讲座 - 好老师

always on a opportunity where to catch his tail and student all the time is supposed to hold his tail in his hand and run about.

总是伺机去抓他的尾巴，而学生本该时时刻刻把自己的尾巴攥在手里，跑来跑去。

(Students' laughter)

（学生们大笑）

This relationship is continuous and don't forget one thing-the vibrations are so strong, it's a God given gift to the teacher. Moment he tunes in the student he knows in and out. There is a lock here, he cannot speak. So student sometimes takes advantage of that lock. But that doesn't escape his eyes, so just to prove his point he will somehow make a curling and catch the tail, here boy, you had a tail. Because student will never let the teacher know that he has a tail. Right? Because he will like to hide his tail. Tail is the negativity. Or the expansionist ego, right? These are the tails of the human being. Man in an animal with a tail, so man doesn't want to show his tail, right?

这种关系是持续的，别忘了有一件事——那种振动太强了，它是神赐给老师的礼物。他一调频到学生，就把学生里里外外看得一清二楚。这里有一道锁，他不能说出来。所以学生有时就利用这道锁。可这逃不过他的眼睛，所以为了证明自己的看法，他总会想办法绕个弯，抓住那条尾巴：嘿，小子，你原来有条尾巴。因为学生绝不会让老师知道他有尾巴。对吧？因为他喜欢把尾巴藏起来。尾巴就是负面性。或者那种扩张的小我，对吧？这些就是人的尾巴。人是一种长着尾巴的动物，所以人不想露出自己的尾巴，对吧？

But the teacher knows somehow where is your tail, sometime after six months, two months, sometime daily when he is very merciful. That is a usual way. More the teacher hammers a student more affectionate is he.

可老师总有办法知道你的尾巴在哪儿，有时是六个月后，两个月后，有时是每天——当他非常慈悲的时候。这是通常的做法。老师越是敲打一个学生，就越是疼爱他。

six months, two months, sometime daily when he is very merciful. That is a usual way. More the teacher hammers a student more affectionate is he.

六个月后，两个月后，有时是每天——当他非常慈悲的时候。这是通常的做法。老师越是敲打一个学生，就越是疼爱他。

I am telling you my experience and I am telling you what the shastra says. My master laughed. Really he is nutty. People think he is very happy because he smiles. But I know he smiles at the foolishness of the people. I know that. Because people are fool and he laughs, he says well, what type of people they are, they don't know anything, you know they are all crazy. So he laughs. And one day he made me to speak and I spoke, I said, "Well, you think he is always smiling at you, he is very happy man, he is laughing at your foolishness. Don't understand him wrong way. "

我是在讲我的经验，也是在讲经典（shastra）上说的。我的师父笑了。他真是有点疯。人们以为他很开心，因为他总是微笑。可我知道，他是在笑人们的愚蠢。这我知道。因为人们很蠢，他就笑，他说，唉，这是什么样的人啊，他们什么都不懂，你知道，他们全是疯子。所以他就笑。有一天他让我讲话，我就讲了，我说：“你们以为他总是在对你们微笑，以为他是个很快乐的人，其实他是在笑你们的愚蠢。别把他理解错了。”

So this is how the life is. Can you tell anyone about your astral experience, can you explain about your thoughts of the merits and measures described in the Adi Granth?

生活就是这样。你能把自己的星光体经验告诉别人吗？你能解释你对《阿迪·格兰特》（Adi Granth）里所描述的功德与尺度的想法吗？

life is. Can you tell anyone about your astral experience, can you explain about your thoughts of the merits and measures described in the Adi Granth?

生活就是这样。你能把自己的星光体经验告诉别人吗？你能解释你对《阿迪·格兰特》（Adi Granth）里所描述的功德与尺度的想法吗？

Yeah, in Adi Granth four ways, four circles have been described where to be one, be one, lead one, and have the absolute bliss. These are the four vibrations they have been so clearly explained, if you can read Adi Granth... oh good, here is Adi Granth, it is page hundred fifty, Har (?). By the first (?) circle the lord, you see it is a marriage between God and the soul. It is a marriage between the Creator and the creation and it is right, it is negative and the positive. It is the man and the woman. If that solid honest relationship can be confirmed there is a use of getting married otherwise be a celibate. Good for you.

是的，在《圣格兰特经》里描述了四种方式、四个圈子，在那里成为一体、成为一体、引领一体，并拥有绝对的极乐。这就是四种振动，它们被解释得如此清楚，如果你能读《圣格兰特经》……哦，好，这就是《圣格兰特经》，是第一百五十页，Har（？）。在第一个（？）圈子里是神，你看，这是神与灵魂之间的婚姻。这是造物主与受造物之间的婚姻，它是对的，它是负面与正面。它是男人与女人。如果那种坚实诚实的关系能够被确认，结婚就有用处，否则就做个独身者。对你有好处。

I was asking a rich man, I said, "Why don't you get married? "

我问过一个有钱人，我说：“你为什么不结婚？”

He said, "Any woman I'll marry I am rich, she is going to divorce me, after a year takes my whole half wealth. I am not going to get married. "

他说：“我娶的任何女人，我很有钱，她都会跟我离婚，一年后拿走我一半的财产。我不会结婚的。”

He told me this. He said, "I am afraid to get married. Because no American woman will marry me and will not divorce me. I know it. "

他这样告诉我。他说：“我害怕结婚。因为没有哪个美国女人会嫁给我而不跟我离婚。我知道的。”

I said, "Why they will do it? "

我说：“她们为什么要那样做？”

He said, "Just to grab my wealth. "

他说：“就是为了抢我的财产。”

Because no American woman will marry me and will not divorce me. I know it. "

因为没有哪个美国女人会嫁给我而不跟我离婚。我知道的。”

I said, "Why they will do it? "

我说：“她们为什么要那样做？”

He said, "Just to grab my wealth. "

他说：“就是为了抢我的财产。”

I said, "Good for you. " I said, "Do you want to have children? "

我说：“对你有好处。”我说：“你想要孩子吗？”

He said, "Yes, I am going to adopt children. But I am not going to get married. I don't want to run into this trouble of the American woman. "

他说：“想，我打算领养孩子。但我不会结婚。我不想陷入美国女人这种麻烦里。”

I explained to him lot oh well, well, he said, "Yogi, all right, if you really want to get me married, get me married in any other country. But I am not getting married with any American woman. "

我跟他解释了很多，哦，好吧，好吧，他说：“Yogi，好吧，如果你真的想让我结婚，就让我在别的国家结婚。但我不会跟任何美国女人结婚。”

Such a prejudiced man. I couldn't help it. I tried my best. I explained to him, everything cannot be the same, everybody is not the same. Don't you brand everybody like that.

这么有偏见的人。我没办法。我尽了最大努力。我跟他解释，不是所有事都一样，不是每个人都一样。你别这样给每个人贴标签。

He said, "All right, ninety percent are like that, ten percent why should I dig into? "

他说：“好吧，百分之九十都是那样，百分之十我为什么要去深挖？”

And I thought he was right. There is lot of trouble. These women are also crazy people. They are not free from this thing (?). (?). And you know there is one town, I was taken there, little ladies, little old ladies town, what is that town?

我觉得他说得对。麻烦很多。这些女人也是疯狂的人。她们也没有摆脱这东西（？）。（？）。你知道有一个镇，我被带到那里，小女士、小老太太的镇，那是什么镇？

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

(Students' laughter)

（学生们大笑）

And you know there is one town, I was taken there, little ladies, little old ladies town, what is that town?

你知道有一个镇，我被带到那里，小女士、小老太太的镇，那是什么镇？

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

(Students' laughter)

（学生们大笑）

YB: See when they are old then they run about, look at that girl. Why can't a young beautiful girl think that she can be old little lady like that? We don't insure our future, we don't think of anything, we want to capitalize now. We are young, we can sell our flesh, we can do blah-blah-blah, so let us capitalize it, what about later on? Nothing is going to go. You cannot be free from your karma. You are causing a cause you are going to have an effect. Go on baby, do it. Listen to Yogi Bhajan everyday, go on doing it. Now think one day you will be caught and trapped in your own net. And then,

YB：你看，人老了就到处跑，看看那个女孩。为什么一个年轻漂亮的女孩不能想到，自己有一天也会变成那样的小老太太？我们不保障自己的未来，我们什么都不想，我们只想现在就变现。我们年轻，我们可以卖自己的肉体，我们可以干这干那，那就让我们变现吧，那以后呢？什么都带不走。你逃不出你的业力。你种下一个因，就会得到一个果。来吧宝贝，干吧。每天听 Yogi Bhajan，继续干吧。现在想想，有一天你会被自己织的网抓住、困住。到那时，

"Tann teerey sath peedh bhayi thaa bolo yeh Raam. "

“Tann teerey sath peedh bhayi thaa bolo yeh Raam。”

go on doing it. Now think one day you will be caught and trapped in your own net. And then,

继续干吧。现在想想，有一天你会被自己织的网抓住、困住。到那时，

"Tann teerey sath peedh bhayi thaa bolo yeh Raam. "

“Tann teerey sath peedh bhayi thaa bolo yeh Raam。”

Then that will be true. When the pain will curl around the body and the entire body will come into the clutches of that pain at that time nothing else but the God you will remember. Is He a fool to answer you at that time? You think He is mad? Were you not aware when you were doing something? Tann peedh bhayi, when the whole (?) jaws, clutch of impurity crushes and squeezes the body (?) I have seen in hospitals people crying mey, mey, mey, I say what he is goat? You know that mey mey mey comes you know, why? Why you remember mother at that time? Why couldn't you remember mother at that time when you were in action when you were doing that nonsense?

那时这句话才会是真的。当疼痛缠住身体，整个身体都落进那疼痛的爪子里，那时你除了神什么都不会记得。难道他是傻子，会在那个时候回应你？你以为他疯了？你干那些事的时候，难道你没有觉知吗？Tann peedh bhayi，当整个（？）牙关，不洁的爪子碾碎、挤压身体（？）我在医院里见过人哭喊 mey，mey，mey，我说他是什么，山羊吗？你知道那 mey mey mey 会来的，你知道，为什么？你为什么在那个时候记得母亲？你在行动的时候，你在干那些胡闹的事的时候，为什么不能记得母亲？

It is just like stealing those things and say, Sat Guru sikhey bandhan kaatey, Sat Guru sikhey bandhan kaatey, he gave him one blow of the stick, he said read further, "Jay Gursikh bekaar Tehatey. "

这就像偷了那些东西，然后说，Sat Guru sikhey bandhan kaatey，Sat Guru sikhey bandhan kaatey，他给了他一棍子，他说往下读，“Jay Gursikh bekaar Tehatey。”

Guru sikhey bandhan kaatey, Sat Guru sikhey bandhan kaatey, he gave him one blow of the stick, he said read further, "Jay Gursikh bekaar Tehatey. "

Guru sikhey bandhan kaatey，Sat Guru sikhey bandhan kaatey，他给了他一棍子，他说往下读，“Jay Gursikh bekaar Tehatey。”

Oh fool, read the other sentence too. Sat Guru sikhey bandhan kaatey, God shall cut the chain of karma, Sat Guru. True teacher shall cut the karma of a student. Understandable. Jay Gursikh bekaar Tehatey provided the student leaves all negative action. The other one he is not going to read. The first one, because with that he can steal. It's not fair, that's not good.

哦，傻瓜，把另一句也读了。Sat Guru sikhey bandhan kaatey，神会斩断业力的锁链，Sat Guru。真正的老师会斩断学生的业力。可以理解。Jay Gursikh bekaar Tehatey，前提是学生放下一切负面的行为。另一句他就不读了。第一句他读，因为靠那句他就能偷。这不公平，这不好。

These four lamas are itself... I wish all of you should read this.

这四个喇嘛本身就是……我希望你们所有人都读读这个。

Student: (-----).

学生：（-----）。

YB: Well, this ceremony is beautiful, this ceremony is the lord is He, prevaileth through everybody and the whole universe circles around him and the love floats. Now how can I explain this thing? This is that union, the words can't explain. Can you explain that experience with words? Can anybody see when he sees the God?

