洛杉矶讲座

Don't tell me, I know more than what you know, but that's the way it is folks, dead wood will burn itself.

别跟我说，我知道的比你多，但事情就是这样，各位，枯木会自己烧掉。

it is happening. I know lot of things.

它正在发生。我知道的事情多了。

Don't tell me, I know more than what you know, but that's the way it is folks, dead wood will burn itself.

别跟我说，我知道的比你多，但事情就是这样，各位，枯木会自己烧掉。

We are going to create people of character people of grace, people who are open and honest. 3HO doesn't belong to dishonest egomaniac neurotics. 3HO is not to run a political campaign that we have to have a 3HO president in west, white house in 1984. 3HO churches are not getting sold, that we need membership to keep money going. 3HO Belongs to hardworking honest people who wants to do a job in their own life to experience who they are. 3HO is a family of people who believe to be healthy, happy and holy. Therefore there should be no misunderstanding who 3HO is. 3HO does not need any counseling, 3HO is a counselor. Open up any manual, open up any lecture, open up every example.

我们要造就的是有品格的人、有优雅的人、开放而诚实的人。3HO 不属于不诚实的自大狂和神经病。3HO 不是要搞一场政治运动，非得在 1984 年让西部有个 3HO 总统、进白宫。3HO 的教堂不会拿去卖，好靠会员费维持钱路。3HO 属于那些勤奋诚实、想在自己的生命里做一番事、去体验自己是谁的人。3HO 是一个相信要健康、快乐、神圣的家庭。所以，关于 3HO 是谁，不该有任何误解。3HO 不需要任何心理咨询，3HO 就是咨询师。翻开任何一本手册，翻开任何一堂课，翻开每一个例子。

All these people in 3HO who have marriage problems are only those who do not talk because their mother didn't talk, or their father didn't talk. There is no marriage which will not have a problem and there is no problem which cannot be solved.

3HO 里所有有婚姻问题的人，都是那些不沟通的人，因为他们的母亲不沟通，或者他们的父亲不沟通。没有哪段婚姻不会有问题，也没有哪个问题解决不了。

mother didn't talk, or their father didn't talk. There is no marriage which will not have a problem and there is no problem which cannot be solved.

母亲不沟通，或者他们的父亲不沟通。没有哪段婚姻不会有问题，也没有哪个问题解决不了。

There is one way only to solve problem, it must be justifiable in the name of justice and truth. Emotions, commotions, desires, directions, wants, needs will never solve your problem. You can hire and you can go in group therapies, you can swap your wife, you can exchange the keys, you can prostitute you can do anything. (?) two hundred and twenty million Americans are doing we are not concerned with them, God bless them, we love them. 3HO cannot allow wife swap. 3HO will not allow underhand, undercover prostitution. 3HO in France is very graceful.

解决问题只有一条路，它必须在正义与真理的名义下站得住脚。情绪、骚动、欲望、方向、想要、需要，永远解决不了你的问题。你可以雇人，你可以去参加团体治疗，你可以交换妻子，你可以交换钥匙，你可以去卖淫，你什么都可以做。（？）两亿两千万美国人正在这么做，我们不关心他们，神保佑他们，我们爱他们。3HO 不允许交换妻子。3HO 不允许暗中、隐蔽的卖淫。3HO 在法国非常优雅。

In 3HO husband doesn't go to work and at 11 o'clock a man comes who can have an intercourse and who can cook his meals like that French new system of accelerating one's salary and understanding how to meet inflation. 3HO is not that category of people. We are either honest, or we have every intention to be honest.

在 3HO，丈夫不去上班，到了 11 点来一个男人，他可以行房，还可以做饭，就像法国那套新制度，加速你的薪水，懂得怎么应付通货膨胀。3HO 不是那一类人。我们要么诚实，要么就有十足的诚意要诚实。

salary and understanding how to meet inflation. 3HO is not that category of people. We are either honest, or we have every intention to be honest.

