥用，但她毕竟是人，她有一天会坐下来，她说，等等，等一下，停下，停下这个，这行不通，它不会行得通。
Now, this process in America is very common and very culture has accepted, that's the tragedy of this country.
现在，这个过程在美国非常普遍，而且整个文化都接受了，这就是这个国家的悲剧。
is not going to go and it won't go.
行不通，它不会行得通。
Now, this process in America is very common and very culture has accepted, that's the tragedy of this country.
现在，这个过程在美国非常普遍，而且整个文化都接受了，这就是这个国家的悲剧。
This country culture has accepted that woman can socialize, prostitute herself and there is no defense, there is no help for her, nobody sympathize with the woman. Women are going nuts and every woman has to be sexual, sensual, skinny, social and just a some, something to provide stimulant, she is a stimulant, she is just like an upper, I mean don't misunderstand, she is just you know, I'll like to have a intercourse, when some woman come to me, 'oh I just had a intercourse with him because I felt very good. ' What should I call her name, I don't want to, if there is a dirtiest word in dictionary add that to my this word, that's what she is.
这个国家的文化已经接受了女人可以社交、可以出卖自己，而她没有任何防卫，没有任何帮助，没有人同情这个女人。女人们都在发疯，每个女人都必须性感、肉感、瘦削、善于社交，只是一个某种东西，用来提供刺激，她就是一种刺激物，她就像一剂兴奋剂，我的意思是别误会，她只是你知道的，我会想跟她交合，当某个女人来跟我说，「哦，我刚跟他交合了，因为我感觉非常好。」我该怎么称呼她，我不想，如果字典里有最肮脏的词，就把那个词加到我这个词上，她就是那样。
Her aura is punctured, she has lost her subconscious dignity, she has lost her standardization values. Intercourse is not male organ going in a female, don't misunderstand that. It is a whole physical, astral, subtle, mental and spiritual body involvement.
她的能量圈被刺破了，她失去了潜意识里的尊严，她失去了标准化的价值观。交合不是男性器官进入女性体内，别误会这一点。它是整个肉体、星光体、精微体、心智体和灵魂体的投入。
is not male organ going in a female, don't misunderstand that. It is a whole physical, astral, subtle, mental and spiritual body involvement.
不是男性器官进入女性体内，别误会这一点。它是整个肉体、星光体、精微体、心智体和灵魂体的投入。
Okay, I worked on it ten years you know I thought we will have a grace of God movement, we will have a graceful woman and we will built it up. We give you Bana, we give you Bani, we give you standard, I even have three years given a ladies course and I sit two months there to do my job, what I get? So and so ran away weekend with such and such and you are all dead. What is wrong with you? How can a Khalsa woman who wears Bana and all that runaway and you look at it as a joke? Why didn't you go, advice her, help her, counsel her, uplift her spirit? Why? I am asking why?
好，我在上面下了十年功夫，你知道，我以为我们会有一场神的优雅的运动，我们会有一个优雅的女人，我们会把它建立起来。我们给你灵性装束，我们给你圣言，我们给你标准，我甚至三年开了一门女士课程，我在那里坐两个月做我的工作，我得到了什么？某某人跟某某人周末跑了，而你们全是死的。你们怎么了？一个穿着灵性装束的卡尔萨女人，怎么能跑掉，而你们还把它当成笑话看？你们为什么不去，劝她，帮她，给她辅导，提升她的精神？为什么？我在问为什么？
Then if you can't do this, take off your turban and take off your whites and go and just be bizarre, I don't care, I don't want you, you don't want me, period. Let us end this, enough is enough, I have enough, you have enough. Either live it or leave it and I know we have a past.
那么如果你们做不到这一点，就摘下你们的头巾，脱下你们的白衣，去，就做个怪人好了，我不在乎，我不要你们，你们也不要我，就这样。让我们结束这一切，够了就是够了，我受够了，你们也受够了。要么活出来，要么离开，我知道我们有一段过去。
you don't want me, period. Let us end this, enough is enough, I have enough, you have enough. Either live it or leave it and I know we have a past.
你们也不要我，就这样。让我们结束这一切，够了就是够了，我受够了，你们也受够了。要么活出来，要么离开，我知道我们有一段过去。
Somebody was you know I don't know what to do, instead of meditating we have no meditative mind, so I will go to a club and sleep with somebody at night, I will arrange three, some older man who can they take me to good lunch, then some young man who can dance with me and then one bum who can just you know, I know all that, I have lived in Hollywood, I know the life, I know what a woman go through in this country. But that's what I am fighting. I am fighting for that woman is the grace of God, there can be no Nation, if there is no woman, there can be no society, if there is no woman, there can be no good children, if there is no woman, without woman there is nothing, period. Quit.
你知道，有人会说，我不知道该怎么办，与其冥想，我们又没有冥想性心智，那我不如去夜店，晚上跟人上床，我会安排三个，找个年纪大点的男人，能带我去吃顿好午餐，再找个年轻男人，能陪我跳舞，再找个流浪汉，就那样，你知道，这些我都懂，我在好莱坞住过，我了解那种生活，我知道这个国家的女人要经历什么。但这正是我在抗争的。我在为那个而抗争——女人是神的优雅，没有女人就不可能有国家，没有女人就不可能有社会，没有女人就不可能有好的孩子，没有女人，没有女人就什么都没有，就这样。别说了。
Then how come, I have a secretary of the religion, I have a secretary general, I have this and that and I have all of you, who love me and you adore me and you tell me, 'Yogiji you are great' and how come a last weekend one woman ran away with another man and something which she what she happens.
那怎么会，我有宗教秘书，我有秘书长，我有这个那个，我有你们所有人，你们爱我，你们崇拜我，你们对我说，「Yogiji 你很伟大」，那怎么上个周末有个女人跟另一个男人跑了，还有那些她身上发生的事。
me and you tell me, 'Yogiji you are great' and how come a last weekend one woman ran away with another man and something which she what she happens.
我，你对我说，「Yogiji 你很伟大」，那怎么上个周末有个女人跟另一个男人跑了，还有那些她身上发生的事。
Suppose in Adi pose, in Adi Shakti Ashram, this ashram, that ashram and none of you open your eyes and none of you go and talk and none of you... I mean what is, what is this social organized pressure for that we have to live pure and we have to let our past go and we have not to be exploited, we are grace of God, we are human, when you are going to learn that you are a human being? Are you human being or are you not? I honestly want to know. You know, woman is woman, woman is the base of the society, she is a base of the creativity, she is a base of, whatever is base... Do you know when some girl one day told me, "Yeah, I just, I didn't mind him having a intercourse with me.
假设在 Adi 体式里，在 Adi Shakti 灵修社区，这个灵修社区，那个灵修社区，你们没有一个人睁开眼睛，没有一个人去谈，没有一个人……我是说，这算什么，这种社会组织的压力算什么，要我们活得纯净，要我们放下过去，要我们不被剥削，我们是神的优雅，我们是人，你什么时候才能学会你是一个人？你是人还是不是？我真心想知道。你知道，女人就是女人，女人是社会的基础，她是创造力的基础，她是基础，不管什么基础……你知道有一天有个女孩告诉我，「是啊，我就是，我不介意他跟我性交。
" I didn't think that she was talking something wrong, she was just telling a truth, because she doesn't know what the intercourse is and she said, "I didn't mind having intercourse," I believe that she doesn't have mind at all.
」我不觉得她在说什么错话，她只是在说一个事实，因为她不知道性交是什么，她说，「我不介意性交，」我相信她根本就没有心智。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
know what the intercourse is and she said, "I didn't mind having intercourse," I believe that she doesn't have mind at all.
知道性交是什么，她说，「我不介意性交，」我相信她根本就没有心智。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
She is spaced out bum she is out of mind totally. I don't think woman can do more than that when she takes off her cloth, that's the end of her world, period. And when she is naked, she has no clothes on her body what she gives, she cannot take back God, Almighty you may do anything and there is a limit to it and that's why, I called you as daughters, as sisters, as the Khalsa Panth, which we talk about daughters, sisters and the Panth Khalsa, stop this and each one of you should get up and rise for the woman. Equal right amendment is not going to give you anything, except some political things, but what we need is first grace and each one of you.
她已经神志不清了，彻底失去了理智。我认为女人脱下衣服之后能做的也就到那一步了，那是她世界的尽头，就这样。当她赤裸的时候，身上没有衣服，她给出的东西，就再也拿不回来。全能的神啊，你什么都可以做，但凡事都有个限度，这就是为什么我把你们叫作女儿、叫作姐妹、叫作卡尔萨团体（Khalsa Panth），我们说的女儿、姐妹和卡尔萨团体，停止这种事，你们每一个人都应该站起来，为女人挺身而出。平等权利修正案不会给你任何东西，除了某些政治上的东西，但我们首先需要的是优雅，你们每一个人都是。
That is why we said, let us change our Bana, let us look unique because let us believe in Guru Gobind Singh. He said,
这就是为什么我们说，让我们改变我们的灵性装束（Bana），让我们看起来独一无二，因为让我们信仰 Guru Gobind Singh。他说，
'Jab lag Khalsa rehe niaaraa, Tab leg tej dee-o mai(n) saaraa. '
「Jab lag Khalsa rehe niaaraa, Tab leg tej dee-o mai(n) saaraa.」
our Bana, let us look unique because let us believe in Guru Gobind Singh. He said,
我们的灵性装束（Bana），让我们看起来独一无二，因为让我们信仰 Guru Gobind Singh。他说，
'Jab lag Khalsa rehe niaaraa, Tab leg tej dee-o mai(n) saaraa. '
「Jab lag Khalsa rehe niaaraa, Tab leg tej dee-o mai(n) saaraa.」
And let us become Niaarey, let us become unique, nobody is like us, then why this hanky-panky? I tell you my heart feelings, I don't care there are two women or two million women. I will quit the day anybody of you is caught doing this kind of weirdo numbers. Because spirit is to go through odds and end of life, in the spirit of the Khalsa, undefeating spirit, undying spirit and there is no compromise, there is no compromise. There is absolutely no compromise, I know they want you to have bob hair, they want you to have small hair, they want you to look like sensual and sexual, I know that is America.
让我们变得 Niaarey，让我们变得独一无二，没有人像我们，那为什么还要搞这些鬼把戏？我告诉你们我心里的感受，我不在乎是两个女人还是两百万个女人。你们中任何一个人被抓到干这种怪事的那一天，我就会退出。因为灵性就是要穿过生命中的种种坎坷与尽头，以卡尔萨的精神，不可战胜的精神，不朽的精神，没有妥协，没有妥协。绝对没有妥协，我知道他们想让你留波波头，想让你留短发，想让你看起来性感、肉感，我知道那就是美国。
Six million women are exploited for salesmen to be, to be provided as flesh every night, six millions. In every job there is a exploitation of sexuality and sensuality and it is a exploitation because you know once a while you just provide as a instrument of pleasure and then you are adios.