YB：嗯，这个仪式很美，这个仪式是主在祂里面，祂遍及每一个人，整个宇宙都围绕着祂转，爱在流动。现在我要怎么解释这件事呢？这就是那种结合，言语无法解释。你能用言语解释那种体验吗？有谁在见到神的时候能看见吗？

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

This is that union, the words can't explain. Can you explain that experience with words? Can anybody see when he sees the God?

这就是那种结合，言语无法解释。你能用言语解释那种体验吗？有谁在见到神的时候能看见吗？

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Yeah, we perform in this way, there are two ways of performing a ceremony. One is before the holy fire, the other is with the holy Adi Granth. We keep this in the center. Right? And we start reading, we read one, one this sect and then make them go round the circle, right? And then read the other one then go. Then the male follows the female. In other two circles and the four are read. And the other one is that you lit the holy fire in the center and make them go around one circle and make them stand and then read it to them and then ask them like this you know.

YB：是的，我们是这样举行的，举行仪式有两种方式。一种是在圣火前，另一种是在神圣的《Adi Granth》前。我们把它放在中央。对吧？然后我们开始读，读一节，然后让他们绕圈走，对吧？然后再读另一节，再走。然后男方跟着女方。再绕两圈，四节就读完了。另一种方式是你把圣火点在中央，让他们绕一圈，让他们站好，然后读给他们听，然后像这样问他们，你知道的。

lit the holy fire in the center and make them go around one circle and make them stand and then read it to them and then ask them like this you know.

把圣火点在中央，让他们绕一圈，让他们站好，然后读给他们听，然后像这样问他们，你知道的。

Come on baby, sit down here and you accept him as a husband and wife relationship will it be a relationship of two souls merging into one in each other and having two bodies and you shall last with each other up to last breath, if you vow that bow to this fire, which is the ultimate cleanser, right? Like this. There are promises they make, and very hard promises. Well, Dawson, you remember you were in that marriage, yeah. Ask them. Many people... and they are permitted at any circle they are permitted to get out of the circle if either one does not agree. Their marriage I performed. They are very hard terms of marriage and anybody who goes into that marriage and breaks he is granted...

来吧，宝贝，坐在这里，你接受他作为丈夫，夫妻关系会是两个灵魂融为一体的关系，彼此交融，拥有两个身体，你们要彼此相伴直到最后一口气，如果你发誓，就向这火顶礼，它是终极的净化者，对吧？就像这样。他们会许下承诺，非常艰难的承诺。嗯，Dawson，你记得你在那场婚礼上，是的。问问他们。很多人……在任何一圈，只要有一方不同意，他们都被允许退出这个圈。他们的婚礼是我主持的。那是非常严苛的婚姻条款，任何进入那场婚姻又破坏它的人，他被授予……

does not agree. Their marriage I performed. They are very hard terms of marriage and anybody who goes into that marriage and breaks he is granted...

不同意。他们的婚礼是我主持的。那是非常严苛的婚姻条款，任何进入那场婚姻又破坏它的人，他被授予……

if there is a God he can never live happy. We not only believe it, we have the experience of that. Because the ultimate reality is the light and heat; we make that as a witness. Follow? Follow? If you have power, energy in you, and the heat in you otherwise you are dead cold okay. Right? We create that God, that power as a witness. The man who performs that marriage ceremony he bows to that witness, that power of God and makes Him guarantor. Then no goofing is possible. That's why those marriages survive. Right? Yeah. And what is... yes...

如果真有神，他永远没法过得幸福。我们不只是相信这一点，我们对此有亲身体验。因为终极的实相就是光和热；我们把它当作见证。跟上了吗？跟上了吗？如果你体内有力量、有能量、有热，否则你就是死冷一团，明白吗。对吧？我们把那个神、那股力量立为见证。主持那场婚礼的人，向那个见证、向神的那股力量顶礼，让祂做担保人。这样就不可能有任何糊弄。这就是为什么那些婚姻能存活下来。对吧？是的。那什么是……对……

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Oh that's a beautiful question, we don't believe in this all nonsense, this love marriage. Now I can compare these two very beautifully. Normally in India it is not in Sikhs or in Hindus, ninety nine point nine percent, nine recurring percent over square are arranged marriages. It means out of fifty million there can be one love marriage where the parents can be told to arrange that marriage. So that much, otherwise... in marriage still India was India and shall be the same.

YB：哦，这是个漂亮的问题，我们不信这一套胡扯，什么恋爱结婚。现在我可以把这两者做个很漂亮的对比。在印度，通常不是锡克教徒也不是印度教徒，百分之九十九点九，九循环百分比的平方，都是包办婚姻。也就是说，五千万里才可能有一桩恋爱结婚，还得父母被说动去安排那桩婚事。就这么点，否则……在婚姻这件事上，印度过去是印度，将来也还是老样子。

marriage where the parents can be told to arrange that marriage. So that much, otherwise... in marriage still India was India and shall be the same.

恋爱结婚，还得父母被说动去安排那桩婚事。就这么点，否则……在婚姻这件事上，印度过去是印度，将来也还是老样子。

Now what happens in Indian marriage? We have got a spiritual man attached to each family. Right from the date of birth, he makes our astrological chart, knows everything about us, our habits and everything. So every family has got. Okay, then these spiritual men meet and they say hey, "I have got a boy. "

那印度人的婚姻是怎么回事？我们每个家庭都有一位灵性老师跟着。从出生那天起，他就给我们排星盘，知道我们的一切，我们的习性，所有的事。所以每个家庭都有这么一位。好，然后这些灵性人士碰头，他们说，嘿，「我这儿有个男孩。」

"Hey, I have got a girl. "

「嘿，我这儿有个女孩。」

"What is the age? "

「多大年纪？」

"This is the age. "

「这个年纪。」

"Qualities? "

「条件怎么样？」

He says, "A grade. "

他说，「A 级。」

A-age, B-beauty, C-caste, D-dowry, E-education, F-father, all up to Z they have got a formula. Thirty-five things they count in arranging a match. Okay, they meet, they... they talk two, three days, right and then that man comes and lives in the house as a guest and watches the habits of the girl what that fellow has told him is right or not. Okay. They are experienced, they can pickup quicker. So after three days he is going to, go he says well I am gone. Then that fellow will come and live in the boy's house and watch the boy what time at night he comes. Everything, they are absolutely CID agents. So they will fix up, okay.

A——年龄，B——美貌，C——种姓，D——嫁妆，E——教育，F——父亲，一直到 Z，他们有一套公式。说媒要数三十五样东西。好，他们碰面，他们……他们谈上两三天，对吧，然后那个人就以客人的身份住进女方家里，观察那女孩的习性，看那家伙跟他说的对不对。好。他们有经验，能很快看出来。所以三天之后他就要走了，他说，好了，我走了。然后那个人会住到男孩家里，观察这男孩，看他晚上几点回家。所有的事，他们绝对是 CID 探员。所以他们会把事情定下来，好。

and live in the boy's house and watch the boy what time at night he comes. Everything, they are absolutely CID agents. So they will fix up, okay. Then they will ask the fathers of the both to talk.

住到男孩家里，观察这男孩，看他晚上几点回家。所有的事，他们绝对是 CID 探员。所以他们会把事情定下来，好。然后他们会请双方的父母来谈。

So they will arrange family level (?), they will dig history up to nine generations. Was in their family was a woman who bifurcated or went off the circuit in nine past generation? Clarity of family we call it. Because they believe... that is why the family is so united under all odd and even, you cannot expect any divorce in that country. All right, that is over. Then parents meet, then both the parents decide, then come the mothers, then mother dig each other for weeks and the boy's mother is crazy because she is going to get a daughter-in-law, she is going to visit them for fifty times to see what type of daughter-in-law she is going to have.

所以他们会安排家族层面的（？），他们会往上查九代的历史。在他们家族过去九代里，有没有哪个女人分叉了、或者偏离了轨道？我们把这叫做家族的清白。因为他们相信……这就是为什么家族在各种顺逆之中都那么团结，在那个国家你根本别指望有离婚。好，这一条说完了。然后双方父母见面，然后两边父母一起决定，接着母亲们上场，母亲们会互相打探好几个星期，男方的母亲简直要疯了，因为她要得到一个儿媳妇了，她会去拜访五十次，就为了看看自己将来会得到什么样的儿媳妇。

Is she normal, is she well behaved, then she will bring all ladies without telephoning or asking anything. How she entertains, does she get crazy when there is a pressure of work, all that. I mean to say it is better to pass master degree to get married for a woman, really I can tell you.

她正不正常，她举止好不好，然后她会把所有女人都带来，不打电话、也不事先问一声。她怎么招待人，工作一有压力她会不会发疯，所有这些。我的意思是说，女人要结婚，最好先拿个硕士学位，真的，我跟你说。

crazy when there is a pressure of work, all that. I mean to say it is better to pass master degree to get married for a woman, really I can tell you.

工作一有压力就发疯，所有这些。我的意思是说，女人要结婚，最好先拿个硕士学位，真的，我跟你说。

My little wife you know, she never did anything in the life you know. She was in Singapore and all that. My mother made her crazy, I know myself, what to talk of anybody else?

我那小妻子，你知道，她这辈子什么都没做过，你知道。她以前在新加坡什么的。我母亲把她逼疯了，我自己知道，别人就更不用说了？

So then these two people joined you know, then they decide what dowry is to be given. What the parents of the boy will give and what the parents of the daughter will give, so that economically they maybe independent. And then actually dowry was that, now sometime it's a tradition, sometime they misuse this authority, but normally it is not, it is normally done in that way. Then they know the economic stability of the boy who is the bread-earner. And qualities of the woman how to run the household, when everything like that is agreed upon, a tea party is arranged where boy is invited at the girl's house to see the girl.

然后这两个人就算定下来了，你知道，然后他们决定要给什么嫁妆。男方的父母给什么，女方的父母给什么，这样在经济上他们也许能独立。其实嫁妆本来就是这个意思，现在有时候它成了一种传统，有时候人们滥用这个权力，但通常不是这样，通常就是照那样做的。然后他们了解那个养家糊口的男孩的经济状况。还有那个女人操持家务的本事，等所有这些都谈妥了，就安排一场茶会，把男孩请到女孩家里去看女孩。

how to run the household, when everything like that is agreed upon, a tea party is arranged where boy is invited at the girl's house to see the girl.

操持家务的本事，等所有这些都谈妥了，就安排一场茶会，把男孩请到女孩家里去看女孩。

And they have tea together and elders run away on one pretext or the other to give them five to ten minutes to talk. And then they have the privilege to say you know... they say and he says do you like me and perhaps she says do you like me and something and normally the ladies will say well, as the will of the God is if you prove honest to your duty and he says okay I think so. If he likes.

他们一起喝茶，长辈们就找各种借口溜走，给他们五到十分钟说话。然后他们有权说，你知道……他们说，他说你喜欢我吗，也许她说你喜欢我吗，诸如此类，通常女方会说，好吧，全凭神的意志，只要你对你的职责诚实就行，他说好，我想是这样。如果他喜欢的话。

Then they are Rakh, they call it rakh, then the girl's parents give the boy some money, hundred rupees, two-hundred, whatever it is, it means that that boy is ours, now he shall not run and look for any other girl. That continues for one year. Boy is not supposed to meet the girl, girl is not supposed to meet the boy. But they watch the incidents and accidents very closely and girl's best friend watch the boy and boy's best friend watch the girl. This CID goes on for about a year.

然后就是 Rakh，他们叫它 rakh，接着女方的父母给男孩一些钱，一百卢比、两百卢比，多少都行，意思是那个男孩是我们的了，现在他不该再跑去另找别的女孩。这样持续一年。男孩不该见女孩，女孩也不该见男孩。但他们非常仔细地观察各种事件和意外，女孩最好的朋友盯着男孩，男孩最好的朋友盯着女孩。这种 CID 式的调查持续大约一年。

the incidents and accidents very closely and girl's best friend watch the boy and boy's best friend watch the girl. This CID goes on for about a year.