薪水，懂得怎么应付通货膨胀。3HO 不是那一类人。我们要么诚实，要么就有十足的诚意要诚实。

Some people must understand that when you do Kundalini yoga between four year to eleven year you are hit by Shakti Pad when you are hit by Shakti Pad, your most worst, negative, neurotic situation, and personality like a garbage come out on the surface and it's very painful and it's very negative and one has to go through it. That is told to every person when he joins 3HO. Did we ever lie to you? We always say between third, fourth year you will have Shakti Pad, you will only become real 3HO when you will go through Shakti Pad. And when somebody is in Shakti Pad we say, look boy, look girl we can't help you, you have to go through it by yourself.

有些人必须明白，当你练昆达里尼瑜伽，在第 4 年到第 11 年之间，你会撞上 Shakti Pad，当你撞上 Shakti Pad，你最糟糕、最负面、最神经质的状态和人格，像垃圾一样浮到表面，它非常痛苦，非常负面，人必须穿过它。每个加入 3HO 的人都会被告知这一点。我们什么时候骗过你？我们总是说，第 3、第 4 年之间你会遇到 Shakti Pad，只有穿过 Shakti Pad，你才会成为真正的 3HO。当有人在 Shakti Pad 里，我们就说，喂，小子，喂，姑娘，我们帮不了你，你得自己穿过去。

That's the only thing which is wrong in Kundalini yoga, it's a way to God, it's a shortest way to God, it is most perfect, most valuable, most beautiful, but you cannot go and seduce and screw anybody you like in 3HO.

这是昆达里尼瑜伽唯一不好的地方，它是一条通往神的路，它是通往神最短的路，它最完美、最宝贵、最美丽，但在 3HO 里，你不能去勾引、去搞任何你喜欢的人。

to God, it's a shortest way to God, it is most perfect, most valuable, most beautiful, but you cannot go and seduce and screw anybody you like in 3HO.

通往神，它是通往神最短的路，它最完美、最宝贵、最美丽，但在 3HO 里，你不能去勾引、去搞任何你喜欢的人。

We'll prefer to have one member and I am repeating it today right in your presence, we'll prefer to have one 3HO member and leave everybody out of our orbit if we cannot keep the values. Some people are trying to exploit the situation because they are physically very weak, they are animals and their sexual and sexual and sensual habits are not under their control, some husbands are bananas, some wives are bitches, itches and they do all those weird things and some people think we are a trash pad of sexuality, sensuality drugs and anything else. These misunderstanding should not exist with all the members known and unknown.

我们宁愿只留一个成员，今天我在你们面前再重复一遍，如果我们守不住这些价值，我们宁愿只留一个 3HO 成员，把其他所有人都请出我们的轨道。有些人因为身体非常虚弱，就想趁机钻空子，他们是畜生，他们的性习惯和感官习惯根本不受自己控制；有些丈夫是香蕉，有些妻子是婊子、贱货，她们干尽那些怪事；还有些人以为我们这里是性、感官刺激和毒品的垃圾场，什么都往这儿倒。这些误解，不管成员是认识的还是不认识的，都不该存在。

3HO will keep its record clean, 3HO is a race of people who believe in truth, in guidance, in God and they want to experience God. It can be a family of only five people.

3HO 会保持自己的记录干净，3HO 是一个信真理、信指引、信神的族群，他们想要体验神。它甚至可以只是一个只有五个人的家庭。

We came to 3HO to change America, we came to work hard, we sweated sixteen eighteen hours because we loved honesty. And a man who does not love honesty and cannot sacrifice for honesty does not belong to be a man and it includes woman.

我们来到 3HO 是为了改变美国，我们来是为了拼命干活，我们流了十六、十八个小时的汗，因为我们热爱诚实。一个不爱诚实、不能为诚实牺牲的人，不配做一个人，这话对女人也一样。

because we loved honesty. And a man who does not love honesty and cannot sacrifice for honesty does not belong to be a man and it includes woman.