六百万女人被剥削，为了推销员，每晚被当作肉体提供出去，六百万。每一份工作里都有对性和肉感的剥削，而它就是剥削，因为你知道，偶尔你只是被当作一件取乐的工具提供出去，然后你就被一脚踢开。
sexuality and sensuality and it is a exploitation because you know once a while you just provide as a instrument of pleasure and then you are adios.
性和肉感，而它就是剥削，因为你知道，偶尔你只是被当作一件取乐的工具提供出去，然后你就被一脚踢开。
You have nine holes and that damn thing is just a one hole. What about the other eight? They all go down the tube. Your eyes are blind, your ears are blind, can't hear, your mouth cannot speak the truth, what is gone wrong with you? And one lady in counsel told me, "Oh I didn't do intercourse Yogi? "
你有九个孔，而那该死的东西只是一个孔。那另外八个呢？它们全都废掉了。你的眼睛是瞎的，你的耳朵是瞎的，听不见，你的嘴说不出真话，你到底哪里出了问题？有一位女士在咨询时告诉我：「哦，Yogi，我没有做性交？」
I said, "What you did? "
我说：「你做了什么？」
"Oh no, I didn't do anything. "
「哦，没有，我什么都没做。」
"What you did? "
「你做了什么？」
"I didn't do anything, I did only orally everything. "
「我什么都没做，我只是用嘴做了一切。」
This is not, if woman want to be woman, this is not going to happen. You need a (?) man because you need a woman and you need a woman to be a man. That is a man, a man. Father and the Son and the Holy Ghost, a man.
这不是说，如果女人想当女人，这事就不会发生。你需要一个（？）男人，因为你需要一个女人，而你需要一个女人来当男人。那才是男人，一个男人。圣父、圣子和圣灵，一个男人。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
because you need a woman and you need a woman to be a man. That is a man, a man. Father and the Son and the Holy Ghost, a man.
因为你需要一个女人，而你需要一个女人来当男人。那才是男人，一个男人。圣父、圣子和圣灵，一个男人。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
So what I, I am calling you and I am asking you is, let us stop this game what we were doing on Sunset Strip and on this strip and that strip, let us stop this strip business. Let us come out to be with dignity, with Divinity and with the grace. Now, why I say is, in last ten years 3HO has not abandoned anybody. No woman can raise hand and said, she was in genuine difficulty and we didn't come through. We did came through all the way. That's why, we have earned this right to say to you, we want you to live in the dignity, Divinity and the grace of a woman.
所以我要对你们说的、我要问你们的是，让我们停止这场游戏吧，我们过去在日落大道上、在这条街上、那条街上玩的那套，让我们停止这种脱衣的把戏。让我们走出来，带着尊严、带着神性、带着优雅。现在，我为什么这么说，因为在过去十年里，3HO 没有抛弃过任何人。没有哪个女人能举起手说，她当时真的陷入困境，而我们没有帮她渡过。我们确实一路帮到底了。正因如此，我们才赢得了这个权利对你们说，我们要你们活出女人的尊严、神性和优雅。
came through all the way. That's why, we have earned this right to say to you, we want you to live in the dignity, Divinity and the grace of a woman.
一路帮到底了。正因如此，我们才赢得了这个权利对你们说，我们要你们活出女人的尊严、神性和优雅。
Otherwise, 3HO family will be ruined, there will be no marriages, it will be same sick process, it will be same Hollywood scene, it will be same Las Vegas, well if you want to strip dance and you want to drink and have all this what you want to have, then have it, then one thing leads to other, other leads to the other and adios, go the way you want to go, I will just stop it and stop it totally and if somebody and one thing which makes you mad is, if somebody is falling apart and somebody is not doing this and somebody is not doing that, you don't come through at all.
否则，3HO 这个大家庭就会被毁掉，不会再有婚姻，还会是同样那套病态的过程，还会是同样的好莱坞场景，还会是同样的拉斯维加斯，好吧，如果你想跳脱衣舞，想喝酒，想拥有这一切你想拥有的，那就去拥有吧，然后一件事引出另一件事，另一件又引出另一件，然后就再见吧，你想走哪条路就走哪条路，我会把它停下来，彻底停下来，而如果有什么事情让你发疯，那就是，如果有人在崩溃，有人不做这个，有人不做那个，你根本不来帮忙。
which makes you mad is, if somebody is falling apart and somebody is not doing this and somebody is not doing that, you don't come through at all.
让你发疯的是，如果有人在崩溃，有人不做这个，有人不做那个，你根本不来帮忙。
Everybody now in 3HO wants to live individual life, there is no individual life we have very collective part of the society and we have to face the whole society as a whole and everybody has to face everybody. I mean to say, that's the way it should be and that's the way it should be. Everybody has neurosis, everybody is neurotic but everybody has a spirit, everybody has a soul, everybody has a strength and everybody can be beautiful, I don't believe that anybody can go down the tube, not a bit. If Harbhajan Singh Puri can bug, become Harbhajan Singh Khalsa Yogiji then everybody can become everybody. I used to crawl and I used to pee without knowing on whom I am peeing. Right? It's a wrong?
现在 3HO 里的每个人都想过个人的生活，可根本没有个人生活这回事，我们是社会里非常集体的一部分，我们必须作为一个整体去面对整个社会，每个人都必须面对每个人。我的意思是，本来就该这样，本来就该这样。每个人都有神经症，每个人都神经兮兮，但每个人都有灵，每个人都有灵魂，每个人都有力量，每个人都可以很美，我不相信有谁就会垮掉，一点都不信。如果 Harbhajan Singh Puri 能变成 Harbhajan Singh Khalsa Yogiji，那每个人都能成为任何人。我以前会爬，会尿尿，还不知道自己尿在谁身上。对吧？这不对吗？
You don't want to see this truth? And now I go to bathroom.
你不想看见这个真相？现在我去洗手间。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
to pee without knowing on whom I am peeing. Right? It's a wrong?
尿尿，还不知道自己尿在谁身上。对吧？这不对吗？
You don't want to see this truth? And now I go to bathroom.
你不想看见这个真相？现在我去洗手间。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
Right? I have learnt, right? Well, let us face the reality, I have learnt right? But can't you learn? We have to learn to become learned and I don't want that listen, those who wants to do their Hollywood trip, goodbye. We are not going to tolerate this, that's, that's no way, that is no, no honorable way, it has no honorable feeling, it doesn't mean anything and then the future of the children, which will be born out of such woman will suffer. And I don't want people to suffer, I want people to be healthy, happy and holy. I want people to be there, oh for God sake, give your children future, forget about your nonsense. Your aura doesn't have power on your children.
对吧？我学会了，对吧？好吧，让我们面对现实，我学会了，对吧？可你就学不会吗？我们必须学习，成为有学问的人，我不想要那样，听着，那些想去好莱坞走一趟的人，再见。我们不会容忍这个，那，那不行，那不是，不是体面的路，它没有体面的感觉，它什么都不是，然后孩子的未来——从这样的女人生出来的孩子——会受苦。我不想让人受苦，我要人健康、快乐、神圣。我要人在那里，噢，看在神的份上，给你的孩子一个未来，忘掉你那些胡闹。你的能量圈对孩子没有力量。
You are yelling and screaming doesn't make any difference, because you don't have that light, you are opaque, you are dark because you are selfishly, sensually, sexually, totally, degraded yourself within your own consciousness and you got to change.
你大喊大叫，一点用都没有，因为你没有那道光，你是不透明的，你是黑暗的，因为你在自己的意识里，自私地、感官地、性欲地、彻底地把自己贬低了，你必须改变。
opaque, you are dark because you are selfishly, sensually, sexually, totally, degraded yourself within your own consciousness and you got to change.
不透明的，你是黑暗的，因为你在自己的意识里，自私地、感官地、性欲地、彻底地把自己贬低了，你必须改变。
Now what is the way to change? Changing is change yourself and help somebody else to change, each one should become a counselor of higher woman values, well you know better woman values than me because you are all woman right? You are not? How many of you feel you are a woman, raise your hands? Raise your hand at least if and they should raise your both hand if nobody else is raising it. Okay, now I know you will raise it anyway.
那改变的路是什么？改变就是改变你自己，并帮助别人改变，每个人都应该成为更高女性价值的咨询者，嗯，你比我更懂女性价值，因为你们都是女人，对吧？你们不是？你们有多少人觉得自己是女人，举手？至少举手，如果没人举，她们就该举双手。好，现在我知道你们反正都会举的。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Now yeah, you know you have all charged up, fired up and it's fine. Look, I don't care who you are and what you are, difficulties will come, difficulty is one, thus God gave you a woman sixteen time more patience than a male. God manufactured woman right and you got to use it and within my lifetime learn to be a woman in grace. Otherwise, you are nobody. That's why you wear white that because you can live white, your whole environment and structure is white and straightforward direct Khalsa woman, that should be your attitude, you should say, 'I am, I am.
YB：好了，你知道，你们现在都充满了能量、被点燃了，这很好。听着，我不在乎你是谁、你是什么，困难都会来，困难只有一个，所以神给你的耐心比男人多十六倍。神造女人造得对，你得用上它，在我的有生之年学会做一个优雅的女人。否则，你什么都不是。这就是为什么你穿白色，因为你能活出白色，你的整个环境和结构都是白色的，是直截了当、直接的卡尔萨女人，那应该是你的态度，你应该说：「我是，我是。」
your whole environment and structure is white and straightforward direct Khalsa woman, that should be your attitude, you should say, 'I am, I am. ' You are not a object of sensuality and sexuality.
你的整个环境和结构都是白色的，是直截了当、直接的卡尔萨女人，那应该是你的态度，你应该说：「我是，我是。」你不是感官和性的对象。
Now I am opened myself for questions, please feel free and ask me any question but mind you one thing, I am very direct today, I am geared myself at category Z and I am not going to spare you, I am going to come straight as it is. Yes, yes dear.
现在我敞开自己接受提问，请随意问我任何问题，但你要记住一件事，我今天非常直接，我把自己调到 Z 档，我不会放过你，我会直来直去，是什么就说什么。好，好，亲爱的。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: No, no, you, you have a absolutely the privilege to live, there is no big deal, this was 7:30 class and 7:30 we don't teach yoga, yoga we teach 6:30 to 7:30.
YB：不，不，你，你绝对有权利活着，这没什么大不了的，这是 7:30 的课，7:30 我们不教瑜伽，瑜伽我们 6:30 到 7:30 教。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: No, no, this, this speaker this...
YB：不，不，这个，这个讲者这个……
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
This speaker, this speaker is not speaking today to inspire anybody to speak, this speaker today is doing its job and you, this is a hard course job and you need not take it at all and don't worry about it.
这个讲者，这个讲者今天说话不是为了激励任何人说话，这个讲者今天是在做它的工作，而你，这是一门艰难的课程，你根本不必上，别担心。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: And unfortunately it was your first yoga class, it was very hard for you to digest.
YB：不幸的是，那是你的第一堂瑜伽课，对你来说很难消化。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
don't worry about it.
别担心。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: And unfortunately it was your first yoga class, it was very hard for you to digest.