各种事件和意外，非常仔细地观察，女孩最好的朋友盯着男孩，男孩最好的朋友盯着女孩。这种 CID 式的调查持续大约一年。

When that test is passed then they call it engagement ring, when the engagement actually official ceremony, all the relatives come together and they do it, they have a common feast and when the ring is given to the boy and the boy gives ring to the girl. This is engagement. And after that sometime in my case it was two years, one year, two year, then after that you can fix the date of the marriage and you can get married.

等这个考验通过了，他们就称之为订婚戒指，等订婚真正成为正式仪式，所有亲戚聚到一起，把它办了，大家共进宴席，戒指戴到男孩手上，男孩把戒指给女孩。这就是订婚。那之后，过一段时间——在我那时候是两年，一年、两年——那之后你就可以定下婚期，可以结婚了。

So this much study happens like that. Oh ji, you cannot understand that (?) that wise man of the family he will tell the girl has got so many long hairs, she has got this type of ear, she has got this type of height, she is born on such and such date, she has the sensory on such and such date, she has this on such and such date, she was suffering... You can ask her by days and he is going to take out that book and will read on page after page, page after page, page after page, eighteen years life history he will read to you like... like that.

所以要做这么多考察，就是这样。哦 ji，你没法理解（？），家里那位有智慧的人会告诉你，这女孩头发这么长，她长着这种耳朵，她有这么高，她生在某某日子，她在某某日子有感觉，她在某某日子有这个，她当时在受苦……你可以按日子问她，他就会掏出那本书，一页一页、一页一页、一页一页地念，十八年的人生经历，他会念给你听，就像……就像那样。

out that book and will read on page after page, page after page, page after page, eighteen years life history he will read to you like... like that.

掏出那本书，一页一页、一页一页、一页一页地念，十八年的人生经历，他会念给你听，就像……就像那样。

That is about marriage and then they are given their household and they have their own means to live and they dig each other and start loving and they know if they are going to have child it will be legitimate, they have not to run to Las Vegas to get married and all. You know all that type of stuff and they have a security, they have a bed to sleep, they have a shelter for them.

那是关于婚姻的，然后他们得到自己的家，有自己的谋生手段，他们互相挖掘，开始相爱，他们知道如果要生孩子，那会是合法的，他们不必跑到拉斯维加斯去结婚什么的。你知道那一类东西，他们有安全感，有床可睡，有地方栖身。

Well, I got married, I got a house. I was allotted a government house for which I paid from my own income and my father-in-law took measurement of all the rooms and furnished it completely. He said, "Well I have to give my son-in-law all that what I need. " So he gave it.

嗯，我结了婚，我有了房子。我被分配了一所政府房子，房钱是我用自己的收入付的，我岳父量了所有房间的尺寸，把它全套配上了家具。他说：“嗯，我得把我需要的一切都给我女婿。”于是他就给了。

took measurement of all the rooms and furnished it completely. He said, "Well I have to give my son-in-law all that what I need. " So he gave it.

他量了所有房间的尺寸，把里面全套家具都配齐了。他说：“我得把我需要的一切都给我女婿。”于是他就给了。

Like that so it continues and there is another beautiful thing. In case of any emergency of girl and boy, both the parents can stand like a rock as security behind them. Because they feel it is our responsibility we brought them together. So you need not have a counseling service, you have got four counselors ready for that. Girl is in trouble she is going to ring up her parents, no she will ring up father-in-law and mother-in-law and they maybe (?) they are going to fly next minute. Yeah, what is the matter? You know it happens in that marriage, once the parents of the boy are on the side of the daughter-in-law and the parents of the daughter are on the side of the opposite.

事情就这样延续下去，还有一件很美好的事。女孩或男孩那边一旦出了什么急事，双方父母都能像岩石一样站在他们身后做后盾。因为他们觉得，是我们把他们凑到一起的，这是我们的责任。所以你根本不需要什么心理咨询服务，你已经有四位咨询师随时待命了。女孩遇到麻烦，她会打电话给自己的父母——不，她会打给公公婆婆，他们说不定下一分钟就飞过来了。是啊，出什么事了？你知道，在那样的婚姻里就是这样：一旦男孩的父母站在儿媳这一边，女孩的父母就站在对面那一边。

in that marriage, once the parents of the boy are on the side of the daughter-in-law and the parents of the daughter are on the side of the opposite.

在那样的婚姻里就是这样：一旦男孩的父母站在儿媳这一边，女孩的父母就站在对面那一边。

And they plead for each other. You know, because the son-in-law or daughter-in-law is very dear to them. That is the tragedy. So for me my parents won't advocate. My in-laws will advocate. And for my wife my parents will advocate and bring out good and bad points. And normally there is never a trouble. Four counseling service and what is the trouble for? Whatever the trouble for one party will say, "Well, I'll compensate. "

他们各自为对方求情。你知道，因为女婿或儿媳对他们来说太亲了。这就是悲剧所在。所以对我来说，我的父母不会替我说话，我的公婆会替我说话。而对我妻子来说，我的父母会替她说话，把好的坏的都摆出来。通常根本不会有什么麻烦。四位咨询师，那麻烦是干什么用的？不管麻烦出在哪一方，总有一方会说：“行，我来补偿。”

I ran into a trouble once in my life, I give you my own life experience. I gave some money to my wife and she overspent it. And that was actually the money which I promised the government that I'll give them after a year as a donation and she thought it is the charity money, so certain poor people came she got them the clothes. Went with them to bazaar and got them the clothes. After a little while I ran into that trouble and I asked, "Well, Ji, there was some money like that, now time has come, I want. "

我这辈子遇到过一次麻烦，我把我自己的亲身经历讲给你听。我给了妻子一些钱，她花超了。而那笔钱其实是我答应政府一年后作为捐款交上去的。她以为那是做慈善的钱，所以有些穷人来了，她就给他们买了衣服。带他们去集市，给他们买了衣服。过了没多久，我就碰上了那个麻烦，我问：“哎，Ji，有那么一笔钱，现在时间到了，我要用。”

She said, "(?) you pay? "

她说：“（？）你付？”

a little while I ran into that trouble and I asked, "Well, Ji, there was some money like that, now time has come, I want. "

过了没多久，我就碰上了那个麻烦，我问：“哎，Ji，有那么一笔钱，现在时间到了，我要用。”

She said, "(?) you pay? "

她说：“（？）你付？”

I said, "What do you mean? I never budgeted the whole thing like that. What to do? "

我说：“你什么意思？我从来没那样把整笔钱都编进预算里。怎么办？”

So we had little hard words between us. I said, "You always do like that. It is not fair for you. "

于是我们之间说了些难听的话。我说：“你总是这样。这对你不公平。”

And I didn't eat that day and I just went to office. No fun staying with you, you do whatever you want, (?) I was a young man. And she rang up you know, my father-in-law, well he is angry (?) and he said, "What you did? "

那天我没吃饭，直接去了办公室。跟你待在一起没意思，你想干什么就干什么，（？）我当时是个年轻人。她打了电话，你知道，我岳父，他挺生气的（？），他说：“你干了什么？”

I said, "I did charity. "

我说：“我做了布施。”

He said, "What? How much money is that? "

他说：“什么？那是多少钱？”

She said, "That much. "

她说：“就那么多。”

He said, "Wait a minute. "

他说：“等一下。”

Within two hours at Palam his orderly came with double the amount in cash. She said, "(?). You also make that charity. "

两个小时内，在帕拉姆，他的勤务兵带着双倍的现金来了。她说：“（？）你也去做那份布施。”

I said, "Well, I am not annoyed, I can make it I have got the money," (?) saving my face. You see, show that...

我说：“行，我没生气，我做得起，我有钱，”（？）保住我的面子。你看，就是要显出……

"(?). You also make that charity. "

“（？）你也去做那份布施。”

I said, "Well, I am not annoyed, I can make it I have got the money," (?) saving my face. You see, show that...

我说：“行，我没生气，我做得起，我有钱，”（？）保住我的面子。你看，就是要显出……

You know normally you come out with this proposal. And in heart I was very happy, ji, I have got it. Question is there is no chance of running against each other. That's not possible, they won't let you happen normally. Normally it is impossible for a divorce. You see for a divorce you have to do what? You have to annoy your all relationship and what divorce you can have? There is a woman counsel, Istree Samaj Sabha. These ladies are so well organized and when a woman is in trouble she will go to street committee and all the women of the street will gather together and will abuse that man.

你知道，通常你会提出这种提议。而心里我特别高兴，ji，我拿到了。问题是，彼此对着干是没有机会的。那不可能，通常他们不会让你得逞。通常离婚是不可能的。你看，要离婚你得干什么？你得把所有的关系都惹恼，你还能离什么婚？有一个妇女委员会，Istree Samaj Sabha。这些女士组织得特别好，一个女人遇到麻烦，她就会去找街道委员会，街上所有的女人都会聚到一起，去骂那个男人。

Then they will go to the area committee so all they will gather, then city, then counsel, then county, then all India Women conference, God knows how many they are. But one thing I know one guy wanted to divorce and the woman was innocent. I have seen, he was my neighbor. Six months, twenty-five ladies all the time will come, put a sheet before his house and say hahahahaaaa...

然后她们会去找地区委员会，所有人都聚起来，然后是市里，然后是委员会，然后是县里，然后是全印度妇女大会，天知道有多少。但有一件事我知道，有个人想离婚，而那女人是无辜的。我见过，他是我邻居。六个月里，25 个女士一直来，在他家门前铺一块布，然后说哈哈哈……

(Students' laughter)

（学生们大笑）

he was my neighbor. Six months, twenty-five ladies all the time will come, put a sheet before his house and say hahahahaaaa...

他是我邻居。六个月里，25 个女士一直来，在他家门前铺一块布，然后说哈哈哈……

(Students' laughter)

（学生们大笑）

And twenty-five at his office. He came with apology that I am willing to keep her like a doll and I am apologetic and I am willing to give it in paper my apology they put in few condition. Put it in the paper, your apology under your signature. He said I'll do that. And then they said we have been coming to your house and picketing, give all the money we have spent (?).

还有 25 个在他办公室。他来道歉，说我愿意把她当洋娃娃一样养着，我很抱歉，我愿意把道歉写在纸上，他们提了几个条件。写在纸上，你的道歉，签上你的名字。他说我会的。然后她们说，我们一直来你家纠察，把我们花掉的钱都给我们（？）。

(Students' laughter)

（学生们大笑）

Unbelievable. He brought his wife and then the wife and the husband has to go to that area committee to sign a paper that they are all right. For six months. Can you believe the pitiable stage, a man cannot do all that. Because basically government is also that, law is like that that the parents are parents. But once there is a child, child should not be deprived the privilege of parents. So even the judges they goof. When there is a divorce case or the case of proceeding you must understand judge is going to decide somehow to keep them together. Like this, one judgment recently came when I was to leave India.

难以置信。他带上了他的妻子，然后妻子和丈夫还得去那个区域委员会签一份文件，证明他们没问题。要签六个月。你能相信这种可怜的境地吗，一个人根本做不到这些。因为从根本上说，政府也是那样，法律也是那样，父母就是父母。但一旦有了孩子，孩子就不该被剥夺父母这份特权。所以连法官也会犯错。当有离婚案或诉讼案时，你必须明白，法官总会想办法让他们在一起。就像这样，最近我正要离开印度的时候，就出了一个判决。

you must understand judge is going to decide somehow to keep them together. Like this, one judgment recently came when I was to leave India. Neither the male can marry nor the female till the children are twenty-one.

你必须明白，法官总会想办法让他们在一起。就像这样，最近我正要离开印度的时候，就出了一个判决。在孩子满二十一岁之前，男方不能结婚，女方也不能。

Now after, we estimate they both, one will be sixty-five, the other will be fifty-two when they can be permitted to get married. Now what is the fun of that divorce? And it was a Supreme Court judgment. He said, "They loved each other, they married each other, they brought two children to this world and now they do not understand how to live, however they can live their own life separately, the children will be taken care of by such and such school and they both shall not marry.