因为我们热爱诚实。一个不爱诚实、不能为诚实牺牲的人，不配做一个人，这话对女人也一样。

How can neurotic cure you from your neurosis? Once I went to lecture a club and I was supposed to speak forty-five minutes, subject became very interested so the president asked me to continue, so I continued. Two, three ladies came after the break, I was to continue on their request, two, three ladies came they said, "We are very sorry, we had a psychiatric appointment. " It's a kind of a prestige egomaniac situation that you have a psychiatric appointment. 3HO deals in divine healing, in mind control, in mind direction, in self efficiency and in applied consciousness and in applied intelligence.

一个神经质的人怎么能治好你的神经症？有一次我去一个俱乐部讲课，本来安排我讲 45 分钟，听众越听越有兴趣，主席就请我继续讲，我就继续讲。休息之后有两三位女士回来，我本来要按她们的要求接着讲，那两三位女士来了，她们说：「非常抱歉，我们约了精神科医生。」约了精神科医生，这是一种自以为了不起的虚荣心态。3HO 做的是神圣的疗愈，是心智的控制，是心智的引导，是自我的效率，是应用意识，是应用智力。

People in 3HO who want to go to the psychiatrist to talk against their husband can buy a hundred dollar of tape recorder, tape it, say any garbage and then erase it. And if they cannot stop they have to pee their neurosis and for that why to pay forty to sixty dollars an hour?

3HO 里那些想去找精神科医生说自己丈夫坏话的人，可以花一百美元买台录音机，把那些垃圾话录下来，然后擦掉。如果她们停不下来，那就得把自己的神经症尿出去，何必为此每小时付四十到六十美元？

If you are very negative you can walk two blocks, you will become positive.

如果你非常负面，你走两个街区，就会变得正面。

their neurosis and for that why to pay forty to sixty dollars an hour?

她们的神经症，何必为此每小时付四十到六十美元？

If you are very negative you can walk two blocks, you will become positive.

如果你非常负面，你走两个街区，就会变得正面。

There is a fundamental and basic problem which I want to analyze, the men in 3HO are trying to establish their identity, to establish their home and establish their capacity to pay the bills and so the women, and sometime both partners are working and there is not enough time and it is not something which is happening in 3HO, it is happening all over about United States of America. All young people have to go to what they call identity crisis. And that is as a spiritual person or a spiritual group of body of people, or body of people who believe to be healthy, happy, and holy, 3HO has a responsibility. And the main responsibility is we will not let our waters be polluted.

有一个根本而基本的问题，我想分析一下：3HO 里的男人正试图确立自己的身份，建立自己的家，建立自己付账单的能力，女人也一样，有时伴侣双方都在工作，时间不够用，而这不是 3HO 里才发生的事，它发生在整个美利坚合众国。所有年轻人都得经历他们所谓的身份危机。而作为一个灵性的人，或一个灵性的群体、一群人，或一群相信要健康、快乐、神圣的人，3HO 有一份责任。而主要的责任就是：我们不会让自己的水被污染。

We'll keep our strength clean, our commitment graceful and we'll keep on doing what we are doing. We have a romance with God, we are very romantic with earth, we are very romantic with nature, we are very usually unusual people who absolutely want to live our life happily and happiness cannot come without honesty.

我们会保持自己的力量纯净，让自己的承诺优雅，并继续做我们正在做的事。我们和神有一段浪漫，我们和大地非常浪漫，我们和大自然非常浪漫，我们通常是很不寻常的人，一心想要快乐地过自己的生活，而快乐离不开诚实。

very romantic with nature, we are very usually unusual people who absolutely want to live our life happily and happiness cannot come without honesty.

和大自然非常浪漫，我们通常是很不寻常的人，一心想要快乐地过自己的生活，而快乐离不开诚实。

Some of the things, some of the people are taking advantage and they are taking a very bad advantage of their happiness, they are going to make themselves miserable and I'll like to tell them today there is no solution on the other side of the hill. You cannot feel good by feeling good only, you have to be real good to feel good and be good.

有些事情，有些人正在占便宜，他们在非常恶劣地利用自己的快乐，他们要把自己弄得痛苦不堪，今天我想告诉他们：山的那一边没有解决办法。你不能只靠感觉好就觉得好，你必须真正地好，才能感觉好、做得好。

By drinking six martinis at night the problems are not going to get high, you are going to get high. By sneaking and doing an extra curricular activity into the sensual and sexual life you are going to ruin your character. You are going to ruin your marriage. You are going to ruin your image. Nobody else will ever suffer for a wrong action of another person.