YB：不幸的是，那是你的第一堂瑜伽课，对你来说很难消化。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
They should have let you go, to begin, you know this is also wrong. Just to feel everybody can just tolerate it, you people have worked on it for ten years and ten years you have learnt and many of you have gone through the pain and displeasure of life and you have adapted it and everybody can't take it right away. So just that is also not right to shove it through anybody's throat. Take it very light. Yes?
他们一开始就该让你走，你知道这也是不对的。只为了觉得每个人都能忍受它，你们这些人已经在上面下了十年功夫，十年里你学到了，你们很多人经历了生活的痛苦和不快，你们适应了它，不是每个人都能马上承受。所以硬把它塞进任何人的喉咙里也是不对的。放轻松。好吗？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Oh you should have career, there is nothing wrong in that, don't have children, don't have. You are not a child producing machine, absolutely don't want to have child, don't have child, have career have (?) but what I am saying is, whether you have children, or you don't have children, you want a career, you don't want a career, but you are a human being and don't be a exploitory sex object. That's what I am saying. Yes?
YB：哦，你应该有事业，这没什么错，不要孩子，不要。你不是生孩子的机器，绝对不要孩子，别生孩子，去有事业有（？）但我要说的是，无论你有没有孩子，你想要事业，你不想要事业，你都是一个人，别做一个被剥削的性对象。这就是我要说的。好吗？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
want a career, you don't want a career, but you are a human being and don't be a exploitory sex object. That's what I am saying. Yes?
想要事业，不想要事业，但你是一个人，别做一个被剥削的性对象。这就是我要说的。好吗？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Yeah but some people may leave very soon don't worry. Question and answer are going to be very blunt and open tonight you know and some of the women in America is totally brainwashed to the extent, they said, don't (?), people are so brainwashed, they can't even hear things. Yes?
YB：是啊，但有些人可能很快就会离开，别担心。今晚的问答会非常直白、非常开放，你知道，美国有些女人被洗脑到一种程度，她们说，别（？），人们被洗脑得太厉害了，连事情都听不进去。好吗？
Student: How do we teach our husbands not to treat, treat us like sex objects...
学生：我们怎么教我们的丈夫不要对待，不要把我们当作性对象……
YB: Oh, how can we teach our husband not to treat us as sex objects? If you are not sex object, husband can't do a thing, I have always said, men are bananas peel them and eat them.
YB：哦，我们怎么教我们的丈夫不要把我们当作性对象？如果你不是性对象，丈夫什么也做不了，我一直说，男人是香蕉，剥了皮吃掉。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
That's what they are, God there is no, huh, huh. I tell you, I tell you when a woman doesn't want to do something, there is no power on the Almighty God, which can make her to do that. It's very clear. Yes?
他们就是这样，天哪，没有，哈，哈。我告诉你，我告诉你，当一个女人不想做某件事时，全能的神也没有任何力量能让她去做。这很清楚。好吗？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: No, no, I will give you personal experience, go ahead.
YB：不，不，我会给你个人经验，继续。
Student: What is this single woman, what is the best thing for single woman to do, when she has desires (?), what kind of God she follows?
学生：这个单身女人，单身女人最好该做什么，当她有欲望（？）时，她该追随什么样的神？
go ahead.
继续。
Student: What is this single woman, what is the best thing for single woman to do, when she has desires (?), what kind of God she follows?
学生：这个单身女人，单身女人最好该做什么，当她有欲望（？）时，她该追随什么样的神？
YB: Oh in other words, what she is saying folks, I can put it...
YB：哦，换句话说，她说的是，各位，我可以把它说成……
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
I can put it in same words. When a single woman is horny, what she should do?
我可以用同样的话说。当一个单身女人发情时，她该怎么做？
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
And that's a question, let us put it straight. You know when you become horny, take your both horn and pull them out.
这是个问题，让我们直说。你知道，当你发情时，把你两只角拔出来。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
Because you don't want those horn to stick in your stomach and your growing pain may not become labor pain and unwanted labor pain and damn it, you are going to live with those pain up to the graveyard, period. Pull those horns with the essence of your faith that you have a grace and one mistake on your part and that one moment can carry you through certain things which cannot be repaired. In woman's life there is no patchwork. Remember me, don't remember me as Yogi Bhajan, I will agree with you but for this sentence in woman's career of living there is no patchwork. You cannot makeup for your mistake. Yep?
因为你不想让那些角扎进你的胃里，你日渐增长的疼痛可能不会变成分娩的痛，也不会变成不该有的分娩痛，该死的，你会带着那些痛一直活到坟墓里，就这样。用你信念的精髓把那些角拔出来——你有优雅，而你只要犯一个错，那一个瞬间就能把你带进某些无法修补的事里。女人的生命里没有补丁。记住我，别把我想成 Yogi Bhajan，这一点我同意你，但就这句话而言，在女人活着的历程里没有补丁。你犯的错没法弥补。是吧？
Yogi Bhajan, I will agree with you but for this sentence in woman's career of living there is no patchwork. You cannot makeup for your mistake. Yep?
Yogi Bhajan，这一点我同意你，但就这句话而言，在女人活着的历程里没有补丁。你犯的错没法弥补。是吧？
Student: Sometimes I have trouble understanding how to communicate to a woman when I see her messing up.
学生：有时候我看到一个女人把事情搞砸了，我不知道该怎么跟她沟通。
YB: Tell her hello miss, you are messing up.
YB：告诉她，你好，小姐，你把事情搞砸了。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
And she says, 'what, what? ' You say, 'There in you are messing up. And this is how I feel' and if she says, 'what next I can do? ' You can tell her what next you can do. I mean to say, you know people have got a great misunderstanding that I am going to be a star, I am going to eat of garbo, I am going to that's what she died, what was her name?
她说：「什么，什么？」你说：「那里，你把事情搞砸了。而我的感觉是这样。」如果她说：「那我接下来能做什么？」你就可以告诉她接下来能做什么。我的意思是，你知道人们有个很大的误解，以为我会成为明星，我会吃香的喝辣的，我会——她就是那样死的，她叫什么名字？
Students: (----)
学生们：（----）
YB: Yeah, Melro what?
YB：对，Melro 什么？
Students: (----)
学生们：（----）
YB: Something Melro something.
YB：什么 Melro 什么。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
So all of you are not going to Melro, Melro, whatever she was and end up taking pills and taking their as your own life, you want to live, it's live as a noble woman. I know one woman was so obnoxious to me, she said, "What do you mean, we should not have a intercourse, what for God gave me that little area if I can't use it? "
所以你们不会都变成 Melro、Melro，不管她是谁，最后吃药，把那些当成自己的命。你想活，就要像一个高贵的女人那样活。我知道有个女人对我特别讨厌，她说：「你什么意思，我们不该有性交？如果我不能用它，神为什么给我那一小块地方？」
I said, "Hung it in the street, so that everybody can use it. "
我说：「那就把它挂到街上，让所有人都能用。」
not have a intercourse, what for God gave me that little area if I can't use it? "
不该有性交？如果我不能用它，神为什么给我那一小块地方？」
I said, "Hung it in the street, so that everybody can use it. "
我说：「那就把它挂到街上，让所有人都能用。」
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
You know there are some people are really out of mind and out of sight, they are really far-out, they think the God have put a little hole there and it is the only way to become holy to use it all the time. It is not a steam piston engine, it has a lot of emotional, commotional, philosophical, mental, whole thing.
你知道有些人真是又疯又瞎，他们真的很离谱，他们以为神在那儿开了个小洞，而一直用它就是变得神圣的唯一办法。它不是蒸汽活塞发动机，它里面有很多情绪、骚动、哲学、心智，整套东西。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
Don't make a dodo do of something. Yeah, Nirinjan what a question you have? It should be Catholic question remember that.
别把什么事都搞得像个傻瓜。对，Nirinjan，你有什么问题？记住，那应该是个天主教式的问题。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
Nirinjan: (----)
Nirinjan：（----）
YB: Oh no, no it is, it is a insecurity, nobody wants to be with husband and not with husband. Some ladies, that's what I am saying, we are insecure, that, that's what I am trying to reach everybody, the problem is that woman has been trained to be insecure. Because if woman is not insecure she cannot be exploited. So even husbands, husbands make woman insecure, so that she can be just a little (?) running after, you know, they do the same thing, I am not saying that they are all perfect.
YB：哦不，不，它是，它是一种不安全感，没人想跟丈夫在一起又不跟丈夫在一起。有些女士，我就是这么说的，我们是不安全的，这就是我想让每个人都明白的，问题在于女人被训练成了不安全。因为如果女人不缺乏安全感，她就无法被剥削。所以连丈夫们，丈夫们也让女人缺乏安全感，这样她就只能稍微（？）追着跑，你知道，他们干的是同一件事，我不是说他们都完美。
make woman insecure, so that she can be just a little (?) running after, you know, they do the same thing, I am not saying that they are all perfect.
让女人缺乏安全感，这样她就只能稍微（？）追着跑，你知道，他们干的是同一件事，我不是说他们都完美。
So I mean to say, don't misunderstand the husband are very genuinely saints and I have seen very spiritual husband, Mukhia Singh Sahib and Siri Singh Sahib and super Siri Singh Sahib's and whatever they are, they are quite jerks.
所以我的意思是，别误会，丈夫们都是非常真诚的圣人，我见过非常有灵性的丈夫，Mukhia Singh Sahib 和 Siri Singh Sahib，还有超级 Siri Singh Sahib 之类的，他们挺混蛋的。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
So you know what I mean? Yes, yes, yes?
所以你知道我的意思吗？是的，是的，是的？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: It is called itch of, itch of capacitated bewitchment of masturbation, it has a definite scientific term and, it is as old as nineteen hundred BC, it existed always. All children want to explore their organ and the urinary organ is very fancy and fascinating to them.
YB：这叫做痒，被赋予能力的着魔式自慰的痒，它有一个明确的科学术语，而且，它早在公元前一千九百年就有了，它一直存在。所有孩子都想探索自己的器官，而排尿器官对他们来说非常花哨、非常迷人。
It's natural what I am trying to tell you natural and if you will just tell them that this organ has this purpose and this is meant for this and don't put your hand in your mouth and don't put your hand there because bacteria infection can happen and you tell them very, very politely but very reasonably, don't put a threat child will immediately listen but if you, 'don't touch it,' when you go left side, he will touch it again.
这是自然的，我想告诉你的是，这是自然的，如果你只是告诉他们，这个器官有这个用途，它是干这个用的，别把手放进嘴里，别把手放在那里，因为会发生细菌感染，你非常、非常礼貌地告诉他们，但非常讲道理，别用威胁，孩子会立刻听，但如果你说「别碰它」，你一往左边走，他就又去碰了。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
don't put a threat child will immediately listen but if you, 'don't touch it,' when you go left side, he will touch it again.
别用威胁，孩子会立刻听，但如果你说「别碰它」，你一往左边走，他就又去碰了。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
It's a very wrong approach, some people wants to threat children and say things and that way children sneak out to do that thing again and again and mostly parents are responsible for that behavior. Yes dear?
这是非常错误的做法，有些人想威胁孩子，说些话，那样孩子就偷偷溜出去一次又一次地做那件事，而大多数情况下，父母要为那种行为负责。是的，亲爱的？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: World is doesn't matter and if you can't I will.