那么之后，我们估算一下，他们俩一个会到六十五岁，另一个会到五十二岁，那时才被允许结婚。那这离婚还有什么意思？而且这还是最高法院的判决。他说：“他们彼此相爱，彼此结婚，把两个孩子带到这个世界上，现在他们却不懂得怎么生活，不过他们可以各自分开过自己的日子，孩子会由某某学校照顾，他们俩都不得再婚。

" The judge said, "I am privileged to take away the right of marriage from them because they are now marrying for lust not for love, and under constitution section such and such subsection I hereby debar both the parties for marriage. Whosoever shall marry them will go seven years in, plus that person. So children are secured. When children will be twenty-one they can remarry. "

”法官说：“我有特权剥夺他们结婚的权利，因为他们现在结婚是为了色欲，不是为了爱，根据宪法第某条某款，我在此禁止双方结婚。谁给他们主持婚礼，谁就要坐七年牢，再加上那个人。这样孩子就有保障了。等孩子满二十一岁，他们可以再婚。”

Whosoever shall marry them will go seven years in, plus that person. So children are secured. When children will be twenty-one they can remarry. "

谁给他们主持婚礼，谁就要坐七年牢，再加上那个人。这样孩子就有保障了。等孩子满二十一岁，他们可以再婚。”

Can you imagine? What you have to get out of that marriage when you are sixty-five? Like that. Otherwise you know fifty-five million people if divorce like this my God! That country cannot hold for a day. Impossible. And spiritually and religiously and through teaching they are taught that to divorce is a cowardness, I mean there is lot of propaganda. Lot of brainwash that marriages are arranged in heavens. You know what was my concept of marriage when I got married in nineteen fifty-three? That God one day is going to open a door and to allow a sparrow and she is going sit at the head of a girl and she is going to be my wife and I am going to be her husband and that's it.

你能想象吗？到了六十五岁，你还得从那段婚姻里挣脱出来？就像那样。否则你知道，要是五千五百万人这样离婚，我的天！那个国家一天都撑不住。不可能。而且在灵性上、宗教上，通过教导，他们被教导说离婚是懦弱，我是说，有大量的宣传。大量的洗脑，说婚姻是在天堂里安排的。你知道我一九五三年结婚时对婚姻的概念是什么吗？就是神有一天会打开一扇门，放一只麻雀进来，她会坐在一个女孩的头顶上，她就会成为我的妻子，我就会成为她的丈夫，就这样。

door and to allow a sparrow and she is going sit at the head of a girl and she is going to be my wife and I am going to be her husband and that's it.

门，放一只麻雀进来，她会坐在一个女孩的头顶上，她就会成为我的妻子，我就会成为她的丈夫，就这样。

Because this little story I heard when I was little small boy. This is how our concept grows and once only the sparrow sits on the head of one woman that's all. And then that sparrow goes back to God and she never comes back. So they talk like these little stories and make firm foundation in the heart and the mind of the man and the female that this relationship is beautiful, everlasting and ever loving and they have to produce what?

因为这个小故事是我很小的时候听到的。我们的概念就是这样长出来的，一旦那只麻雀坐在某个女人的头顶上，就完了。然后那只麻雀就回到神那里，她再也不回来。所以他们讲这些小小的故事，在男人和女人的心里和心智里打下牢牢的根基，说这段关系是美丽的、永恒的、永远充满爱的，而他们必须生出什么？

"Janani janeth tha bhakt jann, jann datha, jann soor, nahey tho janani baanj rahey kahe gavaye noor. "

“Janani janeth tha bhakt jann, jann datha, jann soor, nahey tho janani baanj rahey kahe gavaye noor。”

Oh beautiful creative power of God, the woman you have to create three kinds of children. The giver, the saint and the hero. Otherwise don't lose the charm of your creative power and God in you. 'Nahey tho janani baanj rahey,' don't get conceived at all if you cannot create these three types of children.

哦，神那美丽的创造之力，女人啊，你必须生出三种孩子。给予者、圣徒和英雄。否则，别丢掉你那创造之力和你内在之神的魅力。“Nahey tho janani baanj rahey”，如果你生不出这三种孩子，那就根本别怀孕。

of your creative power and God in you. 'Nahey tho janani baanj rahey,' don't get conceived at all if you cannot create these three types of children.

你那创造之力和你内在之神的魅力。“Nahey tho janani baanj rahey”，如果你生不出这三种孩子，那就根本别怀孕。

It is so how poor a house maybe, if you closely have a chance to watch an Indian family, when the woman conceives she is let free. They won't ask her work, they don't bug her, they don't interfere with her, she is supposed to go to a temple or somewhere to meditate, to chant, she is given best food, because no negative vibration around her are tolerated. The basic idea is that those vibration when the child is in the womb are very effective on the child so all happy things she should listen to all ages and saints and sayings of the sages and that is how she is to develop those nine months.

不管一个家有多穷，如果你有机会仔细看看一个印度家庭，当女人怀孕时，她就被放自由了。他们不会叫她干活，不会烦她，不会打扰她，她应该去寺庙或别的地方冥想、唱诵，她得到最好的食物，因为不允许有任何负面的振动围绕她。基本的想法是，孩子在子宫里时，那些振动对孩子非常有效，所以一切快乐的东西她都该听，所有时代的圣人和圣贤的话语，她就是这样度过那九个月的。

the child so all happy things she should listen to all ages and saints and sayings of the sages and that is how she is to develop those nine months.

孩子，所以所有快乐的事情，她都应该去聆听，所有年代、圣人和智者的言说，她就是这样在那九个月里发育的。

And there are certain ceremonies where she is worshipped by the families of the in laws as well as that. There is a family reeta, when it is fifth month when the child gets the life in him, it is a very costly ceremony. A feast is given to the poor and all the people they decorate her like a doll and the father-in-law, mother-in-law, the husband everybody come and bow to her. Could you believe it? They worship her on that month when she enters the fifth month of the child age in her womb. Because she is the goddess and she is going to give a child to that family.

还有一些仪式，她会受到公婆两家的敬拜。有一种家庭习俗，到了第五个月，孩子在她体内有了生命，那是一个非常昂贵的仪式。要宴请穷人，所有人把她打扮得像个娃娃，公公、婆婆、丈夫，所有人都来向她顶礼。你能相信吗？在她怀胎进入第五个月的时候，他们敬拜她。因为她是女神，她将为那个家庭生下一个孩子。

So lot many things, old custom and tradition are existing and now it is going to be a quite fun in India because western influence is going to be much there. But still in very tyranny and painful time of the Muslim rule they survived, these tradition do survive and I think now also they will survive.

所以有很多东西，古老的习俗和传统一直存在着，现在在印度会变得相当有趣，因为西方的影响会在那里变得很大。但即便在穆斯林统治那段非常暴虐和痛苦的时期，它们也存活了下来，这些传统确实存活了下来，我想现在它们也会存活下去。

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very tyranny and painful time of the Muslim rule they survived, these tradition do survive and I think now also they will survive.

在穆斯林统治那段非常暴虐和痛苦的时期，它们也存活了下来，这些传统确实存活了下来，我想现在它们也会存活下去。

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YB: Well, soul in other words what you call is soul it is the very conception into the egg. But when you call the breath it is the fifth month. But you say, when life enters the (?). Soul is there. Prakriti is there.

YB：嗯，灵魂，换句话说，你所说的灵魂，它是在受精进入卵子时就有了。但你说呼吸的时候，那是第五个月。但你说，生命进入的时候（？）。灵魂在那里。原质（Prakirti）在那里。

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YB: No, soul, moment you start breathing the effective soul is there. A soul is from the very conception. There is no problem of the soul. Life of breath is granted to child around the fifth month. And he is fed through the navel point. His growth is watched by the navel point. And it is a physical action, when child comes out of the womb this navel point is cut down and at that minute he is granted the freewill, I am a child.

YB：不，灵魂，你一开始呼吸，有效的灵魂就在那里。灵魂从受精那一刻就存在。灵魂没有问题。呼吸的生命大约在第五个月被授予孩子。他通过丹田获得滋养。他的成长由丹田来观察。这是一个物理动作，当孩子从子宫出来时，这个丹田被切断，就在那一刻，他被授予了自由意志，我是一个孩子。

(Students' laughter)

（学生们大笑）

He says mey, give me something. That is the problem and that is when it starts. First ego is when he demands (?) that right of milk. That is first ego. That is the first time.

他说我，给我点东西。这就是问题所在，就是从那时开始的。第一个小我，就是他要求（？）那喝奶的权利。那就是第一个小我。那就是第一次。

That is the problem and that is when it starts. First ego is when he demands (?) that right of milk. That is first ego. That is the first time.

这就是问题所在，就是从那时开始的。第一个小我，就是他要求（？）那喝奶的权利。那就是第一个小我。那就是第一次。

In Mahabharata where you take a section of Gita, Abhimanyu when that chakra was laid down for the pandavas and Arjun was another side and defeat seemed to be inevitable for these people they couldn't escape defeat and Abhimanyu said, "Well, I can break that chakra. "

在《摩诃婆罗多》里，你取《薄伽梵歌》的一节，Abhimanyu，当那个脉轮为般度族布下时，Arjun在另一边，对这些人来说失败似乎不可避免，他们逃不过失败，Abhimanyu说：“嗯，我能破那个脉轮。”

And mother said, Kunti(It is Subhadra, Abhimanyu's mother) said, "It is not possible, because only your father knows how to break it. "

母亲说，Kunti（其实是 Subhadra，Abhimanyu 的母亲）说：“这不可能，因为只有你父亲知道怎么破它。”

And he said, "When I was in your womb one night he was telling you how to break that and I heard all that and later on you slept and I did not hear the second part of it, how to come out of it. But if I break it that will be sure our victory, we will save this defeat. "

他说：“我在你肚子里的时候，有天晚上他正告诉你该怎么破它，我全都听见了，后来你睡着了，后半段我就没听到——怎么从里面出来。但如果我破了它，那我们的胜利就稳了，我们能免掉这场败仗。”

She said, "Go ahead. "

她说：“去吧。”

the second part of it, how to come out of it. But if I break it that will be sure our victory, we will save this defeat. "

后半段，怎么从里面出来。但如果我破了它，那我们的胜利就稳了，我们能免掉这场败仗。

She said, "Go ahead. "

她说：“去吧。”

And he did it and he broke that chakra. And Kaurav because they were not well prepared they lost lot of their army in that whole thing. And he dispersed that arrangement but he died because he never knew after breaking that to do what because according to him his mother slept thereafter and did not listen to the complete system. So sometime the vibration are so pure.

他就去做了，破了那个脉轮。Kaurav 那边因为没准备好，整件事里折了大半军队。他打散了那个阵势，可他自己也死了，因为破了之后他根本不知道接下来该干什么——按他的说法，他母亲那之后就睡着了，没听完整个法门。所以有时候，那振动纯净得不得了。

I know one family, she was known to me, she said, "Well, Bhajan ji, I am getting pregnant. Now I am pregnant. "

我认识一家人，那位女士我认得，她说：“Bhajan ji，我怀上了。现在我有身孕了。”

I said, "Well, so many times people get together what pregnancy you are assured of. "

我说：“哎，人们凑在一起那么多次，你凭什么确定自己怀上了。”

She said, "Not only I am pregnant, I am going to have a beautiful son. And he will have blue eyes. "

她说：“我不光怀上了，我还要生一个漂亮的儿子。他会有蓝眼睛。”

I said, "Well, did you see a dream? "

我说：“那你是不是做了个梦？”

She said, "No, this is what my concept is and that was my time of conception. I took down and copy and I wrote down everything. "

她说：“没有，这就是我的意念，那是我受孕的时刻。我把它记下来、抄下来，什么都写下来了。”

you see a dream? "

你做了个梦？

She said, "No, this is what my concept is and that was my time of conception. I took down and copy and I wrote down everything. "

她说：“没有，这就是我的意念，那是我受孕的时刻。我把它记下来、抄下来，什么都写下来了。”

I said, "Okay love, when you will go to hospital I am going to ring up lady doctor and see first the eyes of the boy than the boy itself. Because normally they see the lower part it's a male or a female. " I said, "I'll tell the lady doctor don't bother male or female, see the eyes. "

我说：“好吧，亲爱的，你去医院的时候，我会打电话给那位女医生，先看那男孩的眼睛，再看孩子本身。因为通常他们只看下面，是男是女。”我说：“我会告诉女医生，别管男女，看眼睛。”

She said, "Well, that is going to happen. "

她说：“好，那一定会发生。”

And she had a boy beautiful, complete, perfect, very charming and the boy, normally we people have got brown eyes in India and he had blue eyes. And not a word she said was wrong.