晚上喝六杯马提尼，问题不会变高，变高的是你。偷偷摸摸地在感官和性生活里搞些额外活动，你会毁掉自己的品格。你会毁掉自己的婚姻。你会毁掉自己的形象。没有人会为另一个人的错误行为而受苦。

character. You are going to ruin your marriage. You are going to ruin your image. Nobody else will ever suffer for a wrong action of another person.

品格。你会毁掉自己的婚姻。你会毁掉自己的形象。没有人会为另一个人的错误行为而受苦。

I have counseled for eleven years and to be very truthfully I like to tell you what kind of people need counseling. People whose child is unloved, people whose mind is childish but their age is more. People who have been raped, or people who have been sexually abused by those people where they were not supposed to. And because these eighteen kinds of people are those who need counseling exist in America and eighty percent of the Americans belongs to those eighteen categories, therefore everybody need counseling.

我做了十一年的咨询，说实话，我很想告诉你什么样的人需要咨询。孩子没人疼爱的人，心智还像小孩但年纪已经不小的人。被强暴过的人，或者被那些本不该碰他们的人性侵过的人。因为这十八类人就是在美国需要咨询的人，而百分之八十的美国人属于这十八类，所以每个人都需要咨询。

The best counseling is a person should tape record himself, talk all the negativity then analyze it and then find a substitute for the negativity and it is confrontation within one self so nobody name that Jesus said, "When you want to meditate on God, be in the closet. "

最好的咨询是，一个人应该把自己录下来，把所有的负面情绪都说出来，然后分析它，再为这负面情绪找到一个替代品，这是自己内在的对峙，所以没有人会点名说耶稣讲过：「当你想冥想神的时候，就进到内室里。」

for the negativity and it is confrontation within one self so nobody name that Jesus said, "When you want to meditate on God, be in the closet. "

为这负面情绪，这是自己内在的对峙，所以没有人会点名说耶稣讲过：「当你想冥想神的时候，就进到内室里。」

Don't tell somebody that you have been raped by thirty people, and don't try to be a groupie and measure their private organs in public, it will only establish your prostitution and you will be number one prostitute and nobody will give you a social respect, nobody will give you grace and America is not yet ready for the life which it is living. America may be living a garbage life, but still its standard values are honest, puritarian and graceful.

不要告诉别人你被三十个人强暴过，也不要试着当个追星族，在公开场合去量他们的私处，那只会坐实你的卖淫，你会成为头号妓女，没有人会给你社会尊重，没有人会给你优雅，而美国还没有准备好接受它正在过的这种生活。美国也许过着垃圾般的生活，但它的标准价值观仍然是诚实的、清教徒式的、有优雅的。

We have come to live a life of a graceful healthy spiritual nation. Therefore we are competent to solve our problems. Some people gave up they do not have strength. They should know they don't have strength and they should build up the strength. With divorces, with running away, with doing everything, problems don't get solved.

我们来，是要活出一个优雅、健康、有灵性的民族的生活。因此我们有能力解决自己的问题。有些人放弃了，他们没有力量。他们应该知道自己没有力量，他们应该把力量建立起来。靠离婚、靠逃跑、靠做各种事，问题是解决不了的。

It is very surprising one woman after seven years left her daughter and just slipped away. We found her after two years. Now she wants to train her daughter, she went to the court and judge said, "Where were you for two years? "

很令人惊讶，一个女人过了七年，丢下女儿就悄悄溜走了。我们两年后找到了她。现在她想训练她的女儿，她去了法庭，法官说：「这两年你在哪里？」

She said, "I don't know. "

她说：「我不知道。」

two years. Now she wants to train her daughter, she went to the court and judge said, "Where were you for two years? "

两年。现在她想训练她的女儿，她去了法庭，法官说：「这两年你在哪里？」

She said, "I don't know. "

她说：「我不知道。」

He said, "Then better you don't know ever, out. "

他说：「那你最好永远都不知道，出去。」

I am trying to tell you that only one thing you can do in this world which will forgive you for all the past that don't leave for your children a neurotic word. We can change the channels and we can change the life and we can really become what we really want to be.