YB：世界，没关系，如果你不能，我来。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Joke.
YB：开玩笑。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
When you want to play tennis and you first have to have a mood to play tennis and then you should have clothes to play tennis and you need then tennis racket and tennis ball and tennis is a game of playing tennis ball and it is always with two partners. Anything which is not done according to the rule of the empire they call it, or rules of the referee ends up to be a zigzag mess. So please ask your husband to read ladies training course one and two and three is on its way and you should read men course one and two, it will definitely help. I am not asking miracle, yes dear?
你想打网球，首先得有打网球的心情，然后得有打网球的衣服，接着你需要网球拍和网球，而网球就是打网球的游戏，它总是有两个搭档。任何不按裁判规则、或不按裁判规则去做的事，最后都会变成一团乱麻。所以请让你丈夫读女士培训课程一、二，三也快出来了，而你应该读男士课程一、二，这肯定会有帮助。我不是在要求奇迹，是吧，亲爱的？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
two and three is on its way and you should read men course one and two, it will definitely help. I am not asking miracle, yes dear?
二和三也快出来了，而你应该读男士课程一、二，这肯定会有帮助。我不是在要求奇迹，是吧，亲爱的？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Oh you can, you can, you can, I tell you why. You cannot patch up at the same frequency of consciousness but if you can raise your consciousness, you can definitely you are a new person and you don't bring past, past won't come to you, that's the only way, you can be a new person. This guilt consciousness is improvised instrument of the Catholic religion, you know, once you are, you must you are a sinner, you are a sinner but nobody is a sinner more than one day. What was Tuesday I did a sin, Wednesday it is not Tuesday, so I am not sinner on Wednesday.
YB：哦，你可以，你可以，你可以，我告诉你为什么。你无法在同一个意识频率上修补，但如果你能提升你的意识，你肯定就是一个新人，你不带过去，过去就不会来找你，这是唯一的办法，你可以成为一个新人。这种罪疚意识是天主教临时拼凑出来的工具，你知道，一旦你犯了，你就必须是个罪人，你是个罪人，但没有人做罪人能超过一天。星期二我犯了罪，星期三就不是星期二了，所以星期三我不是罪人。
I can be get caught on Wednesday, I can be accused on Thursday, I can be arrange on Friday, I can be sentence on Saturday but it is not Wednesday and every Wednesday in every week is a new Wednesday. That is what Sadhana does, Sadhana builds up a new person.
我可能在星期三被抓，我可能在星期四被指控，我可能在星期五被安排，我可能在星期六被判刑，但那不是星期三，而且每一周的每个星期三都是新的星期三。这就是萨达那所做的，萨达那塑造出一个新人。
on Saturday but it is not Wednesday and every Wednesday in every week is a new Wednesday. That is what Sadhana does, Sadhana builds up a new person.
在星期六，但那不是星期三，而且每一周的每个星期三都是新的星期三。这就是萨达那所做的，萨达那塑造出一个新人。
All these ladies who are faltering I have checked their account one thing is they don't do their Sadhana. So though they don't have a mental higher altitude to raise in consciousness and therefore every person in 3HO I check, anybody who one maybe boast, I am super Siri Singh Sahib's Singh, Singh, Singh Sahib, whatever ten times raised to the power hundred, Sadhana is Sadhana, if you don't do Sadhana forget it.
所有这些动摇不定的女士，我查过她们的账，有一件事是她们不做萨达那。所以她们没有心智上的更高高度来提升意识，因此在 3HO 里我检查每一个人，任何人也许吹嘘，我是超级 Siri Singh Sahib 的 Singh、Singh、Singh Sahib，随便什么十的一百次方，萨达那就是萨达那，如果你不做萨达那，那就别想了。
Sadhana is a mental victory, Sadhana is a constitutional victory, Sadhana is mental, spiritual, physical, auric, subtle all bodies victory and you have lot of bodies, you are a spiritual body, you are a mental body, you are a physical body, you are a auric body, you are radiant arc, radiant body, you are cosmic body, you have a magnetic field of complete body, how many you are? And to put your scene together is putting your scene together. Therefore, there is no reason to live in guilt, the only way you can get rid of guilt is, if you do Sadhana and do it Aradhana, Sadhana, Aradhana Prabhupati that's the shortest path.
萨达那是心智的胜利，萨达那是体质的胜利，萨达那是心智、灵性、肉体、能量圈、精微体所有身体的胜利，而你有很多身体，你是灵性体，你是心智体，你是肉体，你是能量圈体，你是光芒体、光芒体，你是宇宙体，你有一个完整身体的磁场，你有多少个你？把你的场景拼在一起，就是把你的场景拼在一起。所以，没有理由活在愧疚里，你摆脱愧疚的唯一办法，就是做萨达那，并且把它做成专注修持，萨达那、专注修持、Prabhupati，那是最短的路。
live in guilt, the only way you can get rid of guilt is, if you do Sadhana and do it Aradhana, Sadhana, Aradhana Prabhupati that's the shortest path.
活在愧疚里，你摆脱愧疚的唯一办法，就是做萨达那，并且把它做成专注修持，萨达那、专注修持、Prabhupati，那是最短的路。
Sadhana and do it the way you are told to do it and you will have a mastery over God and when you have mastery over God who will write your account. That's why, there is a redemption forgiveness and redemption for everybody but at same level of frequency you can't.
做萨达那，按别人教你的方式去做，你就会掌控神，当你掌控了神，谁来记你的账。所以，每个人都有救赎、宽恕和救赎，但在同样的频率层面上，你做不到。
Suppose the mountains are thirty thousand feet and if you fly twelve thousand feet, accident is unavoidable, but if you can pull your plane at fifteen thousand feet, you will clear it. You have to give yourself a new self I am a new woman. I am not that, I am this and this is my start and that's what I am going to do and for that you need mental and moral strength, which comes through Sadhana. Yeah?
假设山有三万英尺高，如果你飞到一万二千英尺，事故就不可避免，但如果你能把飞机拉到一万五千英尺，你就能越过它。你必须给自己一个新的自己——我是一个新的女人。我不是那个，我是这个，这是我的开始，这就是我要做的，为此你需要心智和道德的力量，而这力量来自萨达那。好吗？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Call immediately the nearest possible teacher, tell him, "Hello, hello, hello, flirtation happening between so and so, so and so, take care. " Call secretariat, call Sikh Dharma secretariat, call Nirinjan, call this, call that. Give a call, Bolay Sonihal, Sat Siri Akal, call.
YB：立刻打电话给最近的老师，告诉他：「喂，喂，喂，某某和某某之间在调情，某某，某某，小心点。」打电话给秘书处，打电话给锡克正法秘书处，打给 Nirinjan，打给这个，打给那个。打个电话，Bolay Sonihal，Sat Siri Akal，打吧。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
secretariat, call Sikh Dharma secretariat, call Nirinjan, call this, call that. Give a call, Bolay Sonihal, Sat Siri Akal, call.
秘书处，打电话给锡克正法秘书处，打给 Nirinjan，打给这个，打给那个。打个电话，Bolay Sonihal，Sat Siri Akal，打吧。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
Three-fourth of the thieves do not show up when they say, police is patrolling.
四分之三的小偷，一听说警察在巡逻，就不出现了。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Oh you must be very social, very smart, very smiling, that your social life does not get involved if your mental life is strong and you must not weaken your mental life, because you must understand if your mental life will become weak, you socially get involved and then you will face the consequence therefore, before you want, if there is a single man you are a single woman, you want to marry him, it's far-out idea. Check it out. Check out his credit as a man. Don't enter into man's credit, you will end up with liability, then of credit. Learn the process of loan arrangement they call it, bank loan arrangement and every bank check collateral.
Yogi Bhajan：哦，你一定得很会社交、很聪明、很爱笑，这样只要你的心智生活强大，你的社交生活就不会被卷进去；你绝不能削弱自己的心智生活，因为你必须明白，一旦你的心智生活变弱，你在社交上就会被卷进去，然后你就要面对后果。所以，在你想要之前——如果你是单身男人，你是单身女人，你想嫁给他，那是个很离谱的想法。先查清楚。查清楚他作为一个男人的信用。别陷进男人的信用里，你最后会落得一身的债，而不是信用。学会那套他们叫作贷款安排的过程，银行贷款安排，每一笔都要查抵押。
will end up with liability, then of credit. Learn the process of loan arrangement they call it, bank loan arrangement and every bank check collateral.
你最后会落得一身的债，而不是信用。学会那套他们叫作贷款安排的过程，银行贷款安排，每一笔都要查抵押。
In every relationship must you check collateral. You know what I mean, develop credit system. Built your credit and check up the credit system, so that you can give some credentials to your children of future and of tomorrow and you, you got to go, you got to grow, you got to pay the price, it's not difficult, it is, it is what you, you think.
在每一段关系里，你都必须查抵押。你知道我的意思，建立信用体系。建立你的信用，也查清对方的信用体系，这样你才能给你未来的、明天的孩子们一些凭据。而你，你得走，你得成长，你得付出代价，这并不难，它就是，它就是你所想的那个样子。
Everybody has to pay the price for anything what they want. I am not asking you not to go to disco, disco-dance. Go disco-dance then eat steak, you know don't, you don't understand, you just accuse me for nothing, go disco-dance, eat steak and take a don't ask a whisky, ask rare (?) and have lot of martini, I mean to say, have fun and take off your clothes and God bless you, there are two hundred fifty million Americans living, nobody is responsible for anybody. There is no fun.
每个人都得为自己想要的任何东西付出代价。我不是叫你别去迪斯科，别去跳迪斯科。去跳迪斯科，然后吃牛排，你知道，别——你不明白，你只是无缘无故地指责我。去跳迪斯科，吃牛排，再来一杯——别要威士忌，要稀的（？），再来很多马提尼，我的意思是说，尽情玩，把衣服脱掉，愿神保佑你，有两亿五千万美国人活着，没有人为任何人负责。那里面没有乐趣。
and take off your clothes and God bless you, there are two hundred fifty million Americans living, nobody is responsible for anybody. There is no fun.
把衣服脱掉，愿神保佑你，有两亿五千万美国人活着，没有人为任何人负责。那里面没有乐趣。
I mean to say, if you want to be a dance girl, I am not upset against it. I am not saying that you have not to, I think you should enjoy. But when you wear white and you are committed and you want to live as a committed woman, then it is your responsibility and foremost responsibility to come out with your soul, heart and mind to uplift the spirit of the Khalsa, that's what I am saying. I am not also saying, that tomorrow everybody should start wearing white and turbans and all that, no, I am not saying that. I say, don't do it at all.
我的意思是说，如果你想当个舞女，我并不反对。我不是说你不能，我觉得你应该享受。但当你穿上白衣，你有了承诺，你想作为一个有承诺的女人活着，那么这就是你的责任，而且是最首要的责任——拿出你的灵魂、心和心智，去提升卡尔萨的精神，这就是我在说的。我也不是说，明天每个人都该开始穿白衣、戴头巾之类的，不，我不是那个意思。我说的是，根本别做。
Because it's a path of the saint who walks like soldier in grace of God and it's a grace of God and flirtatious mind is not alert mind and unalert mind cause lot of problems, where I am not saying to you, that you become saint overnight, take your time, think about it, there is no hurry, I have waited ten years, I will wait another ten years.