她生了个男孩，漂亮、完整、完美，非常讨人喜欢，而且——我们印度人通常是棕色眼睛，这孩子却是蓝眼睛。她说的话，一个字都没错。

complete, perfect, very charming and the boy, normally we people have got brown eyes in India and he had blue eyes. And not a word she said was wrong.

完整、完美，非常讨人喜欢，而且——我们印度人通常是棕色眼睛，这孩子却是蓝眼睛。她说的话，一个字都没错。

So mother if she thinks she is a woman only and she is a sex symbol I have got nothing to discuss that, because that's not my subject. But if you feel that she is God creative power and she is blessed with greater responsibility of the divine, she can do what nobody on the earth can do. After all, let us understand one thing. There is a Mr. God the creative power, right? And it creates through what? Prakriti, that's the creation, this creation knows there is a God otherwise what is the fun, who knows where is the God? If there is no creation who knows where is the Creator. So there is a direct link between the Creator and the creation, right?

所以，母亲，如果她认为自己只是个女人，是个性符号，那我就没什么可讨论的，因为那不是我的主题。但如果你觉得她是神的创造力量，她被赋予了更大的神圣责任，那她就能做到世上没人能做到的事。说到底，让我们明白一件事。有一位神先生，是创造的力量，对吧？那它通过什么来创造？原质（Prakriti），那就是创造，这个创造知道有一位神，否则有什么意思呢，谁知道神在哪里？如果没有创造，谁知道创造者在哪里。所以创造者和创造之间有一条直接的链接，对吧？

knows where is the God? If there is no creation who knows where is the Creator. So there is a direct link between the Creator and the creation, right?

谁知道神在哪里？如果没有创造，谁知道创造者在哪里。所以创造者和创造之间有一条直接的链接，对吧？

So therefore the creative power is the woman, the symbol, the moon, the negative power, the image of the God and whatever you call is God, G O D God, as that my computer. Well under normal circumstances it is the creative power and it is the electron and proton, they live on that thermal energy and that thermal energy is God Adi Shakti, the cosmos. It has positive and negative, proton, electron, good, they make the atom, atom makes the molecule, molecule makes the elements and five elements makes the human body.

所以，创造的力量就是女人，是象征，是月亮，是负向的力量，是神的形象，不管你怎么称呼，神，G O D，神，就像我的电脑一样。在正常情况下，它就是创造的力量，它就是电子和质子，它们靠那股热能活着，那股热能就是神，Aad Shakti，宇宙。它有正和负，质子、电子，好，它们构成原子，原子构成分子，分子构成元素，五大元素构成人的身体。

and negative, proton, electron, good, they make the atom, atom makes the molecule, molecule makes the elements and five elements makes the human body.

和负，质子、电子，好，它们构成原子，原子构成分子，分子构成元素，五大元素构成人的身体。

Body is the karma, cause and effect. Your face is your index of mind and your eyes is the index of your soul. Seventy-two thousand nerves ends in your eyes, seventy-two thousand nerves ends in the ninth center in your foot and seventy-two thousand nerves are with your twenty-six vertebrae. If your flesh and bones are taken away from your body completely your nervous system if blown into air can completely make you stand. You can't pinch any part of the body without pinching a nerve. They are so well knit and around your body. Because it is the nerve which carries the message of the pain, moment you pinch signal is here. So what brings the signal, is that pinch?

身体就是业力（Karma），因和果。你的脸是你心智的指标，你的眼睛是你灵魂的指标。你的眼睛里有七万二千条神经末梢，你脚上的第九个中心有七万二千条神经末梢，你的二十六节脊椎上有七万二千条神经。如果把你的血肉和骨头从身体里完全拿走，你的神经系统如果吹散到空中，完全能让你站起来。你掐身体的任何部位，都不可能不掐到神经。它们编织得如此紧密，环绕着你的身体。因为是神经在传递疼痛的信息，你一掐，信号就到了。那么是什么带来了信号，是那一掐吗？

No, that nerve which is there. But there are seventy-two thousand main nerves which control your all mechanism of this body.

不，是那里的那条神经。但有七万二千条主要的神经控制着你这个身体的所有机制。

So we have run into long question hour. Any other question anybody wants to ask? No?

所以我们的提问时间拖得很长了。还有谁想问别的问题吗？没有？

Okay, about this Sat Nam I was asking. We have been explaining all the times to you and today I am to explain to you again.

好，关于这个 Sat Nam，我刚才在问。我们一直给你们解释，今天我要再给你们解释一遍。

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No?

没有？

Okay, about this Sat Nam I was asking. We have been explaining all the times to you and today I am to explain to you again.

好，关于这个 Sat Nam，我刚才在问。我们一直以来都在向你们解释，今天我要再向你们解释一遍。

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YB: Sat Nam, these are two words, Sat and Nam. Sat is truth, truth, Nam is the noun. Name of a person, place or a thing, identity. Whatever is a identity one can be seen, what is the name, person or place, His creation, Sat the Creator. Truth the basic, the fundamental, the ultimate, the absolute. So these are two words, Sat Nam. You identify the Creator with this vibration of the sound. You know you have seen a television you have got here (?). That what they call it?

YB：Sat Nam，这是两个词，Sat 和 Nam。Sat 是真理，真理，Nam 是名词。一个人、一个地方或一个东西的名字，身份。凡是有身份的，就能被看见，名字是什么，人还是地方，祂的造物，Sat 是造物主。真理是根本的、基础的、终极的、绝对的。所以这是两个词，Sat Nam。你用这个声音的振动来认同造物主。你知道，你见过电视机，你这里有（？）。他们管那叫什么？

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YB: Oh remote control. While your Sat Nam is your remote control it will click in you the vibrations of truth and if truth will cleanse you top to bottom you will end up as a spiritual being. We are not chanting Sat Nam because we have been hired by somebody. Don't have that misunderstanding and there is no bar if you want to chant anything else. Go ahead, God bless you.

YB：哦，遥控器。而你的 Sat Nam 就是你的遥控器，它会在你里面咔哒一声打开真理的振动，如果真理把你从上到下清洗干净，你最终就会成为一个灵性存在。我们唱诵 Sat Nam，不是因为我们被谁雇用了。别有这样的误解，如果你想唱诵别的什么，也没有任何限制。去吧，神保佑你。

we have been hired by somebody. Don't have that misunderstanding and there is no bar if you want to chant anything else. Go ahead, God bless you.

我们被谁雇用了。别有这样的误解，如果你想唱诵别的什么，也没有任何限制。去吧，神保佑你。

There is nothing which should be pushed into the throat of anybody. And there is nothing which should be taught because that is the only way. There are million ways as there are million stars. But there is one moon and there is one sun, between the two points there is always one short line but you can draw million lines between the two points. You can reach the destination anywhere you like but the shortest way is agreed to be the absolute. There is one cause which has caused all these causes. And those who will call on the main cause, the God, shall reach Him faster and (?)

没有任何东西应该被硬塞进任何人的喉咙里。也没有任何东西应该被当作唯一的道路来教。道路有百万条，就像星星有百万颗。但只有一个月亮，只有一个太阳，两点之间总有一条最短的线，但你可以在两点之间画出百万条线。你可以从任何你喜欢的地方到达终点，但最短的路被公认为是最绝对的。有一个因，它造成了所有这些因。而那些呼唤那主要之因——神——的人，会更快地到达祂，并且（？）

the absolute. There is one cause which has caused all these causes. And those who will call on the main cause, the God, shall reach Him faster and (?)

最绝对的。有一个因，它造成了所有这些因。而那些呼唤那主要之因——神——的人，会更快地到达祂，并且（？）

That does not mean that you should be guilty and be criminal to condemn any other person, because every other person have got millions of dollars, great agency at their disposal, great organization to preach their way. And you are infinite, innocent and the little ones. You have got the greatest heritage with you that is the truth because you chant Sat Nam, you are Sat Nam and you shall be Sat Nam, right? So don't run into anybody's trouble, let everybody has his own way decently and nicely and help him. Your way is best, go ahead.

这并不意味着你应该心怀愧疚，像罪犯一样去谴责任何其他人，因为其他每个人都有数百万美元、庞大的机构供他们支配、庞大的组织去宣扬他们的道路。而你是无限的、纯真的、小小的那一个。你拥有最伟大的传承，那就是真理，因为你唱诵 Sat Nam，你就是 Sat Nam，你必将成为 Sat Nam，对吧？所以不要去惹任何人的麻烦，让每个人都体面而美好地走自己的路，并且帮助他。你的路是最好的，走下去吧。

If you have really Sat Nam in you, your word shall have that power, that magnetic force that everybody will be convinced by you and if you are a phony, baloney, nobody is going to listen to you. So be practical, be the reality, be the truth then you know hiring a television station and everyday and people will just switch off their television stations, they don't want to talk to you.

如果你里面真的有 Sat Nam，你的话就会有那种力量，那种磁力，每个人都会被你折服；如果你是个骗子、胡扯的人，没人会听你的。所以要实际，要做真实，要做真理，那样你才知道，就算你租下一个电视台天天播，人们也只会关掉他们的电视，他们不想跟你说话。

then you know hiring a television station and everyday and people will just switch off their television stations, they don't want to talk to you.

那样你才知道，就算你租下一个电视台天天播，人们也只会关掉他们的电视，他们不想跟你说话。

The magnetism, the power, the beauty in a person is how truthful, how charming, how godly, how divine, how smiling, how carefree he is. When you weep very few will weep with you, when you are laughing millions will laugh with you. And remember in life everything is possible, isn't the life that matters, it is the courage you bring to it. Have courage, have faith, push your life on the right way, and you will reach the destination. And nobody is a sinner because whatever sin you have committed now it has been computed. Each prana brings the life, goes out, takes away the negativity out of you.

一个人身上的磁力、力量、美，在于他有多真实、多迷人、多敬神、多神圣、多爱笑、多自在。你哭的时候，很少有人陪你哭；你笑的时候，千百万人会陪你笑。记住，人生里一切都有可能，重要的不是生活本身，而是你带给它的勇气。要有勇气，要有信念，把生活推向正确的方向，你就会到达目的地。没有人是罪人，因为你犯下的任何罪，现在都已经被结算了。每一口普拉纳（Prana）带来生命，出去时，把你身上的负能量带走。

a sinner because whatever sin you have committed now it has been computed. Each prana brings the life, goes out, takes away the negativity out of you.

罪人，因为你犯下的任何罪，现在都已经被结算了。每一口普拉纳带来生命，出去时，把你身上的负能量带走。

It is a constant chain of circles like a Persian wheel, the pot goes, fills the water, comes out, throw it, like this the life breath is in a circle, is in a cycle, so it goes on and on and on and on. Whatever in that hour you commit they are computed and they are on your record and when you will be leaving this world a check of balance sheet will be given to you telling you how beautiful you have lived your time. At that time my darling, you will be facing that balance sheet. And you cannot at that time call Ong namo Gurudev namo, when I'll be there present too.