我想告诉你的是，在这个世界上你只能做一件事，它会宽恕你过去的一切——那就是别给你的孩子留下一句神经质的话。我们可以换频道，我们可以改变生活，我们真的可以成为我们真正想成为的样子。

I read a report there was a conference in Alhambra where all the psychiatrist came and the main problem was that, that all the psychiatrist will not pull up their own character, the profession itself is, have no future. But basically, if husband and wife cannot sit and talk with each other honestly no psychiatrist or psychologist or minister or counselor can make them talk honestly. It is lack of honesty in relationship which is causing the irritation and it's causing the fight.

我读到一份报告，说在阿罕布拉有一场会议，所有精神科医生都来了，主要问题是，所有精神科医生都不愿提起自己的品格，这个职业本身就没有未来。但根本上，如果丈夫和妻子不能坐下来诚实地交谈，那么任何精神科医生、心理学家、牧师或咨询师都无法让他们诚实交谈。正是关系中缺乏诚实，才造成了恼怒，才造成了争吵。

minister or counselor can make them talk honestly. It is lack of honesty in relationship which is causing the irritation and it's causing the fight.

牧师或咨询师都无法让他们诚实交谈。正是关系中缺乏诚实，才造成了恼怒，才造成了争吵。

A man does not suffer with anything else but dishonesty. Hallucination and mental projection which is not practical or realistic is a dishonest existence. I was analyzing that day the wife of one of my beautiful son and I told her, I said, "You don't want to be remain married? "

人不会因别的什么而受苦，只会因不诚实而受苦。不切实际或不现实的幻觉和心理投射，就是一种不诚实的存在。那天我在分析我一位好儿子的妻子，我告诉她，我说：「你不想继续这段婚姻了？」

She said, "No, I want to be remain married? "

她说：「不，我想继续这段婚姻？」

I said, "No, you don't want to remain married. "

我说：「不，你不想继续这段婚姻。」

She said, "How you know, may be subconsciously? "

她说：「你怎么知道，也许是潜意识里？」

I said, "Yeah, your image of marriage is that you should have 450SL Mercedes car, you should have a house with a acre of backyard and acre of a front, it should be three to six bedroom house and you need a Mexican maid. "

我说：「是啊，你对婚姻的想象是，你应该有一辆 450SL 奔驰车，你应该有一栋后院一英亩、前院一英亩的房子，应该是三到六间卧室的房子，你还需要一个墨西哥女佣。」

She said, "Sir, how you know, this is my childhood imagination. "

她说：「先生，你怎么知道，这是我童年的想象。」

of a front, it should be three to six bedroom house and you need a Mexican maid. "

前院一英亩，应该是三到六间卧室的房子，你还需要一个墨西哥女佣。

She said, "Sir, how you know, this is my childhood imagination. "

她说：「先生，你怎么知道，这是我童年的想象。」

I said, "That kind of marriage cost about a man should be earning about half a million to million dollar, with all taxes and investment he can afford three hundred thousand dollars and this is the estimate you little girl who cannot type fifteen words who have never written one correct sentence and who spoke with me English which has no verb and that is your imagination. "

我说：「那种婚姻的代价，大约是一个男人应该赚五十万到一百万美元，加上各种税和投资，他能负担三十万美元，这就是你的估算，你这个小姑娘，连十五个词都打不出来，从没写过一个正确的句子，跟我说的英语没有动词，而这就是你的想象。」

Now how that marriage can work? There is a classic gross inverted perversion in subconscious. I just calculated in figures, now these kind of situations which you have you should better talk with your husband get it out, plan it out, say it out, get it out, don't let them grind you. Counseling cannot be honest, you go and get counseled the other husband's spouse is not getting counseled what does he know? Marriage has to be lived by two, not one. Therefore it is better to apply Bhajanism to you, poke, provoke, confront.