因为这是一条圣徒的道路，他像士兵一样行走在神的优雅之中，而那是神的优雅，轻浮的心智不是警觉的心智，不警觉的心智会带来很多问题，我并不是说，你要一夜之间成为圣徒，慢慢来，想一想，不用急，我等了十年，我还会再等十年。
to you, that you become saint overnight, take your time, think about it, there is no hurry, I have waited ten years, I will wait another ten years.
你要一夜之间成为圣徒，慢慢来，想一想，不用急，我等了十年，我还会再等十年。
You know one thing you do not understand, I am not asking you to convert. Neither I am asking you to revert. Don't convert and don't revert but just decide what you want to be and be so. So that you can experience what it means, so be it. And you got to stand out in this wild sexual, sensual, exploited society. That is what grace of God movement is. That woman has to recognize and experience her grace, I am not God sake, don't misunderstand me, if you want drink whisky and don't steal money, I will give you ten bucks, you know have fun.
有一件事你不明白，我不是要你改宗。我也不是要你回归。不要改宗，也不要回归，只要决定你想成为什么，然后就成为那样。这样你才能体验到那意味着什么，就这样吧。你必须在这个狂野的、性欲的、感官的、被剥削的社会里站出来。这就是神的优雅运动的意义。那个女人必须认出并体验到她的优雅，我不是神，拜托，别误解我，如果你想喝威士忌又不偷钱，我会给你十块钱，你知道，去玩吧。
her grace, I am not God sake, don't misunderstand me, if you want drink whisky and don't steal money, I will give you ten bucks, you know have fun.
她的优雅，我不是神，拜托，别误解我，如果你想喝威士忌又不偷钱，我会给你十块钱，你知道，去玩吧。
It won't hurt me, you don't understand I am not attached whether you want to live a wretched life or you want to live a great life, it is my job I am just doing my job. I am telling you the wretched life will make you wretched. It will going to make you miserable. As a woman you have lot more chances, what do you care for me, I don't worry about that, don't worry about me at all, I have been slandered from the time of my birth to now. It's no big deal. Nothing matters to me, for God sake, don't misunderstand, I am a fighter.
这不会伤到我，你不明白，我不执着于你是想过悲惨的生活还是想过伟大的生活，这是我的工作，我只是在做我的工作。我告诉你，悲惨的生活会让你变得悲惨。它会让你痛苦。作为女人，你有更多的机会，你何必在意我，我不担心那个，完全不用担心我，我从出生到现在一直被诽谤。没什么大不了的。对我来说什么都不重要，拜托，别误解，我是个战士。
You know there are aeroplanes, passenger's plane, cargo planes, you know what I mean and there are fighters plane, right? That's all, I will fight to my last breath, I believe in the grace of woman, I believe in grace of God and I believe every woman can be so. Well, if I fail, don't worry about me. Yes dear?
你知道有飞机，客机、货机，你懂我的意思，还有战斗机，对吧？就这样，我会战斗到最后一口气，我相信女人的优雅，我相信神的优雅，我相信每个女人都能如此。好吧，如果我失败了，不用担心我。是的，亲爱的？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Oh tell them to get married. A woman came to me once, and you know she had a problem with this kind of area and I called her and said, "Am I your teacher? "
YB：哦，告诉他们去结婚。有一次一个女人来找我，你知道她在这方面有问题，我把她叫来，说：「我是你的老师吗？」
She said, "Yes. "
她说：「是的。」
A woman came to me once, and you know she had a problem with this kind of area and I called her and said, "Am I your teacher? "
有一次一个女人来找我，你知道她在这方面有问题，我把她叫来，说：「我是你的老师吗？」
She said, "Yes. "
她说：「是的。」
I said, "Did I ever lie to you? "
我说：「我有没有对你撒过谎？」
She said, "No. "
她说：「没有。」
"Did I always advice you the truth? "
「我是不是一直给你真实的建议？」
She said, "Yes. "
她说：「是的。」
I said, "You think when I am going to say today, it's going to be all right or not? "
我说：「你觉得我今天要讲的东西，到底行不行？」
She said, "Yes, you will be, you always say right things, it's fine. "
她说：「行，你一定行，你讲的东西总是对的，没问题。」
I said, "Then do me a favor, either marry this man or leave him. "
我说：「那帮我个忙，要么嫁给这个人，要么离开他。」
And she said, "I am ninety-nine percent pure. " That means I am going to do what I am going to do, since that day to this day, I have never seen her, period. That's one step everybody has to take. We need company of the holy, we don't need the hole and those who think that, that is the only game they want to play, these are people and actually I tell you, you don't blame them most of the people are mentally not equipped for commitment life, they have been brought up as insecure kids who can be (?)
她说：「我是百分之九十九纯洁的。」那意思就是，我想干什么就会去干什么。从那天到今天，我再没见过她，就这样。这一步每个人都得迈出去。我们需要圣者的陪伴，我们不需要那个洞，也不需要那些觉得这就是唯一游戏可玩的人，这些人，其实我告诉你，你别怪他们，大多数人从心智上就没准备好过有承诺的生活，他们是被当成没有安全感的孩子养大的，可以（？）
fooled around and played around and found up, it's a very wrong situation, it is, it is, it is very, very sure situation and I don't say only girls do it, I have seen ladies of very higher mature age.
被糊弄、被玩耍，最后落得一场空，这是个非常错误的处境，它是，它是，它是非常、非常确定的处境，我不是说只有女孩这么做，我见过年纪大得多、成熟得多的女士也这么做。
a very wrong situation, it is, it is, it is very, very sure situation and I don't say only girls do it, I have seen ladies of very higher mature age.
一个非常错误的处境，它是，它是，它是非常、非常确定的处境，我不是说只有女孩这么做，我见过年纪大得多、成熟得多的女士也这么做。
There is one woman, I went to a place, where they swap woman and do all that thing, I wanted to go there for study, I went there and I interviewed one woman and I said, "Why you do this? "
有一个女人，我去过一个地方，那里的人交换女人，干那些事，我想去那里做研究，我去了，采访了一个女人，我说：「你为什么做这个？」
And she said, "I am very bored with my husband. "
她说：「我对我丈夫厌烦透了。」
I said, "Do, then why don't you find some other way? "
我说：「那你为什么不找别的办法？」
She said, "There is no other way you know, sixty, eighty thousand dollars, he gets a year and I end up spending all and... "
她说：「没有别的办法，你知道，他一年挣六万、八万美元，我全花光了，而且……」
Side B
B 面
"... But I don't want to live poor and I think this is the best way I can live. " Some people are trained mentally that way that they can be living just to be exploited life, yes dear you want to ask question? Yeah?
「……但我不想过得穷，我觉得这是我能过上的最好的活法。」有些人心智上就是被训练成那样，活着就是为了被剥削。是的，亲爱的，你想问问题吗？嗯？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
Some people are trained mentally that way that they can be living just to be exploited life, yes dear you want to ask question? Yeah?
有些人心智上就是被训练成那样，活着就是为了被剥削。是的，亲爱的，你想问问题吗？嗯？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Yeah, but that is, that is normal American husband do. I mean, that's, that's, that's what I am trying to tell you, it's not the story of your husband, you are not alone in that game. You know but fortunately you are young and you are not totally drained out and this is a one relationship where you entered just because you thought everything is going to be all right and that's what I came, relationship becomes liability, now this is a one exact case which I am talking to all these people tonight and take up your strength and built up your values and stand out and if there is any help you need, we will, we will be willing to give you the help and stand out as a graceful woman.
YB：是啊，但那是，那是美国丈夫常干的事。我是说，那就是，那就是，那就是我一直想告诉你的，这不是你丈夫一个人的故事，在这场游戏里你不是唯一的一个。你知道，但幸运的是你还年轻，你还没有被彻底耗尽，而这是一段你当初只是因为以为一切都会好起来才走进来的关系，而那就是我来的原因，关系变成了负担，现在这正是我今晚对所有这些人在讲的一个活生生的例子，拿出你的力量，建立起你的价值，站出来，如果你需要任何帮助，我们会，我们会愿意给你帮助，让你作为一个优雅的女人站出来。
We will all, we, we, we are a family, we, we have one common thing in this 3HO family, we live for each other. That's why we look different and we live different because I cannot allow people wear pants because pants lead to hot pants you know.
我们都会，我们，我们，我们是一家人，我们，我们在这个3HO家庭里有一个共同点，我们为彼此而活。这就是为什么我们看起来不一样、活得也不一样，因为我不能允许人们穿裤子，因为裤子会变成热裤，你知道。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
why we look different and we live different because I cannot allow people wear pants because pants lead to hot pants you know.
为什么我们看起来不一样、活得也不一样，因为我不能允许人们穿裤子，因为裤子会变成热裤，你知道。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
So better stop pants, so no hot pants. So that's what I say, wear chudidar at least it takes about ten, fifteen minutes to open it.
所以最好别穿裤子，就没有热裤了。所以我才说，至少穿chudidar，它至少要花十到十五分钟才能解开。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
And thanks to Guru Gobind Singh, you require double Kutcheras, so it is all okay, it is within the realms of consciousness and feeling, but if you are so dumb and you can go through all nonsense, you know this, you know what I mean to tell you, how old you are? Oh, that, that's okay, twenty-seven people even don't born here and this is a very, very unconscious country, it is (?), twenty-seven is nothing, you tell your husband, 'look my dear baby boy... '
多亏了Guru Gobind Singh，你需要穿双层Kutcheras，所以一切都好，它都在意识和感受的范围内，但如果你蠢到可以任由这一切胡闹发生，你知道这个，你知道我想跟你说什么，你多大了？哦，那，那没关系，二十七岁的人甚至还没出生呢，而这是一个非常、非常无意识的国度，它是（？），二十七岁不算什么，你告诉你丈夫，「听着，我亲爱的小男孩……」
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Oh that's what I am trying to tell you, this is, if you know, if I tell you all the stories I know I can tell you whole dictionary but question is, somewhere, I mean to say, you must understand here I have seen a problem, that day I was talking to one woman, I said, "Why you want to run away and do this thing? "
YB：哦，那就是我一直想告诉你的，这就是，如果你知道，如果我把我知道的所有故事都告诉你，我能给你讲一整本字典，但问题是，在某个地方，我是说，你必须明白，我在这里看到了一个问题，那天我跟一个女人说话，我说，「你为什么要跑掉去做这件事？」
to say, you must understand here I have seen a problem, that day I was talking to one woman, I said, "Why you want to run away and do this thing? "
就是说，你必须明白，我在这里看到了一个问题，那天我跟一个女人说话，我说，「你为什么要跑掉去做这件事？」
She said, "I don't know Yogiji, my mother told me, one should not live with man, more than a year. "
她说，「我不知道，Yogiji，我妈妈告诉我，一个人不该跟男人住超过一年。」
I said, "But how many time she got divorced? "
我说，「那她离了多少次婚？」
She said, "About seven times. "
她说，「大概七次。」
And I said, "Then what she did? "
我说，「那她做了什么？」
She said, "Then she quit, she didn't want to marry, she started living with any man, she should, is it not our right as a woman? Now this is her equal amendment right. "
她说：「后来她放弃了，她不想结婚，她开始随便跟男人同居，她应该这样，这难道不是我们作为女人的权利吗？现在这就是她平权修正案的权利。」
And that she was explaining to me, I said, "Well, I think you should do it, when you get burnt up, then learn there is Kundalini Yoga, which can work it out. " So you know I am, I am not saying that there is a situation, here there is no image to follow. Mamma does it, grandmamma did it and grand grandmamma did it and why the daughter should not do it? And I mean to say, people, people do not want to understand one thing I tell you, there is nothing, nobody wants to live wrong, I don't agree, whether a woman does wrong, it's wrong.