它是一圈接一圈不断的链条，像波斯水车，水桶下去，装满水，上来，倒掉，生命之气就是这样在一个圆圈里，在一个循环里，所以它一圈一圈一圈一圈地转下去。你在那个时辰里做的一切都会被结算，都记在你的账上，等你离开这个世界的时候，会给你一份资产负债表，告诉你这一生过得多美。到那时候，亲爱的，你要面对那份资产负债表。到那时候，你没法再喊 Ong namo Gurudev namo，就算我那时也在场。

And if you can have the power to call Ong namo Gurudev namo at the breathing last of yours then Ong is the ultimate Creator, salutations to Him, who is the teacher of all teachers and you salute him, you will be forgiven. Even a dying man if remembers God at the last minute, He is very merciful, He tears off the front page all together and writes a new life. Yeah.

如果你在你最后一口气时还有力量喊出 Ong namo Gurudev namo，那么 Ong 就是终极的造物主，向祂致敬，祂是所有老师的老师，你向祂致敬，你就会得到宽恕。哪怕是一个将死的人，只要在最后一刻记起神，祂非常慈悲，祂会把前面那一页整个撕掉，写下新的一生。是的。

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man if remembers God at the last minute, He is very merciful, He tears off the front page all together and writes a new life. Yeah.

人，只要在最后一刻记起神，祂非常慈悲，祂会把前面那一页整个撕掉，写下新的一生。是的。

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YB: Gita has answered it. Gita said, "Arjuna, those who even meditate on me and make an effort to come to me and cannot succeed in coming to me I give them another life, give them all the.... "

YB：Gita 已经回答了这个问题。Gita 说：“Arjuna，那些即使冥想我、努力想来到我面前却无法成功来到我面前的人，我会给他们另一世，给他们所有的……”

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I was thinking this morning we should have a teenager's promotion center where the parents who cannot look after the teenagers they should give those teenagers to us. There should be log big ground for ten days we make them dig six by six the pits you know, cool them down little bit. And this sort of practical training and you ask them to plant a tree and then pull it up again and then plant it again somewhere else and do all sorts of funny jobs with them and straighten them out.

今天早上我在想，我们应该办一个青少年改造中心，那些管不了自己孩子的父母，就该把青少年交给我们。应该有一大片场地，用 10 天时间，让他们挖 6 乘 6 的坑，你知道，让他们冷静一点。做这种实战训练，你让他们种一棵树，然后再拔出来，再种到别的地方去，跟他们做各种好玩的事，把他们掰正。

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YB: Oh, you don't know. Raja Bharathri...

YB：哦，你不知道。Raja Bharathri……

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YB: No, no, you don't understand, that's the only way to do it. Listen now I tell you a story.

YB：不，不，你不明白，只有这样才行。听着，我给你讲个故事。

(Students' laughter)

（学生们笑）

YB: You know Raja Bharathri once told his Grand vizier, "I am not going to rule anymore. "

YB：你知道，Raja Bharathri 有一次对他的大维齐尔说：“我不再统治了。”

Grand vizier said, "What is wrong with you? "

大维齐尔说：“你怎么了？”

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YB: You know Raja Bharathri once told his Grand vizier, "I am not going to rule anymore. "

YB：你知道，Raja Bharathri 有一次对他的大维齐尔说：“我不再统治了。”

Grand vizier said, "What is wrong with you? "

大维齐尔说：“你怎么了？”

He said, "The same woman, same queen, same court, same king, same stamp, same everything, same food, everybody yes, yes, yes, now nothing doing. I am fed up, I am going to go into jungle and sit in meditation. "

他说：“同一个女人，同一个王后，同一个朝廷，同一个国王，同一个印章，什么都一样，同样的食物，每个人都说是、是、是，现在什么都不想干了。我受够了，我要去丛林里坐下来冥想。”

He said the king, "People want you to rule and rule. "

国王说：“人们要你统治、统治。”

He said, "Shut up, you started advising me, go to hell. I have told you tomorrow I am going to go. "

他说：“闭嘴，你开始教训我了，滚一边去。我告诉过你，我明天就走。”

He said, "You can't go. You have got a Raj Yogi, call him, get his permission and go, don't bug me anymore. I have to advise you what is in the law of the country. "

他说：“你不能走。你有王瑜伽士（Raj Yogi），叫他来，得到他的许可再走，别再烦我了。我得告诉你国家的法律是怎么规定的。”

He said, "Good, send a fastest messenger to Raj Yogi and bring him. "

他说：“好，派最快的信使去把王瑜伽士请来。”

So the horse riders went and told Raj Yogi in the jungle that raja is going to quit his throne and he is no more going to rule. He said, "Okay, I am going to come. "

于是骑马的人去了，在丛林里告诉王瑜伽士，国王要放弃王位，不再统治了。他说：“好，我来。”

So he came. He said, "What is wrong with you Raja? "

于是他来了。他说：“你怎么了，国王？”

He said, "Well... " same story he repeated.

他说：“嗯……”他又把同样的故事讲了一遍。

He said, "Okay, early in the morning you have to take bath and come down and I'll give you a solution. "

他说：“好，明天一早你沐浴之后下来，我给你一个解决办法。”

He said, "Well... " same story he repeated.

他说：“嗯……”他又把同样的故事讲了一遍。

He said, "Okay, early in the morning you have to take bath and come down and I'll give you a solution. "

他说：“好，明天一早你沐浴之后下来，我给你一个解决办法。”

So in the morning that king went into that tank in the house in his palace and never came back. So the Raj Rishi was sitting nicely. When king came out he came out of a mud pond. And there was a father and son sitting outside with big hunters in their hand, they started giving him left and right. They said, "Twenty minutes before God told us a man is going to come out of this pond and he will be very useful animal. And you have taken so long in this mud, where you were breathing? "

于是早上，那位国王走进他宫殿里那个水池，再也没回来。而那位王瑜伽士（Raj Yogi）好好地坐着。国王出来的时候，是从一个泥塘里出来的。外面坐着一对父子，手里拿着大猎具，他们开始左右开弓地打他。他们说：“二十分钟前，神告诉我们，会有一个人从这个池塘里出来，他会是很有用的牲口。你在那泥里待了这么久，你是在哪儿呼吸的？”

told us a man is going to come out of this pond and he will be very useful animal. And you have taken so long in this mud, where you were breathing? "

告诉我们，会有一个人从这个池塘里出来，他会是很有用的牲口。你在那泥里待了这么久，你是在哪儿呼吸的？”

So they beat him they put him, they had you know that plough, they released their oxen on one side they put him in and put his neck in that and... brought him home. Tied him where the animals were tied and put clutches on his legs so that he may not run away and told him to take out sugarcanes out of the food of the animals and eat. So whole night in that mud that king remained. What a scent there was you know, what a beautiful odor and all that then he remembered that palace and all that fans being done to him, you see comparative study of peace and unpeace, right?

于是他们打他，把他弄过去，你知道他们有那种犁，他们把牛解到一边，把他放进去，把他的脖子卡在里面……把他带回了家。把他拴在拴牲口的地方，给他的腿上戴上镣铐，让他跑不掉，还叫他去从牲口的饲料里把甘蔗挑出来吃。那一整夜，那位国王就待在那泥里。你知道那是什么气味，多么美妙的香气，然后他想起那座宫殿，想起那些给他扇的风，你看，这就是安宁与不安宁的对比，对吧？

And he prayed, "Oh, Raj Yogi, if now you can release me once man I am going to be a beautiful king, and no complaint and nothing of the sort and whatever you want. "

他祈祷说：“哦，王瑜伽士（Raj Yogi），如果你现在能放我一次，我就做一个好国王，没有抱怨，没有那一类的事，你要什么都可以。”

Whole night he meditated and chanted and all that. Early in the morning he said, "I am going to go for a call of nature. "

整夜他冥想、唱诵，做这一切。一大早他说：“我要去解个手。”

He said, "Do it here. "

他们说：“就在这儿解。”

He said, "Well, that is dirty thing. I can't do that, you have to release me for that. "

他说：“嗯，那是脏东西。我不能在这儿做，你得放我出去做这个。”

going to go for a call of nature. "

要去解个手。”

He said, "Do it here. "

他说：“就在这儿解。”

He said, "Well, that is dirty thing. I can't do that, you have to release me for that. "

他说：“嗯，那是脏东西。我不能在这儿做，你得放我出去做这个。”

They released him, and he shhhhh... Never saw back. Went to a city. There he saw ladies coming and taking bath in a tank and all men standing in a line. He said, "What you are doing? "

他们放了他，他就 shhhhh……再也没回头看一眼。他去了一个城市。在那里他看见女人们过来，在一个水池里洗澡，所有男人站成一排。他说：“你们在干什么？”

He said, "Every lady has the right to pick a man for a day here. This is the rule of this town city. So you have to stand in line. So any lady will pick you up, will take you, feed you, do everything, make you sleep next night, early in the morning bug you out and again you come in this line. This is the men for. "

他们说：“在这里，每个女人都有权挑一个男人过一天。这是这座城里的规矩。所以你得站到队里。哪个女人挑中你，就会把你带走，养你，什么都给你做，让你睡一夜，一大早再把你赶出来，你又回到这个队里。男人就是干这个的。”

He stood and one lady had no teeth, old, eighty year, "You come! "

他站着，有个女人一颗牙都没有，老了，八十岁，“你过来！”

And he saw that and he ran into that tank (?) you know and he came out in the palace. And you know Raj Yogi was meditating and he said, "Good, you have come now we should permit... "

他看到那个，就跑进那个水池（？）你知道，然后他从宫殿里出来了。你知道王瑜伽士正在冥想，他说：“好，你来了，现在我们应该允许……”

He said, "No, no, I am not seeking any permission. No permission at all. I am going to stick to the throne, I am going to rule. No problem. "

他说：“不，不，我不求任何允许。什么允许都不要。我要坐上王位，我要统治。没问题。”

He said, "Well, what happened? "

他说：“嗯，怎么了？”

He showed him his back, he said, "Look, those people they beat me, it is still paining. "

他把后背给他看，说：“你看，那些人打我，现在还疼呢。”

to rule. No problem. "

去统治。没问题。

He said, "Well, what happened? "

他说：“嗯，怎么了？”

He showed him his back, he said, "Look, those people they beat me, it is still paining. "

他把后背给他看，说：“你看，那些人打我，现在还疼呢。”

What do you think? In some rich families rich children do not understand what is the responsibility in life, I am talking about those children. Their parents cannot control them, they cannot give them work, they do not know how to sweat. Their parents have got lot of money and they can spend and they have kids and they make all the nutty things, you follow? And parents have got no time to give them love, give them direction, look after them and whole nonsense is happening. So if there is the ashram where these types of kids from the rich people be taken and looked into and given a little hard time, creative practical hard time, they will love to stay and improve themselves.

你怎么想？在一些有钱人家里，有钱的孩子不明白人生中的责任是什么，我说的就是这些孩子。他们的父母管不住他们，没法给他们安排活儿干，他们不知道怎么流汗。他们的父母有很多钱，能花，他们有孩子，孩子就干各种荒唐事，你明白吗？父母又没时间给他们爱、给他们方向、照看他们，乱七八糟的事就全发生了。所以，如果有一个灵修社区，把有钱人家这类孩子带进来，照看他们，给他们一点苦头吃，创造性的、实际的苦头，他们会愿意待下去，提升自己。

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YB: Oh it is most needed to first dig a pit and then fill it with the ground and then dig it again and that makes the muscles and make them sweat. What do you mean needed or not needed? Question is to condition them to hard work. Question is to condition them to hard work. And that is the experiment America needs.

YB：哦，最需要的就是先挖个坑，再用土填上，然后再挖一遍，这样就能练出肌肉，让他们出汗。你说什么需要不需要？问题是要把他们训练得能吃苦。问题是要把他们训练得能吃苦。而这正是美国需要的实验。

or not needed? Question is to condition them to hard work. Question is to condition them to hard work. And that is the experiment America needs.