那这样的婚姻怎么可能行得通？潜意识里有一种典型的、粗重的、颠倒的变态。我只是用数字算了一下，现在你有的这类情况，你最好跟你的丈夫谈，把它说出来，计划出来，讲出来，把它弄出来，别让它们磨你。咨询不可能是诚实的，你去接受咨询，另一个丈夫的配偶没有接受咨询，他知道什么？婚姻必须由两个人来活，不是一个人。因此，最好把 Bhajanism 用在你身上，戳一戳，激一激，对质。

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does he know? Marriage has to be lived by two, not one. Therefore it is better to apply Bhajanism to you, poke, provoke, confront.

他知道吗？婚姻必须由两个人来活，不是一个人。所以，最好把 Bhajan 主义用在你身上，戳你、激你、直面你。

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学生：（-------）

YB: Elevate and that's it. Put the honesty right on the table. Just say what you want, just say him to what he wants, just she say what he want let it be there. I have seen enough, I have seen people taking vows and I have seen people wearing Damalas and I have seen people wear rings and bracelets and what not and I have seen people meditating, I have seen people doing hours of yoga and I have seen people falling apart. What keeps people together is a continuous search for honesty. It's a continuous urge to seek honesty. Without honesty we do not have any hope and people who are not honest in their communication shall never be happy come what may.

YB：提升，就这样。把诚实直接摆到桌面上。就说你想要什么，就让他说他想要什么，就让她说她想要什么，让它摆在那里。我看得够多了，我见过人们发誓，我见过人们戴 Damalas，我见过人们戴戒指、手镯，还有各种东西，我见过人们冥想，我见过人们做几个小时的瑜伽，我也见过人们分崩离析。让人们在一起的是对诚实持续不断的追寻。它是一种持续渴望寻求诚实的冲动。没有诚实，我们就没有任何希望，而在沟通中不诚实的人，无论发生什么，都永远不会快乐。

And those who will not learn the art of happiness will not be healthy, because unhappiness will test the health. And unhealthy person will never be holy because he can't meditate. So we are fighting a very vicious circle.

而那些不肯学会快乐这门艺术的人，就不会健康，因为不快乐会考验健康。而不健康的人永远不会神圣，因为他无法冥想。所以我们是在对抗一个非常恶性的循环。

because unhappiness will test the health. And unhealthy person will never be holy because he can't meditate. So we are fighting a very vicious circle.

因为不快乐会考验健康。而不健康的人永远不会神圣，因为他无法冥想。所以我们是在对抗一个非常恶性的循环。

Therefore my intention to talk to you these days is get into a habit now, counsel each other, because in mathematics say while checking you cannot check your own mistake ask somebody to look into your books. In your own mind you cannot find your own neurosis, let somebody look at your neurosis and that will do a favor to each other, save money and feed each other, take anybody out to a dinner and that shall be a kind of a social payment rather than asking somebody to advise you where you go again, again and again.

所以这些天我想跟你们谈的，就是现在养成一个习惯，彼此辅导，因为在数学里说，检查的时候你无法检查自己的错误，要请别人看你的账本。在你自己的心智里，你找不到自己的神经症，让别人看看你的神经症，那就会彼此帮上忙，省下钱，互相供养，带任何人出去吃顿饭，那会是一种社交性的支付，而不是请某个人给你建议，然后你一次又一次地去找他。

Make God, Guru and your spirit as your teacher, make truth, honesty and righteousness as your counsel. Make your life worth the truth so that you can live healthy, happy and holy.

把神、古茹和你自己的灵性当作你的老师，把真理、诚实和正直当作你的顾问。让你的生命配得上真理，这样你就能活得健康、快乐、神圣。

People who listen to slander, people who slander, people who gossip are shallow people, counseling should be of a higher quality. Counseling is to the mind towards the end of God Infinity and soul. Counseling cannot be to tell you to do wrong things.

听信诽谤的人、诽谤别人的人、说闲话的人，都是肤浅的人，辅导应该有更高的品质。辅导是把心智引向神之无限和灵魂的终点。辅导不可能是告诉你去做错事。

be of a higher quality. Counseling is to the mind towards the end of God Infinity and soul. Counseling cannot be to tell you to do wrong things.