她跟我解释这些，我说：「嗯，我觉得你该去做，等你被烧伤了，你就会知道还有昆达里尼瑜伽（Kundalini Yoga），它能帮你化解。」所以你知道，我不是说这里有什么情况，这里没有可效仿的榜样。妈妈这么做，奶奶这么做，太奶奶也这么做，为什么女儿就不该这么做？我的意思是说，人们，人们就是不愿明白我告诉你的一件事，什么都没有，没人想活错，我不同意，不管女人做错事，它就是错的。
do not want to understand one thing I tell you, there is nothing, nobody wants to live wrong, I don't agree, whether a woman does wrong, it's wrong.
不愿明白我告诉你的一件事，什么都没有，没人想活错，我不同意，不管女人做错事，它就是错的。
People have neurosis and they don't want to acknowledge, they have neurosis and when 3HO is to help your neurosis, 3HO to it creates the social environments to help your neurosis and people don't want to help neurosis and that's why they can't be in 3HO. I mean 3HO doesn't mean no discipline, 3HO means only one discipline live for each other and live socially and purify yourself, that's all is to be healthy, be happy and be holy, there is nothing we demand.
人们有神经症，却不愿承认，他们有神经症，而 3HO 就是要帮你处理神经症，3HO 就是要创造社会环境来帮你处理神经症，可人们不愿处理神经症，所以他们待不了 3HO。我的意思是，3HO 不是没有纪律，3HO 只有一条纪律：为彼此而活，在社会中生活，净化你自己，就这些——健康、快乐、神圣，我们别无要求。
discipline live for each other and live socially and purify yourself, that's all is to be healthy, be happy and be holy, there is nothing we demand.
纪律：为彼此而活，在社会中生活，净化你自己，就这些——健康、快乐、神圣，我们别无要求。
Sikh Dharma is totally separate, Sikh Dharma is Sikh Dharma and Sikh Dharma is not 3HO, 3HO is not Sikh Dharma, don't intermix them but those who are committed for Sikh Dharma, they have to live as Khalsa, they have to, they are the teacher, they must go out and talk about but 3HO is live healthy, happy and holy and take care of your neurosis but don't hang on with your neurosis and go on saying that we are going to tolerate you know there is a time limit, within the time limit you get rid of your neurosis and get out of it. I mean to say, I, I don't see why people don't tie turban, I don't see it.
锡克正法（Sikh Dharma）完全是另一回事，锡克正法就是锡克正法，锡克正法不是 3HO，3HO 不是锡克正法，别把它们混在一起，但那些承诺修锡克正法的人，他们必须像卡尔萨（Khalsa）那样生活，他们必须，他们是老师，他们必须走出去讲，但 3HO 是活得健康、快乐、神圣，处理好你的神经症，但别抱着你的神经症不放，还一直说我们会容忍你——你知道，是有时间限制的，在时限内你要摆脱你的神经症，从中走出来。我的意思是说，我，我不明白为什么人们不裹头巾，我不明白。
Lot of expenses, you go to a barber, you color your hair, you put all those dyes, you do the whole stuff, still you don't look beautiful and then they become grey, then you have other trouble, there is a trouble after trouble, God how, who wants this thirty dollar a month to be wasted. Take few yards of cloth, put this beautiful yamaka and just be great and live very distinct.
花销很大，你去理发店，你染头发，你抹那些染发剂，你折腾一整套，你还是不好看，然后头发变灰，然后你又有别的麻烦，麻烦接着麻烦，天哪，谁愿意每月三十美元就这么浪费掉。拿几码布，裹上这漂亮的小圆帽（yamaka），就做个了不起的人，活得与众不同。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
this thirty dollar a month to be wasted. Take few yards of cloth, put this beautiful yamaka and just be great and live very distinct.
这每个月三十美元就这么浪费了。拿几码布，戴上这漂亮的小圆帽，就让自己了不起，活得与众不同。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Yeah, that is a single turban, double turban, the chunee business, I tell you what, this hair, when they are on the solar center should be covered and there are two ways of covering it, one is when you are working hard, then it should be first the hair should be there and there should be covered with a cloth and then you should wear the turban, so it is covered, that is called war turban, that's called war turban and but normally, when you are in normal grace, you should have a very thin cloth worn a chunee and that helps your auric line, you know what I mean?
YB：对，那是单层头巾、双层头巾，还有披巾那一套，我告诉你，这头发，当它在太阳中心上的时候应该被盖住，盖住它有两种方式，一种是当你辛苦劳作时，那就应该先让头发在那儿，用布盖住，然后再戴头巾，这样就盖住了，那叫战头巾，那叫战头巾；但平常，当你在正常的优雅中时，你应该戴一块很薄的布，一条披巾，那对你的光环有帮助，你懂我的意思吗？
Chunee to a woman is a beard to a man and you don't like chunee, I have seen in 3HO chunee is hanging behind legs, queen Cleopatra is going now.
披巾对女人，就像胡子对男人，而你不喜欢披巾，我在3HO见过，披巾在腿后面晃着，克利奥帕特拉女王要走了。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
You know it will take many, many years, they don't. Chunee means you cover this and you put it around your neck and this neck area and this is only the face. You know this nuns, you know these nuns?
你知道这要花很多很多年，他们不会。披巾的意思是，你盖住这里，然后把它绕在脖子上，这脖子这一带，而这里只露出脸。你知道那些修女吧，你知道那些修女吧？
Students: (----)
学生：（----）
cover this and you put it around your neck and this neck area and this is only the face. You know this nuns, you know these nuns?
盖住这里，然后把它绕在脖子上，这脖子这一带，而这里只露出脸。你知道那些修女吧，你知道那些修女吧？
Students: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: All you look it with this only the face, it is called the moon area. Woman is supposed to explode(expose) only the moon area before sun, every other thing she should cover. This, this, this white thing what they call them?
YB：你们看她们只露出这个，只露出脸，这叫月亮区。女人在太阳面前只应该露出月亮区，其他每一样东西她都该盖住。这个，这个，这个白色的东西，他们管它叫什么？
Student: Gloves.
学生：手套。
YB: Gloves, gloves, these women made the gloves, not because of winter, forget it, they wanted to cover their hands, they covered their... Woman was the first person who made socks.
YB：手套，手套，这些女人做手套，不是因为冬天，别那么想，她们是想盖住自己的手，她们盖住自己的……女人是第一个做袜子的人。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
Woman is very cold individuals you must understand, she covers the whole world, she covers the God, she covers the creation. You, you, you just underestimate woman, woman is not this little creature running around, who can go for ten dollars worth of a lunch and then a dinner whatever you want to call it and done away with it. Yeah, you last?
女人是非常怕冷的个体，你必须明白，她盖住整个世界，她盖住神，她盖住造物。你，你，你就是低估女人，女人不是这个到处跑的小东西，不是那种可以去吃一顿值十美元的午餐、再来一顿晚餐，随便你怎么叫它，然后就完事了的。对吧，你最后说？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Yeah, I tell you.
YB：对，我告诉你。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们大笑）
Yeah, I, I, I agree, when they tell you, 'what are you doing now? '
对，我，我，我同意，当他们问你，「你现在在做什么？」
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Oh I, I agree with you but...
YB：哦，我，我同意你的看法，但是……
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
laughter)
笑声）
Yeah, I, I, I agree, when they tell you, 'what are you doing now? '
对，我，我，我同意，当他们问你，「你现在在做什么？」
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Oh I, I agree with you but...
YB：哦，我，我同意你的看法，但是……
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Oh for, for, for a woman nobody, I agree. When I came in this country, nobody knew I am a Yogi and I didn't have a horn on my head and I didn't have a billboard on my forehead.
YB：哦，对，对，对女人来说没人信，我同意。我刚来这个国家的时候，没人知道我是瑜伽士，我头上没长角，额头上也没挂广告牌。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Commitment.
YB：承诺。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
Don't make them believe, I mean she is right, don't make them believe, there is a girl sitting here and after living here in 3HO and all that, she is very beautiful daughter of mine and I wanted to marry her with a very beautiful son of mine and they got tingled with each other and I said, wait a minute because this son of mine is very devoted and she should be equally devoted and no fooling around and all that.
别让他们相信，我是说她说得对，别让他们相信，这儿坐着一个女孩，在3HO住了这么久、经历了这些之后，她是我非常漂亮的女儿，我想把她嫁给我一个非常漂亮的儿子，他们俩互相来电了，我说，等一下，因为我这个儿子非常虔诚，她也得同样虔诚，不许胡来什么的。
So she ran away, she told me, she is going North, she went out South and whatever and one fine day after about fifteen, twenty-days, she came and there were long hairs and that old junk hippies as common as we know everyday and I asked her, she said, "I love you, I love 3HO but I can't tie turban. "
于是她跑了，她告诉我，她要去北方，结果她往南走了，反正就是那样，然后有一天，大概十五、二十天之后，她回来了，头发长长的，就是那种老掉牙的嬉皮士破烂样，跟我们每天见到的一样普通，我问她，她说：「我爱你，我爱3HO，可我不会缠头巾。」
were long hairs and that old junk hippies as common as we know everyday and I asked her, she said, "I love you, I love 3HO but I can't tie turban. "
头发长长的，就是那种老掉牙的嬉皮士破烂样，跟我们每天见到的一样普通，我问她，她说：「我爱你，我爱3HO，可我不会缠头巾。」
I said, "Are you kidding? You will tie three turbans instead of one. We won't accept you. " Her neurosis went away and she is very pretty, you want to see her?
我说：「你开玩笑吧？你会缠三条头巾，不是一条。我们不接受你。」她的神经症就没了，她现在很漂亮，你想看看她吗？
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
Now everybody believes her. Nobody believes it, they told me no, no, no, she is never going to wear this and that and she used to tie beautiful turban when she was going to get that man and you know and she will ride a horse and she will do like this and turban will go off and she will have floating and she thought that I am blind, I don't know what she is doing, you know what I mean?
现在人人都信她了。没人信，他们跟我说不不不，她永远不会穿这个那个的，可她当初要去追那个男人的时候，头巾缠得可漂亮了，你知道，她会骑马，她会这样那样，头巾会掉下来，她会飘起来，她以为我瞎了，不知道她在干什么，你懂我意思吗？
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
will go off and she will have floating and she thought that I am blind, I don't know what she is doing, you know what I mean?