还是不需要？问题是要把他们训练得能吃苦。问题是要把他们训练得能吃苦。而这正是美国需要的实验。

I had this problem in Toronto. You know that immigration officer, he was very senior officer, he had a trouble with his son. When he will go home they will boo at him. You know, two brothers and one daughter in the house. When the father comes from the work they say hoo, hoo, hoo, three of them together. And he got crazy, he said what to do? You know he told them, "Why you do it? "

我在多伦多就遇到过这个问题。你知道那个移民官，他是很资深的官员，他跟儿子有麻烦。他一回家，他们就会对他喝倒彩。你知道，家里有两个兄弟和一个女儿。父亲下班回来，他们就说呼、呼、呼，三个人一起。他快疯了，他说该怎么办？你知道他问他们：“你们为什么这样？”

They said, "We don't know. When we see you we feel like doing it. "

他们说：“我们也不知道。一看到你，我们就想这样。”

(Students' laughter)

（学生们大笑）

Same thing. He went to psychiatrist, (?) did all sorts of job, never (?) anything. So he became very friendly with me, I said, "You take me along home and we will see what happens. "

同样的事。他去看精神科医生，（？）做了各种事，从来（？）什么。所以他跟我变得很熟，我说：“你带我回家，我们看看会发生什么。”

So we went and then they said, "Hoooo... " and then they looked at me and they became all right...

于是我们去了，然后他们发出「呼……」的声音，接着他们看着我，就没事了……

I said, "Hey, come on, come here, talk to me. What is wrong with you? Why you do hoo, hoo at him? Is he not your father, is he not your dad? What's this nonsense going on? "

我说：「嘿，来，过来，跟我说话。你怎么了？你为什么对他呼呼叫？他不是你父亲吗，他不是你爸爸吗？这是搞什么名堂？」

come here, talk to me. What is wrong with you? Why you do hoo, hoo at him? Is he not your father, is he not your dad? What's this nonsense going on? "

过来，跟我说话。你怎么了？你为什么对他呼呼叫？他不是你父亲吗，他不是你爸爸吗？这是搞什么名堂？」

"He is not our father, he is not our father. He doesn't talk to us when he comes home. He goes in that room and reads books. And reads files. What type of father we have? "

「他不是我们的父亲，他不是我们的父亲。他回家的时候不跟我们说话。他进那个房间看书。看文件。我们这算什么父亲？」

I said, "But I am your Godfather. "

我说：「可我是你们的教父啊。」

They said, "You are Godfather then play with us. "

他们说：「你是教父，那就跟我们玩啊。」

Big children they want to play with father. So much urge man. And I played, they pulled my beard and they did everything to me and we became one and the other and I told him, I said, "Fool play with your children? Come on join with me. You are shy. "

大孩子也想跟父亲玩。人多渴望啊。我就陪他们玩，他们扯我的胡子，对我什么都干，我们打成了一片，然后我跟他说，我说：「傻瓜，跟你的孩子玩玩？来，跟我一起。你害羞。」

They said, "Oh great, God, daddy, daddy, daddy... "

他们说：「哦，太好了，神啊，爸爸，爸爸，爸爸……」

other and I told him, I said, "Fool play with your children? Come on join with me. You are shy. "

打成了一片，然后我跟他说，我说：「傻瓜，跟你的孩子玩玩？来，跟我一起。你害羞。」

They said, "Oh great, God, daddy, daddy, daddy... "

他们说：「哦，太好了，神啊，爸爸，爸爸，爸爸……」

Daddy became all right, children became all right. As a hostility that grew in them so much whenever he will come home in the car they will start doing boo, boo, just to draw the attraction and he will look at them they will be silent. Then they say boo, boo, boo, they got so much fed up that this man is all the time in the files. And I told him, I said, "You get yourself transferred man somewhere, where you should not have so much work, why the hell you are carrying whole government of Canada on your head? "

爸爸好了，孩子们也好了。他们心里积了那么深的敌意，只要他一坐车回家，他们就开始嘘、嘘，就为了引起他的注意，而他一看他们，他们就不出声了。然后他们又嘘、嘘、嘘，他们受够了，这个人整天泡在文件里。我跟他说，我说：「你申请调个岗位吧，调到一个不用干这么多活的地方，你干吗把整个加拿大政府都扛在头上？」

And he realized and he became to manpower technical and he had a time and he will take children out and play with them and his wife one day rang me up, she said, "Yogi, one day come for dinner. "

他明白了，后来他调去做人力技术方面的工作，有了时间，就会带孩子出去跟他们玩，有一天他妻子打电话给我，她说：「Yogi，哪天来吃晚饭吧。」

I said, "What is the problem? "

我说：「出什么问题了？」

And they had lot many people and they introduced them to me you know. And they said, "We never knew this formula what to do. "

他们请了好多人，还把我介绍给他们，你知道。他们说：「我们从来不知道这个法子该怎么办。」

is the problem? "

出什么问题了？」

And they had lot many people and they introduced them to me you know. And they said, "We never knew this formula what to do. "

他们请了好多人，还把我介绍给他们，你知道。他们说：「我们从来不知道这个法子该怎么办。」

What was needed is the children wanted their father. They wanted to roll on him, they wanted to play with him and this fellow all the time uptight as a official will come home, so they didn't like it. And they protested.

需要的就是——孩子们想要他们的父亲。他们想在他身上打滚，想跟他玩，而这位老兄回家时总像个绷得紧紧的官员，所以他们不喜欢。他们就抗议了。

You see sometime there are certain basic needs in the children and they are not fulfilled that causes lot of trouble. And sometime the children become rebellious and they create reaction. And if the reaction is not understood and you force them to do certain things they don't care. It is a very complicated relationship to be parents and it is a very complicated relationship to be a child, you have to be obedient, loving, listening. But today the society is so fast children do not understand their responsibility. The idea behind the whole thing is they are well provided. You go to college, I go to Claremont College, there is no place to park. Everybody is in car.

你看，有时候孩子有一些基本需求没被满足，这会惹出很多麻烦。有时候孩子会变得叛逆，会做出对抗。如果这种对抗不被理解，你还硬逼他们做某些事，他们就根本不在乎。做父母是一种非常复杂的关系，做孩子也是一种非常复杂的关系，你得听话、有爱、会聆听。可今天社会节奏太快，孩子不明白自己的责任。这整件事背后的想法是，他们被供养得很好。你去上大学，我去克莱蒙特学院，根本没地方停车。人人都在开车。

idea behind the whole thing is they are well provided. You go to college, I go to Claremont College, there is no place to park. Everybody is in car.

这整件事背后的想法是，他们被供养得很好。你去上大学，我去克莱蒙特学院，根本没地方停车。人人都在开车。

Barefoot, no shoe and a car to drive. Can you imagine? Because the parents are paying the installments. And the kid has a car he has to run about. But if the kid has to earn and put petrol in the car he knows how much five dollars cost him. Then he knows how the five dollars are earned. And then he knows how to earn five dollars.

光着脚，没鞋穿，却有车开。你能想象吗？因为父母在付分期款。孩子有车就得四处跑。可如果孩子得自己挣钱、自己给车加油，他就知道那五块钱对他意味着什么。然后他就知道那五块钱是怎么挣来的。再然后他就知道怎么去挣五块钱。

You know I ran in Santa Fe in one of the trouble, I told that woman, I said, "You are pregnant, and you are bugging your husband away. "

你知道，我在圣塔菲出过一次麻烦，我跟那个女人说，我说：「你怀孕了，还把你丈夫往外赶。」

She said, "That is the only way to get social welfare. "

她说：「只有这样我才能拿到社会福利。」

What was her name? She was my student here. Whom I got with the (?) in a special car and asked her to come. What was the name of that girl?

她叫什么名字？她以前是我这儿的学生。我用一辆专车把她接来，叫她过来。那女孩叫什么名字？

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Norma. She said, "If I live together with this man I'll not get my social welfare. "

YB：诺玛。她说：「要是我跟这个男人住在一起，我就拿不到社会福利。」

I said, "Ji, social welfare is a very good thing which makes you to throw out your husband? "

我说：「Ji，社会福利是这么好的东西，好到让你把丈夫赶出去？」

with this man I'll not get my social welfare. "

跟这个男人住在一起，我就拿不到社会福利。」

I said, "Ji, social welfare is a very good thing which makes you to throw out your husband? "

我说：「Ji，社会福利是这么好的东西，好到让你把丈夫赶出去？」

There are certain basic wrong concepts in the minds of people which makes them to do certain things without understanding what is the basis of life. Life is a beautiful thing if loved together and lived together. And if you forget that basic concept of the life you run into trouble. And that is what mostly people are doing. I have got so many students, they have got lot many troubles with their children. Because they don't take a permanent firm decision at the proper time, they give a latitude and the child exploits that latitude and that exploitation becomes sometime in habit and that habit grows into a (?) of the personality and then it becomes a psychological problem.

人们心里有一些根本性的错误观念，让他们在做事时并不明白人生的根基是什么。人生是美好的，只要彼此相爱、共同生活。可你要是忘了人生这个根本，就会陷入麻烦。而大多数人正是这样。我有很多学生，他们跟孩子之间麻烦一大堆。因为他们没有在恰当的时候做出永久而坚定的决定，他们给了自由空间，孩子就利用这个空间，这种利用有时变成习惯，习惯又长成人格的一部分，然后就变成心理问题。

Otherwise the greatest love, that is what I wanted to bring to you.

否则，那最伟大的爱，才是我想要带给你们的。

grows into a (?) of the personality and then it becomes a psychological problem.

长成人格的一部分，然后就变成心理问题。

Otherwise the greatest love, that is what I wanted to bring to you.

否则，那最伟大的爱，才是我想要带给你们的。

Greatest love is when you do your duty and you expect the other man also to do his duty. The sign that you are in greatest love towards another person is you fulfill all your responsibility towards the other person. Woman to a man, man to a woman, child to parents, parents to child, man to society, society to man. Government to people, people to government. Duty is the basis of the touchstone of all the love which is in-between the communication. You can't communicate if you are not in love and you can't love if you cannot discharge your duty honestly. Why we lose friends? When we sometime do not discharge our duty's responsibility.

最伟大的爱，就是你尽你的责任，也期待对方尽他的责任。你对另一个人怀有最伟大的爱的标志，就是你对他尽到了你所有的责任。女人对男人，男人对女人，孩子对父母，父母对孩子，人对社会，社会对人。政府对人民，人民对政府。责任是一切爱的试金石的基础，这爱就在彼此的沟通之中。你若不在爱里，就无法沟通；你若不能诚实地尽你的责任，就无法去爱。我们为什么会失去朋友？就是因为有时候我们没有尽到责任。

It is nothing special, it is a permanent law, law of communication, it was never wrong, it shall never be wrong and it is never wrong.

这没什么特别，它是一条永恒的法则，沟通的法则，它从来没错过，将来也永远不会错，它永远都不会错。

is nothing special, it is a permanent law, law of communication, it was never wrong, it shall never be wrong and it is never wrong.

没什么特别，它是一条永恒的法则，沟通的法则，它从来没错过，将来也永远不会错，它永远都不会错。

You analyze your whole life and you will find ultimately one thing is there. Somewhere A is not doing his duty towards B, and B is directly or indirectly is resenting to A. That's all. And it can be anybody. Receiver or the giver. The best part in life is when you go on doing your duty nicely, honestly, smoothly, without any botheration, and you will end up with that higher vibration then everything will be smooth for you than any dent in your life. But first you have to earn self-control.