要有更高的品质。辅导是把心智引向神之无限和灵魂的终点。辅导不可能是告诉你去做错事。

I give you an example of a counseling. "This is a counseling of a 3HO. " A 3HO member went to a counseling to a psychologist and said, "Sometime I feel so tired I feel to urge to drink, I do not know what it is? "

我给你们举一个辅导的例子。“这是 3HO 的一次辅导。”一位 3HO 成员去找心理学家做辅导，说：“有时候我觉得太累了，我有想喝酒的冲动，我不知道那是什么？”

And the psychologist said, "Well, according to the 3HO manual I don't think you people can drink. "

心理学家说：“嗯，按照 3HO 手册，我认为你们这些人不能喝酒。”

He said, "I know, but I have a terrible urge of drinking, perhaps when I was not 3HO I was drinking. And how I can get out of it? "

他说：“我知道，但我有一股强烈的喝酒冲动，也许我还没加入 3HO 的时候就在喝了。我怎样才能摆脱它？”

The counselor said, "Do you think that drinking will make you happy? And you can be your own person? "

咨询师说：“你觉得喝酒会让你快乐吗？让你成为你自己？”

The person said, "I do not know, but I do not what else to do? "

那人说：“我不知道，但我不知道还能做什么？”

The counselor said, "Why not try beer? "

咨询师说：“为什么不试试啤酒？”

(Students' laughter...)

（学生们大笑……）

And I checked with this person, I said, "Did the counselor said to you root beer or beer? "

我去跟这个人核实，我说：“咨询师对你说的是根汁汽水还是啤酒？”

He said, "No sir he said Beer. "

他说：“不，先生，他说的是啤酒。”

(Students' laughter...)

（学生们大笑……）

And I checked with this person, I said, "Did the counselor said to you root beer or beer? "

我去跟这个人核实，我说：“咨询师对你说的是根汁汽水还是啤酒？”

He said, "No sir he said Beer. "

他说：“不，先生，他说的是啤酒。”

A person who cannot uphold the discipline of the person who is achieving to practice the discipline is one of the worst enemy of that person, he may be in the form of the a minister, counselor, professional or anybody. Every goodness is to raise the moral, the ethic, the spirit of the person you are dealing with. It cannot be done to pull you down. Anything which gives you a kick back to roll you from the height of your character to be a slob you should be intelligent enough to work it out. Idealistically this decade of eighty is going to be hard decade.

一个人若不能守住那个正在努力修持纪律之人所守的纪律，他就是那个人最坏的敌人之一，他可能以牧师、咨询师、专业人士或任何人的形式出现。一切善都是为了提升你所面对之人的道德、伦理和精神。它不可能把你拉下去。任何让你反弹、把你从人格的高度滚落成一个邋遢鬼的东西，你都该足够聪明去识破它。理想化地说，八十年代这十年将是艰难的十年。

It is presumably a hard decade, the eighties do not have a good message for us, because it is going to be test of Infinity, eight represents Infinity.

它大概是艰难的十年，八十年代对我们没有好消息，因为它将是对无限的考验，八代表无限。

It is presumably a hard decade, the eighties do not have a good message for us, because it is going to be test of Infinity, eight represents Infinity.

它大概是艰难的十年，八十年代对我们没有好消息，因为它将是对无限的考验，八代表无限。

Therefore let your Guru be your guide and let honesty be your counsel and let your character be your achievement. It is required of you to grow enough to find that peace in your heart that God has made you in his own image and you can create God as a reality on this earth. Remember life is a vibration and vibration always move up and down. But when you are down, look towards the up the hand of God is with you and when you are up, remember those who are down belong to you as brother and sister, that's very simple and that is very (?).