会掉下来，她会飘起来，她以为我瞎了，不知道她在干什么，你懂我意思吗？
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
But we kept, we keep our mouth shut knowing everything. But once you get committed and after a while people start believing you, the people don't believe, people believe on credibility, belief is credibility, belief is not what you say. I am not Yogi because I am a Yogi. No, I have a credit as a Yogi, I have a credibility as a Yogi and that is what I am a Yogi. You can't be what you are not but if you have a credit to that, show up your card, it works. Yes?
但我们忍着，我们什么都看在眼里，却闭着嘴不说。可一旦你做出承诺，过一阵子人们就开始信你，人们不是信，人们信的是信誉，信就是信誉，信不是你说什么。我是瑜伽士不是因为我自称瑜伽士。不，我作为瑜伽士有信用，我作为瑜伽士有信誉，这才是我为什么是瑜伽士。你不可能成为你不是的东西，但如果你在那上面有信用，亮出你的卡，它就管用。是吧？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: You don't like it.
YB：你不喜欢这样。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
up your card, it works. Yes?
亮出你的卡，它就管用。是吧？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: You don't like it.
YB：你不喜欢这样。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Yeah wrong is, there is nothing in sex and there is nothing without sex. Sex is not a physical action, sex is not a physical action, though performed physically. Sex is a mental action comes from security and insecurity both. Sex is a outcome of insecurity when done for sensual and sexual purposes, sex is which comes from security when done for elevated higher consciousness purposes. There is nothing wrong in sense, I can put it down, it's a way of life but when between the two people there is a commotional barrier and not a devotional link, listen this, commotional barrier and not a devotional link, sex will be miserable. Sex suffers and that's what it is.
YB：是的，错的是，性里面什么都没有，没有性也什么都没有。性不是身体行为，性不是身体行为，尽管它是以身体来进行的。性是一种心智行为，既来自安全感，也来自不安全感。当性是为了感官和性欲的目的而做时，它是从不安全感里出来的；当性是为了提升到更高意识的目的而做时，它是从安全感里出来的。感官本身没有错，我可以把它说清楚，它是一种生活方式，但当两个人之间有的是情绪化的屏障，而不是虔诚的连结——听好这一点——情绪化的屏障，而不是虔诚的连结，性就会很悲惨。性会受苦，事情就是这样。
When ego clashes intercourse never happens. Because you have a ego intercourse. Yes?
当小我冲突时，交合永远不会发生。因为你们进行的是小我的交合。是吗？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: It can't be.
YB：那不可能。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
what it is.
它是什么。
When ego clashes intercourse never happens. Because you have a ego intercourse. Yes?
当小我冲突时，交合永远不会发生。因为你们进行的是小我的交合。是吗？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: It can't be.
YB：那不可能。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Oh no, I tell you one thing, men are just that's what I said, it's a wrong with men, men want children and they do not understand, woman is not normal after child birth and she is not normal almost a year. First she is not normal, first nine months and then she is not normal about one year but woman who do not, that's what I am trying to tell you, if you do not establish a very spiritual relationship between yourself, that's why I say, you are married in presence of God, first you are married to Dharma, then to your man.
YB：哦不，我告诉你一件事，男人就是这样，就像我说的，男人错就错在，男人想要孩子，却不明白，女人生完孩子后不正常，她差不多一年都不正常。先是前九个月她不正常，然后大约一年她也不正常，但不这样的女人，这正是我想告诉你的，如果你们不在彼此之间建立一种非常灵性的关系，所以我才说，你是在神面前结婚的，你先嫁给正法，然后才嫁给你的男人。
Actually that means, that you have to have those spiritual values and you have to live, if you have sexual and physical values and they are not substituted by spiritual values, this problem will happen. So it doesn't matter, you have with him intercourse or you don't have with him intercourse or he doesn't, if you both have a sexual values in Dharma, then it's all okay, then there is no problem, there is no freaking out. Yeah?
实际上这意味着，你必须拥有那些灵性价值，并且活出它们，如果你有的是性和身体的价值，而它们没有被灵性价值取代，这个问题就会发生。所以没关系，你和他交合也好，不和他交合也好，他不交合也好，如果你们两人在正法里都有性的价值，那就都没问题，那就没有问题，没有抓狂。是吗？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Ask him to paint that picture and put a matchstick to it.
YB：叫他画出那幅画，然后拿根火柴把它点掉。
all okay, then there is no problem, there is no freaking out. Yeah?
那就都没问题，那就没有问题，没有抓狂。是吗？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Ask him to paint that picture and put a matchstick to it.
YB：叫他画出那幅画，然后拿根火柴把它点掉。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
And when he talks about it, tell him it is burnt. I tell you another reply, once a husband had a picture and he said, you should be like that, she should be like that, so one day, he was horny and he came to her, he said, "Darling, you look very pretty. "
当他谈起它时，告诉他它已经烧掉了。我再告诉你另一个回答，有一次一个丈夫有一幅画，他说，你应该像那样，她应该像那样，于是有一天，他欲火上来，走到她面前，他说：“亲爱的，你看起来非常漂亮。”
She said, "No, I know I am not pretty, I am not that, so tonight would you please go out. " And she sent her(him) out and locked the door inside. All the cold weather outside and little hail which came totally bring him to a normal temperature and after two hours he was begging her, 'let me come in, I will never talk to you like that' and finally I got a telephone call and I called her and let her(him) get in, I mean to say, he went to the public phone and said, "Sir, I have done this mistake," told me the whole story on the phone and I just let him in and after that no picture, no imagination, they are just glued in.
她说：“不，我知道我不漂亮，我不是那样的人，所以今晚请你出去吧。”她把他赶了出去，从里面把门锁上。外面天气寒冷，还下着小冰雹，彻底把他带回了正常的温度，两个小时后他求她：“让我进来吧，我再也不会那样跟你说话了。”最后我接到一个电话，我打给她，让她放他进去，我的意思是，他走到公用电话那儿说：“先生，我犯了这个错。”在电话里把事情原原本本告诉了我，我就让他进去了，从那以后，没有画面，没有想象，他们就是黏在一起了。
These are called childhood hallucination, inter provoked acts and it's a mental disease of a third degree. Yeah?
这些叫做童年幻觉、相互激发的行为，是三级的精神疾病。是吧？
Student: I have a question.
学生：我有个问题。
in.
进来。
These are called childhood hallucination, inter provoked acts and it's a mental disease of a third degree. Yeah?
这些叫做童年幻觉、相互激发的行为，是三级的精神疾病。是吧？
Student: I have a question.
学生：我有个问题。
YB: Yeah?
YB：是吗？
Student: How can a woman communicate to a lustful father to lay off?
学生：一个女人怎么跟一个好色的父亲沟通，让他收手？
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
YB: How can woman communicate to a lustful father to lay off? I tell you in a very simple words, when a lustful father keeps coming on and on at that time woman should say, it is only the most disgraceful human impotency that when a man cannot control the least grace and wants to be out of all cosmic consciousness proceed towards the daughter and if she stand up with that little beautiful sentence, it brings immediately impulsation in pituitary and all horniness will be eliminated like, like, like it goes up right like, like you can't believe it.
YB：一个女人怎么跟一个好色的父亲沟通，让他收手？我用很简单的话告诉你，当一个好色的父亲一次又一次地凑上来，那时候女人应该说，只有最可耻的人类无能，才会让一个男人连最起码的优雅都控制不住，想要脱离一切宇宙意识，朝女儿凑过去；如果她带着那句简短而漂亮的话站起来，它会立刻在脑下垂体里激起冲动，所有的性兴奋都会像，像，像它往上走一样被消除，像，像你简直不敢相信。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: First, first is stand erect, stand erect that will give you about foot and a half more aura.
YB：首先，首先是站直，站直会给你多出大约一英尺半的能量圈。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
When you want to just exert yourself stand erect and then put your left hand out and start raising your first finger.
当你想发力的时候，就站直，然后把左手伸出去，开始竖起你的食指。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
It works like a magic.
它灵得像魔法一样。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
stand erect and then put your left hand out and start raising your first finger.
站直，然后把左手伸出去，开始竖起你的食指。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
It works like a magic.
它灵得像魔法一样。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Yeah, that is why we give you that little sword so that person may know you are not unarmed that little thing called kirpan, kirpan, kir, kir, kir pan. Kir means hand, pan means what you wear on the hand and that is the symbol of the woman that she will not give in, we die before we fall and when you can rise to that consciousness and you are alert and you are graceful, I don't think anything happens to you people are just great, people see your turbans and put a Chakar on it, they just go round another block.
Yogi Bhajan：对，这就是为什么我们给你那把小小的剑，好让人知道你不是手无寸铁的，那个小东西叫 kirpan，kirpan，kir，kir，kir pan。Kir 意思是手，pan 意思是戴在手上的东西，那是女人的象征，表示她绝不屈服，我们宁可死也不倒下；当你能提升到那份意识，你既警觉又优雅，我不觉得会有什么事落到你头上，人们就是很棒，人们看到你的头巾，给它画上一个 Chakar，就绕到另一个街区去了。
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
They don't want to, they don't want to meet you on that walk way. So you know what I mean? It's okay, yeah, Googi?
他们不想，他们不想在那条路上碰到你。所以你知道我什么意思吧？没关系，对，Googi？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: I tell you one thing, once you are married to God Himself, always other mans, other mans, I don't want to say that and other man, other woman's that always look better. Neighbors cows...
Yogi Bhajan：我跟你说一件事，一旦你嫁给了神本身，别的男人、别的男人，我不想这么说，别的男人、别的女人总是看起来更好。邻居家的牛……
Students: (----)
学生们：（----）
(YB & Students' laughter)
（Yogi Bhajan 和学生们笑）
It is the same sick psychology. Yeah dear?
这是同一种病态心理。对，亲爱的？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
that always look better. Neighbors cows...
总是看起来更好。邻居家的牛……
Students: (----)
学生们：（----）
(YB & Students' laughter)
（Yogi Bhajan 和学生们笑）
It is the same sick psychology. Yeah dear?
这是同一种病态心理。对，亲爱的？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Oh this, it is, whether you have a anger because you have been exploited and misused and all that I understand for that is Kundalini Yoga, it will change the glandular system, it change the impulsation, it change your aura, it change your strength and you can totally change. I am not saying in 3HO everybody is as pure as God is, I am not saying that but I know they would have been worst. Because in ten years, I can tell you anybody who has come to 3HO lived for a while, change themself and then left and went back has fallen on their face, I have seen that.