你分析自己的一生，最终会发现只有一件事。某处 A 没有对 B 尽他的责任，而 B 直接或间接地对 A 心怀不满。就这样。谁都可能是那个 A 或 B。接受的一方，给予的一方，都一样。人生最好的部分，就是你一直好好地、诚实地、顺畅地尽你的责任，没有任何烦扰，最后你会达到更高的振动，那时一切对你都会顺畅，你人生中再没有任何凹陷。但首先你得赢得自制。

We had a example here, Shan, a girl, a student, she brings a little baby, that baby starts putting hand in the mouth, she said, "What to do yogi, what to do? "

我们这里有个例子，Shan，一个女孩，一个学生，她带来一个小宝宝，那宝宝开始把手往嘴里放，她说：“瑜伽士，怎么办，怎么办？”

I watched her for ten days, "Do something, do something. "

我观察了她十天，「做点什么，做点什么。」

I said, "Tie her hands and don't let go loose. "

我说：「把她的手绑起来，别松开。」

said, "What to do yogi, what to do? "

说：「瑜伽士，该怎么办，该怎么办？」

I watched her for ten days, "Do something, do something. "

我观察了她十天，「做点什么，做点什么。」

I said, "Tie her hands and don't let go loose. "

我说：「把她的手绑起来，别松开。」

She did it for three days fourth day the baby forgot to do that again. But she was afraid to do it, she had a great idea that it is injury to her or God knows what is to her. She doesn't understand when she will grow up, teeth come like an animal outside and that will deface the girl. She spent two-fifty dollars to learn how to feed a baby and give her egg and all that, she had a diarrhea terrible. You can't help all these things.

她做了三天，第四天那宝宝又忘了做。但她害怕去做，她有个很大的想法，觉得这会伤到她，或者天知道会把她怎么样。她不明白，等孩子长大了，牙齿像动物一样往外长，那会毁了这女孩的脸。她花了两百五十美元去学怎么喂孩子、给她鸡蛋什么的，结果孩子拉肚子拉得厉害。这些事你帮不上忙。

Some people do not know how to do and what to do. That is why they have to understand they have to grow. That is why you require an elderly man, a wise man to understand the boy who is getting married is a matured boy, does he know what his responsibility in the life, can he take those responsibilities? And the girl who is getting married can she take responsibility of the householder's life. If the third party who sits in judgment agrees then it is a fine idea. But here marriage is the boy camouflage the girl and girl camouflage the boy.

有些人不知道怎么做，也不知道该做什么。所以他们必须明白，他们得成长。所以你需要一位年长的人、一位有智慧的人，来判断这个要结婚的男孩是不是一个成熟的男人，他知不知道自己在人生中的责任，他能不能承担起这些责任？而要结婚的女孩，她能不能承担起居家生活的责任。如果坐在那里评判的第三方同意，那才是个好主意。但在这里，婚姻是男孩伪装女孩，女孩伪装男孩。

If the third party who sits in judgment agrees then it is a fine idea. But here marriage is the boy camouflage the girl and girl camouflage the boy.

如果坐在那里评判的第三方同意，那才是个好主意。但在这里，婚姻是男孩伪装女孩，女孩伪装男孩。

She puts a wig, all sorts of dressing, pressing, all sorts of different clothes, all sorts of things, date the boy, they go into the restaurant, they say hello honey, hello honey, hello honey and all that program and you know after sometime when they go to Las Vegas get married and get up next morning he finds that she has got no hair at all.

她戴上假发，各种打扮、熨烫，各种不同的衣服，各种东西，跟男孩约会，他们进餐厅，说亲爱的你好，亲爱的你好，亲爱的你好，还有那一整套节目，你知道过一阵子他们去拉斯维加斯结婚，第二天早上起来他发现她一根头发都没有。

(Students' laughter)

（学生们大笑）

You know such sort of things.

你知道这类事情。

I had a trouble in Canada, I was a teacher to one lady and one thing something happened and I rushed to her house in the morning. And she told the maidservant to put a curtain in-between us and she will talk that side and I'll talk that side. Well, however I was to tell her certain things I did communicate and I ran out. But later on when she came to ashram, I just asked her, I said, "What type of this thing reception was that... after all I went there as your teacher. "

我在加拿大遇到过一件麻烦事，我是一位女士的老师，出了点什么事，我早上赶到她家。她让女仆在我们中间挂上帘子，她在那一边说话，我在这一边说话。好吧，不管怎样，我要告诉她一些事情，我确实传达了，然后就跑了出去。但后来她来到灵修社区，我就问她，我说：「那算什么样的接待……毕竟我是作为你的老师去的。」

She said, "Yogi, I'll will not get together. "

她说：「瑜伽士，我不会凑到一起的。」

Something, I don't know what is that. So she said, "Your assistant, (?) she will explain to you. "

什么东西，我不知道那是什么。所以她说：「你的助手，（？）她会向你解释。」

"

」

She said, "Yogi, I'll will not get together. "

她说：「瑜伽士，我不会凑到一起的。」

Something, I don't know what is that. So she said, "Your assistant, (?) she will explain to you. "

有件事，我不知道那是什么。所以她说：“你的助手，（？）她会跟你解释的。”

And then later on when the whole class was over, I said, "Hey, you know what was that? She said something and went away and... "

后来等整堂课结束，我说：“嘿，你知道那是怎么回事吗？她说了些什么就走了，然后……”

She said, "No, now she is without eyelashes, eyebrows and hairs and all thing, you must have gone in the morning so she never wanted to come to you like that thing, so she saved that situation. "

她说：“不，现在她没了睫毛、眉毛、头发，什么都没了。你肯定是早上来的，所以她根本不想那样来见你，所以她把那个场面避开了。”

And that's why in the western world you should not think that what you see them in the evening, in the morning they are the same. And always give them a telephone and go. I said, "Ji, she was in a terrible trouble and I did all what I did. "

所以这就是为什么在西方世界，你不该以为你晚上见到的他们，早上还是同一个样子。永远先给他们打个电话再去。我说：“Ji，她当时麻烦大了，我做了我能做的一切。”

She said, "Yeah, Indians are like that. "

她说：“是啊，印度人就是这样。”

And that is all she told me.

她跟我说的就这些。

go. I said, "Ji, she was in a terrible trouble and I did all what I did. "

再去。我说：“Ji，她当时麻烦大了，我做了我能做的一切。”

She said, "Yeah, Indians are like that. "

她说：“是啊，印度人就是这样。”

And that is all she told me.

她跟我说的就这些。

So anyway basic life and concept is not going to change and there is no hurry, time is taking its way, people are growing, they are realizing what the real values are, and what the other values are and they are making a change or a drift towards the real values. And gradually and gradually and slowly west has seen the material world first, now they are going to go through the spiritual world and they will grow and reach the destination, because the people of this hemisphere once they realize something they always reach it. They realized comforts can be had from machine and material world, they did their utmost, they have reached moon. What else?

总之，基本的生活和观念不会改变，也不用急，时间自有它的走法，人们在成长，他们在认清什么是真正的价值，什么是别的价值，他们正在改变，或者正在朝真正的价值漂移。渐渐地、渐渐地、慢慢地，西方先看到了物质世界，现在他们要走过灵性世界，他们会成长，会到达目的地，因为这个半球的人一旦认清什么，就总会到达那里。他们认清了舒适可以从机器和物质世界得到，他们尽了最大的力，他们上了月球。还有什么？

they always reach it. They realized comforts can be had from machine and material world, they did their utmost, they have reached moon. What else?

他们总会到达那里。他们认清了舒适可以从机器和物质世界得到，他们尽了最大的力，他们上了月球。还有什么？

Now they have realized this is not all, we are going to bug moon, moon rays are going to be scattered, things will not grow on earth and everything will be famine and chaos. They are very conditional now. They are not going to build houses on moon it was just eagerness to go there. They can't mess up with, there is a very strong warning, because moon rays are responsible for the development of everything in the earth and they can't afford anything going wrong. Therefore they have got their own condition.

现在他们认清了，这还不是全部，我们要去搅扰月球，月光会被打散，地上的东西长不起来，一切都会变成饥荒和混乱。他们现在非常讲条件。他们不会在月球上盖房子，那只是一时想去的热切。他们不能乱来，有一个非常强烈的警告，因为月光是地球上万物生长的原因，他们承受不起任何出错。所以他们有自己的条件。

So today is a beautiful day, that is Saturday, day of Saturn, day of great teacher.

所以今天是美好的一天，是星期六，土星的日子，伟大老师的日子。

Sit on your heels, let us not forget it. Chant mentally, apply Moolbandh, Sat Nam, mentally within your own self Sat Nam, Sat Nam, and rectum and the sex organ are to be pulled together right under the navel point when you say Sat Nam, Sat Nam, Sat Nam, and mentally, the chant should be within your heart and concentrate at navel point. Heat will start flowing up and up through the spine if you will keep up the rhythm.

坐在你的脚跟上，我们别忘了这一点。在心里唱诵，用上根锁（Moolbandh），Sat Nam，在你自己的内在心里念 Sat Nam，Sat Nam，当你说 Sat Nam，Sat Nam，Sat Nam 的时候，肛门和性器官要一起向上提，正好提到丹田（Navel Point）下方，而在心里，唱诵应该在心中进行，并专注在丹田。只要你保持这个节奏，热力就会沿着脊柱一路向上流。

chant should be within your heart and concentrate at navel point. Heat will start flowing up and up through the spine if you will keep up the rhythm.

唱诵应该在心中进行，并专注在丹田。只要你保持这个节奏，热力就会沿着脊柱一路向上流。

Inhale, now circulate this energy along with the spinal column up. Work on your twenty-sixth vertebra, straight up, pull it up. Exhale. Ladies lead.

吸气，现在让这股能量沿着脊柱向上循环。作用在你的第 26 节椎骨上，笔直向上，把它提起来。呼气。女士们带头。

The class chants: Ek ong kar Sat Nam, Siri Wahe Guru Ji...

全班唱诵：Ek ong kar Sat Nam，Siri Wahe Guru, Whaa‑hay Guroo Ji……

YB: (Over chant) together.

YB：（在唱诵声中）一起。

(Chanting stops.)

（唱诵停止。）

YB: Saturn is the star with a blue circles around it, indicating, it teaches sincerity, self-improvement and self-study. The very idea of holidays from the time immemorial were that man may have time away from the worldly affair and may work on his self. Discuss about spirituality, discuss about his being and discuss about his understanding. These are the powerful days Saturday and Sunday, when the sun is at its best and with the Saturn is at the (?). Fortunate are those who unite themselves for sometime with their creative force, with their originality, with their truth for understanding love and promotion of their self.

YB：土星是周围带着蓝色圆圈的星，它表明，它教导真诚、自我提升和自我学习。自古以来，节假日的本意就是让人有时间离开世俗事务，去下功夫在自己身上。讨论灵性，讨论自己的存在，讨论自己的理解。星期六和星期天就是这样的强大日子，那时太阳处在最佳状态，而土星处在（？）。有福的是那些把自己与自己的创造力、自己的本初、自己的真实结合一段时间的人，为的是理解爱并提升自己。

The class sings: "May the long time sun shine upon you... "

全班唱道：“永恒的阳光照耀着你……”

YB: Thank you very much for this beautiful vibration, for love and devotion.

YB：非常感谢这美好的振动，感谢这份爱与奉献。

their self.

自己。

The class sings: "May the long time sun shine upon you... "

全班唱道：“永恒的阳光照耀着你……”

YB: Thank you very much for this beautiful vibration, for love and devotion.

YB：非常感谢这美好的振动，感谢这份爱与奉献。

Jim, are you going to go today?

Jim，你今天要去吗？

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Yeah. That is one point where you should and you must explain why did you (?). I got my dues back but I sent it back because somehow in the back they had put a scratch which was very bad and I don't want to take the responsibility, why should (?). So it will be all right. Perfect.

YB：对。这就是一点，你应该而且必须解释你为什么（？）。我拿回了我的东西，但我又把它寄回去了，因为不知怎么的，他们后面弄出了一道划痕，很糟糕，我不想承担这个责任，为什么要（？）。所以会没事的。完美。

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Yeah, he is not going to go Europe and he will be back and (?).

YB：对，他不去欧洲了，他会回来，（？）。

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Well, that is fine, that can happen. Berry told me, Berry came last night to me.

YB：嗯，那没关系，那可能发生。Berry 告诉我，Berry 昨晚来找我。

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: Pamela, we have to go home.

YB：Pamela，我们得回家了。

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

YB: I think when we call (?) it will be soon. He wants us to...

YB：我想我们一打电话（？），很快就会到。他想让我们……

Student: (------)

学生：（------）

(Students' conversation.)

（学生们的交谈。）