因此，让你的 Guru 做你的向导，让诚实做你的顾问，让你的人格做你的成就。你需要成长到足够程度，在你心中找到那份平安——神按自己的形象造了你，而你能在这地球上把神创造为现实。记住，生命是一种振动，振动总是上下起伏。但当你低落时，朝上看，神的手与你同在；当你高升时，记住那些低落的人是你的兄弟姐妹，这非常简单，也非常（？）。

"Ghar jawani toba kardam shevai paigambaree, waqt peeri gurgadalam maheshwat parezgar. "

“Ghar jawani toba kardam shevai paigambaree, waqt peeri gurgadalam maheshwat parezgar。”

This is the one lesson which my grandfather gave to me when I was very young and since then this lesson has guided me all your(my) life, I want to share with you.

这是我祖父在我很小的时候给我的一个教训，从那时起这个教训指引了我一生，我想和你们分享。

"Ghar jawani toba kardam shevai paigambaree, waqt peeri gurgadalam maheshwat parezgar. "

“Ghar jawani toba kardam shevai paigambaree, waqt peeri gurgadalam maheshwat parezgar。”

If you prohibit yourself from the negative and wrong things, prohibit when you are young, that's the act of a Godly prophet.

如果你禁止自己去做那些负面和错误的事，趁年轻时就禁止，那是神的先知所为。

maheshwat parezgar. "

maheshwat parezgar。"

If you prohibit yourself from the negative and wrong things, prohibit when you are young, that's the act of a Godly prophet.

如果你禁止自己去做那些负面和错误的事，趁年轻时就禁止，那是神的先知所为。

"Waqt peeri gurgadalam maheshwat parezgar. "

"Waqt peeri gurgadalam maheshwat parezgar。"

If the wolf becomes old, loses all his teeth and goes into the jungle and declare himself vegetarian who is going to believe him? When you want to be a saint and a soldier, be saint and a soldier and a man of God when you are with bana, bani and seva and Simran and this is the only opportunity you can redeem yourself and redeem many others. But I am just trying to tell you we are very happy and we are trying to be happy. Therefore resort to those practices those privileges, those paths, which take you to nearest to the happiness.

如果狼老了，掉光了所有的牙，走进丛林里宣称自己是素食者，谁会信它？当你想成为圣人和战士，就在你带着灵性装束、圣言、服务和忆念的时候，做圣人和战士，做神的人，而这是你唯一能救赎自己、也救赎许多其他人的机会。但我只是想告诉你们，我们很快乐，我们也在努力快乐。所以，去依靠那些修习、那些恩典、那些道路，它们会把你带到离快乐最近的地方。

We'll continue this counseling and self counseling and art of self counseling further more. May we all be blessed with the strength that we can take care of our own jobs, own values in our own grace.

我们会继续这种咨询、自我咨询，以及自我咨询的艺术，继续深入下去。愿我们都被赐予力量，能以自己的优雅，照料好自己的职责、自己的价值。

May the longtime.

愿那长久的。

The class sings: "May the long time sunshine upon you... "

课堂唱道："愿那长久的阳光照耀着你……"

And I say to you in a very affirmative tone, God shall bless those who shall bless themselves. Sat Nam.

而我要用非常肯定的语气对你说，神会祝福那些祝福自己的人。Sat Nam。

Student: Sat Nam.

学生：Sat Nam。

sunshine upon you... "

阳光照耀着你……"

And I say to you in a very affirmative tone, God shall bless those who shall bless themselves. Sat Nam.

而我要用非常肯定的语气对你说，神会祝福那些祝福自己的人。Sat Nam。

Student: Sat Nam.

学生：Sat Nam。

There is something very important and it is real. It is Govinda Singhji's fortieth birthday.

有件事非常重要，而且是真的。今天是 Govinda Singhji 的四十岁生日。

Students: Wow.

学生们：哇。

YB: I think first 3HO who is going to cross fortieth, looks like a very achieved, for a woman it is not a good news, for a man it is real.

YB：我想，3HO 里第一个要过四十岁的人，看起来很有成就，对女人来说这不是好消息，对男人来说才是真的。

(Students' laughter...)

（学生笑声……）

Sing him.

给他唱。

The class sings: Happy birthday to you...

课堂唱道：祝你生日快乐……

Everybody to the cake.

大家都去吃蛋糕。

(Students' laughter...)

（学生笑声……）