Yogi Bhajan：哦这个，它是，不管你是因为被剥削、被滥用而愤怒，这些我都理解，因为那就是昆达里尼瑜伽，它会改变腺体系统，它改变冲动，它改变你的能量圈，它改变你的力量，你可以彻底改变。我不是说在 3HO 里每个人都像神一样纯洁，我不是这么说，但我知道他们本来会更糟。因为十年里，我可以告诉你，任何来到 3HO、住了一阵子、改变了自己，然后又离开、回去的人，都摔了个嘴啃泥，我见过。
I am not, I am not exaggerating it because that's my, when people leave 3HO it doesn't bother me, people think their leaving 3HO bothers me, no. Coming to 3HO it doesn't make me happy, all I know is, there I have got a one additional work to do and leaving 3HO doesn't give me relief, that I have one liability less but what I feel this person is leaving and he is going through the Karma instead of Dharma.
我不是，我不是在夸大，因为那是我的，当人们离开 3HO，我不烦，人们以为他们离开 3HO 会让我烦，不会。来到 3HO 也不会让我高兴，我只知道，我多了一件要做的事；离开 3HO 也不会让我松一口气，好像我少了一份负担，但我感觉的是，这个人离开了，他是在走业力，而不是走正法。
3HO doesn't give me relief, that I have one liability less but what I feel this person is leaving and he is going through the Karma instead of Dharma.
3HO 不会让我松一口气，好像我少了一份负担，但我感觉的是，这个人离开了，他是在走业力，而不是走正法。
3HO is a ladder to the Dharmic path and when the people leave they fall into their Karma and then there is nobody to take care of their neurosis and every third American is mentally sick. So two hundred fifty million Americans you know fifty million are mentally sick, one million are mentally distorted and rest do not know who they are. That is our national figure. We, we have become very commotional society. We call ourself pill society. We have no, no energy in us to control ourself and this is very, very sad. It's very, very sad, we even do not know how sick we are.
3HO 是通往正法（Dharma）道路的一架梯子，人们一旦离开，就掉进自己的业力（Karma）里，再没有人照看他们的神经症，而每三个美国人里就有一个精神有病。两亿五千万美国人里，你知道，五千万人精神有病，一百万人精神扭曲，剩下的不知道自己是谁。这就是我们的全国数字。我们，我们已经变成了一个非常躁动的社会。我们管自己叫药丸社会。我们内里没有，没有能量管住自己，这非常、非常可悲。非常、非常可悲，我们甚至不知道自己病得有多重。
I mean to say, I tell you it is very unfortunate, we don't have any patience, we don't have any tolerance and we do not want to obey anything and we want the whole world to obey us. I mean to say, look at our national record what we have done to this Earth.
我的意思是说，我告诉你，这很不幸，我们没有任何耐心，我们没有任何容忍，我们什么都不想服从，却想要全世界都服从我们。我的意思是说，看看我们的全国记录，看看我们对这个地球都做了些什么。
we do not want to obey anything and we want the whole world to obey us. I mean to say, look at our national record what we have done to this Earth.
我们什么都不想服从，却想要全世界都服从我们。我的意思是说，看看我们的全国记录，看看我们对这个地球都做了些什么。
You know we are mentally very polluted and that's why we are mentally very polluted we like to look very good you know make all the hairdo and make the whole thing and make the whole thing and you know, we, we invite exploitation, that's the way our society is geared to. I know a girl, she came all the way to live 3HO way of life and all that and she ran away and she found out another man, she brought him to me, I told him this is not going to work out, it didn't work out but you know whole story was very sad, she could have made it but she didn't.
你知道，我们在精神上污染得很重，正因如此我们在精神上污染得很重，我们喜欢看起来很好看，你知道，弄各种发型，把这一整套都弄上，把这一整套都弄上，你知道，我们，我们招来剥削，我们的社会就是这么被调教出来的。我认识一个女孩，她大老远跑来，过 3HO 的生活方式什么的，结果她跑了，她找了另一个男人，还把他带到我面前，我告诉他这事成不了，它确实没成，可你知道整个故事非常可悲，她本来能成的，但她没有。
So what we mean, we can wait, we can wait, we have a, patience pays but normally coming to normal that's why we give you yoga classes twice a day that if one cannot come in the morning, one can come in the evening and one has to take time but people cannot take discipline.
所以我们说的是，我们可以等，我们可以等，我们有，耐心是有回报的，但通常是要回到正常，所以我们一天给你两次瑜伽课，这样早上来不了的人，晚上可以来，人必须花时间，可人们受不了纪律。
classes twice a day that if one cannot come in the morning, one can come in the evening and one has to take time but people cannot take discipline.
一天两次课，这样早上来不了的人，晚上可以来，人必须花时间，可人们受不了纪律。
I know of one girl, she had a boyfriend, she has to be pulled out of that environments but when she came on the different environment she got another boyfriend, so what was the difference, if you come all the way from the East Coast to West Coast and you get another boyfriend in West Coast, she was creating the same atmosphere but she was too quick as a construction engineer, she did the whole thing. Oh I don't think anybody can do anything except you can do prayer for such people. Such people are afraid to come out of their neurosis because that is the only security they have.
我知道一个女孩，她有个男朋友，本来得把她从那个环境里拉出来，可她一到另一个环境，又找了一个男朋友。那有什么区别呢？你从东海岸一路来到西海岸，在西海岸又找了一个男朋友，她是在制造同样的氛围，只是她动作太快了，像个搞建筑的工程师，一下子全干完了。哦，我觉得谁也没办法，你只能为这样的人祈祷。这样的人害怕走出自己的神经症，因为那是他们唯一的安全感。
Everybody cannot be somebody, some people are afraid to be somebody because that's a commitment, that's a responsibility and they just want to be just, just, just nobody. I mean to say, nobody. When you tie a turban, you walk on a street twenty people look at you, oh that is 3HO, who wants it. People want to be crowd, not a individual but God made you individual not crowd. That's where the conflict is, conflict is simple.
不是每个人都能成为某个人，有些人害怕成为某个人，因为那是一种承诺，一种责任，他们只想做个，做个，做个无名之辈。我是说，无名之辈。你扎上头巾走在街上，二十个人盯着你看，哦，那是 3HO，谁想要这个。人们想当人群，不想当个体，可神把你造成个体，不是人群。冲突就在这里，冲突很简单。
3HO, who wants it. People want to be crowd, not a individual but God made you individual not crowd. That's where the conflict is, conflict is simple.
3HO，谁想要这个。人们想当人群，不想当个体，可神把你造成个体，不是人群。冲突就在这里，冲突很简单。
Now this lady has told her husband is tolerating this and he is doing this, that, that and what she should do, she should just start doing. She should start doing something the moment she start doing either he has to stop or he knows some people think nothing is going to happen, we can do anything, they think less a fare you know, it's all open. That's not every cause has a effect and every effect has a cause. You got to act as a graceful woman, you act to graceful woman, not for you, for the environment, you are environments and environments are you. So let us support each other. Yes?
这位女士说，她丈夫一直忍着这些，他做这做那，她该怎么办——她应该直接开始做。她应该开始做点什么，她一开始做，要么他停下来，要么他就明白了。有些人觉得什么都不会发生，我们想干什么都行，他们觉得没什么大不了的，你知道，一切都敞开。不是这样的，每个因都有果，每个果都有因。你要像个优雅的女人那样行动，你为优雅的女人而行动，不是为你自己，是为环境，你就是环境，环境就是你。所以让我们互相支持。好吗？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: I can dictate the reply write to him, 'my dear so and so smile and count your teeth. '
YB：我可以口述回信，写给他，「我亲爱的某某，微笑吧，数数你的牙。」
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
Till write down. 'My dear darling so and so, smile, count your teeth. One day they will fall from their roots and you will not be in a position to stick them back. All I wanted to give you a chance, take it or leave it, adios. '
就这么写下来。「我亲爱的某某，微笑吧，数数你的牙。总有一天它们会从根上掉下来，到那时你想把它们装回去都办不到。我只想给你一个机会，要就拿去，不要就算了，再见。」
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
At least you have my name, you should have my intelligence too.
至少你有了我的名字，你也该有我的智力。
I wanted to give you a chance, take it or leave it, adios. '
我只想给你一个机会，要就拿去，不要就算了，再见。」
(Students' laughter)
（学生们笑）
At least you have my name, you should have my intelligence too.
至少你有了我的名字，你也该有我的智力。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: I am just trying to tell you, I am very good, people do not know that part of me how good I am, they only know a naïve Yogi, who is judging everything is going to be all right, because I am dealing with bums but when I start doing bum, bum, bum, bum I do it, once a while you know you should just, yeah?
YB：我只是想告诉你们，我非常好，人们不知道我的那一面，不知道我有多好，他们只知道一个天真的瑜伽士，判断一切都会没事，因为我在对付那些废物，但当我开始废物、废物、废物、废物地做起来，我就会做，偶尔你知道你就该这样，对吧？
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Yeah I will, I will repeat the question yeah.
YB：好，我会，我会重复这个问题，好。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Far-out.
YB：太棒了。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Educate her.
YB：教育她。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Educate her. Educate, give anybody nothing, I don't believe giving anybody anything, give everybody values, values and once she pick up the values, nothing can corrupt. Build peoples base with values, I am doing nothing, I am just giving people values and I hope and I am sure that these values will built a very beautiful new Nation of healthy, happy, holy, graceful people who have Divinity, dignity and grace and they may live in a tree or poverty.
YB：教育她。教育，不要给任何人任何东西，我不相信给任何人任何东西，给每个人价值观，价值观，一旦她接住了这些价值观，什么也腐蚀不了。用价值观建立人的根基，我什么也没做，我只是给人价值观，我希望，我也确信，这些价值观会建立一个非常美丽的新民族，由健康、快乐、神圣、优雅的人组成，他们有神性、尊严和优雅，他们可能住在树里，或者贫穷。
(Students' laughter)
（学生笑）
Let us sing the song of a noble woman, let us one, two, three, go.
让我们唱那首高贵女人的歌，让我们一、二、三，开始。
(Students singing song)
（学生唱歌）
they may live in a tree or poverty.
他们可能住在树里，或者贫穷。
(Students' laughter)
（学生笑）
Let us sing the song of a noble woman, let us one, two, three, go.
让我们唱那首高贵女人的歌，让我们一、二、三，开始。
(Students singing song)
（学生唱歌）
(Students stop singing)
（学生停止唱歌）
There is no power, more powerful than the woman. It takes one woman to destroy the home of another woman and when she destroys, she doesn't destroy home of a woman, she destroys her entire future home from here to Infinity. Sat Nam. Think on this thought, work it out, we will have next year another meeting only for women and we will discuss openly all questions and answers, our values and our virtues, our shortcomings and our defects and we will grow and that is also one way to grow. Thank you very much, Sat Nam.
没有一种力量比女人更强大。一个女人就能毁掉另一个女人的家，当她毁掉时，她毁掉的不是一个女人的家，她毁掉的是她从此处到无限的全部未来的家。Sat Nam。想想这个念头，把它想通，明年我们会再有一次只属于女人的聚会，我们会公开讨论所有问题和答案，我们的价值观和美德，我们的缺点和缺陷，我们会成长，那也是成长的一种方式。非常感谢，Sat Nam。
Students: Sat Nam.
学生：Sat Nam。
YB: Chalo Ji, yeah bring it with you. Thank you.
YB：Chalo Ji，好，把它带上。谢谢。
Student: (----)
学生：（----）
YB: Please...
YB：请……